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"content": "I feel like emotional attachment is looking outside yourself to fulfill some need.\n\nI used to & still be dependent on other people for reassurance. I needed someone to tell me how good, smart, nice, kind, and wonderful I was. If I didn't receive compliments then I couldn't believe these things about myself. When you stop looking for validation outside yourself, you realize that the only validation you need is internally.\n\nPeople say we need each other, but you really don't. You don't need that girl to feel safe, comfortable and great. It's up to you.\n\nI'm still trying to do my best with this bro. You're not alone.",
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"content": "Sometimes it's about the actions that really make the most sense. If you want to be nice and kind, practice it. If you want to be smart, study. A lot of these things are under our control and we can shape the person we want to become. Cheers",
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"content": "*When you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags.*",
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"content": "Bojack reference hits hard.",
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"content": "You need to do whatever makes you happy as long as you're not hurting anyone. Also, marami narin akong kilala na open in admitting na they don't want children. Some of them are in a relationship with SOs who don't want children as well, so it's very possible to find someone with the same belief as you.\n\nHere's a funny take of [Ricky Gervais](https://youtu.be/6oyJHZOSHw0?t=76) on why he doesn't want kids. It's so funny and partly true.",
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"content": ">Here's a funny take of Ricky Gervais on why he doesn't want kids. It's so funny and partly true.\n\nThanks for sharing this! So funny hahahaha",
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"content": "It's valid to not want to have kids. Ang hirap na kaya ng buhay ngayon tapos magulo pa mundo. I hope if/when you do find a partner that s/he has the same view or respects your decision.",
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"content": "My gf is considering this. I'll support whatever her decision is.",
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"content": "May article akong nabasa dati na about a study that says na nagiging malungkot yung mga tao kapag nagka anak na sila.\n\nTold it to my coworker, then he quoted the Bible. Humayo kayo at magpakarami.",
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"content": "Hahahaha!",
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"content": "Dude same. Kids are cute for a moment but theyre messy and noisy and expensive. The responsibility is just.. eh.",
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"content": "Yes, Expensive! haha",
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"content": "Expensive money-wise, energy-wise and time-wise lol",
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"content": "To each his own naman. Your decision is very valid. There is so much more to life than marriage and having kids. Hindi lang naman child-bearing ang purpose ng babae sa mundo.\n\nIf ever you decide to find a partner, make it clear sa kanya na you are childfree by choice. Make it your non-negotiable in a relationship. There are also guys na childfree pero hindi pa sila gaanong lantad.\n\nCheck out this sub OP: r/childfree",
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"content": "Thanks!",
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"content": "\"Sino mag aalaga sayo pag tanda mo?\" \n\nEto yung pinaka nakaka irrita sa opinion ko. So guaranteed ba pag nagka anak sya, given na yung anak na yun ay dapat mag alaga sayo?\n\nDyan na madalas pumapasok yung abuse/entitlement of some people who become parents na sinasabi: \"Ako ang ng palaki sayo, lahat ng meron ka, dahil sa akin -- so dapat sa pag tanda ko, ikaw ang mag alaga sa akin, etc.\" \n\nThey use their children as an \"investment tool\" and expect their children to support them as they age while they have no savings/low paying jobs and masaklap pa, they birth more and more children they can't support.\n\nSo what happens is the classic Filipino story na 1 poor, handworking son/daughter working like a horse on behalf of his/her parents and 2 or 3 siblings. \n\nIt's the same old story you hear from OFWs, domestic helpers in HK, seamen, and the poor to lower middle class families in our country.",
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"content": "seriously though, sino mag aalaga sayo pag tanda mo kng wla ka anak?",
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"content": "Mag-iipon para pambayad sa home for the ageds??? Idk",
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"content": "Everyone's skills and achievements are based on context. I have a group of friends who are all scholars and honor students and I was the RK of the school. I was the dumbass in the group who's not an engineer and didn't get in sa UPD. One of them once told me \"Alam mo pre, ikaw pinakabobo sa group natin eh. Pero ikaw may pinakamaraming achievements kasi naiintindihan mo ng mabuti lahat ng alam mo.\"\n\n\"Di ko malilimutan na puno ng libro bahay nyo habang lumalaki tayo. Mula sa Dinosaur, World Atlas, Nat Geo, Forbes Magazine. Lahat ng klase meron. Kami libro lang ng school kaya akala namin basta mataas grades, magaling na kami.\"\n\nThat's just one of the many things he cited. I am not saying I'm better than him. I'm just ahead in terms of economic standing because of my life's context and privilege.\n\nCase in point, there are hundreds of variables to consider why things are easy for you while it's hard for the others.\n\nThose people with that mindset are not self-aware why it's easy for them to start with.",
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"content": "Yeah. We all have different strengths and weaknesses naman.",
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"content": "When you're thinking about that person constantly even in the most inopportune moments, I think that's when you're starting to be infatuated or in-love. It's hard to tell the difference. \n\nI think people confuse love with the idea of being with someone, anyone that fits your criteria of a perfect partner. I think real love is the kind that sneaks up on you like you never even planned on finding it. The one that just happens all of a sudden. You can't even explain why for some reason, this other person makes you feel some type of way.\n\nThen it becomes an itch you want to scratch. You need to connect with this person deeply. You find yourself doing things that you wouldn't normally do even with your closest friends just to be next to this person. This is the part is where you also wonder if he/she feels the same way you do. \n\nIf he/she does, then you might be onto something else entirely because being in love with a person is one thing but knowing that same person feels the same is a different kind of bliss.",
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"content": "\"I think real love is the kind that sneaks up on you like you never even planned on finding it. The one that just happens all of a sudden. You can't even explain why for some reason, this other person makes you feel some type of way.\"\n\n\n\n\n-Damn.........I don't want to have feelings for someone but this perfectly describe what I'm feeling at the moment.",
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"content": "At first yung love yung hindi mo sya maalis sa isip mo. Yung napapangiti ka parang tanga maalala mo pa lang sya. Yung feeling mo kailangan lagi mo sya nakikita at nakakasama, feeling mo mamamatay ka na pag di mo sya nakita ng matagal.\n\n\n\nPero na realize ko infatuation lang yan. Kasi after some time nawawala na yung kilig. Masasanay ka na sa kanya. Di mo na din lagi hinahanap hanap. Daming couple hanggang dito lang umaabot. Hanggang sa may dadating na bagong tao. Mas nakaka excite. Nabubuhay yung kilig. Mas hahanapin. Lilipat don. Mauumay. And then eventually it becomes a cycle.\n\n\nSwerte ng mga couple na nalalagpasan yung infatuation stage. Para sakin ang love ay mas malalim pa sa nararamdaman. Kapag mahal ko yung tao, ibubuhos ko lahat ng kaya ko para masigurado kong nasa tama sya. Na mabuti yung kalalagyan nya. Yung commitment ko sa kanya hindi lang yung makasama sya pero yung gagawin ko lahat para sa ikakabuti ng buhay nya. Walang hinihintay na kapalit. Napupuno ako ng saya kapag yung direksyon ng buhay namin pareho kaming mas nagiimprove at umaayos. Nag go grow kami as individuals. Hindi na kami dependent sa isa't isa, but we both choose to grow together. At tutulungan namin ang isa't isa. Walang lamangan. Walang bilangan.\n\n\nLongest relationship? 5 years. Sinuportahan namin isa't isa. Eventually narealize namin na yung mga goals namin hindi magkatugma. Dumating sa point na ramdam namin na nagiging hindrance na kami sa personal growth. So we let each other go. Do we still talk now? Yes. I guess sign yon ng love ko sa kanya. I let him go. And even now after years from moving on, I would always root for him to be the best he can be.",
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"content": "This is so mature. Sayang, but hopefully, you’ll find the one for you.",
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"content": "A man of substance, with a great sense of humor, andddd mabango hehe",
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"content": "As a guy I don't know pero hirap ako sa pagpapabango. Feeling ko ang bilis mag-worn out ng pabango sakin as in nawawala agad yung fragrance or di lang ako marunong gumamit? hahahahha kaya di ako nagamit talaga e.",
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"content": "Where do you spray it ba? Ang alam ko kasi sa pulse points talaga and not on your clothes. But it’s actually okay if you dont wear perfume basta dapat you dont smell bad hehe",
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"content": "I'm spraying it both on my clothes and pulse points and yet pansin ko bilis talaga mawala o baka low class perfume sya wow ha hahahhaa. Saka di naman ako maamoy. Aware ako kapag mabantot na ko hahahaha.",
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"content": "Or maybe the perfume doesnt really last that long. Actually kahit nga yung amoy irish spring okay na eh hahaha",
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"content": "Saka ewan ko di rin kasi ako magaling pumili ng pabango. Basta mabango na panlalaki okay na ko don hahaha lintek na buhay to.",
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"content": "* Attractive (to me). \n* Has his own life. May sariling set of friends, hobbies, etc. I want to be a part of his life, but I don't want his life to revolve around me.\n* Has his career/finances in order. \n* Someone I can count on to be a partner. Hindi ako alagain and ayaw ko din ng alagain, I want an equal partnership. \n* Someone genuinely kind. \n* Someone curious about the world and constantly trying to learn new things/improve himself. Ayaw ko ng masyadong complacent. \n\nAng haba pa ng listahan ko, but these are the top things I'm looking for.",
