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I [23F] have just come out of 8 year relationship. Feel like I don't know how to date/flirt. Scared will grow old with many cats. Any advice?
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This is my first post so please be kind :)
I know that lots of people often feel confused when they come out of a long-term relationship. They think they have forgotten how to be single, or how to flirt/date.
I am one of these people.
The problem is, my relationship started when I had just turned 16. I have never been single - as an adult. That might sound silly. But the only time I have ever flirted or dated was as an over-confident, hormone-riddled teenager.
Now I have a pretty demanding job, responsibilities blah blah... And I just don't know how to this!
I'm no way in a rush to get into a new relationship, but that doesn't mean I want to be completely alone in the mean time.
If anyone has experienced anything similar, or just generally has some advice, it would be greatly appreciated!
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
Recently ended 8-year relationship, 23-year-old woman seeks advice on how to get back into the dating game, worries about lack of experience and being single.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
Fresh out of 8-year relationship, 23-year-old woman seeks guidance on dating and flirting, worries about feeling isolated and single.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
Woman, 23, after 8-year relationship, unsure how to navigate dating and flirting, seeks advice from others who may have experienced similar situation.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
23-year-old woman seeks advice on dating after 8-year relationship, feels unsure how to flirt or date as never been single as an adult.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
A 23-year-old woman, who has been in a relationship since she was 16, seeks advice on how to re-enter the dating world, feeling unsure about flirting and dating as an adult. She is not in a rush to get into a new relationship, but wants to avoid being lonely in the interim.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: I [23F] have just come out of 8 year relationship. Feel like I don't know how to date/flirt. Scared will grow old with many cats. Any advice?\nPOST: This is my first post so please be kind :)\n\nI know that lots of people often feel confused when they come out of a long-term relationship. They think they have forgotten how to be single, or how to flirt/date.\n\nI am one of these people.\n\nThe problem is, my relationship started when I had just turned 16. I have never been single - as an adult. That might sound silly. But the only time I have ever flirted or dated was as an over-confident, hormone-riddled teenager.\n\nNow I have a pretty demanding job, responsibilities blah blah... And I just don't know how to this!\n\nI'm no way in a rush to get into a new relationship, but that doesn't mean I want to be completely alone in the mean time.\n\nIf anyone has experienced anything similar, or just generally has some advice, it would be greatly appreciated!\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nRecently ended 8-year relationship, 23-year-old woman seeks advice on how to get back into the dating game, worries about lack of experience and being single.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nFresh out of 8-year relationship, 23-year-old woman seeks guidance on dating and flirting, worries about feeling isolated and single.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nWoman, 23, after 8-year relationship, unsure how to navigate dating and flirting, seeks advice from others who may have experienced similar situation.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\n23-year-old woman seeks advice on dating after 8-year relationship, feels unsure how to flirt or date as never been single as an adult.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA 23-year-old woman, who has been in a relationship since she was 16, seeks advice on how to re-enter the dating world, feeling unsure about flirting and dating as an adult. She is not in a rush to get into a new relationship, but wants to avoid being lonely in the interim.", "role": "assistant"}]
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How do I get over knowing that all our plans are now gone after a break up, M 22/ Ex GF 19
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(Full background under my submitted)
I decided I couldn't wait for my ex to come around since there was no guarantee that me waiting for her would be worth it. Sure since the breakup we hadn't talked as much obviously but now that we are done seemingly forever I can't comprehend at all knowing that we will never laugh, kiss, talk etc etc together ever again.
We had so many plans and so much love but now all that is gone. How do I coupe with that? How can I move on and be happy after knowing all the hard work we put in and all the love is out the door now. I just can't wrap my head around knowing that the girl I thought I would marry will now move on and live her life away from me till the day we both die.
I still do care for her, yes I still love her even after everything that happened at the end. I feel so alone and lost even though the actual break up was months ago, I'm honestly just afraid of the future now.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
A 22-year-old man is left reeling from the loss of his 19-year-old ex-girlfriend, the end of their plans, love, and future together, and fears being alone in the future.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
Guy, 22, struggles to accept loss of plans and love after break up with girlfriend, 19, and fears future alone.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
Despite ending months ago, 22-year-old man still grapples with loss of partner, plans, and love after break up with 19-year-old ex-girlfriend, fearing future loneliness.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
After break up, 22-year-old man grieves loss of relationship, plans, and love for 19-year-old ex-girlfriend, fearing loneliness in future.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
A 22-year-old man, devastated by the loss of his 19-year-old ex-girlfriend, struggles to accept the end of their plans, love, and future together.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: How do I get over knowing that all our plans are now gone after a break up, M 22/ Ex GF 19\nPOST: (Full background under my submitted)\n\nI decided I couldn't wait for my ex to come around since there was no guarantee that me waiting for her would be worth it. Sure since the breakup we hadn't talked as much obviously but now that we are done seemingly forever I can't comprehend at all knowing that we will never laugh, kiss, talk etc etc together ever again. \n\nWe had so many plans and so much love but now all that is gone. How do I coupe with that? How can I move on and be happy after knowing all the hard work we put in and all the love is out the door now. I just can't wrap my head around knowing that the girl I thought I would marry will now move on and live her life away from me till the day we both die. \n\nI still do care for her, yes I still love her even after everything that happened at the end. I feel so alone and lost even though the actual break up was months ago, I'm honestly just afraid of the future now.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nA 22-year-old man is left reeling from the loss of his 19-year-old ex-girlfriend, the end of their plans, love, and future together, and fears being alone in the future.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nGuy, 22, struggles to accept loss of plans and love after break up with girlfriend, 19, and fears future alone.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nDespite ending months ago, 22-year-old man still grapples with loss of partner, plans, and love after break up with 19-year-old ex-girlfriend, fearing future loneliness.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nAfter break up, 22-year-old man grieves loss of relationship, plans, and love for 19-year-old ex-girlfriend, fearing loneliness in future.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA 22-year-old man, devastated by the loss of his 19-year-old ex-girlfriend, struggles to accept the end of their plans, love, and future together.", "role": "assistant"}]
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My [19M] girlfriend [16F] is envious of my past relationships. Not sure how to talk her out of it
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Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 7 months now, and it has been a blast since the very first day. We basically went from rather good friends to an amazing couple without any awkwardness or friendzone-y (?) problems. Because of this, we are both pretty much convinced that we have found "the one".
However, I recently learned that she is rather envious of my past girlfriends, my last ex in particular. As far as I can tell, her main concern is that I have been intimate in the same ways with them as I have been with her. She can't quite seem to grasp the idea that with her, everything is very much different. Sexual acts are much more meaningful, if that makes any sense, than they were before.
Additionally, she has a hard time processing the idea that I, at some point, loved and cared for them too in the same way as I care for her now. I tend to be a little "overly-attached" at times, so I can't really object to this statement. It is not entirely impossible that I care for her the way I do simply because it's in my nature.
However, I am positive that I have never been in love with anyone as I have been with my current girlfriend, and wouldn't want it all to end because of this. I have consoled her the best I could, but I'd rather keep it from you redditors. This way, it might be easier to come up with an objective advice.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
My girlfriend is jealous of my past relationships because she thinks I had better sex with them.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
My girlfriend is envious of my past intimate relationships and has trouble understanding that my current relationship is different.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
My girlfriend's jealousy about my past relationships is impacting our current relationship, and I need help addressing her insecurities.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
My girlfriend is insecure about my past relationships and has trouble accepting that I loved and cared for them too.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
My girlfriend is struggling to reconcile her feelings about my past relationships with my current one, and feels threatened by them.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: My [19M] girlfriend [16F] is envious of my past relationships. Not sure how to talk her out of it\nPOST: Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 7 months now, and it has been a blast since the very first day. We basically went from rather good friends to an amazing couple without any awkwardness or friendzone-y (?) problems. Because of this, we are both pretty much convinced that we have found \"the one\".\n\nHowever, I recently learned that she is rather envious of my past girlfriends, my last ex in particular. As far as I can tell, her main concern is that I have been intimate in the same ways with them as I have been with her. She can't quite seem to grasp the idea that with her, everything is very much different. Sexual acts are much more meaningful, if that makes any sense, than they were before. \n\nAdditionally, she has a hard time processing the idea that I, at some point, loved and cared for them too in the same way as I care for her now. I tend to be a little \"overly-attached\" at times, so I can't really object to this statement. It is not entirely impossible that I care for her the way I do simply because it's in my nature.\n\nHowever, I am positive that I have never been in love with anyone as I have been with my current girlfriend, and wouldn't want it all to end because of this. I have consoled her the best I could, but I'd rather keep it from you redditors. This way, it might be easier to come up with an objective advice.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nMy girlfriend is jealous of my past relationships because she thinks I had better sex with them.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nMy girlfriend is envious of my past intimate relationships and has trouble understanding that my current relationship is different.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nMy girlfriend's jealousy about my past relationships is impacting our current relationship, and I need help addressing her insecurities.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nMy girlfriend is insecure about my past relationships and has trouble accepting that I loved and cared for them too.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nMy girlfriend is struggling to reconcile her feelings about my past relationships with my current one, and feels threatened by them.", "role": "assistant"}]
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Help Wanted: Working Out and Sex Drive
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On Sunday, I ran my first 10-mile race. While this is a great accomplishment I have noticed a significant spike in my sex drive during the week leading up to the race and in the days since I ran; about 10 days in total.
I workout 2-3 times per week for about 45 minutes each time and have average eating habits. During the week leading up to the race, I ate mostly a plant-based diet - salad for lunch and dinner, fish for protein, etc. - and worked out 3 times and ran only twice (Not great prep, I know.) This helped me lose about 2 or 3 pounds.
Now, I cannot stop thinking about sex! This morning (Thursday) I spent about 3 hours watching porn and "distracted" myself by going to a midday fitness class. Now I want to jerk off again or have find someone to sex.
I don't know what to do. This is both embarrassing and confusing. I want to continue working out but am honestly afraid being fit will turn me into a sex addict.
Background: I played soccer in college and recall a similar correlation during my off season workouts. I am now in my late 20s and no longer train 5-6 days a week as was the norm in college. This is the most physically active I have been since my early 20s.
Question: Is there research that has connected a higher sex drive (thinking more about sex) with a increased physical activity (working out)? Also, share your experiences because I feel like an outlier here.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
The author's physical activity during the week before their 10-mile race led to a heightened sex drive that has lasted for ten days. They are unsure how to handle this and fear that their increased fitness will lead to addiction.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
The author ran a 10-mile race, which increased their sex drive for ten days. They ate mostly a plant-based diet and exercised three times a week before the race, losing 2-3 pounds. Now, they are worried about becoming a sex addict because of their increased sex drive.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
The author experienced an increase in sex drive following their 10-mile race, which has lasted for ten days. They are concerned about the impact of physical activity on their sex drive and whether it may become problematic.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
The author recently completed a 10-mile race and noticed an increase in sex drive that has persisted for ten days. They are seeking research and personal experiences that may shed light on the connection between physical activity and heightened sexual desire.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
The author's recent 10-mile race resulted in a heightened sex drive that has lasted for ten days. They are seeking insight into the relationship between physical activity and sexual desire, and if there is a risk of developing an addiction due to their increased fitness.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: Help Wanted: Working Out and Sex Drive\nPOST: On Sunday, I ran my first 10-mile race. While this is a great accomplishment I have noticed a significant spike in my sex drive during the week leading up to the race and in the days since I ran; about 10 days in total.\nI workout 2-3 times per week for about 45 minutes each time and have average eating habits. During the week leading up to the race, I ate mostly a plant-based diet - salad for lunch and dinner, fish for protein, etc. - and worked out 3 times and ran only twice (Not great prep, I know.) This helped me lose about 2 or 3 pounds.\nNow, I cannot stop thinking about sex! This morning (Thursday) I spent about 3 hours watching porn and \"distracted\" myself by going to a midday fitness class. Now I want to jerk off again or have find someone to sex.\nI don't know what to do. This is both embarrassing and confusing. I want to continue working out but am honestly afraid being fit will turn me into a sex addict.\nBackground: I played soccer in college and recall a similar correlation during my off season workouts. I am now in my late 20s and no longer train 5-6 days a week as was the norm in college. This is the most physically active I have been since my early 20s.\nQuestion: Is there research that has connected a higher sex drive (thinking more about sex) with a increased physical activity (working out)? Also, share your experiences because I feel like an outlier here.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nThe author's physical activity during the week before their 10-mile race led to a heightened sex drive that has lasted for ten days. They are unsure how to handle this and fear that their increased fitness will lead to addiction.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nThe author ran a 10-mile race, which increased their sex drive for ten days. They ate mostly a plant-based diet and exercised three times a week before the race, losing 2-3 pounds. Now, they are worried about becoming a sex addict because of their increased sex drive.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nThe author experienced an increase in sex drive following their 10-mile race, which has lasted for ten days. They are concerned about the impact of physical activity on their sex drive and whether it may become problematic.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nThe author recently completed a 10-mile race and noticed an increase in sex drive that has persisted for ten days. They are seeking research and personal experiences that may shed light on the connection between physical activity and heightened sexual desire.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nThe author's recent 10-mile race resulted in a heightened sex drive that has lasted for ten days. They are seeking insight into the relationship between physical activity and sexual desire, and if there is a risk of developing an addiction due to their increased fitness.", "role": "assistant"}]
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I [18/M] did something kinda stupid and want to know if I should try to correct it with this girl [19/F] further or leave it be.
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This is kinda non-romantic, I suppose. I recently made several new friends on twitter. All of them are girls. They're all fairly cute but I've been burned once by internet relationships and I wasn't really looking for another
Well... I got drunk and told one of the girls that I thought she was really cute but that I "didn't mean anything serious about it."
I woke up in the morning and realized what I'd done and apologized and her exact words were "no no, it's always nice to know somebody thinks you look nice :)"
I feel awful about it and I feel like a creep but I feel like apologizing further would just make it weirder. We haven't spoken since and I don't have many friends (even very casual ones like this one) and it just makes me feel worse that I think I accidentally fucked one up I think.
I can include the exact messages exchanged if need be.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
A 19-year-old man regrets telling a girl on Twitter that she's cute, but she kindly brushed it off as a harmless comment.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
After getting drunk, a man flirted with a girl on Twitter, apologized the next day, and she didn't take it seriously.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
A guy regrets accidentally flirting with a girl on Twitter after getting drunk, but she was okay with it.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
A young man inadvertently expressed romantic interest to a girl on Twitter, apologized, and she accepted his apology, leaving him unsure about how to proceed with their friendship.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
A young man apologized to a girl for inadvertently expressing romantic interest while intoxicated, but she graciously accepted it as a compliment.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: I [18/M] did something kinda stupid and want to know if I should try to correct it with this girl [19/F] further or leave it be.\nPOST: This is kinda non-romantic, I suppose. I recently made several new friends on twitter. All of them are girls. They're all fairly cute but I've been burned once by internet relationships and I wasn't really looking for another\n\nWell... I got drunk and told one of the girls that I thought she was really cute but that I \"didn't mean anything serious about it.\"\n\nI woke up in the morning and realized what I'd done and apologized and her exact words were \"no no, it's always nice to know somebody thinks you look nice :)\"\n\nI feel awful about it and I feel like a creep but I feel like apologizing further would just make it weirder. We haven't spoken since and I don't have many friends (even very casual ones like this one) and it just makes me feel worse that I think I accidentally fucked one up I think.\n\nI can include the exact messages exchanged if need be.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nA 19-year-old man regrets telling a girl on Twitter that she's cute, but she kindly brushed it off as a harmless comment.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nAfter getting drunk, a man flirted with a girl on Twitter, apologized the next day, and she didn't take it seriously.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nA guy regrets accidentally flirting with a girl on Twitter after getting drunk, but she was okay with it.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nA young man inadvertently expressed romantic interest to a girl on Twitter, apologized, and she accepted his apology, leaving him unsure about how to proceed with their friendship.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA young man apologized to a girl for inadvertently expressing romantic interest while intoxicated, but she graciously accepted it as a compliment.", "role": "assistant"}]
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How do I 27/F get over my three year relationship with my ex/SO (26/M)
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I have been dating my SO for nearly three years, the past year of which I had to move back to my home town and in with my parents. Because of this, and several other things, I became quite depressed and our relationship suffered for it, and it eventually led to us breaking up. One of the main reasons him giving is that i was too negative and he couldn't deal with my depression as well as his stress, which I can understand.
