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Sweet, whats it about the game, or collection of short stories? | e6mxwcu | I was told I sucked and my dps was shit too, but the thing is, it really was shit. Looked up a rotation, learned a little about my class and build, watch a video or two, then boom.. I am right with the pack damage wise.
Maybe you do suck right now, and if you are not willing to get better, and get all butthurt when called out, the community will seem toxic af.
lighten up on your end or get better is about the best you can do.
I for one would not enjoy playing with a stressed out gradstudent, who is really low on dps, so to some players you are the toixc one coming in and getting carried.
I guess the real question is, Is there a personal responsibility to pull your own weight in random group dungeons? | e5xizlo | 1 |
Sweet, whats it about the game, or collection of short stories? | e6mxwcu | wow thats super cool
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No? I mean logistically speaking continental (western ) europe has very little access to oil and gas, spends a third of what the us does on their militarys (collectively,) and isn't organized as a cohesive unit in the same way the united states are. Thats not considering the fact that while their land armies are roughly comparable, when it comes to their air forces or navies, its not even close. Im not American, but come on now, you can't seriously think Europe would stand a chance. The US even has what, 6x the nukes of western europe put together? | ducdfmi | Banh mi are way better! Here in canada, subway is as bad as it gets. Id take a safeway sandwich any day, the artichoke and chicken are really good. | dx0nilt | 1 |
No? I mean logistically speaking continental (western ) europe has very little access to oil and gas, spends a third of what the us does on their militarys (collectively,) and isn't organized as a cohesive unit in the same way the united states are. Thats not considering the fact that while their land armies are roughly comparable, when it comes to their air forces or navies, its not even close. Im not American, but come on now, you can't seriously think Europe would stand a chance. The US even has what, 6x the nukes of western europe put together? | ducdfmi | Well blocking the syrian economy from recovering is considered why the US pushed the SDF to charge the oil / gas fields, and to attempt to block the border crossing at abu kamal alongside al tanf.
Infact the SDF offensive against ISIS more or less ended once the SAA captured the US goal of abu kamal, where they have no opened trade with Iraq again, much to Americas protest. | duafbtd | 0 |
Always been underweight before I started working out. I remember in high school I tried to rock skinny jeans, but was insecure about my big calves.
Siblings and parents also have big calves though, guess i got it from genetics and not working out. | dtjgrm0 | Slob that knob | e2b37g1 | 1 |
Always been underweight before I started working out. I remember in high school I tried to rock skinny jeans, but was insecure about my big calves.
Siblings and parents also have big calves though, guess i got it from genetics and not working out. | dtjgrm0 | Personally, I don't find it to be much of a burden to slap some peanut butter and jelly on bread | dt913xn | 0 |
It's been five years since the two cities update got released and australium weapon were introduced. It's probably not gonna happen, but let's say volvo decided to add new australiums. What weapons do you want in australium variants? | 8l9egu | fuck, I was making the same meme, [but you beat me to it..](https://m.imgur.com/gallery/KJBQfAZ) | dvgy99k | 1 |
It's been five years since the two cities update got released and australium weapon were introduced. It's probably not gonna happen, but let's say volvo decided to add new australiums. What weapons do you want in australium variants? | 8l9egu | Yea but solly and heavy almost never use the shotgun and pyro and engie have unlocks that are better situationally | dzfbrf3 | 0 |
I'm still really confused why I have 4 downvotes and you have 2 upvotes. I don't really care how Apple figures it out. I had my TouchID sensor on the iPhone programmed to a fake fingerprint on my riding gloves. This allowed me to read a text I received while riding. FaceID is fine but Apple also threw out TouchID in the process but since FaceID cannot unlock with my face (with visor up), I have to pull over, remove my gloves and type in my password or remove glasses, then remove helmet then authenticate just to read a message which is required by my IT security that messages don't display on the home screen when the phone is locked. I'm saying to Apple, support FaceID with visor up and a helmet or bring back TouchID or allow me to unlock with my voice.