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"content": "I have a career pero negative sa finances haha. Sumpa ng health care workers 😂",
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"content": "Lol I know what you mean. Can relate slightly 😂.",
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"content": "Kahit mag ipon pako araw araw di talaga kasya haha 12k-15k per month na salary with o.t pa un for 16hrs mamamatay muna ata ko bago ko makatikim ng milyones.",
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"content": "Private? Why not apply sa government? Di hamak mas malaki ang pay and better benefits.",
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"content": "Public hospital 18k starting. Bago ka umabot sa 30k work ka muna ng 10 years kasi by level un ng seniority.",
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"content": "Hindi ba 20k na + hazard pay + allowances?",
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"content": "Nako sabi lang nila un no. Lalo na sa regional hospitals mas mababa pa. Tska bago mo makuha ung mga benefits dapat maging casual employee ka muna which would take you atleast a year to get minsan mas matagal pa, may kakilala ko na 2 years syang contractual sa public institution.",
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"content": "Not always the case : )",
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"content": "Lucky them then. But based on my experience public hospitals are much worse, lalo na sa scheduling forced 12hrs ka magwowork. Atleast sa private may choice ka kung kelan mo gusto mag duty ng o.t, and di bayad sa public hospital ang o.t. pag sobra oras mo t.y nalang un",
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"content": "Depends kung san ka and anong arrangement nyo. I work 12 hours as well, but I go to work like 3-4x per week lang. And OT while not paid, gets offset in the next week or month. Nobody can force you to work more than 40 hours a week if they're not gonna be paying you. Kailangan mo lang ng kapal ng muka para tumanggi.",
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"content": "What? Napaka bait naman nyang napasukan mo. On 15 days na pasok nga 2 days lang off ko puro 12 oras yon 😂. Pinaka worst un. Kaya may trauma nako na magwork ulit sa public institution feeling super naabuso ako. Wala nga kong nakuhang 13 month pay ☹",
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"content": "Hindi lang maganda talaga yung napasukan mo. Hindi lahat ng government hospitals ganon.",
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"content": "Mukhang ganun na nga haha. Anyways ayoko na magrant dito. Ayoko na alalahanin ung traumatic experience na yun haha 😂",
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"content": "billie eilish songs. wag kayo magalit saken please",
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"content": "Hahaha ocean eyes lang trip ko tapos ayon na bored na ako sa iba",
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"content": "Same. Di ko na magets bakit sikat yung ibang songs niya Hahaha.",
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"content": "For me, there are 3 things what they call \"Love\". \n\nUna yung \"Love\" na you feel like when you got your brand new cellphone or any other things na you really like, the excitement and the happiness you get from it from the start but eventually it will pass as days, months or years goes by. People in this situation will feel na hindi ko na sya mahal kasi wala na yung feeling of excitement and happiness. Lalo na if may bago naman nagpapasaya sa kanya like may bagong labas na cellphone na mas high tech sa cellphone nya maski ilang months palang.\n\nPangalawa, yung \"Love\" dahil may reason. Mahal ko sya kasi mabait sya, maaalahanin, mapagbigay, nagpapatawa sa akin, may direction sa buhay, may pera, magalang, sexy, gwapo ,maganda etc. You get what I mean, yung traits na gusto mo nasa kanya. Pero may mga traits na nagbabago o nawawala and once nawala na yun eh nagiiba na paningin mo sa kanya na parang di mo na sya kilala. Yung mga nakanood ng Money Heist part 4, nung si Monica ay naguguluhan na dahil parang di na nya kilala si Denver dahil sa anger na pinakita nya kay Arturo. Hindi na raw sya yung lalaking minahal nya. That happens alot sa mundo natin. \n\nPangatlo is yung tinatawag kong Unconditional Love. Yung love ng isang magulang sa kanilang anak maski ang anak nila ay may masamang ugali, walang respeto, may bisyo etc. Eto yung love na minahal mo sya dahil sa mga traits nya at mga flaws nya ay accept mo pa rin. Didto ko na catergorize yung pagiging tanga sa pagibig. Minahal mo ang tao ng buong buo, alam mo ang kalakasan at kahinaan nya pero tinanggap mo pa rin yun. Mahirap gawin eto at if makakita ka sa taong kayang magbigay neto ay maswerte ka ng tao lalo na if para sayo ang pagmamahal na yun.\n\nThose are my thoughts about Pag-ibig. :-)",
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"content": "Sana lahat ng tao kaya magbigay nung pangatlo. Siguro kung mangyari man yon, wala ng nasasaktan. Wala na din dahilan para gumawa pa ng mali kasi sapat na sya para sayo. Pero ayun nga, wala naman perpektong tao kahit sa relasyon wala din perpekto. Sana lahat may malawak na pangunawa.",
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"content": "Lahat naman ng tao kaya magbigay kaso ang tanong eh willing ba sila ibigay yun? Naiintindihan ba nila na ganyan ang totoong pagmamahal?",
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"content": "Shet natumbok mo bro. \"Naiintindihan ba nila nabganyan ang totoong pagmamahal?\"",
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"content": "Mahirap ba intindihan yon? Hirap kasi sa kanila puro laro lang ang alam",
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"content": "Based sa experience ko, medyo mahirap until matauhan ka. Kahit may understanding ako sa ganyang bagay, meron pa rin di clear doon so once makilala mo na yung taong kayang ibigay sayo yun.. wag mo ng pakawalan. haha\n\nUsually, malalaman natin yan if nasa paghihirap ka emotionally, spiritually, lahat ng ly ilagay mo na haha.",
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"content": "Ibig mo ba sabihin, nung matauhan ka sa mga naging past experiences mo? Kaya hindi kumbaga ganon kadali ibigay para sa taong yon",
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"content": "What I'm saying is nung time na yun, di pa ako ganito mag isip so I can be part of the people na ganun ang tingin sa love, the 1 and 2.\n\nIt's part of our human behavior. Kaya for me ang love is a decision and not a feeling. Mind over heart sya dapat.",
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"content": "You know, it's not always a big deal when exes choose to remain friends. The issue here is you've already told her that it bothers you and she doesn't seem to care. She is basically choosing her friendship with her ex over your feelings, and making sure you feel secure in your relationship. It doesn't seem like you're a priority. Is this a relationship you want to stay in?",
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"content": "Yeah. Kung nagseset ka na ng boundaries at walang pakialam si gf, that's basically disrespect.",
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"content": "i definitely agree with them. i've seen this behavior with my ex, compromise should happen. maybe she hasnt fully let go yet, which sucks but should also be addressed.",
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"content": "Exactly! Same thoughts. Nasabi mo naman na, aware na sa feelings mo pero walang nagbago. \nIt smells something though, and it’s F I S HY! ✌️",
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"content": "I can't imagine being a mother. I have several reasons for that. One, I do not want to bear a child because raising them is so damn expensive. Two, I can't imagine working full-time and coming home to take care of kids. It's exhausting. I want to relax and not think of anything at the end of the day. Three, the world is really overpopulated already and I want to do my part in taking care of the environment by not having a kid. Four, I do not see a wonderful world for them. These are just my personal reasons.",
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"content": "Same thoughts. I see them as a burden, a limiter of what I can do. Just broke up with someone because of this issue. It's hard but it won't go well if we continue.",
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"content": "I am a teacher in my early 30s. I see things differently now compared a decade ago. In my 20s, I was mostly broke and only thought of what I wanted to do in life. \n\nJust like you, I also didn’t want to have a family because... 1. I am gay 2. Kids are disgusting lol and taking care of them is a lot of responsibility.\n\nThings changed when I hit my 30s though, my friends started to settle down and have a family of their own. I started to get more sources of income too. And then it all felt lonely. I realized that even though I am gay, I also want to raise a child of my own. \n\nSometimes, when I see my kids’ parents, I always wonder what kind of parent I would be. All these years, I have consciously put effort in my growth as a person, I’ve learned a lot of things by living abroad and traveling. It would be nice to raise and inspire a child to do good things and live a full life by learning from my experiences.\n\nFortunately, my job as a teacher enables me to teach and share the little things I know about life in the simplest way. It makes me really happy to stand in front of 30 kids, keep them quiet and make them listen to me for the entire 45 minutes. Not all parents could do that. Lol 😂",
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"content": "“It would be nice to raise and inspire a child to do good things”\n\nThis. Thanks OP.",
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"content": "Leaving you without an explanation or seenzone is already an answer how he/she values you. No need to overthink just move on and live life. 🙂",
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"content": "Haha yann thank u sa straighforward answer! 🙂 Siguro the mind game lang is killing me, yung isip ka lang ng isip ano mali but I'll move forward if that's the only option. Salamat!!",
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"content": "I had this. With my bestfriend. Lalake kami pareho. Nasa barracks kami, kuwentuhan lang kami ng buhay namin, mga naging kaibigan nya dati, mga frustration ko kay erpat. Yung mga plano namin sa buhay pagkagraduate, at kung anung mangyayari samin pag nagkahiwalay na kami ng serbisyo. Magmula alas diyes hangang alas singko ng umaga. Walang beer. Yosi lang. Yosi at mga pangarap. Labingisang taon ko syang kaibigan. \n\nHindi ko na sya nakakausap. Naengkwentro ng NPA, nagpakabayani, napatay. Binibisita ko pa rin yung puntod nya sa libingan ng mga bayani. Nagkukuwento pa rin ako sa kanya. Wala pa ring beer. Yosi lang. Yosi lang at kalungkutan.",