Although i can see that the relationship wasn't right for me, I just cant get past that initial stage of heartbreak. I have just been a complete mess for the past few weeks, cant sleep, cant eat, I cant do anything. Having read all the articles about how to get over a relationship, I'm trying to follow them, but things are made difficult by the fact that a lot of my friends have moved away from my home town, there isn't much to do in the way of hobbies around here (I live in a small Welsh village), and most of the friends that I made in the past three years are mutual with my ex so it is difficult to visit and attend social events without seeing him. I just feel really lonely. I just dont know how to get out of this slump that I'm in. I know people say that you have to go through the pain, but I feel unless I do something, I will never get through it.
How have you gotten over the initial stages of heartbreak reddit? The stage where your heart actually feels like its breaking :(
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
A 27-year-old woman is grappling with the aftermath of a three-year relationship that ended due to her depression and her ex-boyfriend's stress. She is experiencing heartbreak and loneliness, and is seeking guidance on how to overcome her emotional turmoil.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
A 27-year-old woman is reeling from the end of a three-year relationship with her ex-boyfriend, who cited her depression and his stress as reasons for the breakup. She is now facing emotional challenges and loneliness, and is seeking advice on how to move forward and heal from the heartbreak.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
A 27-year-old woman is heartbroken after a three-year relationship with her ex-boyfriend ended. The relationship suffered due to her depression and his stress, and she is struggling to move on. She feels lonely and doesn't know how to get out of her current state.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
A 27-year-old woman is struggling to recover from a three-year relationship with her ex-boyfriend that ended due to her depression and his stress. She is feeling isolated and overwhelmed by her emotions, and is seeking support and guidance on how to overcome her heartbreak and move forward with her life.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
A woman in her late 20s is grieving the end of a three-year relationship with her ex-boyfriend. The couple faced challenges due to her depression and his stress, leading to their breakup. The woman is now struggling to cope with her emotions and is seeking advice on how to move on from the relationship.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: How do I 27/F get over my three year relationship with my ex/SO (26/M)\nPOST: I have been dating my SO for nearly three years, the past year of which I had to move back to my home town and in with my parents. Because of this, and several other things, I became quite depressed and our relationship suffered for it, and it eventually led to us breaking up. One of the main reasons him giving is that i was too negative and he couldn't deal with my depression as well as his stress, which I can understand. \n\nAlthough i can see that the relationship wasn't right for me, I just cant get past that initial stage of heartbreak. I have just been a complete mess for the past few weeks, cant sleep, cant eat, I cant do anything. Having read all the articles about how to get over a relationship, I'm trying to follow them, but things are made difficult by the fact that a lot of my friends have moved away from my home town, there isn't much to do in the way of hobbies around here (I live in a small Welsh village), and most of the friends that I made in the past three years are mutual with my ex so it is difficult to visit and attend social events without seeing him. I just feel really lonely. I just dont know how to get out of this slump that I'm in. I know people say that you have to go through the pain, but I feel unless I do something, I will never get through it. \n\nHow have you gotten over the initial stages of heartbreak reddit? The stage where your heart actually feels like its breaking :(\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nA 27-year-old woman is grappling with the aftermath of a three-year relationship that ended due to her depression and her ex-boyfriend's stress. She is experiencing heartbreak and loneliness, and is seeking guidance on how to overcome her emotional turmoil.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nA 27-year-old woman is reeling from the end of a three-year relationship with her ex-boyfriend, who cited her depression and his stress as reasons for the breakup. She is now facing emotional challenges and loneliness, and is seeking advice on how to move forward and heal from the heartbreak.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nA 27-year-old woman is heartbroken after a three-year relationship with her ex-boyfriend ended. The relationship suffered due to her depression and his stress, and she is struggling to move on. She feels lonely and doesn't know how to get out of her current state.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nA 27-year-old woman is struggling to recover from a three-year relationship with her ex-boyfriend that ended due to her depression and his stress. She is feeling isolated and overwhelmed by her emotions, and is seeking support and guidance on how to overcome her heartbreak and move forward with her life.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA woman in her late 20s is grieving the end of a three-year relationship with her ex-boyfriend. The couple faced challenges due to her depression and his stress, leading to their breakup. The woman is now struggling to cope with her emotions and is seeking advice on how to move on from the relationship.", "role": "assistant"}]
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I want to lose weight, where do I start?
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It's summer and I've got a lot of time on my hands, I've also got some fat accumulating on my body that I really wouldn't like to be there and have a new appearance when I return to school in August. I'm a gamer so my diet is poor and I tend to sit around a lot. I've already got my diet on the way to a greener future so that is covered but thoughts are still welcome on that. I'd like to stay away from going to the gym if possible, my ultimate goal is to be thinner and look like I'm in good shape but I don't want to build a lot of muscle, so mostly cardio work I was thinking. I thought a morning jog that would go progressively further everyday would be a start but I'm unsure as I've never tried to lose weight before, doing this in the morning to me would also rid me of my laziness by forcing me to be active first thing in the morning. So anybody else that has advice or tips it'd be appreciated.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
A person who wants to lose weight and improve their physical appearance for school in August. They are a gamer with a poor diet and a sedentary lifestyle. They plan to jog every morning to progressively increase distance, but are unsure about the best approach to weight loss and welcome advice or tips.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
An individual desires to lose weight and enhance their appearance before returning to school in August. They have already improved their diet, but are seeking guidance on a cardio workout routine that can be done at home without a gym membership. They are considering morning jogs with progressively increasing distance, but need advice on the most effective approach to weight loss.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
A person wants to lose weight and improve their physical appearance for school in August. They lead a sedentary lifestyle and have a poor diet due to being a gamer. They plan to incorporate morning jogs with increasing distance as a cardio workout routine, but are uncertain about how to approach weight loss effectively. They welcome advice or tips on this matter.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
An individual wants to shed excess weight and enhance their physical appearance before returning to school in August. They have made dietary changes, but are seeking advice on a cardio workout plan that can be done at home and doesn't require a gym membership. They are considering morning jogs with increasing distance, but need guidance on the most effective approach.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
A gamer wants to lose weight and improve their appearance before returning to school in August. They have already made improvements to their diet, but are seeking guidance on an effective cardio workout routine to achieve their goal without going to the gym. Morning jogs with increasing distance are being considered, but they are unsure about the best approach.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: I want to lose weight, where do I start?\nPOST: It's summer and I've got a lot of time on my hands, I've also got some fat accumulating on my body that I really wouldn't like to be there and have a new appearance when I return to school in August. I'm a gamer so my diet is poor and I tend to sit around a lot. I've already got my diet on the way to a greener future so that is covered but thoughts are still welcome on that. I'd like to stay away from going to the gym if possible, my ultimate goal is to be thinner and look like I'm in good shape but I don't want to build a lot of muscle, so mostly cardio work I was thinking. I thought a morning jog that would go progressively further everyday would be a start but I'm unsure as I've never tried to lose weight before, doing this in the morning to me would also rid me of my laziness by forcing me to be active first thing in the morning. So anybody else that has advice or tips it'd be appreciated.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nA person who wants to lose weight and improve their physical appearance for school in August. They are a gamer with a poor diet and a sedentary lifestyle. They plan to jog every morning to progressively increase distance, but are unsure about the best approach to weight loss and welcome advice or tips.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nAn individual desires to lose weight and enhance their appearance before returning to school in August. They have already improved their diet, but are seeking guidance on a cardio workout routine that can be done at home without a gym membership. They are considering morning jogs with progressively increasing distance, but need advice on the most effective approach to weight loss.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nA person wants to lose weight and improve their physical appearance for school in August. They lead a sedentary lifestyle and have a poor diet due to being a gamer. They plan to incorporate morning jogs with increasing distance as a cardio workout routine, but are uncertain about how to approach weight loss effectively. They welcome advice or tips on this matter.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nAn individual wants to shed excess weight and enhance their physical appearance before returning to school in August. They have made dietary changes, but are seeking advice on a cardio workout plan that can be done at home and doesn't require a gym membership. They are considering morning jogs with increasing distance, but need guidance on the most effective approach.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA gamer wants to lose weight and improve their appearance before returning to school in August. They have already made improvements to their diet, but are seeking guidance on an effective cardio workout routine to achieve their goal without going to the gym. Morning jogs with increasing distance are being considered, but they are unsure about the best approach.", "role": "assistant"}]
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Me [24M] and my girlfriend [23F] of 4+ years have slowly been having less open communication. Who is being unreasonable? Other opinions?
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We began dating right after 1st year Uni, dated 1 year then broke up for 6 months over differences in expectations for how long our dating would continue before marriage.
I lean toward a shorter dating preference (1.5-3yrs) by which point I feel I would have decided on way or the other. She feels more that every other aspect of her life (career, school, family, financials...) must be perfectly in place to accommodate marriage regardless of how long that takes.
After getting back together and being more clear that I would be willing to date happily until she felt her life was in order if she was considerate of me not wanting to date just to hold off marriage. and things have been going relatively well since then (3+ years since). We have travelled together, spent family holidays together and always been in open communication about our motivations, opinions, aspirations and disagreements. We have not lived together.
Since 1-2 months ago we have been slowly having more and more difficulty with our depth/frequency of conversation and it is making her very uncertain about our relationships future and how much I care for her.
I am someone who is very easygoing, patient, I feel loved by just spending quality time (out of the house especially) together a few times per week and doing random acts of kindness. I would only expect to have a thought provoking and deep conversation with my closest friends and family perhaps 1 time per month, and somewhat more with my SO.
She is someone who is very critical thinking, loves hugs and being complimented, and is always excited to just sit and talk about anything that comes to mind for a long time as long as the conversation is stimulating.
It does not, to me, feel like we've been having fewer conversations but she tells me I have been less ready to participate actively and less giving of my time for such conversations. I feel that such an intense level of conversation just isn't sustainable, she feels it's necessary. We plan to attend couples counselling this month for the first time.
Is this normal? Is it a real problem or is one of us being unreasonable? Can anyone relate? I really do love her and want this to work.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
A long-term couple struggle with communication, as the man prefers easy-going conversations while the woman craves stimulating and lengthy discussions. They have booked couples counseling to work on improving their communication.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
A couple with a 4+ year relationship face communication issues, with the man feeling less inclined to have deep conversations while the woman feels it's necessary. They have agreed to attend couples counseling to address the issue.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
A couple in a 4+ year relationship, who had a break-up due to differences in expectations about the timeline for marriage, now struggle with communication. The man is more open to a shorter dating period, while the woman wants to wait until her life is in order. They are attending couples counseling to address the issue.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
A 4+ year relationship faces communication issues, with the man feeling less willing to engage in deep conversations and the woman feeling it's necessary. The couple seek counseling to address the issue and improve their relationship.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
A couple in a long-term relationship have less frequent and less in-depth conversations, causing the woman to question the man's feelings towards her. The man is easy-going and content with spending quality time together, while the woman enjoys stimulating conversations. They are seeking help through couples counseling.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: Me [24M] and my girlfriend [23F] of 4+ years have slowly been having less open communication. Who is being unreasonable? Other opinions?\nPOST: We began dating right after 1st year Uni, dated 1 year then broke up for 6 months over differences in expectations for how long our dating would continue before marriage.\nI lean toward a shorter dating preference (1.5-3yrs) by which point I feel I would have decided on way or the other. She feels more that every other aspect of her life (career, school, family, financials...) must be perfectly in place to accommodate marriage regardless of how long that takes. \n\nAfter getting back together and being more clear that I would be willing to date happily until she felt her life was in order if she was considerate of me not wanting to date just to hold off marriage. and things have been going relatively well since then (3+ years since). We have travelled together, spent family holidays together and always been in open communication about our motivations, opinions, aspirations and disagreements. We have not lived together.\n\nSince 1-2 months ago we have been slowly having more and more difficulty with our depth/frequency of conversation and it is making her very uncertain about our relationships future and how much I care for her.\nI am someone who is very easygoing, patient, I feel loved by just spending quality time (out of the house especially) together a few times per week and doing random acts of kindness. I would only expect to have a thought provoking and deep conversation with my closest friends and family perhaps 1 time per month, and somewhat more with my SO.\nShe is someone who is very critical thinking, loves hugs and being complimented, and is always excited to just sit and talk about anything that comes to mind for a long time as long as the conversation is stimulating.\n\nIt does not, to me, feel like we've been having fewer conversations but she tells me I have been less ready to participate actively and less giving of my time for such conversations. I feel that such an intense level of conversation just isn't sustainable, she feels it's necessary. We plan to attend couples counselling this month for the first time.\n\nIs this normal? Is it a real problem or is one of us being unreasonable? Can anyone relate? I really do love her and want this to work.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nA long-term couple struggle with communication, as the man prefers easy-going conversations while the woman craves stimulating and lengthy discussions. They have booked couples counseling to work on improving their communication.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nA couple with a 4+ year relationship face communication issues, with the man feeling less inclined to have deep conversations while the woman feels it's necessary. They have agreed to attend couples counseling to address the issue.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nA couple in a 4+ year relationship, who had a break-up due to differences in expectations about the timeline for marriage, now struggle with communication. The man is more open to a shorter dating period, while the woman wants to wait until her life is in order. They are attending couples counseling to address the issue.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nA 4+ year relationship faces communication issues, with the man feeling less willing to engage in deep conversations and the woman feeling it's necessary. The couple seek counseling to address the issue and improve their relationship.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA couple in a long-term relationship have less frequent and less in-depth conversations, causing the woman to question the man's feelings towards her. The man is easy-going and content with spending quality time together, while the woman enjoys stimulating conversations. They are seeking help through couples counseling.", "role": "assistant"}]
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TIFU by eating tzatziki
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Obligatory this was when I was in high school.
So, for those of you who don't know, in Boston there's a shopping area called Haymarket. To all the tourists in the area, it's just Faneuil Hall, which is the crazy cramped food court building in the center of the area. You can get all kinds of foods there, ranging from Irish pub to mediocre Chinese food to sushi to Gelato. My personal favorite is currently the mac and cheese shop, but that's not the point.
When I was in high school and come into Boston on my own, I would always make a bee line to the Greek shop in Faneuil Hall. During my first time there, I noticed the food item called "tzatziki - a kind of Greek yogurt." Coming from East Bumfuck, NH, I didn't know much about many other cultures' food stuffs, but I certainly knew about Greek yogurt!
I don't know why I choose this, because I hated yogurt at the time ("it has live bacteria in it!" I can't explain the logic in that argument if I tried,) but I decided to order it. The people at the counter looked at me and were like, "Okay, tzatziki aaaaaand?" And then I cheerfully replied with, "Oh, and a Nantucket Nectar!"
They just looked at me, reached into the display case, and slid the solid near-2 cup tub of tzatziki over to me. I bounced up and down in excitement, gave them some money (and told them to keep the change! I'm a good person!) And bounced upstairs to eat lunch with a spoon. It tasted great, but after like five or more bites it caused that reaction where your body is just like, "Okay, you need to cool it with that stuff."