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There are people who work trades that require full masks as a part of their profession. For them, TouchID is superior and while most iPhone users don't swing a hammer because demographics show most blue-collar workers use Android, it means people who do own an iPhone and have an obscured face are stuck typing in their passcode.
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I experience hidden messages every day it's not snowing and I'd like to keep up with IT security at my work while unlocking my phone with my finger or with my half obscured face. It's clear no one on this sub has this issue and that' why I'm being downvotes but just because this issue doesn't affect you, it does affect someone. there are a billion iPhone users, some who have obscured faces where it's not convenient to remove their mask/helmet and the "add a face" doesn't work for everyone. | e4xstp0 | Grom-army represent! | du5i47a | 1 |
I'm still really confused why I have 4 downvotes and you have 2 upvotes. I don't really care how Apple figures it out. I had my TouchID sensor on the iPhone programmed to a fake fingerprint on my riding gloves. This allowed me to read a text I received while riding. FaceID is fine but Apple also threw out TouchID in the process but since FaceID cannot unlock with my face (with visor up), I have to pull over, remove my gloves and type in my password or remove glasses, then remove helmet then authenticate just to read a message which is required by my IT security that messages don't display on the home screen when the phone is locked. I'm saying to Apple, support FaceID with visor up and a helmet or bring back TouchID or allow me to unlock with my voice.
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There are people who work trades that require full masks as a part of their profession. For them, TouchID is superior and while most iPhone users don't swing a hammer because demographics show most blue-collar workers use Android, it means people who do own an iPhone and have an obscured face are stuck typing in their passcode.
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I experience hidden messages every day it's not snowing and I'd like to keep up with IT security at my work while unlocking my phone with my finger or with my half obscured face. It's clear no one on this sub has this issue and that' why I'm being downvotes but just because this issue doesn't affect you, it does affect someone. there are a billion iPhone users, some who have obscured faces where it's not convenient to remove their mask/helmet and the "add a face" doesn't work for everyone. | e4xstp0 | Add a wrist strap? Or stop trying to put your phone away! | e4ynokx | 0 |
They didn't have any video games back then. Can you really blame them? | e4f683g | I heard that the majority of innocent verdicts are won by a single attorney that has the habit of slamming desks in the courthouse | e3xp800 | 1 |
They didn't have any video games back then. Can you really blame them? | e4f683g | Stalinism is a real branch of communism. Stalin was a true believer. However it isn't surprising that a fucked up country remains fucked up despite changing government and ideology. This is one of the fundamental problems of communism. It mainly takes root in really fucked countries where the proletariat seizes upon it as a panacea, giving wide ranging power to the leadership. When that leadership then continues to do things as they always have been done, people act surprised.
Now relatively speaking the subsequent 40 years after Stalin were actually decently okay. The fundamental weaknesses of the Soviet system continued to play their part, but the terror was over.
The whole "Real Communism" shtick is really dumb though. There is a difference between a Communist Society and a Communist party. By definition "communist society" is a utopia. Opinion doesn't come into play here, it is what the words mean. You need to deal with the dictionary people if you want to change that. A communist party is a party that wants to create a Communist Society. A communist state is a state under the control of a communist party. The Soviet Union was a communist state, and did horrible things in the name of communism. The Soviet Union never achieved a Communist Society though. They couldn't, because part of the prerequisite for a Communist Society is generally a world revolution, where the entire moves to Communism. Without that it is generally not seen as viable to create a Communist Society. Stalin in "Socialism in one country" is not arguing for instituting Communism, but Socialism. Over time new ideas did develop, attempts were made at this or that, but a communist society was never achieved, for a variety of reasons. | e4fh3du | 0 |
here you go:
https://www.reddit.com/r/soccer/comments/85vhr4/remember_the_serie_a_animated_by_uitafan_here_is/?st=jf031vl0&sh=d956bbea | dw0fp6f | here my friend: https://www.reddit.com/r/soccer/comments/85vhr4/remember_the_serie_a_animated_by_uitafan_here_is/?st=jf031vl0&sh=d956bbea | dw0fugh | 1 |
here you go:
https://www.reddit.com/r/soccer/comments/85vhr4/remember_the_serie_a_animated_by_uitafan_here_is/?st=jf031vl0&sh=d956bbea | dw0fp6f | Apparently it's not Honda engine that's the problem but just McLaren themself. But still lol. | dvu7tkp | 0 |
WAIT, is Kentaro dead?!