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"content": "This is sad to read. Sundalo po ba kayo sir?",
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"content": "Yes sir.",
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"content": "Defense mechanism. Takot ka masaktan pero ikaw naman talaga ang mismong nananakit sa sarili mo. Pag nahanap mo na yung someone, kusang babagsak yang walls mo. 😊",
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"content": "True. Hahaha\n\nAt some point in your life, you experienced rejection or abandonment. Now you have trust issues and you protect your self by distancing or pushing people away so you won't feel the hurt, sadness and/or anger you experienced before.",
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"content": "True",
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"content": "You respond by not responding at all.",
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"content": "Really? Hmmm. Magkukusa na lang siya?",
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"content": "What do you mean magkukusa? Dun sa bullying comments, wag mo pansinin. If ang intention nila ay mang-inis or mang-offend, it will hurt them if you did not respond dahil di nila na-elicit from you yung gusto nilang reaction sayo.",
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"content": "Nice. Tama ka.",
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"content": "Despite of what's happening in 2020, I'll choose it.\n\n1. Got to know my calling / direction.\n2. Able to define concrete plans in life.\n3. Got a Senior Role 😊",
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"content": "That is cool indeed. What is your new found calling?",
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"content": "To continue tech field rather than pursuing flying. 😊",
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"content": "Sa setup niyong yan wala kang karapatan mag overthink and malaman kung anong nararamdaman niya ahhaha because remember it's just pure lust and nothing else??? AHAHHA. Wag mo haluan ng emotion kung di siya nalibugan edi okay mahalaga dun ikaw yung nalibugan. Naggagamitan lang naman kayo ng katawan eh kaya don't think much pure libog lang ang lahat.",
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"content": "Hard Truth",
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"content": "Yeah. Kaya lugi babae sa ganyang setup kasi mas madali silang maging emotionally attached unlike men sex sakanila is more on physical pleasure lang.",
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"content": "I'm an engineer, and I have the same feeling. Sobrang fucked up ng pilipinas mag handle ng professionals. Ayoko mag abroad sa totoo lang, pero wala talaga future kung magstay dito sa pinas.",
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"content": "Haaaay ito dilemma ko during ecq tama bang nagssearch na ko ng jobs abroad habang pinapasweldo ako ng company ko now haha nag gawa na ko pros and cons list. Mas ok talaga mag abroad. I even consider giving up engineering profession kung mas malaki talaga sa iba. :(",
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"content": "Some of my ece friends are now IT :(",
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"content": "IT is part of ECE.",
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"content": "I didn't know that, thanks btw!",
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"content": "Yeaaah nothing wrong with that! :)",
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"content": "I can almost hear Ross say “We were on a break!”\n\nKung nagbreak na kayo, that doesn’t count as cheating, imo. Baka inapply nya yung saying na *the best way yo get over a breakup is to get under someone*. Magkaiba lang siguro kayo ng way on how to move on.",
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"content": "Yep my thoughts immediately went to Ross as well!",
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"content": "Andami red flags. Tama naman ivoice out ang concerns sa proper channels. Pero something is really fishy. Unfair and unfavorable yan.",
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"content": "We voiced it out nga sa boss namin who escalated it to HR. Pero we were met with the same response, “tulong na lang sa company.” \n\nWorse, iniwan kami kahapon ng HR sa ere. Kami na lang daw kumausap sa President namin. Hahahaha. Nakakagigil. Binawi naman niya a few hours later. Siya na lang daw kakausap pero we are at risk daw of endangering our department as “pasaway” at “reklamador.”\n\nMakes my blood boil lang kasi we are just asking for proper compensation. Pinagpuyatan namin yun.",
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"content": "Hehe im sure DOLE can help assess sino ang pasaway sa scenario na to. I hope documented via email or recorded yung call nyo para may evidence during review. Good luck! :)",
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"content": "Same. Kahit nade-drain energy ko kapag with my friends, I miss hanging out with them. AND DAGAT. Gusto ko na magdagat. lol",
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"content": "Weird ba pag gusto ko ng dagat pero ayaw ko ng beach, like buhangin and shit",
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"content": "Hindi naman. Gusto mo ‘yung ma-bato?",
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"content": "Oo para may pasa pasa pagkatapos maligo aa dagat",
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"content": "lol masochist.",
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"content": "I dont seek social engagements. Pero i love to wander around the city. lakad, libot ng mag isa.",
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"content": "This. Kahit nga yung paglilibot lang sa mall nageenjoy ako.\n\nPero pag may saleslady nang kakausap sakin wala na akong naririnig. LOL",
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"content": "Ano pong hanap nila? May mga sizes pa po kami, mamser",
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"content": "Lalo na sa section ng mga medyas kahit napadaan ka lang 🙉",
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"content": "May kausap ako ngayon and I told him that we've been talking for a month now. He just dodged the topic.\n\nHe used to include me sa mga plans after ecq but my skeptical ass knows it would never happen because this is just a lockdown affair.",
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"content": "I live for the term lockdown affair.",
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"content": "People call it quaran-fling but lockdown affair sounds something of culture kasi for me HAHAHA",
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"content": "May sinabihan ako na \"Right now, I need a friend more than I need landi\"\n\nAba, blocked agad ako.",
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"content": "Legit?",
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"content": "Yes legit. Landi lang hanap nya e. Unfortunately for her, I needed realtalk more that day.",
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"content": "What a slob!!! Good thing you lived together before getting married.",
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"content": "Sure, and I really dont feel good about it.",
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"content": "I'm sorry about your living situation. From what you've shared, your live in partner doesn't seem ready to be in a relationship. He's being lazy and childish. \n\nThe silver lining is, he is showing you his true self. Now it's up to you whether you can live with that. If you still want to stay with him, you need to sit him down and seriously talk about boundaries and respect. He needs to understand that not doing his part is hurting you.\n\nIf not, I think it's best you leave. It seems you are very stressed out and staying won't do you any good. This pandemic isn't dying down anytime soon. Best make your way home and be with people who love you and will take care of you. Good luck and stay safe!",
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"content": "Thank you, that last part hit me. I know he loves me but I dont think I am being taken care of. Sure he pays for the rent and other stuff but I also do that for my own apartment that I am keeping. So if I am so willed, I could just leave and live alone again.\n\nI'd usually start any discussion with a raised tone. Until I read on Medium about respect towards your partners. So I tried for a bit but he's really been testing me these days. My patience is wearing thin.",
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"content": "No. Be who you are bihira nalang lalaking katulad mo hindi ka malas maswerte ka kasi di ka nakasal sa manloloko.",
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"content": "Thank you po and stay safe din!",
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"content": "Probably spice up the relationship once in a while. Lack of excitement sa relationship sometimes may lead into this. Im not justifying what they did because overall mali pa dun ung ginawa nila. I am just stating a possibility why it happened. You may want to look into this matter. Hopefully you maybe able to find someone who will truly love and stick with you. Stay safe.",
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"content": "That's what i thought din, kaya back then i would do something spontaneous and give more attention talaga. Stay safe. Thank youu",
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"content": "Wala akong TOTGA. I always give it my all when I’m in a relationship. If it doesn’t work out, it doesn’t. Do I have regrets? Of course, I do. But I can dwell on it and still have a good sleep. I don’t make decisions on impulse. I think through my decisions over and over and over.",
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"content": "Same. Wala rin akong TOTGA because I know I did everything to love that person. Sadyang hindi lang siguro sya nagwork out and that's okay.",
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"content": "Same din. I always give my all to a person as much as I can and give them chances (though sometimes too many). Sayang yung di nagwork out but as far as regrets go I have very few (to none siguro) cause i make sure to give it as much as I can.",
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"content": "It did hurt but I don't have any regrets din. It's just how it is.",
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"content": "Bawal mo sagutin yun matanda kahit na mali siya kasi disrespectful pa din yun.",
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"content": "They cant stand being told what is better or even to clarify matters. They feel like dying when being corrected by people younger than them. Heckin'",
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"content": "Agree to all of it but one of the things i hate the most: being treated like an investment.\n“pinagaral kita” and all the sumbat ++",