I proceeded to order tzatziki every time I went to Faneuil Hall for a solid year. I couldn't figure out why everyone around me looked at me with mild disgust/bewilderment. Until I looked at the ingredient list for an online recipe for tzatziki.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
A high schooler tried tzatziki for the first time at a food court in Faneuil Hall, a popular shopping area in Boston. The taste was good but after a few bites, it caused discomfort. The people around him looked at him with mild disgust/bewilderment.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
A teenager in high school discovered tzatziki at Faneuil Hall in Boston. He enjoyed the taste, but it caused stomach discomfort after several spoonfuls. The people around him were puzzled by his repeated orders of the dish.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
A high school student discovered tzatziki at Faneuil Hall in Boston, where he frequented the food court. He enjoyed the creamy and tangy flavor of the dip, but after several spoonfuls, it caused his stomach to ache. Despite the discomfort, he kept ordering the dish, which puzzled the people around him.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
A high schooler at Faneuil Hall in Boston first tried tzatziki, a Greek yogurt-based dip, and enjoyed its taste. However, after several bites, it caused his stomach to feel uncomfortable. His repeated orders of the dish baffled the people around him.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
A high schooler from New Hampshire tried tzatziki for the first time at Faneuil Hall in Boston. He found the Greek yogurt-based dip delicious but soon realized that it was too much for his stomach to handle. Despite the discomfort, he continued to order the dish repeatedly, which earned him mild disgust and bewilderment from those around him. He eventually learned to limit his portions of the dish.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: TIFU by eating tzatziki\nPOST: Obligatory this was when I was in high school. \n\nSo, for those of you who don't know, in Boston there's a shopping area called Haymarket. To all the tourists in the area, it's just Faneuil Hall, which is the crazy cramped food court building in the center of the area. You can get all kinds of foods there, ranging from Irish pub to mediocre Chinese food to sushi to Gelato. My personal favorite is currently the mac and cheese shop, but that's not the point.\n\nWhen I was in high school and come into Boston on my own, I would always make a bee line to the Greek shop in Faneuil Hall. During my first time there, I noticed the food item called \"tzatziki - a kind of Greek yogurt.\" Coming from East Bumfuck, NH, I didn't know much about many other cultures' food stuffs, but I certainly knew about Greek yogurt!\n\nI don't know why I choose this, because I hated yogurt at the time (\"it has live bacteria in it!\" I can't explain the logic in that argument if I tried,) but I decided to order it. The people at the counter looked at me and were like, \"Okay, tzatziki aaaaaand?\" And then I cheerfully replied with, \"Oh, and a Nantucket Nectar!\"\n\nThey just looked at me, reached into the display case, and slid the solid near-2 cup tub of tzatziki over to me. I bounced up and down in excitement, gave them some money (and told them to keep the change! I'm a good person!) And bounced upstairs to eat lunch with a spoon. It tasted great, but after like five or more bites it caused that reaction where your body is just like, \"Okay, you need to cool it with that stuff.\"\n\nI proceeded to order tzatziki every time I went to Faneuil Hall for a solid year. I couldn't figure out why everyone around me looked at me with mild disgust/bewilderment. Until I looked at the ingredient list for an online recipe for tzatziki.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nA high schooler tried tzatziki for the first time at a food court in Faneuil Hall, a popular shopping area in Boston. The taste was good but after a few bites, it caused discomfort. The people around him looked at him with mild disgust/bewilderment.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nA teenager in high school discovered tzatziki at Faneuil Hall in Boston. He enjoyed the taste, but it caused stomach discomfort after several spoonfuls. The people around him were puzzled by his repeated orders of the dish.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nA high school student discovered tzatziki at Faneuil Hall in Boston, where he frequented the food court. He enjoyed the creamy and tangy flavor of the dip, but after several spoonfuls, it caused his stomach to ache. Despite the discomfort, he kept ordering the dish, which puzzled the people around him.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nA high schooler at Faneuil Hall in Boston first tried tzatziki, a Greek yogurt-based dip, and enjoyed its taste. However, after several bites, it caused his stomach to feel uncomfortable. His repeated orders of the dish baffled the people around him.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA high schooler from New Hampshire tried tzatziki for the first time at Faneuil Hall in Boston. He found the Greek yogurt-based dip delicious but soon realized that it was too much for his stomach to handle. Despite the discomfort, he continued to order the dish repeatedly, which earned him mild disgust and bewilderment from those around him. He eventually learned to limit his portions of the dish.", "role": "assistant"}]
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[insurance] I can no longer afford insurance for myself and my family
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Okay... Long story short.
My wife was a school teacher but hated her life. At this time i was working full time and working on my degree. Well things flip flopped around and I ended up going to part time at work because I needed 50 credit hours to graduate and it was either get it done in one year or, because of prereqs, get it done in 2 1/2. After I moved to part time we got pregnant (planned) and my wife decided that she couldn't do the teaching thing anymore so she switched jobs. We were not thinking of the insurance implications.
We went from $90 a month to $750 for the three of us... thats right $750. We tried to split it up because coverage for her and the baby is $320 and my employer will offer me insurance for $380. We still couldnt budget that. So i go to the healthcare.gov website and apply but because my employer offers coverage i get no discount. I am now officially paying $175 for the worlds worst insurance only to avoid paying premium increase on our house and car insurance as well as the stupid tax for not having any. At this point I am wondering if it is even worth it to have a job because even though I would lose my part time income of 29k we could save 12k per year in day care costs and who knows, maybe get free health care (this of course really isn't an option)
I would like to know if there is some sort of advocacy service that can help me navigate the insurance system so that I can get my family affordable insurance without paying over 15% of our annual income.
Sorry if this comes across ranty but i just get discouraged when two people who try to plan, go to school, contribute to society, and stay employed end up getting shafted this hard when they simply want to get a pair of glasses and some back adjustments.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
Title: Family Struggling with Unaffordable Health Insurance Premiums
Content: A family’s insurance premium increased from $90 to $750 when the wife changed jobs, putting a financial strain on the family. The author is looking for ways to get affordable insurance without sacrificing necessary coverage.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
Title: High Health Insurance Costs Force Family to Rethink Employment
Content: The author’s family is facing a $665 monthly health insurance premium, making it unaffordable. They are exploring options, including the possibility of one partner leaving their job to reduce insurance costs and save on daycare expenses.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
Title: Struggling with High Health Insurance Costs for Family
Content: A family’s health insurance premium increased from $90 to $750 monthly when the wife changed jobs, causing financial hardship. The author is seeking help from an advocacy service to find affordable insurance.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
Title: High Health Insurance Costs Threaten Family’s Financial Stability
Content: A family’s health insurance premium jumped from $90 to $750 monthly, making it unaffordable. The author is exploring options to get help navigating the insurance system to find more affordable coverage.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
Title: Health Insurance Premium Increase Threatens Family’s Financial Security
Content: A family’s health insurance premium increased from $90 to $750 when the wife changed jobs, causing financial stress. The author is seeking assistance from an advocacy service to navigate the insurance system and find affordable coverage for their family. They express frustration at the high cost of healthcare and the difficulty of finding affordable insurance despite their efforts to plan and contribute to society.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: [insurance] I can no longer afford insurance for myself and my family\nPOST: Okay... Long story short.\n\nMy wife was a school teacher but hated her life. At this time i was working full time and working on my degree. Well things flip flopped around and I ended up going to part time at work because I needed 50 credit hours to graduate and it was either get it done in one year or, because of prereqs, get it done in 2 1/2. After I moved to part time we got pregnant (planned) and my wife decided that she couldn't do the teaching thing anymore so she switched jobs. We were not thinking of the insurance implications. \n\nWe went from $90 a month to $750 for the three of us... thats right $750. We tried to split it up because coverage for her and the baby is $320 and my employer will offer me insurance for $380. We still couldnt budget that. So i go to the healthcare.gov website and apply but because my employer offers coverage i get no discount. I am now officially paying $175 for the worlds worst insurance only to avoid paying premium increase on our house and car insurance as well as the stupid tax for not having any. At this point I am wondering if it is even worth it to have a job because even though I would lose my part time income of 29k we could save 12k per year in day care costs and who knows, maybe get free health care (this of course really isn't an option)\n\nI would like to know if there is some sort of advocacy service that can help me navigate the insurance system so that I can get my family affordable insurance without paying over 15% of our annual income.\n\nSorry if this comes across ranty but i just get discouraged when two people who try to plan, go to school, contribute to society, and stay employed end up getting shafted this hard when they simply want to get a pair of glasses and some back adjustments.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nTitle: Family Struggling with Unaffordable Health Insurance Premiums\nContent: A family\u2019s insurance premium increased from $90 to $750 when the wife changed jobs, putting a financial strain on the family. The author is looking for ways to get affordable insurance without sacrificing necessary coverage.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nTitle: High Health Insurance Costs Force Family to Rethink Employment\nContent: The author\u2019s family is facing a $665 monthly health insurance premium, making it unaffordable. They are exploring options, including the possibility of one partner leaving their job to reduce insurance costs and save on daycare expenses.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nTitle: Struggling with High Health Insurance Costs for Family\nContent: A family\u2019s health insurance premium increased from $90 to $750 monthly when the wife changed jobs, causing financial hardship. The author is seeking help from an advocacy service to find affordable insurance.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nTitle: High Health Insurance Costs Threaten Family\u2019s Financial Stability\nContent: A family\u2019s health insurance premium jumped from $90 to $750 monthly, making it unaffordable. The author is exploring options to get help navigating the insurance system to find more affordable coverage.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nTitle: Health Insurance Premium Increase Threatens Family\u2019s Financial Security\nContent: A family\u2019s health insurance premium increased from $90 to $750 when the wife changed jobs, causing financial stress. The author is seeking assistance from an advocacy service to navigate the insurance system and find affordable coverage for their family. They express frustration at the high cost of healthcare and the difficulty of finding affordable insurance despite their efforts to plan and contribute to society.", "role": "assistant"}]
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Just Bought A Garmin Forerunner 305 For What I Think Is A Decent Deal. Thought I'd Share.
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So I did some looking around at different models of wrist mount GPS units. Cost and functionality were the biggest concern. I finally decided on the Forerunner 305 since it would do everything I wanted and was a good price (even though it's huge).
Best price I found online was through Amazon for around $130, with free shipping if I wanted to wait 1-2 weeks. It was available at the local Best Buy for $150. Did a quick search and found a printable coupon good for the month of February at Best Buy for 20% off all "Health & Fitness" products.
Went in to Best Buy and the price was $160 on the shelf. I found an employee (just happened to be a cute girl) nearby and told her I wanted to get the 305. She said she had that model and loved it...even more than some of the more expensive ones she tried (even though it's huge). She said she has run some marathons and we chatted a little bit about how I was just starting to run. She told me about some of the runs in the area, how the best ones tend to end with beer, and overall was very pleasant and informative while waiting in line at the cashier. I definitely hope to meet more cool people like her while pursuing this sport.
So I got to the cashier and the 305 rang up at $160 as expected. I mentioned the web site price was $150 and he price matched it. Then I gave him the 20% off coupon and it wouldn't scan. He tried typing in the number and it wouldn't take it. So he tried again and it accepted the coupon, but didn't apply the discount to the 305. He read the coupon, looked at the GPS, manually entered the 20% off and had a supervisor approve it. Super easy, out the door for $120.
The coupon should work on any "Garmin Fitness GPS" (that's an actual category on the Best Buy website), as well as any heart rate monitor or other brand of fitness GPS.
Here's a link to the coupon. Hopefully it will be useful for someone out there within the next couple weeks. It expires on 2/28/2011.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
The author bought a Garmin Forerunner 305 GPS watch from Best Buy after finding a printable 20% off coupon for February. The watch cost $160 and the coupon saved him $32.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
The author decided to buy a Garmin Forerunner 305 GPS watch after researching different models. He found a 20% off coupon for February that he used at Best Buy, which lowered the price from $160 to $120.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
The author bought a Garmin Forerunner 305 GPS watch from Best Buy for $120, after finding a 20% off coupon for the month of February. He was able to use the coupon on any Garmin fitness GPS, and the cashier manually entered the discount.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
The author purchased a Garmin Forerunner 305 GPS watch from Best Buy using a 20% off coupon, bringing the price down from $160 to $120. He found the coupon online and it was valid for any Garmin fitness GPS.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
The author purchased a Garmin Forerunner 305 GPS watch at Best Buy for $120, thanks to a 20% off coupon he found online for the month of February. The coupon was valid for any Garmin fitness GPS, and the cashier manually entered the discount. The author also spoke to a friendly employee who recommended local running routes and shared her own experiences with the Forerunner 305.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: Just Bought A Garmin Forerunner 305 For What I Think Is A Decent Deal. Thought I'd Share.\nPOST: So I did some looking around at different models of wrist mount GPS units. Cost and functionality were the biggest concern. I finally decided on the Forerunner 305 since it would do everything I wanted and was a good price (even though it's huge).\n\nBest price I found online was through Amazon for around $130, with free shipping if I wanted to wait 1-2 weeks. It was available at the local Best Buy for $150. Did a quick search and found a printable coupon good for the month of February at Best Buy for 20% off all \"Health & Fitness\" products.\n\nWent in to Best Buy and the price was $160 on the shelf. I found an employee (just happened to be a cute girl) nearby and told her I wanted to get the 305. She said she had that model and loved it...even more than some of the more expensive ones she tried (even though it's huge). She said she has run some marathons and we chatted a little bit about how I was just starting to run. She told me about some of the runs in the area, how the best ones tend to end with beer, and overall was very pleasant and informative while waiting in line at the cashier. I definitely hope to meet more cool people like her while pursuing this sport.\n\nSo I got to the cashier and the 305 rang up at $160 as expected. I mentioned the web site price was $150 and he price matched it. Then I gave him the 20% off coupon and it wouldn't scan. He tried typing in the number and it wouldn't take it. So he tried again and it accepted the coupon, but didn't apply the discount to the 305. He read the coupon, looked at the GPS, manually entered the 20% off and had a supervisor approve it. Super easy, out the door for $120.\n\nThe coupon should work on any \"Garmin Fitness GPS\" (that's an actual category on the Best Buy website), as well as any heart rate monitor or other brand of fitness GPS.\n\nHere's a link to the coupon. Hopefully it will be useful for someone out there within the next couple weeks. It expires on 2/28/2011.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nThe author bought a Garmin Forerunner 305 GPS watch from Best Buy after finding a printable 20% off coupon for February. The watch cost $160 and the coupon saved him $32.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nThe author decided to buy a Garmin Forerunner 305 GPS watch after researching different models. He found a 20% off coupon for February that he used at Best Buy, which lowered the price from $160 to $120.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nThe author bought a Garmin Forerunner 305 GPS watch from Best Buy for $120, after finding a 20% off coupon for the month of February. He was able to use the coupon on any Garmin fitness GPS, and the cashier manually entered the discount.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nThe author purchased a Garmin Forerunner 305 GPS watch from Best Buy using a 20% off coupon, bringing the price down from $160 to $120. He found the coupon online and it was valid for any Garmin fitness GPS.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nThe author purchased a Garmin Forerunner 305 GPS watch at Best Buy for $120, thanks to a 20% off coupon he found online for the month of February. The coupon was valid for any Garmin fitness GPS, and the cashier manually entered the discount. The author also spoke to a friendly employee who recommended local running routes and shared her own experiences with the Forerunner 305.", "role": "assistant"}]
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I have read the FAQ, but I still have no idea what I am doing. Sorry for the stupid questions!
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Just wanted to say sorry again for wasting your time helping me out! I know I'm probably blind or something. >.<
I read the FAQ, and I was able to do some of the things to get started but many of the things I am still confused on. I was able to calculate my BMR (By the way is there one calculator that is better than the others? I got a few different numbers.) However, when I went to the link on the FAQ to calculate my BF%, the page was gone. Is this necessary? However, I know even without my BF% that I would be classified as "skinny fat" at 5'9 and 156 pounds with a decent layer of fat.
The next part I am confused on is diet. Most of the provided resources provide diets to try don't seem like they would lend themselves well to everyday/lifetime eating. I don't know how to eat healthy. The last time I tried to truly get in good shape I did it all wrong. I'm talking eating only 800-900 calories a day, counting obsessively, cutting out all my favorite foods, and interspersed with bouts of binging on aforementioned foods. Today, counting calories freaks me out because I fear that I will go back to that.
I am trying to get into real fitness, like going to a gym or bodyweight fitness, but I cannot afford a gym membership and I can't seem to find something study enough to use as a pullup bar for bodyweight. What are my other options because I do want to build muscle.
My final question is that I have no idea what I am truly aiming for. I want to lose my layer of fat and build muscle, but I am not sure if there's a goal weight involved or what sort of time table I am looking at or how many calories I would need to eat. This brings us full circle as I restate that I have no idea what I am doing.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
A newbie seeks clarification on BF% calculation and diet options, as well as guidance on starting a fitness routine without a gym membership or pull-up bar.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
A beginner asks for help with calculating BF% and finding a sustainable diet plan while dealing with limited resources and confusion about fitness goals.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
An inexperienced individual seeks guidance on BF% calculation, diet and exercise planning, and goal-setting, while dealing with a lack of access to a gym and limited knowledge about healthy eating.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
A novice asks for assistance with BF% calculation, diet planning, and workout routines, as they struggle with a history of disordered eating and limited resources.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
A beginner is overwhelmed and confused about BF% calculation, diet, workout routines, and goal-setting, and seeks support in navigating a sustainable and healthy fitness journey despite limited resources and a past of disordered eating.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: I have read the FAQ, but I still have no idea what I am doing. Sorry for the stupid questions!\nPOST: Just wanted to say sorry again for wasting your time helping me out! I know I'm probably blind or something. >.<\n\nI read the FAQ, and I was able to do some of the things to get started but many of the things I am still confused on. I was able to calculate my BMR (By the way is there one calculator that is better than the others? I got a few different numbers.) However, when I went to the link on the FAQ to calculate my BF%, the page was gone. Is this necessary? However, I know even without my BF% that I would be classified as \"skinny fat\" at 5'9 and 156 pounds with a decent layer of fat.\n\nThe next part I am confused on is diet. Most of the provided resources provide diets to try don't seem like they would lend themselves well to everyday/lifetime eating. I don't know how to eat healthy. The last time I tried to truly get in good shape I did it all wrong. I'm talking eating only 800-900 calories a day, counting obsessively, cutting out all my favorite foods, and interspersed with bouts of binging on aforementioned foods. Today, counting calories freaks me out because I fear that I will go back to that. \n\nI am trying to get into real fitness, like going to a gym or bodyweight fitness, but I cannot afford a gym membership and I can't seem to find something study enough to use as a pullup bar for bodyweight. What are my other options because I do want to build muscle.\n\nMy final question is that I have no idea what I am truly aiming for. I want to lose my layer of fat and build muscle, but I am not sure if there's a goal weight involved or what sort of time table I am looking at or how many calories I would need to eat. This brings us full circle as I restate that I have no idea what I am doing.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nA newbie seeks clarification on BF% calculation and diet options, as well as guidance on starting a fitness routine without a gym membership or pull-up bar.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nA beginner asks for help with calculating BF% and finding a sustainable diet plan while dealing with limited resources and confusion about fitness goals.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nAn inexperienced individual seeks guidance on BF% calculation, diet and exercise planning, and goal-setting, while dealing with a lack of access to a gym and limited knowledge about healthy eating.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nA novice asks for assistance with BF% calculation, diet planning, and workout routines, as they struggle with a history of disordered eating and limited resources.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA beginner is overwhelmed and confused about BF% calculation, diet, workout routines, and goal-setting, and seeks support in navigating a sustainable and healthy fitness journey despite limited resources and a past of disordered eating.", "role": "assistant"}]
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Recently we got a new flatmate who is turning out to be an absolute nightmare. What horrible flatmate stories do you have?