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"content": "So whats your plan about that pala? I can relate everywhere.",
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"content": "I don't have an answer for you that applies to all. I just want to say don't do that downward pyramid thing. That hurts like hell.\n\nPersonally, I'd want to be told straight up no. No insults or add-on comments unless asked of. Just a no. The earlier, the better.",
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"content": "I’ll keep that in mind. I did that a long time ago ehh. I thought at that time kasi it would be like the wiser thing to do and it wouldn’t hurt her that much. I really felt bad for it tho.",
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"content": "Nope. Physical attraction is important to me. He doesn't even have to be conventionally attractive, he just has to be attractive to me.",
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"content": "How bout if the guy is funny? Smart? Or super nice? Sabihin na natin sa looks 5/10 ung guy?",
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"content": "Like I said, I need to find him attractive. It's very subjective. He could be 5/10 to others but he could be 9/10 for me. If I don't find him attractive at all, I don't think any amount of being nice or funny is going to change that.",
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"content": "Its all based on subjective opinion then. Some guys are not attractive at 1st but the more you look or get to know them they look better. Meron naman na unang tingin cute, pogi, gwapo pag tagal nakakasawa. Diba? Same applies to women. Pero siguro initial physical attraction is super important sau? Then in that case dapat dress to impress agad kahit 2/10 ung guy atleast presantable.",
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"content": "People do develop attraction over time to people they didn't find attractive at first. I see it happen all the time. It just doesn't happen for me.",
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"content": "If its ok give us idea of a guy who is baseline goodlooking for you? I mean ung 5/10 na guy for you na celeb?",
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"content": "nambubugbog yung guy... pero for some weird reason, nagsestay si girl. We suspected that the girl was enjoying the sexual intimacy because of all her hickies whenever hindi siya binubugbog. the girl is medyo psycho. Extreme bouts of jealousy. any girl she sees the guy is talking to, kahit group project groupmates, sinususpechahan and she gives them a talk to back off...\n\nBoth parties needed to mature mentally and socially and become model citizens.... \n\nSuffice to say, their relationship did not work out",
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"content": "Buti nalang di sila nagtagal para maruin nila yung isat isa",
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"content": "Ano meaning ng maruin?",
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"content": "Sorry kinda painfully conyo pag nasa Reddit ako huhu patawarin.\n\nMa-ruin as in masira. Huhu sorry bale sabi ko buti nalang di sila nagtagal to the point na masisira na nila yung isat isa",
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"content": " Thank you! Sinearch ko pa sa Google yung meaning ng maruin walag lumabas kasi 😆",
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"content": "Thank you kasi patient ka huhu sorry",
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"content": "This thing gets confusing nowadays especially since I think there is now more awareness on what constitutes consent... \n\nBut I fear there is still plenty of room for dialogue and building community consensus on the types of consent, particularly implied consent / non-verbal cues. \n\nFor example, IIRC there was a case where a woman regretted having a one-night-stand with a man and just decided to file it as a sexual assualt / rape. She lost the case because the alleged suspect successfully argued their case that there was implied consent:\n\n- CCTV footage in the bar showing both parties were drinking and having a good time. The accuser was kissing and touching the suspect throughout the night\n\n- CCTV footage and Uber Driver corroborated the suspect's story that it was the female accuser who actually invited the male suspect to proceed to the female's apartment. There was no struggle whatsover.\n\n- Testimony from the female accuser's friends of text/phone conversation that she regreted sleeping with her one-night-stand and she felt ashamed of what she did\n\nProblem is, the damage was already done. The alleged suspect lost his job/got kicked out of college and got shunned by the local community\n\nI think there are plenty of questions and clarifications as to what really constitutes consent... Must it always be verbalized? Some would argue that non-verbal cues are equally important\n\n- invitation to touch the body (even as slight side hug)\n\n- invitation to return to ones apartment just the 2 of you\n\n- invitation to touch sensitive parts of the body\n\n- should bars / taxi / uber drivers refuse dropping of 2 drunk couples? or would this already be an invasion of privacy?\n\nAnother problem is toxic \"victim blaming\" shaming culture.... People would usually automatically side with the alleged victim but when there is more evidence / cctv / testimony which clears the accused, the damage has already been done?\n\nWhat then do we do to false rape accusations? Should those false accusers also be given the same punishment as what a rapist would get? Are false rape accusation also a form of a sex crime?\n\nWhich might awkwardly go to show that the safer \"consensual\" sex is the one in the confines of marriage. Where 2 individuals do have vows to remain faithful and respect one another.",
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"content": "Some of what you said do have a point. But I disagree about the \"victim blaming\" shaming culture whereby you said that people automatically side with the victim.\n\nMost of the times, 'pag nare-rape, ang tanong ay:\n\"May kasama ba siya?\" \"Bakit siya nakipaginumang mag-isa?\" \"Ano yung suot n'ya? Maikli ba or seductive?“ which is nabe-blame mostly yung girl bakit siya na-rape. \nex. Na-rape siya kasi naglalakad siyang magisa sa eskinita na naka-mini skirt. \n\nAnother thing, there's also rape inside marriage.\n\nBut I agree that there must be some clarifications on what constitutes consent, kawawa rin yung guy dun sa situation na sinabi mo. I guess before you do it, you need to ask, \"Are you sure? Ok lang na gawin natin 'to?\" para safe lol.",
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"content": "I think you should understand his context. 'Yung tinutukoy niyang victim blaming sa context niya is, 'pag ang isang tao ay inakusahan na nang-rape, automatically \"rapist\" na ang tingin sa kanya ng mga tao kahit wala pa namang solid proof, which is malayo sa reply mong sinisisi ang babae kung bakit siya na-rape. Context is always important, dude.",
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"content": "Binasa ko ulit. My bad, thank you for pointing that out.",
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"content": "Been there before (M). \n\nMy ex cheated on me with her co-member in their University Dance group. I tried to fight for us but she pushed me away as she wanted to be with the guy.\n\nThey've been together for 2 years then they called it quits.\n\nSo sad that I'm so close to her family and they really wanted me to marry her.\n\nIt's been 8 years since this happened but a part of me is stuck with those memories. Lumaban pero di pinaglaban. 🙁",
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"content": "This is sad. How are you? Have you moved on? Do you consider her as the one that got away?",
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"content": "I'm good tbh. Sobrang sakit lang siguro nung hindi ka pinili nung GF mo. I ate my pride by placing my name as one of her choices but she chose the other one.\n\nMoved on? Yes. During the past years, I kept myself busy with work, family, and studies.\n\nI'm not considering her as TOTGA but I showed her that I'm her TOTGA. I strived hard to be successful to let her know that I'm a man of my words. 😊\n\nThanks for asking and I'm hope you are doing well.",
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"content": "I loooove this. Glad you’re better! Gives me hope haha",
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"content": "If you will, it can happen. 🔥",
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"content": "This is a long comment, be warned.\n\nGuy cheated and immediately becomes happy. You were in the same place, miserable. This happens most to men and women. Una happy happy pa c guy then wasak si girl dahil nga sa nangyari. It really hurts, no question about it. But that feeling will pass, yes may resurface from time-to-time but eventually you'd piece yourself back together. Human body is self-healing. Then after a while, you'd be okay, you'd be moving on. I dont want to put false positivity na, you can do it right away. At your own time. At your own pace. If u still have that traumatic feeling then I'd suggest cut off things na pwedeng magremind sau ng nangyari, disconnect to reconnect. \n\nPero one thing for sure, people are there for you. Focus on yourself muna and the people who treasure you. May kicker ang tadhana e, someone will be there to help you with trauma and love you like you've never felt before.\n\n#skl",
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"content": "This comment **resonated** with me and I just want to add/elaborate on a few things. \n\nKeep your friends and family close, they'll help you out of this rut and the healing process will kick in faster if you've got a good support system. \n\nEnjoy this time to be alone. When you're in a relationship, minsan the line that separates two people gets blurry, or baka ako lang to. I tend to stop doing things that I enjoy doing alone or end up doing it w my SO. Try to get in touch w yourself again, it's a beautiful process. \n\nUse this time to rediscover yourself. You've probably picked up a few habits and interests while in that relationship, see if you like who you've become. \n\nStay strong, and this comment is right, it might not happen agad-agad, but it will **happen** and hopefully you'll be happier than you ever were.",
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"content": "Yes thank you :) Sometimes I still get triggered by the litte things that remind me of when we were togwther, but I’ve learned to pause, reflect and then keep going :)",
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"content": "Let me know if you need someone to lend an ear and/or a shoulder. We can even grab drinks after the quarantine is lifted. Us girls have to stick together. 😊",
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"content": "Wow thank you for this. I will let you know!",
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"content": "We can do better than \"normal\".",
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"content": "Yes, I know we’ll do. These trying times have taught us and made us realize a lot of things for the better.",
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"content": "Stop romanticizing the traffic. It's hellish and something that we should not experienced again.",
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"content": "I know naman, sino ba naman gustong bumalik sa ganyan na situation diba. I was just being sarcastic about it, nothing really serious. I thought I could bring up some tease lng naman over these desperate moments. I beg your pardon if you find this quite unpleasant. Hope you’re safe wherever you are.",
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"content": "ako nga optional na lang ang pag aasawa saken... optional din kung gusto mag ka anak pero madami dapat i reconsider.. sa tingin ko, mas madali ka mkakapag isip kung may sarili kang bahay at walang epal sa buhay mo kahit kadugo mo pa yan.. basta no to epal...",
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"content": "Agree. Tho wala naman sila pake sa magiging decision natin. Pero maeepal lang talaga pilit nakikialam.",
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"content": "Stop caring if she doesn't (in any way) contribute to your life",
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"content": "Ah yes. Kinda hard to learn but yes.",
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"content": "\nThere's nothing wrong with putting yourself out there to test the waters. But from my experience, the right guy comes when you don't actively pursue and when you least expect. Let life surprise you.",
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"content": "Not the right guy. Just A guy.",
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"content": "eventually, you'll find more important things in life than love and relationships",
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"content": "I hope so. I don’t want to keep dealing with the empty feeling.",
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"content": "I actually have a few friends in this situation. They were in long term relationships already (5+years) and were already considering marriage. Already stable jobs and nearing their 30's.\n\nBoth were hit with this realization that \"what if my partner was not the one for me. So they asked our friends on their opinions and there were 2 schools of thought on this:\n\n1) idealists: the idea that there is \"the one\" for you. Someone in this universe exists to be your perfect match. And if you feel your partner isn't \"the one\", then you must break off the relationship and keep looking. \n\n2) realists: there isn't a \"the one\", rather, there is likely a degree of compatibility from (highly incompatible to very compatible). No perfect partner exists, just varying degrees of compatibility. And at the end of the day, one must choose to settle down or settle with a partner they feel is compatible enough for married and family life. Mathematically and statistically speaking, one cannot get to know all the men / women out there in the market... on average, people will likely have maybe 1 to 10 partners they will date in their lifetimes. How these partners are selected are highly dependent on peer groups in school, office, neighbors, church, family friends. And normally, it's a practical in a sense that these peer groups provide a somewhat \"good\" degree compatibility in terms of similar demographic backgrounds (socio-economics, music, food, travel, fashion, politics, etc...). Instead of having a \"the one\", you kind of have to see how compatible you are and you have to actively work on and accept that partner to become the one\n\nProblem is, people might think that the \"idealist\" approach is the only approach and cannot accept the \"realist\" approach. For several reasons, like influence of televisionand movies where \"idealist\" approach is normally portrayed. The behavior gets normalized and can actually cause neuroticism in kids, teenagers when they grow and try having relationships and end up getting frustrated why it's not like the movies they've grown up and idealized like for example, the notebook or disney classics where a prince charming swoops and saves them as the dancel. Or kind of like how men get confused with what they see in pornography isn't working in real life. like a study was done to show not a lot of women actually orgasm from penetrative sex.\n\nAnd given the fact that \"relationship building and human relations\" isn't necessarily a a formal subject taught in school unlike science, PE, mathematics, CLE, workshop/home economics, some or a lot of people grow up with having poor relationship building skills. Granted, some are born naturally talented, but it seems quite unfortunate that there is a whole of people who would have immensely benefited from having formal lessons on this topic and would have greatly helped in their careers and personal lives and reduced neurotic / awkward behavior.\n\nThe problem with the \"realist approach\" is fricking boring. If you take a look at feedback from long term couples and those married for over 10, 15, 25 years, most, if not all them have the same advise which seems pretty boring when you try to apply it to your current relationships: honesty, communication, sacrifice, hard work, centering life on Christ, and all that jazz aren't really the themes in movies like the notebook or classic disney films or korea novelas / soap operas. \n\nAnyway, those friends of our broke off with their long term partners under the direction of \"idealist\" approach. But after a few months, they regretted their decision, having realized that, while their long term relationships were not perfect, they still felt that they were willing to \"make it work\". Unfortunately, their partners moved on from the breakups and just started dating other people",
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"content": "How I wish I can upvote your post a hundred times. Thank you very much for sharing this, fam.",
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"content": "Mine would be, things that I didn’t do because of my shyness/overthinking. I used to be competitive, but as I grew up, I became more aloof.",
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"content": "oh man gets pero for me I’ve been aloof my whole life, dami ring pwedeng ginawa if not for that mindset",
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"content": "> Andali lang magkajowa \n\nWow, sana all. Iba ang ganda ni OP.",
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"content": "Hahaha oo nga sana all",
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"content": "Youve wasted too much time not going out too much. Not running to the fire. \n\n\nGademet. I fucking swear ill live my life after this ecq. Yes to some mistakes. Yes to new people and new chances.",
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"content": "I feel you. I too wasted time not going out. The moment I decided I want to change, Covid hits.",
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"content": "Fuck.",
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"content": "Ganda pinanood ko siya nang 12 am nung time na kakabukas palang for streaming. Ang daming na tackle. \n\n1. Pinakita doon kung gaano kasaya mag aral at kung gaano ka diverse ang kolehiyo. Madami kang makikilala na ibat ibang klase ng tao.\n\n2. Bata ka pa pero matanda ka na parang ganon. May responsibilidad ka pero dapat mag enjoy ka pa din.\n\n3. Ang saya mabuhay pag may tunay na kaibigan at may supportive na parents\n\n4. Lgbt at kung gaano kahirap mag come out\n\n5. Pagiging aktibista at kung gaano kahirap ipakita sa gobyerno na dapat lahat may karapatang mag aral dahil isa ito sa mga makakatulong sa isang tao na mahubog at mahasa ang galing niya\n\n6. At minsan kahit na aktibista ka at di ka sang ayon sa patakbo ng gobyerno pag kinailangan ng pamilya mo ng pera magpapakain ka na lang sa sistema kahit labag sa loob mo at prinsipyo mo\n\n7. Hustisya. Hindi ikaw ang may kasalanan at gumawa ng mismong act pero ikaw ang isa sa mga saksi - mapapatanong ka kung kasalanan mo din ba. O kaya pwede ding susukuan mo na lang humingi ng hustisya dahil alam mo ang takbo nito sa pilipinas napaka devastating\n\n8. Trauma will haunt you pag tinakbuhan mo\n\n9. Isa din yon na movement para sa mga kababaihan\n\n10. Ang sarap suportahan ng mga sining na gawa ng mga pinoy\n\npaborito ko din kasi e heads kaya natuwa ako hehe",
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"content": "Yown. Thanks for sharing. Same sentiments but I guess my biggest takeaway would be how it showed how easy it is to build dreams and get ideal—only to find out it’s not easy once you’re out there.\n\nAnd siguro yung, sobrang dali talaga mangako pero in the long run mahirap pala panindigan. \n\nPero man, eheads right? That’s what most of their songs are. Hope tinged with how shitty real life can actually get. Galing how they utilized it huhu.",
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"content": "Pro:\nGREAT PERFORMERS! Cast, tech, music, lights lahat. \nSobra.\n\nCon:\nBad writing.",
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"content": "Same sentiments! Parang sinundot lang yung mga issues like LGBT, activism, rape culture, patriarchy, etc para maging relevant pero hindi sya napakita ng maayos like sa activism, panay lang yung banggit ng \"makibaka\", like hanggang dun na lang ba?",
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"content": "This is true!! Ang hina na ng message ng play dahil sa pagdagdag ng issues na hindi nabigyan ng depth.",
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"content": "6 years from now, you'll still be 32. Di mo maiiwasan yun.\n\nIf you continue med school, you'll be 32 and a doctor. So why hesitate?",
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"content": "This is no joke the most important thing I saw today! ❤️",
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"content": "Some actors in the Hollywood have their big break at 40s. Age isn't that much of an excuse. Ignore those 20+ CEOs on instagram who got lucky.",
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"content": "And those \"20+ CEO's\" come from wealthy and connected families to begin with",
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"content": "Forget her bro,she's gone for a reason, Magiging unfair ka lang sa mga dadating na bago .",
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"content": "I agree with this. There will be a repercussion every time you meet someone that’s not ‘the one’. If that person couldn’t be ‘the one’, maybe look for the person who could be your ‘last one’.",
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"content": "Hey that’s actually a pretty nice perspective... ‘to look for the person that could be the last.’ Anyway I’m aware of its consequences naman. Thanks!",
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"content": "I have hour-long conversations with myself. Just got used to it due to being an only child. Sometimes I reflect on it and I realize it's so weird, but it keeps me sane.",