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A little background info: A few months ago, my flatmate and I were forced to rent out our spare room to keep costs down. My flatmate put an ad out and this guy replied and moved in while I was out of town. He was a bit older than us (he's 35 and we are 22) but he seemed ok. He needed a place quickly because he had just broken up with his partner. He was pretty depressed for a while and started acting pretty weird. His ex saw us all out at the pub one night and followed us home. My flatmate and I started getting abusive texts from her telling us to stay away from him or she would hurt us. She stalked us to the point where he had to take a restraining order against her and her sons. Drama followed this guy like a bad smell and he loved all the attention it brought him. He's a pathological liar and has lied about everything from being left at the alter, having cancer and to owning a gay cruising club. Unfortunately we can't kick him out of the flat as he is now on the lease and we can't afford to make rent payments with just the two of us.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
Our new flatmate, who we let stay with us to save money, turned out to be a liar and a drama queen. He got a restraining order against his ex-partner for stalking us, and constantly tells lies about his past, including being jilted at the altar, having cancer, and owning a gay cruising club. Unfortunately, we cannot evict him since he is now on the lease and we cannot afford to make rent payments alone.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
Our flatmate, who we let stay with us to save money, turned out to be a drama queen and a pathological liar. He got a restraining order against his ex-partner who stalked us, and he constantly lies about his past, including being jilted at the altar, having cancer, and owning a gay cruising club. He is now on the lease and we cannot afford to make rent payments alone, leaving us stuck with him.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
We rented out our spare room to a 35-year-old man who seemed okay at first. However, he started acting weird and his ex-partner began stalking us, which led to a restraining order. The flatmate also turned out to be a pathological liar and a drama queen, who constantly tells lies about his past and has caused us a lot of trouble. We cannot evict him since he is now on the lease and we cannot afford to make rent payments alone.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
We rented out our spare room to a 35-year-old man who quickly turned into a nightmare. His ex-partner stalked us and we had to get a restraining order, and
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
After renting out our spare room to a 35-year-old man, we discovered that he was a drama queen and a pathological liar. His ex-partner stalked us and we had to get a restraining order. He also constantly tells lies about his past, including being jilted at the altar, having cancer, and owning a gay cruising club. We are stuck with him on the lease and cannot afford to make rent payments alone.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: Recently we got a new flatmate who is turning out to be an absolute nightmare. What horrible flatmate stories do you have?\nPOST: A little background info: A few months ago, my flatmate and I were forced to rent out our spare room to keep costs down. My flatmate put an ad out and this guy replied and moved in while I was out of town. He was a bit older than us (he's 35 and we are 22) but he seemed ok. He needed a place quickly because he had just broken up with his partner. He was pretty depressed for a while and started acting pretty weird. His ex saw us all out at the pub one night and followed us home. My flatmate and I started getting abusive texts from her telling us to stay away from him or she would hurt us. She stalked us to the point where he had to take a restraining order against her and her sons. Drama followed this guy like a bad smell and he loved all the attention it brought him. He's a pathological liar and has lied about everything from being left at the alter, having cancer and to owning a gay cruising club. Unfortunately we can't kick him out of the flat as he is now on the lease and we can't afford to make rent payments with just the two of us.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nOur new flatmate, who we let stay with us to save money, turned out to be a liar and a drama queen. He got a restraining order against his ex-partner for stalking us, and constantly tells lies about his past, including being jilted at the altar, having cancer, and owning a gay cruising club. Unfortunately, we cannot evict him since he is now on the lease and we cannot afford to make rent payments alone.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nOur flatmate, who we let stay with us to save money, turned out to be a drama queen and a pathological liar. He got a restraining order against his ex-partner who stalked us, and he constantly lies about his past, including being jilted at the altar, having cancer, and owning a gay cruising club. He is now on the lease and we cannot afford to make rent payments alone, leaving us stuck with him.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nWe rented out our spare room to a 35-year-old man who seemed okay at first. However, he started acting weird and his ex-partner began stalking us, which led to a restraining order. The flatmate also turned out to be a pathological liar and a drama queen, who constantly tells lies about his past and has caused us a lot of trouble. We cannot evict him since he is now on the lease and we cannot afford to make rent payments alone.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nWe rented out our spare room to a 35-year-old man who quickly turned into a nightmare. His ex-partner stalked us and we had to get a restraining order, and\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nAfter renting out our spare room to a 35-year-old man, we discovered that he was a drama queen and a pathological liar. His ex-partner stalked us and we had to get a restraining order. He also constantly tells lies about his past, including being jilted at the altar, having cancer, and owning a gay cruising club. We are stuck with him on the lease and cannot afford to make rent payments alone.", "role": "assistant"}]
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How can I tell if She [22/F] is uninterested or just shy after first date with Me [22/M].
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I've just come out of a 4 year relationships a month later set up a date with a girl I've had previous dates with. Our previous dates were always a bit awkward because we were both nervous and I've always found it hard to talk to the opposite sex (so lots of silence).
So I began talking to her again last week and I decided not to beat around the bush and asked if she wanted to catch up for coffee to which she agreed. So the beginning of the date kind of started awkward i found her eyes kept moving around the room and wouldn't keep eye contact for long, there were moments of short awkward pauses like before, she asked me questions about my family and about other things but I felt I was asking her more questions. The second half i felt we became more comfortable she kept moving her hair behind her ear, would smile more and kept eye contact more and we ended up talking straight for just over an hour. But after the date was over I feel disconnected or not reaching the level of intimacy that I feel i should've.
I'm not sure if because of my low self esteem/ confidence of a bad breakup I'm overthinking or over expecting things or seeing shyness as being bored or uninterested, Or if shes sending me hints she wants to just be friends.
Also is it appropriate to send the night of the date a "I had a great time, we should catch up again soon" message?
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
A man is unsure if a woman's shyness on their first date means she's disinterested or just shy. He wants to know if it's appropriate to message her about a second date.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
A guy had a mixed experience on his first date with a girl, unsure if she's interested or just shy. He wants to know if it's appropriate to message her and ask for another date.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
A guy, 22/M, on a first date with a girl, 22/F, has doubts about her interest. He initially found her distant and shy, but they became more comfortable. He's unsure if her behavior was shyness or disinterest, and if he should message her about another date.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
A man is uncertain if a woman's behavior on their first date was shyness or disinterest, and wants to know if it's appropriate to pursue another date. He's also concerned about his low self-esteem from a recent break-up affecting his perception.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
A guy's first date with a girl was awkward due to their past nerves and he's unsure if she's interested or just shy. They became more comfortable later, but he's unsure if he should pursue another date.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: How can I tell if She [22/F] is uninterested or just shy after first date with Me [22/M].\nPOST: I've just come out of a 4 year relationships a month later set up a date with a girl I've had previous dates with. Our previous dates were always a bit awkward because we were both nervous and I've always found it hard to talk to the opposite sex (so lots of silence).\n\nSo I began talking to her again last week and I decided not to beat around the bush and asked if she wanted to catch up for coffee to which she agreed. So the beginning of the date kind of started awkward i found her eyes kept moving around the room and wouldn't keep eye contact for long, there were moments of short awkward pauses like before, she asked me questions about my family and about other things but I felt I was asking her more questions. The second half i felt we became more comfortable she kept moving her hair behind her ear, would smile more and kept eye contact more and we ended up talking straight for just over an hour. But after the date was over I feel disconnected or not reaching the level of intimacy that I feel i should've.\n\nI'm not sure if because of my low self esteem/ confidence of a bad breakup I'm overthinking or over expecting things or seeing shyness as being bored or uninterested, Or if shes sending me hints she wants to just be friends.\n\nAlso is it appropriate to send the night of the date a \"I had a great time, we should catch up again soon\" message?\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nA man is unsure if a woman's shyness on their first date means she's disinterested or just shy. He wants to know if it's appropriate to message her about a second date.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nA guy had a mixed experience on his first date with a girl, unsure if she's interested or just shy. He wants to know if it's appropriate to message her and ask for another date.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nA guy, 22/M, on a first date with a girl, 22/F, has doubts about her interest. He initially found her distant and shy, but they became more comfortable. He's unsure if her behavior was shyness or disinterest, and if he should message her about another date.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nA man is uncertain if a woman's behavior on their first date was shyness or disinterest, and wants to know if it's appropriate to pursue another date. He's also concerned about his low self-esteem from a recent break-up affecting his perception.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA guy's first date with a girl was awkward due to their past nerves and he's unsure if she's interested or just shy. They became more comfortable later, but he's unsure if he should pursue another date.", "role": "assistant"}]
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TIFU by leaving the house door open.
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This happened a couple of hours ago, and i'm still a bit nervous about all this. I'm what most would consider a hardcore gamer, and as most people into this, they usually cherish and collect their favorite games and such.
Today I skipped work because i woke up feeling like something had banged on my left side, hurting all over (ear infection, it's a reoccurring thing, I need to get this checked more often than not.) and decided to stay home and rest a bit more.
I stayed home all day and at about 6 my dad rolls around to pick me up to go to the ER to see what's going on with my ear. During the following hour and a half I spent on the ER to get this checked and pick up the prescription the doctor gave me, I get home and find some clothing on my porch, lying on the path to my entrance. My dog was feasting on some plastic bag and at first I thought it was just some kids who'd have thrown a bag of old clothing onto my yard.
As soon as I get up to my room though, things took a dire turn for me. I froze, looking baffled at what was right in front of me. My monitor was all crooked and the cables were off, and I look to the left and see this gaping hole where all my consoles were. Then it finally sunk into me: Someone robbed my house.
Shit Shit Shit!
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
I left the front door of my house open and someone stole my game consoles.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
While staying home due to an ear infection, I discovered that my house was robbed. My game consoles were stolen while I was at the ER.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
During my absence from home due to an ear infection, a burglar entered my house and made off with my cherished game consoles and other valuable items. I was devastated upon discovering the theft and am now taking steps to improve my home security.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
A burglar broke into my house and stole my game consoles and other belongings while I was at the ER for an ear infection. The incident left me feeling shaken and anxious.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
My house was burglarized while I was at the ER for an ear infection. I returned home to find my game consoles and other valuables missing.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: TIFU by leaving the house door open.\nPOST: This happened a couple of hours ago, and i'm still a bit nervous about all this. I'm what most would consider a hardcore gamer, and as most people into this, they usually cherish and collect their favorite games and such.\n\nToday I skipped work because i woke up feeling like something had banged on my left side, hurting all over (ear infection, it's a reoccurring thing, I need to get this checked more often than not.) and decided to stay home and rest a bit more.\n\nI stayed home all day and at about 6 my dad rolls around to pick me up to go to the ER to see what's going on with my ear. During the following hour and a half I spent on the ER to get this checked and pick up the prescription the doctor gave me, I get home and find some clothing on my porch, lying on the path to my entrance. My dog was feasting on some plastic bag and at first I thought it was just some kids who'd have thrown a bag of old clothing onto my yard.\n\nAs soon as I get up to my room though, things took a dire turn for me. I froze, looking baffled at what was right in front of me. My monitor was all crooked and the cables were off, and I look to the left and see this gaping hole where all my consoles were. Then it finally sunk into me: Someone robbed my house.\n\nShit Shit Shit!\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nI left the front door of my house open and someone stole my game consoles.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nWhile staying home due to an ear infection, I discovered that my house was robbed. My game consoles were stolen while I was at the ER.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nDuring my absence from home due to an ear infection, a burglar entered my house and made off with my cherished game consoles and other valuable items. I was devastated upon discovering the theft and am now taking steps to improve my home security.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nA burglar broke into my house and stole my game consoles and other belongings while I was at the ER for an ear infection. The incident left me feeling shaken and anxious.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nMy house was burglarized while I was at the ER for an ear infection. I returned home to find my game consoles and other valuables missing.", "role": "assistant"}]
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Girlfriend and her ex.
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Hi,
Throwaway account. I'm M/22. I was with my girlfriend for about a year then we split because she went travelling. We are now back together and met up overseas and travelled for a few weeks then she has a few weeks travelling by herself before she returns home.
I have noticed she keeps in touch with her ex-boyfriends, one in particular, who she has told me a bit about but overall been very closed about it. She is going to his country visit. All she has told me is that she is staying with a "friend" there who she met when she lived there. I'm about 90% sure it's him.
My issue is not that I mind her seeing an ex boyfriend, it's that she is not open about it and still doesn't tell me when I ask her who she is staying with.
What is the best way to bring up the fact that this makes me uncomfortable? I am going to try to address this on skype.
I've tried not to blather on too much but ask if I have forgotten any important details.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
A man is uncomfortable with his girlfriend visiting an ex-boyfriend in another country.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
A man questions his girlfriend's honesty regarding her trip to visit an ex-boyfriend.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
A man worries his girlfriend is hiding her visit with an ex-boyfriend from him.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
A man is concerned about his girlfriend's lack of transparency regarding her visit to an ex-boyfriend.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
A man is troubled by his girlfriend's secretive behavior regarding her trip to see an ex-boyfriend and wants to discuss it with her.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: Girlfriend and her ex.\nPOST: Hi,\nThrowaway account. I'm M/22. I was with my girlfriend for about a year then we split because she went travelling. We are now back together and met up overseas and travelled for a few weeks then she has a few weeks travelling by herself before she returns home.\n\nI have noticed she keeps in touch with her ex-boyfriends, one in particular, who she has told me a bit about but overall been very closed about it. She is going to his country visit. All she has told me is that she is staying with a \"friend\" there who she met when she lived there. I'm about 90% sure it's him.\n\nMy issue is not that I mind her seeing an ex boyfriend, it's that she is not open about it and still doesn't tell me when I ask her who she is staying with. \n\nWhat is the best way to bring up the fact that this makes me uncomfortable? I am going to try to address this on skype.\nI've tried not to blather on too much but ask if I have forgotten any important details.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nA man is uncomfortable with his girlfriend visiting an ex-boyfriend in another country.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nA man questions his girlfriend's honesty regarding her trip to visit an ex-boyfriend.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nA man worries his girlfriend is hiding her visit with an ex-boyfriend from him.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nA man is concerned about his girlfriend's lack of transparency regarding her visit to an ex-boyfriend.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA man is troubled by his girlfriend's secretive behavior regarding her trip to see an ex-boyfriend and wants to discuss it with her.", "role": "assistant"}]
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Has anyone ever been in a trial relationship? LDR [22F] and [22M]
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I'm the 22F and we've been 'together' for 5 months now.
We're in an LDR and we're around 3k miles apart. We've never met, but we will in one month and will be spending a month together for the first time.
We're in a trial phase right now, the plan is to wait until we meet before deciding to commit or not. My 'SO' is making a very big exception for me, when we originally met I learned that he wasn't interested in LDR's, thought they could never work and were a waste of time.
He is considering doing it for me and during or after summer its either going to work out or not. My question is.. Has anyone ever been in this type of situation before and how did it work out?
Oh, I think its worth noting that neither of us are looking for anyone else. We are committed to meeting each other, its that part that comes after which is a bit shaky.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
A female in an LDR with a male is questioning the viability of their relationship as they have never met in person. They plan to meet after five months of dating and have agreed to a trial period to decide if they should commit. Both parties are committed to their relationship and not seeking others.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
A female and male in an LDR after five months of dating have decided to meet for the first time and take a trial period before committing to each other. They are committed to their relationship and not seeking others.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
A 22-year-old woman in an LDR with a 22-year-old man is contemplating the future of their relationship as they have never met. They plan to meet after five months and are taking a trial period to determine if they should commit. Both are committed to their relationship and not seeking others.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
A 22-year-old woman and 22-year-old man in an LDR have been dating for five months and are planning to meet for the first time in a month. They have decided to take a trial period before making a commitment. Neither party is looking for someone else.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
A 22-year-old female in a long-distance relationship (LDR) with a 22-year-old male is considering the viability of their relationship, as they have never met in person and are planning to do so after five months of dating. They have decided to take a trial period before deciding whether to commit to each other. They are both committed to their relationship and not looking for anyone else.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: Has anyone ever been in a trial relationship? LDR [22F] and [22M]\nPOST: I'm the 22F and we've been 'together' for 5 months now. \n\nWe're in an LDR and we're around 3k miles apart. We've never met, but we will in one month and will be spending a month together for the first time. \n\nWe're in a trial phase right now, the plan is to wait until we meet before deciding to commit or not. My 'SO' is making a very big exception for me, when we originally met I learned that he wasn't interested in LDR's, thought they could never work and were a waste of time.\n\nHe is considering doing it for me and during or after summer its either going to work out or not. My question is.. Has anyone ever been in this type of situation before and how did it work out?\n\nOh, I think its worth noting that neither of us are looking for anyone else. We are committed to meeting each other, its that part that comes after which is a bit shaky.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nA female in an LDR with a male is questioning the viability of their relationship as they have never met in person. They plan to meet after five months of dating and have agreed to a trial period to decide if they should commit. Both parties are committed to their relationship and not seeking others.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nA female and male in an LDR after five months of dating have decided to meet for the first time and take a trial period before committing to each other. They are committed to their relationship and not seeking others.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nA 22-year-old woman in an LDR with a 22-year-old man is contemplating the future of their relationship as they have never met. They plan to meet after five months and are taking a trial period to determine if they should commit. Both are committed to their relationship and not seeking others.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nA 22-year-old woman and 22-year-old man in an LDR have been dating for five months and are planning to meet for the first time in a month. They have decided to take a trial period before making a commitment. Neither party is looking for someone else.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA 22-year-old female in a long-distance relationship (LDR) with a 22-year-old male is considering the viability of their relationship, as they have never met in person and are planning to do so after five months of dating. They have decided to take a trial period before deciding whether to commit to each other. They are both committed to their relationship and not looking for anyone else.", "role": "assistant"}]
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Me [19F] my father [61M] sometimes seems to not care about me, and it really hurts.
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Im not even going to bother post all the abuse he's done to me, posted that in other places. But
-first visit to the gynecologist, (was 19 then too, thought there was something wrong, wasn't. Lol yeah right, like I'll have sex before 25) and the doctor prodded and was super rough and I came out crying and my dad told both my mom and I "forget it! It doesn't matter", "drop it now!", etc.
-I had a boyfriend for a year. My father never bothered to meet him. Didn't seem to get too mad at all when I told my parents my boyfriend abused me.
-I have heard nasty things my father said about me when he thought I wasn't listening.
I am in college but there's no way I can move out.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
Title: Daughter’s father’s unconcern affects her emotional state
Post: A 19-year-old woman describes how her 61-year-old father’s indifference has impacted her. During her first gynecologist visit, he disregarded her pain, and when she told him about her abusive ex-boyfriend, he didn’t meet him or seem to care. He also said hurtful things about her in private. The daughter is in college but cannot leave due to financial reasons.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
Title: Dad’s indifference harms daughter’s well-being
Post: The 19-year-old narrator feels hurt by her father’s lack of care. He dismissed her concerns about a gynecologist’s rough exam, didn’t meet her boyfriend, and said cruel things about her behind her back. Despite being in college, she can’t move out due to financial constraints.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
Title: Daughter suffers from father’s emotional neglect
Post: The narrator, a 19-year-old woman, feels hurt by her 61-year-old father’s apathy. He showed no support during her first gynecologist appointment and failed to meet her ex-boyfriend despite her telling him about the abuse. The daughter also overheard him making disparaging remarks about her. Financial constraints prevent her from moving out of their home while in college.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
Title: Father’s disregard for daughter’s feelings causes distress
Post: A 19-year-old woman shares her experiences with her 61-year-old father’s lack of concern. During her first gynecologist appointment, he dismissed her discomfort and her report of abuse by her ex-boyfriend went unaddressed. He also made derogatory comments about her behind her back. Despite being in college, she remains at home due to financial constraints.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
Title: Father’s disregard for daughter’s welfare causes emotional harm
Post: A 19-year-old woman reveals how her 61
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: Me [19F] my father [61M] sometimes seems to not care about me, and it really hurts.\nPOST: Im not even going to bother post all the abuse he's done to me, posted that in other places. But\n\n-first visit to the gynecologist, (was 19 then too, thought there was something wrong, wasn't. Lol yeah right, like I'll have sex before 25) and the doctor prodded and was super rough and I came out crying and my dad told both my mom and I \"forget it! It doesn't matter\", \"drop it now!\", etc.\n\n-I had a boyfriend for a year. My father never bothered to meet him. Didn't seem to get too mad at all when I told my parents my boyfriend abused me. \n\n-I have heard nasty things my father said about me when he thought I wasn't listening.\n\nI am in college but there's no way I can move out.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nTitle: Daughter\u2019s father\u2019s unconcern affects her emotional state\nPost: A 19-year-old woman describes how her 61-year-old father\u2019s indifference has impacted her. During her first gynecologist visit, he disregarded her pain, and when she told him about her abusive ex-boyfriend, he didn\u2019t meet him or seem to care. He also said hurtful things about her in private. The daughter is in college but cannot leave due to financial reasons.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nTitle: Dad\u2019s indifference harms daughter\u2019s well-being\nPost: The 19-year-old narrator feels hurt by her father\u2019s lack of care. He dismissed her concerns about a gynecologist\u2019s rough exam, didn\u2019t meet her boyfriend, and said cruel things about her behind her back. Despite being in college, she can\u2019t move out due to financial constraints.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nTitle: Daughter suffers from father\u2019s emotional neglect\nPost: The narrator, a 19-year-old woman, feels hurt by her 61-year-old father\u2019s apathy. He showed no support during her first gynecologist appointment and failed to meet her ex-boyfriend despite her telling him about the abuse. The daughter also overheard him making disparaging remarks about her. Financial constraints prevent her from moving out of their home while in college.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nTitle: Father\u2019s disregard for daughter\u2019s feelings causes distress\nPost: A 19-year-old woman shares her experiences with her 61-year-old father\u2019s lack of concern. During her first gynecologist appointment, he dismissed her discomfort and her report of abuse by her ex-boyfriend went unaddressed. He also made derogatory comments about her behind her back. Despite being in college, she remains at home due to financial constraints.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nTitle: Father\u2019s disregard for daughter\u2019s welfare causes emotional harm\nPost: A 19-year-old woman reveals how her 61", "role": "assistant"}]
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I (23/F) have been dating an inexperienced dater (23/M) and I have no idea what's going on.
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So, we met on the ever popular OKCupid about a month ago, and have been on around 8 dates since. On our second date we ended up going home together, and having sex, but there was no awkwardness afterwards and arranged another date over coffee in the morning.
On Thursday last week, we had a bit of a "where is this going?" conversation, in which he confessed he's never really had a relationship or dated extensively. I have dated and had relationships in the past, so understand that it's a bit of an awkward new world for some people. I'm really into him, but he doesn't seem available outside of face to face dating. When we're together we have a great time, lots of fun and good conversations, but when we're apart he ignores my texts, doesn't speak to me often and seems bored when I attempt to strike up a conversation. It's leaving me a little confused and frustrated.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
Inexperienced man I've been seeing has no interest in dating outside of face-to-face.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
Newly dating man I met on OKCupid is unsure about our relationship and ignores my texts.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
Inexperienced man I've been dating ignores me when we're not together.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
Dating an inexperienced man who is unsure about our relationship and doesn't communicate outside of face-to-face dates.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
Inexperienced man I'm dating has trouble with communication and is unsure about our relationship.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: I (23/F) have been dating an inexperienced dater (23/M) and I have no idea what's going on.\nPOST: So, we met on the ever popular OKCupid about a month ago, and have been on around 8 dates since. On our second date we ended up going home together, and having sex, but there was no awkwardness afterwards and arranged another date over coffee in the morning. \n\nOn Thursday last week, we had a bit of a \"where is this going?\" conversation, in which he confessed he's never really had a relationship or dated extensively. I have dated and had relationships in the past, so understand that it's a bit of an awkward new world for some people. I'm really into him, but he doesn't seem available outside of face to face dating. When we're together we have a great time, lots of fun and good conversations, but when we're apart he ignores my texts, doesn't speak to me often and seems bored when I attempt to strike up a conversation. It's leaving me a little confused and frustrated.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nInexperienced man I've been seeing has no interest in dating outside of face-to-face.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nNewly dating man I met on OKCupid is unsure about our relationship and ignores my texts.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nInexperienced man I've been dating ignores me when we're not together.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nDating an inexperienced man who is unsure about our relationship and doesn't communicate outside of face-to-face dates.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nInexperienced man I'm dating has trouble with communication and is unsure about our relationship.", "role": "assistant"}]
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Me [26/F] with my ex[24 M] of three years, broke up with me because I make him happy. Now he wants to go date other girls for one last time before possible settling down. Emphasis on possibly.
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My ex and I have been together for three years and he's broken up with me because he says I'm perfect for him and he's not ready to settle down. He says I make him happier than anyone ever has and probably anyone ever will. He just feels like he is too young to settle down. Is he stupid for letting go a relationship with someone that makes him incredibly happy? Or should I respect his decision?
Is this bullshit? We've broken up in the past a couple times because of his desire to stray sexually, so I'm completely confused. He's matured a lot since then and seems more invested in the relationship (until, obviously, he wasnt). He either is bullshitting me, or is making a huge mistake he's going to regret.
He's claiming it's just a break he needs. But should I be okay with that? I'm so confused. He seems very certain and confident that he gets to have one last break to go play and party before finally settling down with someone who makes him the happiest he's ever been. Do I let him go and make him realize what he's losing, or should I be mature and allow him the time to grow up?
It still stands I dont know if he's bullshitting or not.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
The writer's ex-boyfriend has ended their relationship due to his desire to explore other romantic prospects, despite the writer making him very happy. He is unsure if he will eventually settle down with the writer.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
The writer's ex-boyfriend has broken up with her because he feels too young to settle down, even though she makes him happy. He wants to date other girls before possibly settling down with the writer.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
The writer's ex-boyfriend has ended their relationship because he is not ready to commit to a long-term relationship, despite being very happy with the writer. He plans to date other girls before considering settling down with the writer.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
The writer's ex-boyfriend has ended their relationship because he isn't ready to settle down, despite the writer making him very happy. He wants to date other girls before possibly settling down with the writer.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
The writer's ex-boyfriend has broken up with her because he is not ready to commit to a long-term relationship, despite her making him happy. He plans to date other girls before deciding whether or not to settle down with the writer. The writer is unsure if he is being truthful about his intentions and is torn between allowing him space to grow up and making him realize what he's losing by leaving her.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: Me [26/F] with my ex[24 M] of three years, broke up with me because I make him happy. Now he wants to go date other girls for one last time before possible settling down. Emphasis on possibly.\nPOST: My ex and I have been together for three years and he's broken up with me because he says I'm perfect for him and he's not ready to settle down. He says I make him happier than anyone ever has and probably anyone ever will. He just feels like he is too young to settle down. Is he stupid for letting go a relationship with someone that makes him incredibly happy? Or should I respect his decision?\n\nIs this bullshit? We've broken up in the past a couple times because of his desire to stray sexually, so I'm completely confused. He's matured a lot since then and seems more invested in the relationship (until, obviously, he wasnt). He either is bullshitting me, or is making a huge mistake he's going to regret.\n\nHe's claiming it's just a break he needs. But should I be okay with that? I'm so confused. He seems very certain and confident that he gets to have one last break to go play and party before finally settling down with someone who makes him the happiest he's ever been. Do I let him go and make him realize what he's losing, or should I be mature and allow him the time to grow up?\n\nIt still stands I dont know if he's bullshitting or not.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nThe writer's ex-boyfriend has ended their relationship due to his desire to explore other romantic prospects, despite the writer making him very happy. He is unsure if he will eventually settle down with the writer.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nThe writer's ex-boyfriend has broken up with her because he feels too young to settle down, even though she makes him happy. He wants to date other girls before possibly settling down with the writer.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nThe writer's ex-boyfriend has ended their relationship because he is not ready to commit to a long-term relationship, despite being very happy with the writer. He plans to date other girls before considering settling down with the writer.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nThe writer's ex-boyfriend has ended their relationship because he isn't ready to settle down, despite the writer making him very happy. He wants to date other girls before possibly settling down with the writer.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nThe writer's ex-boyfriend has broken up with her because he is not ready to commit to a long-term relationship, despite her making him happy. He plans to date other girls before deciding whether or not to settle down with the writer. The writer is unsure if he is being truthful about his intentions and is torn between allowing him space to grow up and making him realize what he's losing by leaving her.", "role": "assistant"}]
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[29M] Worried that I may never be about to be monogamous
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After a good amount of relationships and dating I am starting to notice a trend with myself. After a while I find it hard to keep focused or interested in one girl and start looking for something "new and exciting". Part of it I think is I really enjoy meeting new people, learning about their lives and then experiencing new things with them. So after dating someone or being in a relationship for a while I often feel the need or just gravitate toward someone else who sparks my interest even if I know its not a long term deal. From there if anything I get fulfillment out of learning and talking to them about their views, life etc. Also the enjoyment of their different hobbies, likes or experiences we do together.
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Ideally I know I one day want a family and kids, but I am not sure how I can stay in a long term relationship with this mindset and feeling. I know maybe I haven't found "the one" or been in true love, but I often wonder if I had the one, or am capable of just wanting to be with one person.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
* A man has a pattern of becoming disinterested in his romantic partners after a while and seeking out new people to learn about and experience new things with. This concern has led him to question his ability to maintain a long-term relationship and have a family.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
* A man is struggling with maintaining monogamy as he becomes easily bored with his romantic partners and seeks out new experiences and people. He fears that this may prevent him from having a long-term relationship and a family, despite his desire for these things.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
* A man struggles with maintaining monogamy due to his desire for meeting new people and experiencing new things with them. He fears this may prevent him from having a long-term relationship and starting a family.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
* A man grapples with his inability to remain monogamous, as he is drawn to the excitement of meeting new people and experiencing new things. Despite his desire for a family and long-term relationship, he worries that his restless nature may prevent him from achieving these goals.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
* A man has trouble committing to one partner due to his enjoyment of meeting new people and learning about their lives. He fears this may prevent him from settling down and starting a family, but recognizes that he desires these things.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: [29M] Worried that I may never be about to be monogamous\nPOST: After a good amount of relationships and dating I am starting to notice a trend with myself. After a while I find it hard to keep focused or interested in one girl and start looking for something \"new and exciting\". Part of it I think is I really enjoy meeting new people, learning about their lives and then experiencing new things with them. So after dating someone or being in a relationship for a while I often feel the need or just gravitate toward someone else who sparks my interest even if I know its not a long term deal. From there if anything I get fulfillment out of learning and talking to them about their views, life etc. Also the enjoyment of their different hobbies, likes or experiences we do together.\n---\nIdeally I know I one day want a family and kids, but I am not sure how I can stay in a long term relationship with this mindset and feeling. I know maybe I haven't found \"the one\" or been in true love, but I often wonder if I had the one, or am capable of just wanting to be with one person.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\n* A man has a pattern of becoming disinterested in his romantic partners after a while and seeking out new people to learn about and experience new things with. This concern has led him to question his ability to maintain a long-term relationship and have a family.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\n* A man is struggling with maintaining monogamy as he becomes easily bored with his romantic partners and seeks out new experiences and people. He fears that this may prevent him from having a long-term relationship and a family, despite his desire for these things.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\n* A man struggles with maintaining monogamy due to his desire for meeting new people and experiencing new things with them. He fears this may prevent him from having a long-term relationship and starting a family.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\n* A man grapples with his inability to remain monogamous, as he is drawn to the excitement of meeting new people and experiencing new things. Despite his desire for a family and long-term relationship, he worries that his restless nature may prevent him from achieving these goals.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\n* A man has trouble committing to one partner due to his enjoyment of meeting new people and learning about their lives. He fears this may prevent him from settling down and starting a family, but recognizes that he desires these things.", "role": "assistant"}]
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Am I [F25] being selfish for not wanting to leave my family to live near partner's [M26]?