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"content": "Does it happen spontaneously or is it usually triggered by something?",
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"content": "It's more of a habit at this point. It gets more intense when I'm having an episode though",
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"content": "Yung pag tinamaan ka talaga? Pucha, sobrang sarap. \n \nMaglalandian muna kayo and before you know it eh 'nahuhulog' ka na. Andun na yung fear na what if mawala siya sayo at mag sawa siya sayo. Mapapaisip ka kung close ba kayo ng Ben and Ben at dinedicate nila yung kanta nilang Araw Araw para sa pagiibigan niyo. O baka naman BFF mo ang Munimuni at kwento mo yung Bawat Piyesa nilang kanta. \n \nSobrang saya niyo sa mga ganap; sa mga maddiscover niyong kainan, sa mga pelikulang papanoorin niyo at sa mga lugar na pupuntahan niyo. Gagawa kayo ng mga alaala na tatagal ng taon. \n \nPwedeng dumating sa punto na 'mattempt' kang magloko (bullshit) pero hindi mo gagawin yun. Mahal mo yung tao eh. Dun ka din mapapaisip bakit may mga taong nagloloko. \n \nEffortless lang kayong dalawa. Walang pressure. Effortless in the sense na lahat ng gagawin mo for your partner eh di ka mahihirapan. Na gagawin mo siya kasi 'mahal' mo eh. Plus, gusto mo siyang sumaya. \n \nPag snwerte, makikilala siya ng pamilya mo and vice versa. Nakakatakot sa umpisa pero pag tinawag kang anak ng kanyang magulang sa unang pagkakataon, lintik ang saya at ang kilig. Mapapasama ka na din sa mga family reunions nila. Sa wakas - makikilala ka na ni Auntie Josie. Yung pinsan ng kapitbahay ng tito na kapatid ng tita niya sa La Union. \n \n~~tas ang ending eh lolokohin ka lang pala ng puta~~\n\nTL;DR \nThe feeling of being 'in love' can help inspire you to be a better person. As for it completing you, that depends kung ano yung missing pieces sa life mo.",
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"content": "Shocks sarap naman ng ganito! Naiimagine ko 🥺 haha!\n\n...sana someday lels! 😂",
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"content": "I love spoilers. It makes movies and series more enjoyable to see.",
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"content": "Omg! same :) I even search for spoilers while watching haha",
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"content": "The dad is a dds, araw araw nagcclash kami. Kahit neutral ako, sa mata nya dilawan ako 🙄",
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"content": "My dad is some sort of moderate DDS. He doesn't label me dilawan but he always believes in a 4D chess by the president. I just learned to be civil, sure may arguments ba lumalala minsan but we get by",
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"content": "It doesn't make sense to argue din kasi. It will change nothing sa kalagayan ng bayan. But it will surely sour your relationship inside the household. Di nila naiintindihan na may mga taong neutral lang talaga oag dating sa politics.",
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"content": "That's what they say sometimes when I argue too hard, na wala.naman talagang mababago pag nakikipag argue ako sa kanila pero sometimes I just blow off steam so hard ahahaha",
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"content": "Boredom. Hubadera talaga ako. Even if I'm not perfect, I am comfortable with my own skin. I just want to break away from the society's norm of a sexy woman. Pake ko if they don't find me sexy. 😂",
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"content": "yess isa ako sa follower mo..",
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"content": "Awww. Thank you 😙",
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"content": "Natae ako sa brip bago ako makarating sa last day of classes (2nd year) noong college HAHAHA. Tapos pinagtitiniginan ako ng mga tao noon kasi nakaupo lang ako sa harap ng saradong computer shop umagang tapat. Di ko na kinaya naglakad ako kahit may tumutulo, buti may talyer na malapit tapos nakiligo ako. Binayaran ko sila para walang masabi. After noon, naghanap ako ng taxi, binayaran ko ng 500 para ihatid ako sa bahay. Kinotongan pa ako nung driver pagkarating samin jusko.\n\nLesson learned: Wag magkakape na may gatas kapag umaga at maanghang kinain mo noong gabi.",
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"content": "Wait bat ka kinotongan? Naligo ka na so I'm assuming you're clean and don't smell like shit na",
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"content": "Well, nakaligo ako pero yung damit wala naman akong pamalit so ayun...",
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"content": "Anima Cristi tugtugan ng girlfriend mo pag nagkita kayo. \n\n\"From all the evil that surrounds me, defend me..\"\n\nKidding!! Lol",
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"content": "Magandang idea to haha😂 gawing background music sa kwarto kapag bumisita sya sa apartment 😂",
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"content": "Hindi mo pa nakikita in person naging kayo na dami pa hidden mysteries dyan na malalaman mo what if bad breath pala sa personal hehe, No offense brother pero mas okay atang makasama mo muna siya and makita before you think that too far ahead. Just my opinion.🙂",
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"content": "Tito Ed ikaw po ba yan? hahah",
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"content": "Ako nga to kamusta ka na rose? lol",
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"content": "I am very very very hurt",
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"content": "You're road.....",
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"content": "You don't need to be part of any religion or group in order to continue having faith in God. You don't need to conform to their beliefs and follow their traditions either. You don't need to go because of peer pressure. \n\nI'm an atheist but I'm not as antagonistic towards people of faith unless they're doing stupid shit like opting for faith healers or prayers instead of seeking medical help. \n\nAll that matters to your God is you believe in him, have faith, trust his plan, worship him, and don't do anything he told you not to do. That's literally it. Hell, he's even against idols or graven images yet you see sculptures of him on every fucking church.\n\nBottom line is: Jesus is a personal journey. PERSONAL. It's all on YOU.",
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"content": "this is false. if christ was part of a church then one who follows him must also be part of a church. kaya may notion ng \"manufacturing salvation\" and Christianity eh. bakit pa gumawa ng church si Christ kung it's about being alone with him?",
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"content": "The Church is just another way of how we can communicate with whatever is up there (honestly open to your own interpretation). The Church is not the end all be all representation of God. I personally follow my dad’s way of thinking, he went to the seminary for highschool and saw all the little dirty things the church does and chose not to identify with them as much and yet he is still a devout catholic. Even in my school which is widely known for its catholic faith emphasized on our own personal connection with Christ and not as a community way of thinking. \n\nP.S I’m the least religious in my family but I still believe religion is a personal thing and not something you get peer pressured into (it defeats the purpose).",
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"content": "Missing the point, the OP is Christian and therefore must follow Christian standards. Bad church practices has nothing to do with obedience, if Jesus stated that his example must be followed then follow his example. I didn't make the rules, I don't even follow them. Feel free to make your own but don't tell OP that your own opposite interpretation of what is clear cut in the bible can be up to debate. Jesus said no student is better than his teacher, Jesus also established a church. Those two are undeniable. Don't say \"you should obey this\" while leaving out the \"when it's convenient\" part.",
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"content": "Blind faith is never right my guy",
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"content": "so is cherry picking, I'm not Christian but I've read the bible. I at least know the basics.",
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"content": "No, you don't and you should feel ashamed that an atheist knows your shit better than you do. \n\nThis is two people telling you now you're wrong.",
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"content": "HAHAHAHA, two wrong people. never once have you mentioned your sources. You two can downvote me all you want but I was a Christian leader for 8 years, I used to read 10 chapters a day. I know the material, I've spoken with people from other branches as well and I have an idea of the differences between Christian branches. AND YET I'm a noob at this stuff, but still I know this better than you have shown so far.\n\nIt is written, based on the \"words of god\" left to man, that Jesus established a church, Jesus went to church and that Jesus claims that no student is better than his teacher. If Christ washed someone's feet, Christians should wash other people's feet. \n\nOP needs to forgive himself/herself but church is just as important according to Christian standards by which OP aims to live by.\n\nSalvation is free but maintaining a relationship with God is not easy, so if you're advising a Christian OP based on atheistic wisdom then it is also written that what you say is foolishness to God. That's based on OP's faith. You weak minded wishy washy spiritualists! MUWAHAHAHAHAHAHA.",
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"content": "> christian leader for 8 years\n\nDear lord.\n\n> You weak minded wishy washy spiritualists\n\nKala ko ba \"love your enemies\"\n\n> MUWAHAHAHAHAHAHA\n\n... Um ok. I'm outta here.",
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"content": "HAHAAHAHA hindi ka nagbabasa reply ka ng reply. HINDI ako Kristiyano!",
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"content": "Yes. I already told my parents that i am not getting married and i do not want kids. They think i'm joking. I've held that perspective for 2 years now and nothing has changed my mind. I'm not actively looking for a relationship and I haven't dated for over a year. #unpopularopinion but i'm fine by my own \n\nThe reason for this is that I do not see myself compromising/making sacrifices for someone. I can say this with confidence because i've tried to before and i felt like it sucked the life out of me. Not living my life by my standards is a disservice to myself.",
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"content": "People with kids: its so fulfulling having kids!\nAlso them: barely had sleep this past week, our vacation money became diaper budget too",
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"content": "but it is indeed fulfilling. depends on how ready and how lucky you are though.",
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"content": "I agree. It depends on your partner. Best to get married when you’ve figured what you really want in life.\n\nBut planning not to get married is cool as well.",
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"content": "Happy cake day!",
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"content": "Woah! Di ko napansin yun ah. Salamat! Haha",
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"content": "Galingan mo bro balitaan mo kame kapag kasalan na lol hahaha",
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"content": "Idk why pero natawa ako sa \"galingan mo bro\" \n\nTrue though, galingan mo nga. Hope she's not just bored kaya she's entertaining you. Good luck!",
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"content": "Wag ka magalala boybawang kaya ni cheatercheated yan. Tip ko lang sayo easyahan mo lang ah baka maumay kakausap pero wag naman sana. Goodluck cheater hoping di ka na ma cheated :)",
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"content": "You're funny, parang ang wholesome mong tao? Hahahaha",
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"content": "Uy nainlove",
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"content": "One of simpliest advice I've read somewhere is if they like you, you'll know. If they don't, you'll be confused. Trust your guts minsan but you have to communicate it too. If she/he doesn't handle it, it's not even worth to force things. Atleast, you have no regrets of \"what if's\" or the \"unsaids\". Put standards on urself and leave, love is mutual. Romanticism of unreciprocrated interests is just a poison in a disguise of self-consolation or \"love\". Sometimes things aren't the way we want it to be. We may call it unfair or u can even blame the whole world for it, but that doesn't bring any good. Move on and look for the things u think u deserve.",
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"content": "Aww. That is true!",
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"content": "Not in 40, but 30's. \n\nAll I can say is: develop your skill set and money. You can find your special someone anytime after that. \n\nYou don't want to enter into a dating scene, being broke and such, with limitations on what you can do. \n\nThis is me being practical, but this is reality. Life is hard, and now become harder with this pandemic. Stabilizing yourself should be your utmost priority. \n\nYou don't want to put that risks into romance over and over again, as it won't give you significant returns and even has a highest chance of failing. \n\nHaving enough finances, building your wealth, will make your life easier. \n\nBest example: It's hellish hot every afternoon. You're good with finances? No problem, open your air con/inverter anytime because you can afford to pay anyway and will not worry about surging bills.\n\nCan your SO make your afternoon colder? Nope, then you even have a higher chance of dying through heatstroke due to extreme heat.",
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"content": "Ugh!!! On point!",
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"content": "I think it's because kapag nasa dating app ka, usually hindi lang iisa ang kausap mo. I've used dating apps for years din. Feeling mo goods kayo nung kausap mo tapos bigla kang igoghost kasi may kausap siya na mas interesting para sa kanya. Maybe factor din na marami ka pang pwedeng maka-match. The choice is endless eh kaya siguro they keep looking for \"more.\"",
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"content": "True. This is also the reason why I don’t often use dating apps. Nakaka-taas ng insecurities. Lagi akong nag-ooverthink na baka may kausap na iba na mas better sa akin, na I’m not likeable enough. Pero cycle lang din naman eh. Kasi kung ako rin naman, if I have my choices, I’d also settle for the better guy na kausap ko pero paano kung ganoon din naiisip niya tapos hindi rin pala ako? Ang hirap diba? Hindi tayo makuntento.",
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"content": "MABiendiaHD, you are invited to all future family gatherings and meetups with the titas. Inclusive of eat-all-you-can lumpiang shanghai.",
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"content": "Hahahaha wow can I join?",
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"content": "Eewww... Red flag! Lalo na kung hindi pa naman kayo ganun ka-close. I wouldn't be surprised if those men do that to every woman in whose pants they think they could get into. 🙄",
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"content": "It happens kapag medyo mahaba na ‘yung napapag-usapan then ganoon. Napapa-ghost tuloy ako. 😅",
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"content": "Those men ain't worth of your time.",
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"content": "I think, may mga valid na totoong TOTGA e kaso alam mo yung feeling na overused na? Naiinvalidate tuloy yung mga totoong may TOTGA na di maiingay. Ganun ang tingin ko sa TOTGA e. Lahat na lang ngayon, may sagot sa, \"Sinong TOTGA mo?\". Kahit naman wala syang ginawa para maging sila.",
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"content": "Basta nagbreak TOTGA!\n\nMe: 😅",
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"content": "Or ung longest jowa, TOTGA!",
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"content": "Longest na jowa na literal. As in daks pero walang ginawa sa relasyon kundi manloko at manakit.\n\nWhy the standard so low babe.",
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"content": "Di ko naisip yon ha! Hahaha oo, ung iba TOTGA kasi best sexual partner nila hahaha",
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"content": "Meron akong kilala boi, like gago yung lalaki ha pero namimiss niya kasi binibidsm siya. Like \"this is why you got problems hija. You got bad decisions.. and get you still love them ffs\". Hahahaha",
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"content": "I respect your unpopular opinion. But for the heck of it, you can't actually just tell someone to move forward just because something happened in a way that it shouldn't be and they can't do anything about it anymore. Don't invalidate other people's feelings just because you were able to do it. People have different ways of healing. Feelings cannot be dictated. Move on at your own pace. And that's totally okay.",
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"content": "Upvote for this. Different strokes for different folks. We shouldn't downplay other people's circumstances. Sabi nga ng mga black, \"what they eat, won't make me shit\". I myself don't believe in TOTGAs pero iba iba ang coping mechanism ng tao. Let them be.",
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"content": "Bored lang sila ganon haha gusto ng may masasabing kausap lang. Not realizing na kaya sila bored kase boring sila dejk. Hahahha.",
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"content": "Dyan pumapasok na kapag lagi ka bored, ibig sabihin boring ka na tao. XD\n\nKung interesado ka kasi na tao, madalas busy ka sa mga bagay na ginagawa mo.",
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"content": "Hmmm I wanna agree but compatibility rin hehe baka weird interests ng isang tao, di match sa gusto nung isa haha",
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"content": "Accountancy para marunong ka na mag-file ng tax mo pag doctor ka na.",
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"content": "Lagay natin sa unpopularopinion hahahaha",
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"content": "HAHAHA",
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"content": "Pero minsan, mapili tayo sa binibigyan eh. Haays",
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"content": "Ay totoo din yan :/",
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"content": "Kaya ginagawa ko, tinatry ko muna kausapin tapos ifriend kung makaya. Para makita if hiyang ba.\n\nNamimiss ko lang siguro may nilalambing.",
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"content": "Kaya lang kasi paminsan nasasayang oras ano? In the end iba din hanap nila hahaha",
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"content": "I do enjoy those times though. Like dates and other things.\n\nSiguro di lang talaga magmatch interests namin or walang click.\n\nKaya for now, I can settle talking with ladies. Platonic or otherwise.",
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"content": "Read this as Filipinos love titties. Na excite pa ko iclick",
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"content": "Siyet. Hhahahahaha",
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"content": "What the fuck are they selling hahaha",
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"content": "Dress. 👗😂",
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"content": "Bakit parang yung dress na yon nagsira sa buhay nya hahaha",
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"content": "Hindi ko alam kay ate. Hindi nako nagcart. Baka mapasakin ang sumpa. 😂",
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"content": "Hahaha baka naman segundamano yan ah charot",
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"content": "Hhahahaha wala namang nakalagay pero basta galing China.",
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"content": "Ayoko na mag comment",
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"content": "tsaka type ng lalaki na pinapairal ang toxic masculinity. walang respeto sa babae/tao. sobrang makasarili. hindi alam ang salitang “boundary”",
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"content": "in short supply na ang gentleman and virtuous men",
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"content": "all thanks to patriarchy at conservative values na diniin sa isip natin ng lipunan. ang lakas ng epekto kung paano ang approach at embodiment natin sa isat isa. brutal reality, i must say",
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"content": "I think many men grew up not being educated about virtue, chivalry and being a gentleman who will dedicate his life to provide and care for his wife and kids... Parang kaunti na lang yung ganyan ngayon\n\nAng daming deadbeat men... DOTA na lang all day, inuman sa kalye, sabong sa cockpit, tumira ng drugs, mambabae sa girly bar, magporno at jakol sa bahay, buhos yung pera sa pagpimp ng kotse... \n\nDaming immature that didn't mature to a responsible adult... parang nagstall yung maturitiy nila sa bisyo. Problema rin kasi yung way of parenting...normally nakukuha rin yan sa magulang... If the father is deadbeat at di nagtuturo ng discipline and virtues sa anak, matutunan rin ng anak na maging deadbeat. di marunong mag-alaga ng babae o maging tatay...\n\n\nAnother problem is mga babae ngayon, medyo weird rin, they are actually ok or prefer the deadbeat than the boring responsible gentleman...",