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I've been in a long distance relationship for the last 5 years. We live over 250 miles away from each other, and have done since the beginning, apart from a few years when I was at uni, I lived a lot closer to my SO.
After uni I moved back to my home town, riddled with guilt that I barely saw my family in 3 years, because I spent almost every weekend at my partners (which I feel extremely guilty about). We have always been ok with the distance, there are obviously times when it's harder than others.
We're now seeing less and less of each other and I'm really starting to struggle, I'm lucky if I get a whole weekend with him every month. He works 6 days a week, so him staying with me is almost out of the question, and I can't afford any more than I already pay on travel.
We have discussed getting a place together, but the issue of where to live becomes an issue. I have looked at properties in his area, and for a start I wouldn't be able to afford rent, never mind the increased cost of living.
I told him tonight that I don't think I could live far from my family. My parents are older than his, and I worry about them not having any family near them as they get older. He, on the other hand has an extremely large extended family, all of which live within a 5 mile radius.
Am I being selfish for now wanting to move near them? When I told my SO how I felt, his response was "well, we have a problem". He did however say that he would move up to me, but he still has courses he needs to complete with work.
He told me that I'm acting like a child and didn't understand the issue of me moving away because I would still see my parents every fortnight. Surely if travelling weren't an issue I would see my SO more often than that?!
I'm feeling so conflicted, and feel selfish for not wanting to leave my parents. I love my SO, and I want to be with him, but we have hit this major fork in the road and I don't know what to do.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
The long-distance couple faces a dilemma as they struggle to see each other frequently due to work commitments and financial constraints. The female partner is unwilling to relocate far from her family, while her male partner is willing to move closer to her.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
The couple's long-distance relationship is strained by limited time spent together, and the female partner's reluctance to relocate far from her family. The male partner is willing to move closer to her, but his work commitments pose a challenge. The couple is at a crossroads, unsure of how to navigate this difficult situation.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
A long-distance couple faces a tough decision about where to live, as the female partner prioritizes her family's proximity over her relationship with her partner. The male partner is willing to compromise and move closer to her, but his work and financial constraints make it difficult. The couple must find a way to reconcile their competing priorities.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
The couple's long-distance relationship is tested by their inability to spend enough time together and the female partner's reluctance to leave her family. The male partner is willing to move closer to her, but his work commitments and financial constraints make it difficult. The couple's future together is uncertain as they struggle to find a solution that balances their love and commitment to their families.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
A long-distance couple grapples with the decision of where to live, as they try to balance their love for each other and their commitments to their families. The female partner is hesitant to leave her parents, who are older and need her support, while her male partner is willing to move closer to her but has work commitments.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: Am I [F25] being selfish for not wanting to leave my family to live near partner's [M26]?\nPOST: I've been in a long distance relationship for the last 5 years. We live over 250 miles away from each other, and have done since the beginning, apart from a few years when I was at uni, I lived a lot closer to my SO.\n\nAfter uni I moved back to my home town, riddled with guilt that I barely saw my family in 3 years, because I spent almost every weekend at my partners (which I feel extremely guilty about). We have always been ok with the distance, there are obviously times when it's harder than others.\n\nWe're now seeing less and less of each other and I'm really starting to struggle, I'm lucky if I get a whole weekend with him every month. He works 6 days a week, so him staying with me is almost out of the question, and I can't afford any more than I already pay on travel.\n\nWe have discussed getting a place together, but the issue of where to live becomes an issue. I have looked at properties in his area, and for a start I wouldn't be able to afford rent, never mind the increased cost of living. \n\nI told him tonight that I don't think I could live far from my family. My parents are older than his, and I worry about them not having any family near them as they get older. He, on the other hand has an extremely large extended family, all of which live within a 5 mile radius.\n\nAm I being selfish for now wanting to move near them? When I told my SO how I felt, his response was \"well, we have a problem\". He did however say that he would move up to me, but he still has courses he needs to complete with work.\n\nHe told me that I'm acting like a child and didn't understand the issue of me moving away because I would still see my parents every fortnight. Surely if travelling weren't an issue I would see my SO more often than that?!\n\nI'm feeling so conflicted, and feel selfish for not wanting to leave my parents. I love my SO, and I want to be with him, but we have hit this major fork in the road and I don't know what to do.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nThe long-distance couple faces a dilemma as they struggle to see each other frequently due to work commitments and financial constraints. The female partner is unwilling to relocate far from her family, while her male partner is willing to move closer to her.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nThe couple's long-distance relationship is strained by limited time spent together, and the female partner's reluctance to relocate far from her family. The male partner is willing to move closer to her, but his work commitments pose a challenge. The couple is at a crossroads, unsure of how to navigate this difficult situation.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nA long-distance couple faces a tough decision about where to live, as the female partner prioritizes her family's proximity over her relationship with her partner. The male partner is willing to compromise and move closer to her, but his work and financial constraints make it difficult. The couple must find a way to reconcile their competing priorities.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nThe couple's long-distance relationship is tested by their inability to spend enough time together and the female partner's reluctance to leave her family. The male partner is willing to move closer to her, but his work commitments and financial constraints make it difficult. The couple's future together is uncertain as they struggle to find a solution that balances their love and commitment to their families.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA long-distance couple grapples with the decision of where to live, as they try to balance their love for each other and their commitments to their families. The female partner is hesitant to leave her parents, who are older and need her support, while her male partner is willing to move closer to her but has work commitments.", "role": "assistant"}]
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How soon is too soon?
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I'm going to start by saying I've (25f) been out of the dating game for about 3 years. That LTR ended in June and I've had numerous "dates" with guys who turn out to be creeps or just not what they advertise.
Fast forward go a few weeks ago. I met a man (26m) online a few weeks ago and we have just started seeing each other face to face. He is everything he seemed to be. Our first day was Thursday night and we have gone out every night since. He fits the bill of what I'm looking for and he has told me I fit his. He asked me to be his exclusive girlfriend Saturday night on our third date, and I gleefully agreed.
We made out Saturday and Sunday nights and it's been great but I'm really trying to practice restraint. He has already said he's in no rush and is not pressuring me at all. In fact, we both have been very artful and skilled in letting up during our kissing when we notice the other getting too hot/heavy.
I've never been one to make out this quickly let alone have sex so soon, but fireworks are flying. In my gut, I feel like he could be a long term keeper and he has already expressed the same. He's ready to show me off to his family. So I don't want to do anything too quickly and possibly ruin our relationship's chances at going the distance.
Basically, an opportunity is coming up this weekend. Its technically past the one week mark of us seeing each other face- to-face rather than just phone/text/email. We are connecting on every level and conversation flows freely. I feel the relationship so far is more than physical. I feel mentally, physically and emotionally ready if he is also.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
A woman who has been out of the dating scene for three years recently started seeing a man she met online. They have been together for a week and a half and he has asked her to be his exclusive girlfriend. They are both ready to take their relationship further, but are practicing restraint while making out.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
A woman who had a long-term relationship ended in June is now dating a man she met online. They have been seeing each other for a week and a half and he recently asked her to be his exclusive girlfriend. They have been practicing restraint while making out and are considering moving forward in their relationship.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
A woman who took a break from dating after her last relationship ended in June is now seeing a man she met online. They have been together for a week and a half and he recently asked her to be his exclusive girlfriend. They are both physically, mentally, and emotionally ready to take their relationship further, but are practicing restraint while making out.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
A woman who was in a long-term relationship that ended in June is now dating a man she met online. They have been seeing each other for a week and a half and he has asked her to be his exclusive girlfriend. They are both eager to move forward in their relationship, but are taking things slowly while making out.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
A woman (25f) who has been out of the dating game for three years recently started seeing a man (26m) she met online. After three dates, he asked her to be his exclusive girlfriend. They have been making out and are considering taking their relationship further at an upcoming opportunity.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: How soon is too soon?\nPOST: I'm going to start by saying I've (25f) been out of the dating game for about 3 years. That LTR ended in June and I've had numerous \"dates\" with guys who turn out to be creeps or just not what they advertise. \n \nFast forward go a few weeks ago. I met a man (26m) online a few weeks ago and we have just started seeing each other face to face. He is everything he seemed to be. Our first day was Thursday night and we have gone out every night since. He fits the bill of what I'm looking for and he has told me I fit his. He asked me to be his exclusive girlfriend Saturday night on our third date, and I gleefully agreed. \n \nWe made out Saturday and Sunday nights and it's been great but I'm really trying to practice restraint. He has already said he's in no rush and is not pressuring me at all. In fact, we both have been very artful and skilled in letting up during our kissing when we notice the other getting too hot/heavy. \n \nI've never been one to make out this quickly let alone have sex so soon, but fireworks are flying. In my gut, I feel like he could be a long term keeper and he has already expressed the same. He's ready to show me off to his family. So I don't want to do anything too quickly and possibly ruin our relationship's chances at going the distance. \n \nBasically, an opportunity is coming up this weekend. Its technically past the one week mark of us seeing each other face- to-face rather than just phone/text/email. We are connecting on every level and conversation flows freely. I feel the relationship so far is more than physical. I feel mentally, physically and emotionally ready if he is also.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nA woman who has been out of the dating scene for three years recently started seeing a man she met online. They have been together for a week and a half and he has asked her to be his exclusive girlfriend. They are both ready to take their relationship further, but are practicing restraint while making out.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nA woman who had a long-term relationship ended in June is now dating a man she met online. They have been seeing each other for a week and a half and he recently asked her to be his exclusive girlfriend. They have been practicing restraint while making out and are considering moving forward in their relationship.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nA woman who took a break from dating after her last relationship ended in June is now seeing a man she met online. They have been together for a week and a half and he recently asked her to be his exclusive girlfriend. They are both physically, mentally, and emotionally ready to take their relationship further, but are practicing restraint while making out.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nA woman who was in a long-term relationship that ended in June is now dating a man she met online. They have been seeing each other for a week and a half and he has asked her to be his exclusive girlfriend. They are both eager to move forward in their relationship, but are taking things slowly while making out.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA woman (25f) who has been out of the dating game for three years recently started seeing a man (26m) she met online. After three dates, he asked her to be his exclusive girlfriend. They have been making out and are considering taking their relationship further at an upcoming opportunity.", "role": "assistant"}]
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How do i live with my ex for a few more weeks
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Me 30m and my girlfriend 23f of 4 years just broke up a few days ago. We have dated on and of the entire 4 years.We have lived together for about 3 years off and on. We usually go about 8-11 months and then we lose interest it seems then get back together a month or so later. We had trust issues in the beginning but we both moved past alot and trust was rebuilt.
We have been dating again since may so about 6 months into this. In these six months our communication was 100% better and had some of the best times.
Well up until about 1 1/2 weeks ago.. She started being distant and in turn i reflected the same behavior and became distant as well. Things went south quickly so I start a talk and we admit were mutually unhappy.. But she admits she is emotionally cheating, but its nothing more, and says she doesn't want to break up. But i decide the trust has been broken. And say i cant deal with that anymore. We are on a m2m lease and nether of us can afford our apt alone. We have very minimal contact. I stay away from our home when i know shes there and she does the same. Its very stressful and i have no idea how to deal with this. I didnt expect this to happen at all. It doesnt hurt the worst but its hard for me because of all the stuff we have together. I feel if we are breaking up, this is IT. I need support.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
The author and his girlfriend, who have a history of on-off dating, recently ended their 4-year relationship due to emotional cheating. They are both unable to afford their shared apartment and are avoiding each other while trying to figure out what to do next. The author is looking for advice on how to navigate this difficult situation.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
The author's 4-year relationship with his girlfriend recently ended due to emotional cheating. They are both unable to afford their shared apartment and are avoiding each other while trying to figure out their next steps. The author is seeking advice on how to move forward with the breakup and is feeling overwhelmed by the situation.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
After dating on and off for 4 years and living together for 3 years, the author and his girlfriend broke up due to trust issues and emotional cheating. They are currently on a shared lease and avoiding each other. The author is seeking support and guidance on how to move forward.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
The author and his girlfriend, who have been living together for 3 years, recently split up due to trust issues and emotional cheating. They are currently on a shared lease and avoiding each other, which is causing stress for the author. He is seeking support and guidance on how to move forward with the breakup.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
The author and his girlfriend, who have been dating on and off for 4 years and living together for 3 years, recently split up due to emotional cheating. They are currently on a shared lease and avoiding each other, which is causing stress for the author. He is seeking support and guidance on how to move forward with the breakup and is feeling overwhelmed by the situation. The author and his girlfriend have a history of breaking up and getting back together, but this time the trust has been broken and the author is unsure of how to proceed. He is seeking advice on how to navigate this difficult situation and move forward with his life.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: How do i live with my ex for a few more weeks\nPOST: Me 30m and my girlfriend 23f of 4 years just broke up a few days ago. We have dated on and of the entire 4 years.We have lived together for about 3 years off and on. We usually go about 8-11 months and then we lose interest it seems then get back together a month or so later. We had trust issues in the beginning but we both moved past alot and trust was rebuilt.\n We have been dating again since may so about 6 months into this. In these six months our communication was 100% better and had some of the best times.\n\n Well up until about 1 1/2 weeks ago.. She started being distant and in turn i reflected the same behavior and became distant as well. Things went south quickly so I start a talk and we admit were mutually unhappy.. But she admits she is emotionally cheating, but its nothing more, and says she doesn't want to break up. But i decide the trust has been broken. And say i cant deal with that anymore. We are on a m2m lease and nether of us can afford our apt alone. We have very minimal contact. I stay away from our home when i know shes there and she does the same. Its very stressful and i have no idea how to deal with this. I didnt expect this to happen at all. It doesnt hurt the worst but its hard for me because of all the stuff we have together. I feel if we are breaking up, this is IT. I need support.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nThe author and his girlfriend, who have a history of on-off dating, recently ended their 4-year relationship due to emotional cheating. They are both unable to afford their shared apartment and are avoiding each other while trying to figure out what to do next. The author is looking for advice on how to navigate this difficult situation.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nThe author's 4-year relationship with his girlfriend recently ended due to emotional cheating. They are both unable to afford their shared apartment and are avoiding each other while trying to figure out their next steps. The author is seeking advice on how to move forward with the breakup and is feeling overwhelmed by the situation.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nAfter dating on and off for 4 years and living together for 3 years, the author and his girlfriend broke up due to trust issues and emotional cheating. They are currently on a shared lease and avoiding each other. The author is seeking support and guidance on how to move forward.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nThe author and his girlfriend, who have been living together for 3 years, recently split up due to trust issues and emotional cheating. They are currently on a shared lease and avoiding each other, which is causing stress for the author. He is seeking support and guidance on how to move forward with the breakup.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nThe author and his girlfriend, who have been dating on and off for 4 years and living together for 3 years, recently split up due to emotional cheating. They are currently on a shared lease and avoiding each other, which is causing stress for the author. He is seeking support and guidance on how to move forward with the breakup and is feeling overwhelmed by the situation. The author and his girlfriend have a history of breaking up and getting back together, but this time the trust has been broken and the author is unsure of how to proceed. He is seeking advice on how to navigate this difficult situation and move forward with his life.", "role": "assistant"}]
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I [19 M] disappointed my girlfriend [19F] of 6/mos by saying I didn't want to go to a haunted house
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For the past few week my girlfriend has been wanting to go to a haunted house. She has asked my multiple times and I had curved the question by jokingly saying "Yeah, only if someone holds my hand." And I even said that I'm not really into scary things.
The truth is that I have trouble coping with large amounts of anxiety and I barely even watch scary movies because of it.
So about a week ago I said I would go to a haunted house, at my girlfriend's request. Today, the day we were supposed to go, I told her I was nervous and I didn't know if I wanted to go. I told her I wouldn't enjoy the experience because of my anxiety, but I would still go if she wanted to.
My girlfriend seemed to take me confiding in her more as me letting her down than anything else. She started talking about how I should have said no to begin with, and why did I wait until the last minute to say I would be uncomfortable.
I apologized and said if you really want to go, I will still go, but it just might not be enjoyable for me. She just shut down after this and is continuing to focus on me letting her down.
I then suggested that we should still go out and do something, even if she wants to stay in because I wouldn't be comfortable at the haunted house. She initially rejected my suggestion, but eventually said, "You plan what we'll do then. I just wanted to do something that we couldn't do any other time of the year. Where could we even go out to dinner that we haven't already been." (This is not verbatim, but just the gist of what she said)
I understand I could have communicated more directly when she first brought up the haunted houses a few weeks ago. I take responsibility for that.
My question is: What do I do now that my girlfriend is so disappointed that it almost seems like she's depressed? How do I make this into a good night, or is that not possible anymore?
Any additional feedback unrelated to my primary questions is appreciated as well. Thank you!
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
The OP's girlfriend was looking forward to going to a haunted house with him, but he was too anxious and didn't want to go. He apologized and suggested alternative plans, but she's disappointed and upset with him, and doesn't want to go out or do anything else. She's even depressed about it. The OP is unsure
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
The OP's girlfriend was disappointed when he didn't want to go to a haunted house, and she thinks he let her down. He apologized and suggested alternative plans, but she's still upset.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
The OP's girlfriend was excited to go to a haunted house, but he was too anxious and didn't want to go. He apologized and suggested alternative plans, but she's still upset and not interested in going out.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
The OP's girlfriend was disappointed when he didn't want to go to a haunted house, and she thinks he let her down. He apologized and suggested alternative plans, but she's still upset and doesn't want to go out.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
The OP's girlfriend was looking forward to going to a haunted house, but he was too anxious and couldn't go. She's disappointed and upset with him for not communicating better.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: I [19 M] disappointed my girlfriend [19F] of 6/mos by saying I didn't want to go to a haunted house\nPOST: For the past few week my girlfriend has been wanting to go to a haunted house. She has asked my multiple times and I had curved the question by jokingly saying \"Yeah, only if someone holds my hand.\" And I even said that I'm not really into scary things.\n\nThe truth is that I have trouble coping with large amounts of anxiety and I barely even watch scary movies because of it.\n\nSo about a week ago I said I would go to a haunted house, at my girlfriend's request. Today, the day we were supposed to go, I told her I was nervous and I didn't know if I wanted to go. I told her I wouldn't enjoy the experience because of my anxiety, but I would still go if she wanted to. \n\nMy girlfriend seemed to take me confiding in her more as me letting her down than anything else. She started talking about how I should have said no to begin with, and why did I wait until the last minute to say I would be uncomfortable. \n\nI apologized and said if you really want to go, I will still go, but it just might not be enjoyable for me. She just shut down after this and is continuing to focus on me letting her down. \n\nI then suggested that we should still go out and do something, even if she wants to stay in because I wouldn't be comfortable at the haunted house. She initially rejected my suggestion, but eventually said, \"You plan what we'll do then. I just wanted to do something that we couldn't do any other time of the year. Where could we even go out to dinner that we haven't already been.\" (This is not verbatim, but just the gist of what she said)\n\nI understand I could have communicated more directly when she first brought up the haunted houses a few weeks ago. I take responsibility for that. \n\nMy question is: What do I do now that my girlfriend is so disappointed that it almost seems like she's depressed? How do I make this into a good night, or is that not possible anymore?\n\nAny additional feedback unrelated to my primary questions is appreciated as well. Thank you!\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nThe OP's girlfriend was looking forward to going to a haunted house with him, but he was too anxious and didn't want to go. He apologized and suggested alternative plans, but she's disappointed and upset with him, and doesn't want to go out or do anything else. She's even depressed about it. The OP is unsure\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nThe OP's girlfriend was disappointed when he didn't want to go to a haunted house, and she thinks he let her down. He apologized and suggested alternative plans, but she's still upset.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nThe OP's girlfriend was excited to go to a haunted house, but he was too anxious and didn't want to go. He apologized and suggested alternative plans, but she's still upset and not interested in going out.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nThe OP's girlfriend was disappointed when he didn't want to go to a haunted house, and she thinks he let her down. He apologized and suggested alternative plans, but she's still upset and doesn't want to go out.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nThe OP's girlfriend was looking forward to going to a haunted house, but he was too anxious and couldn't go. She's disappointed and upset with him for not communicating better.", "role": "assistant"}]
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[22/M] girl in the group...awkward scenarios
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Hello reddit,
So earlier in the year an old school friend of ours came into the group with a long distance BF and nobody was really bothered but soon the "hatin'" came up. After a while she broke up with the guy and I watched as some in my circle tried for her. Initially I wasn't interested but she is genuinely good so I tried for it. Everything went well till she flaked on me so I moved on, found out later it happened to another who tried the kiss-ass method...
Fast forward and everyone still hangs out but theres a veil of passive aggressive and I see folks still going for her. To make things worse one friend keeps obsessing over her in my presence and it hits at my underlying loneliness since I never had a true relationship. I feel like I need another group of friends to chill with but I don't know how to go about dealing with the consequences of such a move.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
Guy gets involved with a girl in the friend circle, leading to jealousy and drama.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
Guy dates a girl from the friend group, causing strain and passive aggression among the friends.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
Guy pursues a friend’s ex-girlfriend, causing tension in the group.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
Guy tries to date old friend’s ex and faces passive aggressive group dynamics.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
Guy tries to date a friend’s ex and faces competition and passive aggression from the group.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: [22/M] girl in the group...awkward scenarios\nPOST: Hello reddit,\n\nSo earlier in the year an old school friend of ours came into the group with a long distance BF and nobody was really bothered but soon the \"hatin'\" came up. After a while she broke up with the guy and I watched as some in my circle tried for her. Initially I wasn't interested but she is genuinely good so I tried for it. Everything went well till she flaked on me so I moved on, found out later it happened to another who tried the kiss-ass method...\n\nFast forward and everyone still hangs out but theres a veil of passive aggressive and I see folks still going for her. To make things worse one friend keeps obsessing over her in my presence and it hits at my underlying loneliness since I never had a true relationship. I feel like I need another group of friends to chill with but I don't know how to go about dealing with the consequences of such a move.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nGuy gets involved with a girl in the friend circle, leading to jealousy and drama.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nGuy dates a girl from the friend group, causing strain and passive aggression among the friends.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nGuy pursues a friend\u2019s ex-girlfriend, causing tension in the group.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nGuy tries to date old friend\u2019s ex and faces passive aggressive group dynamics.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nGuy tries to date a friend\u2019s ex and faces competition and passive aggression from the group.", "role": "assistant"}]
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I am thinking of severing all ties with my family, How would I do so?
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I am thinking of severing all ties with my family, mostly because they are a bunch of self righteous christian people that feel as if by them paying for me so far, (feeding me and letting me live with them rent-free) I am not only their slave, but am expected to mindlessly agree with everything they say and do. They think that I am not capable of leading my own life, and I know for a fact that if they knew half the stuff I deal with/get up to in college they would throw me out. In addition, they get angry with me when I do what they ask because five minutes later they change their minds, and when I wait to see if they actually want it done they get even madder. They show me no respect, and yet expect me to show them respect when their behavior merits none.
Some info about me
I am 20 years old
I go to a state college, I am studying to be a teacher
I am not really that into all the religious stuff, but I am not an atheist
I work at my local YMCA as a swim instructor/lifeguard
I am trying to think of ways that I could effectively cut the ties with them. At this point the best solution I have come up with is to join some branch of the military, such as the navy or something, because my job doesn't pay enough for me to move out on my own and continue my education. (when I am at school, things are sort of OK as I go far enough away that they don't visit, though they expect a phone call every day. They pay for my meal plan, so they expect me to be in contact with them)
Also, sorry about the poor writing quality of the post, but I felt like I had to write this down before I went crazy.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
The author is considering ending their relationship with their family due to their religious beliefs and lack of respect. They are considering joining the military as a means of financial independence and to escape their family's control.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
A young person is considering cutting ties with their family because they feel suffocated by their religious and controlling behavior. They are thinking about joining the military to support themselves while continuing their education.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
A 20-year-old college student is considering leaving their family due to their religious beliefs, lack of respect, and controlling behavior. They plan to join the military to support themselves while continuing their education and to escape their family's control.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
The author wants to end their relationship with their family because of their controlling and disrespectful behavior, and is considering joining the military to gain financial independence and escape their influence.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
The author, a 20-year-old studying to be a teacher, is contemplating severing all ties with their family due to their religious beliefs, lack of respect, and controlling behavior. They plan to join the military to achieve financial independence and escape their family's control while continuing their education.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: I am thinking of severing all ties with my family, How would I do so?\nPOST: I am thinking of severing all ties with my family, mostly because they are a bunch of self righteous christian people that feel as if by them paying for me so far, (feeding me and letting me live with them rent-free) I am not only their slave, but am expected to mindlessly agree with everything they say and do. They think that I am not capable of leading my own life, and I know for a fact that if they knew half the stuff I deal with/get up to in college they would throw me out. In addition, they get angry with me when I do what they ask because five minutes later they change their minds, and when I wait to see if they actually want it done they get even madder. They show me no respect, and yet expect me to show them respect when their behavior merits none.\n\nSome info about me\nI am 20 years old\nI go to a state college, I am studying to be a teacher\nI am not really that into all the religious stuff, but I am not an atheist\nI work at my local YMCA as a swim instructor/lifeguard\n\nI am trying to think of ways that I could effectively cut the ties with them. At this point the best solution I have come up with is to join some branch of the military, such as the navy or something, because my job doesn't pay enough for me to move out on my own and continue my education. (when I am at school, things are sort of OK as I go far enough away that they don't visit, though they expect a phone call every day. They pay for my meal plan, so they expect me to be in contact with them)\n\nAlso, sorry about the poor writing quality of the post, but I felt like I had to write this down before I went crazy.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nThe author is considering ending their relationship with their family due to their religious beliefs and lack of respect. They are considering joining the military as a means of financial independence and to escape their family's control.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nA young person is considering cutting ties with their family because they feel suffocated by their religious and controlling behavior. They are thinking about joining the military to support themselves while continuing their education.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nA 20-year-old college student is considering leaving their family due to their religious beliefs, lack of respect, and controlling behavior. They plan to join the military to support themselves while continuing their education and to escape their family's control.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nThe author wants to end their relationship with their family because of their controlling and disrespectful behavior, and is considering joining the military to gain financial independence and escape their influence.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nThe author, a 20-year-old studying to be a teacher, is contemplating severing all ties with their family due to their religious beliefs, lack of respect, and controlling behavior. They plan to join the military to achieve financial independence and escape their family's control while continuing their education.", "role": "assistant"}]
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Me [34 F] with my _boyfriend__ [30M/] 1 year, I have just found out he has been cheating for 6 MONTHS!!!!
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6months...6 months!!!!! I've never felt so betrayed. I'm everything you would expect heartbroken, angry. I haven't stopped crying since I've found out I'm pretty sure he's in love with her, and he never was with me.
I don't know how to pick myself up, and I desperately need advice on how to cope. I'm afraid I'm not going to recover from this. My previous breakup nearly killed me off, and this well... It makes the other one seem like a cake walk.
Before you ask I didn't do anything wrong, he just met someone, started a relationship with her (we are not living together) and decided not to mention it, whilst treating me horribly, making me think all that time that him being awful to me was my fault.
I feel so incredibly alone. I don't have anyone to talk to.
I know this is probably too generic a question, but is there any advice out there from someone who has been through something similar. or someone who hasn't frankly, I'm open to any suggestion that doesn't involve me walking off a cliff. Help.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
A woman is reeling from the discovery that her boyfriend of one year has been cheating on her for six months, causing her to feel betrayed, heartbroken and angry. She is seeking advice on how to recover from this devastating experience.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
A woman discovers her boyfriend of one year has been cheating on her for six months, leaving her heartbroken, angry and devastated.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
A woman is in turmoil after finding out that her boyfriend of one year has been cheating on her for six months, leaving her feeling alone, heartbroken, and in need of guidance on how to heal from the emotional trauma.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
A woman, whose boyfriend of one year has been cheating on her for six months, is struggling to cope with the emotional pain and feels alone without anyone to talk to.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
A woman is grappling with the revelation that her boyfriend of one year has been cheating on her for six months, causing her to feel devastated, betrayed and angry. She is desperately seeking advice and support to help her recover from this painful situation and move forward.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: Me [34 F] with my _boyfriend__ [30M/] 1 year, I have just found out he has been cheating for 6 MONTHS!!!!\nPOST: 6months...6 months!!!!! I've never felt so betrayed. I'm everything you would expect heartbroken, angry. I haven't stopped crying since I've found out I'm pretty sure he's in love with her, and he never was with me. \nI don't know how to pick myself up, and I desperately need advice on how to cope. I'm afraid I'm not going to recover from this. My previous breakup nearly killed me off, and this well... It makes the other one seem like a cake walk.\n\nBefore you ask I didn't do anything wrong, he just met someone, started a relationship with her (we are not living together) and decided not to mention it, whilst treating me horribly, making me think all that time that him being awful to me was my fault.\n\nI feel so incredibly alone. I don't have anyone to talk to.\n\nI know this is probably too generic a question, but is there any advice out there from someone who has been through something similar. or someone who hasn't frankly, I'm open to any suggestion that doesn't involve me walking off a cliff. Help.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nA woman is reeling from the discovery that her boyfriend of one year has been cheating on her for six months, causing her to feel betrayed, heartbroken and angry. She is seeking advice on how to recover from this devastating experience.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nA woman discovers her boyfriend of one year has been cheating on her for six months, leaving her heartbroken, angry and devastated.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nA woman is in turmoil after finding out that her boyfriend of one year has been cheating on her for six months, leaving her feeling alone, heartbroken, and in need of guidance on how to heal from the emotional trauma.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nA woman, whose boyfriend of one year has been cheating on her for six months, is struggling to cope with the emotional pain and feels alone without anyone to talk to.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA woman is grappling with the revelation that her boyfriend of one year has been cheating on her for six months, causing her to feel devastated, betrayed and angry. She is desperately seeking advice and support to help her recover from this painful situation and move forward.", "role": "assistant"}]
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TIFU by blowing my nose in the shower
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Well reddit, I fucked up hard. I woke up this morning with a nasty cold, and I hopped in the shower before getting ready for school. I thought to myself, "Why don't I just blow my nose in the shower, I mean, it's all just going to go down the drain anyway?"
So I let it rip. Huge chunks of mucus came flying out my nose and onto the bottom of the tub. They were actually so big that I had to intentionally get water to flow onto them to make them move. I got out of the shower, feeling MUCH better with myself, and put my clothes on. As I was downstairs getting the last of my stuff together, I could hear my roommate getting up and walking into the bathroom. I was then serenaded by the lovely sounds of her screaming, "Oh my f***** god!" I half-jogged upstairs and saw her standing in the bathroom looking down into the tub. She told me, verbatim, "Shadowheart321, I know guys have needs, but can you **PLEASE** keep it out of the shower and keep it in your room?"
I realized when I looked into the tub that we had just gotten a new drain catch and all of my nasty phlegm was stuck in it. I quickly caught on and started telling her that it wasn't what she thought and I was just really sick and I just had to blow my nose and it's not that, etc. She was listening to none of it and was still just staring into the tub with an appalled face on. As I bantered, my other roommate walked into the room to see what the fuss was about, and before I could even try to explain what happened, he looked into the tub and started absolutely hollering. In a last ditch effort to prove to them that it wasn't *that*, I leaned over, stuck my hand into the drain catch and scooped up some of my nasal droppings and told them to take a deep wiff of it. Then both turned out of the bathroom looking queasy as I stood there with a handful of mucus sitting in my palm. I will forever be known as the guy who picked up his own load from the bottom of the shower and told them to smell.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
A reddit user got caught by his roommates after attempting to clean up his nasal mucus in the shower, resulting in an embarrassing and memorable incident.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
A college student's morning routine included blowing his nose in the shower, resulting in a disgusted roommate.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
A guy blew his nose in the shower and got caught by his roommates.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
A sick guy blew his nose in the shower and clogged the drain catch, causing a mess for his roommates.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
A guy with a cold blew his nose in the shower, causing a fuss with his roommates and a lasting reputation as the "mucus guy".