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"content": "hmm i wanna deviate from gender roles wherein it ingrains that passive-aggressive relationship must be highlighted. i think more than those qualities uve mentioned, men (and even women) these days especially the common folk arent taught how to be “human” and care for “humanity” at all. hence “go with the flow” becomes the actual norm, seeing how screwed up the society is and choosing to live with it than change its figure fuels the fire more\n\nitsa cruel actuality we have which makes it harder to disseminate knowledge how to live a good life with well-thought choices",
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"content": "I think what really makes it hard to find someone is the connection. It was never easy to find one. At least, for me.",
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"content": "And once you find that connection, you’ll always look for it. For that same high, that same spark.",
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"content": "If I find that connection, I won’t ever let him go..",
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"content": "Bakit ako kinilig dito?! Haha! Rooting for ya girl!",
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"content": "Hahaha. Thanks girl. Ikaw din!",
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"content": "Good thing I'm a legit 8/10 in looks and a 2/10 when it comes to describing myself",
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"content": "Patingin ng ma ng picture. Hanapin ko ung 8/10 hahaha jk",
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"content": "[Sana di ka matakot sa 8/10 looks ko](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ)",
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"content": "r/rickrolled",
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"content": "Hahhahahha eh mahal siguro yun ng mama nila hahhahha",
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"content": "Buti pa sila! 😢",
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"content": "True story. 💯 Mas okay talaga na average eh para no expectations and disappointments. Gulatan nalang ganern HAHAHA.",
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"content": "Di naman sa judger pero doon lang tayo sa totoo. 😂",
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"content": "Aminin natin, walang 8-10 na tumatambay sa phr4r. Swertihan na sa 7.",
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"content": "Di pa ako nakakita ng 7. Pa-refer naman! Char!",
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"content": "Wala ako rating pero sabi lang ng mga F na sinendan ko pic cute daw ako pero di pa rin ako naniniwala haha",
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"content": "Totoo? Lapag mo na yan!",
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"content": "Di ako naniwala na cute daw ako pero siguro depende din yun sa mga girls ehh.",
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"content": "Ako, brutally honest. Patingin! Hahaha",
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"content": "DM mo ako",
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"content": "Update: cute sya guys. Chinito. Hahaha",
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"content": "HAHAHHAHAHHA NATAWA AKO. SHARE TE",
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"content": " Share ko ba? HAHA!!",
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"content": "Go share hahahahahahha",
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"content": "uhmm DM? >:P",
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"content": "8/100 ata dapat nilagay??typo ata ni kuya",
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"content": "HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA MY FAVE!",
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"content": "Haha I remember there’s this “girl” even said on her post “8/10 on a bad day.” On a bad day!? So sige I got curious haha like sino ba naman makatanggi sa ganun. Traded pics with her, turned out lalaki pala siya. Haha even took a screenshot of my destructive photo. Creepy af.",
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"content": "WTF?!",
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"content": "I actually told my lady friends here on reddit about him, also sent them his photo. Nako they told me they actually ghosted the guy. \n\n... Wherever you are man If you’re really that insecure, you don’t deserve all these decent ladies here.",
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"content": "Interestingly, merong isang episode sa 100 Humans sa Netflix where they explored which is the vainer sex. So nag-experiment sila where they asked the participants to rate themselves on how they look and rate the other participants also on how they look (out of 10)...\n\nTurns out ang taas ng mga rating ng mga lalaki sa mga sarili nila vs how others rated them — as opposed sa mga babae na halos same yung rating nila sa mga sarili nila vs how others rated them.\n\nSame sa observation mo. Ahahaha 😆",
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"content": "What episode of 100 Humans is this? Hahaha",
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"content": "I think it's the 3rd episode, \"Let's Talk About Sex\". Sana tama alala ko 😅",
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"content": "Currently working from home now at di ko maisip paano ako babalik sa office setup.",
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"content": "I can see myself going back to office setup. Not having physical social interaction is draining my energy.",
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"content": "Hahaha. Same. Parang never pa ko nag wallpaper ng pic ko sa phone. Pero it can be a good thing if mawala mo sya, may identity agad haha char. Pero ayun, choice naman nila yon haha.",
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"content": "I dont like the idea that when I open my phone I see my face on it. HAHAHAHAH creepy aff talaga for me.",
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"content": "Unpopular opinion pero kung comfortable ka naman sa sarili mo, edi go. You do you haha.",
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"content": "Up. Would I lowkey cringe? Yeah. Would I tell them that it's weird? No.",
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"content": "Sukot lang pero di naman weird eh. Phone mo yan pake ko dyan 🤣",
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"content": "Being apologetic in some ways are caused by emotional trauma and the likes. They always feel that whenever a shitty or even the slightest inconvenience occurs, that it has something to do with them. Who knows, baka mabasa nila 'to at mas maramdaman nilang \"aping api\" sila.",
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"content": "Theyre so used to being under or not appreciated at all. I second this. You just have to be nice to them and reassure them as well that youre not like what theyre used to na lagi sila pinagbabalingan ng sisi. Not all people has the courage to stand for their own.\n\nMay you be the hero that they need.",
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"content": "It irks you, but for those people, know that they have **been denied and rejected a lot.** Instead of acting like that, why not ask what happened on their past?\n\nA simple phrase of, \"madalas ka rejected and being denied, either from favors, friends, family, relationship, work?\" I'll bet they'll answer yes immediately, without any recourse.\n\nConsider yourself lucky OP na hindi ka dumaan sa ganyan at hindi ka nakakilala ng tao, na binalewala ka lang at wala ka lang para sa kanila that will make you feel sorry for existing or doing things.",
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"content": "🙌🙌🙌",
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"content": "Yes, I can relate to this. I had the \"perfect\" boyfriend when I was in college --- or so I thought. Sobrang guwapo na lalaking lalaki ang itsura (none of those KDrama femme boys), maganda katawan, matangkad, moreno na mapula na pantay ang skin, maganda boses, 5 years older (he was 24 while I was 19), financially independent, had great taste in music and movies and books, at magaling makisama. \n\nYou'll find in your life that you'd have more choices when you're much younger talaga. Kasi yung mga pagpipilian mo mga bata pa rin. Wala pa rin masyadong trauma o problema sa buhay. Healthy, young, and at the peak of their lives -- practically the same as you. \n\nBut when you get older like I am now, marami na napagdaanan. You'll find yourself with fewer and flawed options. Yung mga dating perfect, naglabasan na rin ang mga sayad at problema sa kanila by now. At this point, the most important thing is connection. \n\nWhen my \"perfect\" boyfriend and I broke up dahil sa mga incompatibilities at issues na bulag-bulagan ako noon, I became depressed for almost a year. But mind you, I was dating pa rin in the hopes of immediately getting over him. It was frustrating, though, kasi every available option seemed like trolls compared to him (kahit sa totoo lang maaayos naman talaga sila). \n\nWhen I finally got over the ex, it was then that I met my future husband. At that time, he wasn't as physically perfect as my ex. Payat, nerd, walang pakelam sa itsura niya, tapos may depression pa and all that baggage. Hassle. But we had that maybe once-in-a-lifetime connection I never had with anyone else. He's always been super smart kaya marami kami napag-uusapan, pati mga projects na napaplano at nagagawa. \n\nOver the years, we've helped each other become the best version of ourselves. Ayan, more than a decade later, mas guwapo at mas successful pa siya ngayon sa ex ko. I guess kahit sino / ano na inaalagaan at vinavalue, nagbu-bloom. 😊\n\nYung ex ko? Ayun, dambuhala na at mukhang maraming problema sa buhay.",
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"content": "Huhu. This is one good example. Panalo ka, te. Sana I’ll have that kind of mindset din. Ang hirap ng antaas ng standards mo, tapos things won’t end the way you want it to be. That sucks. Di pa siya nangyayari sa akin pero nakakaanxious na. Haha",
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"content": "Hindi naman. We should landi responsibly. Haha. Di naman need na lagi tayo nakikipag cooperate. No to M.U, yes to commitment. Don tayo sa pinaninindigan ang kalandian nila. Hahaha",
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"content": "True hahahaha i'm so done with all landi na walang assurance. Sayang sa oras tbh :))",
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"content": "Hahaha hindi mo lang yan type!",
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"content": "Troooooooot 😂",
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"content": "\"Sige lang, salamat.\"",
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"content": "Best answer. Hindi ba normal naman talaga sa Pinoy yung expression na yon? No need to be irritated by it at all. I'm 100% sure they don't intend to irritate you at all.",
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