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: TIFU by blowing my nose in the shower\nPOST: Well reddit, I fucked up hard. I woke up this morning with a nasty cold, and I hopped in the shower before getting ready for school. I thought to myself, \"Why don't I just blow my nose in the shower, I mean, it's all just going to go down the drain anyway?\" \n\nSo I let it rip. Huge chunks of mucus came flying out my nose and onto the bottom of the tub. They were actually so big that I had to intentionally get water to flow onto them to make them move. I got out of the shower, feeling MUCH better with myself, and put my clothes on. As I was downstairs getting the last of my stuff together, I could hear my roommate getting up and walking into the bathroom. I was then serenaded by the lovely sounds of her screaming, \"Oh my f***** god!\" I half-jogged upstairs and saw her standing in the bathroom looking down into the tub. She told me, verbatim, \"Shadowheart321, I know guys have needs, but can you **PLEASE** keep it out of the shower and keep it in your room?\"\n\nI realized when I looked into the tub that we had just gotten a new drain catch and all of my nasty phlegm was stuck in it. I quickly caught on and started telling her that it wasn't what she thought and I was just really sick and I just had to blow my nose and it's not that, etc. She was listening to none of it and was still just staring into the tub with an appalled face on. As I bantered, my other roommate walked into the room to see what the fuss was about, and before I could even try to explain what happened, he looked into the tub and started absolutely hollering. In a last ditch effort to prove to them that it wasn't *that*, I leaned over, stuck my hand into the drain catch and scooped up some of my nasal droppings and told them to take a deep wiff of it. Then both turned out of the bathroom looking queasy as I stood there with a handful of mucus sitting in my palm. I will forever be known as the guy who picked up his own load from the bottom of the shower and told them to smell.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nA reddit user got caught by his roommates after attempting to clean up his nasal mucus in the shower, resulting in an embarrassing and memorable incident.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nA college student's morning routine included blowing his nose in the shower, resulting in a disgusted roommate.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nA guy blew his nose in the shower and got caught by his roommates.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nA sick guy blew his nose in the shower and clogged the drain catch, causing a mess for his roommates.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA guy with a cold blew his nose in the shower, causing a fuss with his roommates and a lasting reputation as the \"mucus guy\".", "role": "assistant"}]
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Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 4 months, starting to think I'm just another number
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Hey Reddit,
I've been dating this girl for 4 months now, and long story short it's been great. I shouldn't complain, but yet I keep feeling as if I'm just another number.
Let me elaborate. I'm a virgin and haven't been in many relationships (2) before this. On the other hand, she's been with a few guys and isn't a virgin. (She had some self esteem issues, which may be why she wanted to have sex soon.)
So now we're getting to the point where we're thinking about having sex. As much as I'd like to, I feel like I'd be just another number. Like it would just be meaningless.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
A 17-year-old male, who's been in two relationships before, worries that having sex with his 18-year-old girlfriend, who has had more partners, will make him feel like just another number.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
A 17-year-old male, in a 4-month relationship with an 18-year-old female, who's concerned that he'll lose his virginity and feel like just another number.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
Doubting if having sex with his girlfriend would mean anything, a 17-year-old male, who's never been in a relationship before, fears that he'll be just another number.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
Young virgin, dating a girl with relationship experience, worried about being just another number when considering having sex with her.
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A 17-year-old male, who's dating an 18-year-old female for four months, fears that having sex with her, due to her past sexual experiences, will make him feel like just another number and meaningless.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 4 months, starting to think I'm just another number\nPOST: Hey Reddit,\n\nI've been dating this girl for 4 months now, and long story short it's been great. I shouldn't complain, but yet I keep feeling as if I'm just another number. \n\nLet me elaborate. I'm a virgin and haven't been in many relationships (2) before this. On the other hand, she's been with a few guys and isn't a virgin. (She had some self esteem issues, which may be why she wanted to have sex soon.) \n\nSo now we're getting to the point where we're thinking about having sex. As much as I'd like to, I feel like I'd be just another number. Like it would just be meaningless.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nA 17-year-old male, who's been in two relationships before, worries that having sex with his 18-year-old girlfriend, who has had more partners, will make him feel like just another number.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nA 17-year-old male, in a 4-month relationship with an 18-year-old female, who's concerned that he'll lose his virginity and feel like just another number.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nDoubting if having sex with his girlfriend would mean anything, a 17-year-old male, who's never been in a relationship before, fears that he'll be just another number.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nYoung virgin, dating a girl with relationship experience, worried about being just another number when considering having sex with her.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA 17-year-old male, who's dating an 18-year-old female for four months, fears that having sex with her, due to her past sexual experiences, will make him feel like just another number and meaningless.", "role": "assistant"}]
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TIFU by breaking a 3yo backyard jungle gym swing set
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Last night was one of my best friend's birthday parties. I'm in the backyard and a couple of my friends go out front to smoke and I stay behind with one other guy. After talking for a bit my eye catches a wooden jungle gym complete with 4 swings and a big slide in the side part of the backyard. I ask the guy I'm with if he wants to go over to see it and reminisce about our childhoods.
We head over there and I take a seat on one of the swings and he on the opposite one WITHOUT SWINGING, just sitting there. Also, we both way around 165 pounds each, which isn't really that heavy. I say to him "I used to have one just like this when I was a kid," and right after the support beam holding up the swings snaps in half and the swing set collapses.
Needless to say, I felt awful and my friend was pissed when he saw it but got over it quickly because he is nice like that. I still offered to help fix it or pay for a new one, but he told me not to worry about it. After telling his parents this morning, he texted me saying that they weren't at all mad and wanted to get rid of it for a while anyways, so I kind of did him a favor. But when his 3 yo brother saw it, he burst out crying and was extremely upset, understandably so.
I still feel bad about it even though his family is OK about it. I think his and his parents reactions were worse than mine, not caring about the 3 yo being heartbroken by this, but that may just be my subconscious trying to make me feel better. What do you think reddit?
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
A 165-pound man sits on a swing set, causing it to collapse, leaving a 3-year-old crying.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
During a friend's birthday party, a man sits on a swing that was not designed for his weight, causing the support beam to snap and the swing set to collapse. The 3-year-old brother is heartbroken.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
A man and his friend reminisce about childhood on a jungle gym, but when the man sits on a swing, the support beam snaps and the swing set collapses. The 3-year-old brother of the host is devastated.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
During a friend's birthday party, a man and his friend sit on a jungle gym swing, breaking the support beam and causing the swing set to collapse. The 3-year-old brother is inconsolable.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
A man breaks a 3-year-old's favorite backyard jungle gym by sitting on a swing that was not designed to hold his weight. The 3-year-old brother is devastated.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: TIFU by breaking a 3yo backyard jungle gym swing set\nPOST: Last night was one of my best friend's birthday parties. I'm in the backyard and a couple of my friends go out front to smoke and I stay behind with one other guy. After talking for a bit my eye catches a wooden jungle gym complete with 4 swings and a big slide in the side part of the backyard. I ask the guy I'm with if he wants to go over to see it and reminisce about our childhoods. \n\nWe head over there and I take a seat on one of the swings and he on the opposite one WITHOUT SWINGING, just sitting there. Also, we both way around 165 pounds each, which isn't really that heavy. I say to him \"I used to have one just like this when I was a kid,\" and right after the support beam holding up the swings snaps in half and the swing set collapses.\n\nNeedless to say, I felt awful and my friend was pissed when he saw it but got over it quickly because he is nice like that. I still offered to help fix it or pay for a new one, but he told me not to worry about it. After telling his parents this morning, he texted me saying that they weren't at all mad and wanted to get rid of it for a while anyways, so I kind of did him a favor. But when his 3 yo brother saw it, he burst out crying and was extremely upset, understandably so. \n\nI still feel bad about it even though his family is OK about it. I think his and his parents reactions were worse than mine, not caring about the 3 yo being heartbroken by this, but that may just be my subconscious trying to make me feel better. What do you think reddit?\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nA 165-pound man sits on a swing set, causing it to collapse, leaving a 3-year-old crying.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nDuring a friend's birthday party, a man sits on a swing that was not designed for his weight, causing the support beam to snap and the swing set to collapse. The 3-year-old brother is heartbroken.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nA man and his friend reminisce about childhood on a jungle gym, but when the man sits on a swing, the support beam snaps and the swing set collapses. The 3-year-old brother of the host is devastated.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nDuring a friend's birthday party, a man and his friend sit on a jungle gym swing, breaking the support beam and causing the swing set to collapse. The 3-year-old brother is inconsolable.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nA man breaks a 3-year-old's favorite backyard jungle gym by sitting on a swing that was not designed to hold his weight. The 3-year-old brother is devastated.", "role": "assistant"}]
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Should subreddits with niche appeal be allowed to become default subreddits?
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For the uninitiated: Default subreddits are subreddits with a certain number of subscribers which makes them visible to people who aren't signed into reddit or haven't added or removed any subreddits.
I'm finding some of the default subreddits (i.e. atheism and politics) tend to be very off putting, it's not even about the principle of what is being argued or discussed but the way in which it is and the communities comments behind them.
Basically they're offputting and can scare away people who don't agree with these set of narrow principles these sorts of subreddits offer. So if you're religious you might be put off, if you're a Republican or conservative in general you might be put off, so on and so forth.
Subreddits which are more neutral and encourage intelligent discussion tend to be far more welcoming to all, subreddits such as videos or funny's are neutral anyway and would probably be a good 'hook' for new users.
I hesitate to recommend reddit to friends because they might see some of the incredibly narrow and arrogant opinions expressed in certain default subreddits and just associate that with me, which is not something I want.
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
The narrow-mindedness of some default subreddits, such as atheism and politics, can discourage new users from engaging with Reddit.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
Some default subreddits, like atheism and politics, can be intimidating to new users who disagree with the communities' narrow principles.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
Reddit's default subreddits with niche appeal may repel new users due to their narrow, off-putting content and community.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
The limited perspectives and arrogant attitudes expressed in some default subreddits can create a negative first impression for new users, potentially turning them away from Reddit altogether.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
The exclusionary tone of certain default subreddits may deter potential users from joining Reddit altogether, particularly those who don't align with their narrow ideologies.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: Should subreddits with niche appeal be allowed to become default subreddits?\nPOST: For the uninitiated: Default subreddits are subreddits with a certain number of subscribers which makes them visible to people who aren't signed into reddit or haven't added or removed any subreddits.\n\nI'm finding some of the default subreddits (i.e. atheism and politics) tend to be very off putting, it's not even about the principle of what is being argued or discussed but the way in which it is and the communities comments behind them.\n\nBasically they're offputting and can scare away people who don't agree with these set of narrow principles these sorts of subreddits offer. So if you're religious you might be put off, if you're a Republican or conservative in general you might be put off, so on and so forth.\n\nSubreddits which are more neutral and encourage intelligent discussion tend to be far more welcoming to all, subreddits such as videos or funny's are neutral anyway and would probably be a good 'hook' for new users.\n\nI hesitate to recommend reddit to friends because they might see some of the incredibly narrow and arrogant opinions expressed in certain default subreddits and just associate that with me, which is not something I want.\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nThe narrow-mindedness of some default subreddits, such as atheism and politics, can discourage new users from engaging with Reddit.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nSome default subreddits, like atheism and politics, can be intimidating to new users who disagree with the communities' narrow principles.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nReddit's default subreddits with niche appeal may repel new users due to their narrow, off-putting content and community.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nThe limited perspectives and arrogant attitudes expressed in some default subreddits can create a negative first impression for new users, potentially turning them away from Reddit altogether.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nThe exclusionary tone of certain default subreddits may deter potential users from joining Reddit altogether, particularly those who don't align with their narrow ideologies.", "role": "assistant"}]
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My boyfriend [35/M] of almost 4 years consistently blows off affection from me [28/F].
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We have been together for almost 4 years and a lot of the time I feel like we are just good friends who have sex. Any type of affection I give him is usually discounted as "needy" or "clingy" and not as "I love you".
For example, we work together and he was leaving early for a doc appt so I decided to walk out to the parking lot with him. He kept saying, "It's ok" and "I'm fine you don't have to worry", when all I was doing was just walking him out because I felt like it.
Another example was we hadn't really spent much time together in the past few weeks and so when we finally were able to hang out together I told him that I missed him. He looked at me weird and said, "But I see you all the time....", totally blowing off the fact that this was the first time we actually got to hang out in a while. Maybe he just didn't think about it, but it hurt because I felt like my feelings were petty and invalid.
These are just a few things that happened recently, but this is an ongoing issue with our relationship and I feel so unloved because I don't feel like my feelings are be reciprocated by him. Like my feelings are annoying to him and bother him. I don't want to break up, but I hate always wondering if he doesn't reciprocate my affection because he doesn't love me. He has mentioned that in previous relationships he was cuddly and affectionate, but his ex girlfriends were cold and distant (according to him).
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SCORE 1 SUMMARY:
A couple has been together for 4 years and the woman feels unloved because her boyfriend consistently ignores her affectionate gestures, labeling them as needy or clingy. He blows off her feelings and doesn't reciprocate affection, leaving her feeling unloved.
SCORE 2 SUMMARY:
The woman in a 4-year relationship feels unappreciated and unloved by her boyfriend who dismisses her affectionate gestures, viewing them as needy and clingy. He doesn't show her the love and affection she craves, leaving her feeling unfulfilled and unimportant.
SCORE 3 SUMMARY:
The woman in a 4-year relationship feels unloved and unfulfilled due to her boyfriend's dismissal of her affectionate gestures. He consistently labels her as needy and clingy, leading to a lack of emotional connection and intimacy in the relationship.
SCORE 4 SUMMARY:
The woman in a 4-year relationship feels unloved by her boyfriend who consistently discounts her affectionate gestures and doesn't reciprocate her feelings. This has led to feelings of insecurity and a lack of fulfillment in the relationship.
SCORE 5 SUMMARY:
The woman in a 4-year relationship feels neglected and unloved by her boyfriend who consistently ignores her affectionate gestures, viewing them as needy and clingy. This has led to feelings of insecurity, a lack of fulfillment, and emotional distance in the relationship. Despite her efforts to show her love, her boyfriend's lack of reciprocation has left her feeling unimportant and unappreciated.
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[{"content": "A good summary is a shorter piece of text that captures the essence of the original. It aims to accomplish the same purpose and convey the same key information as the original post. Your job is to generate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5.\nTITLE: My boyfriend [35/M] of almost 4 years consistently blows off affection from me [28/F].\nPOST: We have been together for almost 4 years and a lot of the time I feel like we are just good friends who have sex. Any type of affection I give him is usually discounted as \"needy\" or \"clingy\" and not as \"I love you\". \n\nFor example, we work together and he was leaving early for a doc appt so I decided to walk out to the parking lot with him. He kept saying, \"It's ok\" and \"I'm fine you don't have to worry\", when all I was doing was just walking him out because I felt like it. \n\nAnother example was we hadn't really spent much time together in the past few weeks and so when we finally were able to hang out together I told him that I missed him. He looked at me weird and said, \"But I see you all the time....\", totally blowing off the fact that this was the first time we actually got to hang out in a while. Maybe he just didn't think about it, but it hurt because I felt like my feelings were petty and invalid. \n\nThese are just a few things that happened recently, but this is an ongoing issue with our relationship and I feel so unloved because I don't feel like my feelings are be reciprocated by him. Like my feelings are annoying to him and bother him. I don't want to break up, but I hate always wondering if he doesn't reciprocate my affection because he doesn't love me. He has mentioned that in previous relationships he was cuddly and affectionate, but his ex girlfriends were cold and distant (according to him).\nGenerate five summaries that would each get a score of 1,2,3,4 and 5. SCORE 1 SUMMARY:", "role": "user"}, {"content": "SCORE 1 SUMMARY:\nA couple has been together for 4 years and the woman feels unloved because her boyfriend consistently ignores her affectionate gestures, labeling them as needy or clingy. He blows off her feelings and doesn't reciprocate affection, leaving her feeling unloved.\n\nSCORE 2 SUMMARY:\nThe woman in a 4-year relationship feels unappreciated and unloved by her boyfriend who dismisses her affectionate gestures, viewing them as needy and clingy. He doesn't show her the love and affection she craves, leaving her feeling unfulfilled and unimportant.\n\nSCORE 3 SUMMARY:\nThe woman in a 4-year relationship feels unloved and unfulfilled due to her boyfriend's dismissal of her affectionate gestures. He consistently labels her as needy and clingy, leading to a lack of emotional connection and intimacy in the relationship.\n\nSCORE 4 SUMMARY:\nThe woman in a 4-year relationship feels unloved by her boyfriend who consistently discounts her affectionate gestures and doesn't reciprocate her feelings. This has led to feelings of insecurity and a lack of fulfillment in the relationship.\n\nSCORE 5 SUMMARY:\nThe woman in a 4-year relationship feels neglected and unloved by her boyfriend who consistently ignores her affectionate gestures, viewing them as needy and clingy. This has led to feelings of insecurity, a lack of fulfillment, and emotional distance in the relationship. Despite her efforts to show her love, her boyfriend's lack of reciprocation has left her feeling unimportant and unappreciated.", "role": "assistant"}]
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