Edit: He is not, but /u/acathode will be soon. | e6br3h0 | Wow | e1bfvfa | 1 |
WAIT, is Kentaro dead?!
Edit: He is not, but /u/acathode will be soon. | e6br3h0 | In other news Webster has announced a new definition complex. It now refers to things that will never happen. | e6c23cs | 0 |
r/OopsDidntMeanTo | e3bo5wx | r/usernamechecksout | e553v02 | 1 |
r/OopsDidntMeanTo | e3bo5wx | Me too. | e3cf7mu | 0 |
This is the issue. There are conflicting reports flying around on the internet. | e7e9y11 | Done and done! Awaiting an answer now. | e7dwbjo | 1 |
This is the issue. There are conflicting reports flying around on the internet. | e7e9y11 | The only way you're ever going to know is if Blizzard tell you. Because Geforce Now is still in Beta, Blizzard don't need to unless you ask them. | e7dwv97 | 0 |
No worries. | dwcskjb | Correct. Nikon is really nowehere in the discussion among video shooters.
There are professional filmmakers doing their entire short films on the 6300 / 6500. | dwcsgz5 | 1 |
No worries. | dwcskjb | > Sony a6500
Thanks for the answer, I didn't look at the sony range.
I was thinking for going towards a Nikon D7500 with a 35mm 1.8
However the Sigma 18-35mm 1.8 looks sweet. | dwcsbz9 | 0 |
My thoughts too | dzb22j7 | Oh man. That’s amazing. Great story. I enjoyed that. Happy everyone is ok. | dz86p2e | 1 |
My thoughts too | dzb22j7 | Wouldn't recommend strap on pads. Depends what you get I suppose, but those are more made for (relatively) low speed dirt biking. At highway speed they're more likely to twist around or just rip off. | dz87a4t | 0 |
Has the IRS ever actually done that? I don't believe they have. | dvyx48f | Funny, YouTube took down my video of that technique. | dxgx8jx | 1 |
Has the IRS ever actually done that? I don't believe they have. | dvyx48f | New age Christian thing. Southern mostly but spreading. Not catholic. Church is becoming more about feeling good for showing up than about learning and developing your own character through lessons in the Bible. | dvzr9ic | 0 |
Her rights? Her right to let someone illegally trespass into Our country? Shes doesn't have any personal ideas about anything. She just does what her parents tell her. She's a child. | dszrioo | If your parents snuck you into Disneyland, does Disneyland have the right to throw you out? Illegal trespassers committed a crime. That's the whole point. I want to give citizenship to those who willing to work and benifit our society, and don't abuse our welfare system. Dreamers can be that! But we need to give citizenship by merit alone. Our current system doesn't care at all about the individual. It just cares about the country of origin, which is just stupid and can, at times, be racist and xenophobic. Blanket amnesty is discrimination. The world are full of great people. Just because Mexico is right next to us doesn't mean they deserve a better chance of getting in. | dszz9f5 | 1 |
Her rights? Her right to let someone illegally trespass into Our country? Shes doesn't have any personal ideas about anything. She just does what her parents tell her. She's a child. | dszrioo | what the hell are you walking about. Anti-wall people don't want random people coming into the country, they realize that
1. A wall is fucking useless
2. It is an insane waste of money
3. Will create more problems than it solves (hint it solves nothing)
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We can’t let Steve see this | e3596n9 | Udyr | e8rlhmy | 1 |
We can’t let Steve see this | e3596n9 | He always chokes in international competitions | e35j3ea | 0 |
I mean it wasn’t a good joke but isn’t this whole sub putting people on blast? | e0pc2xm | Well they did always want Tatum. | dyesmjd | 1 |
I mean it wasn’t a good joke but isn’t this whole sub putting people on blast? | e0pc2xm | That didn't sound like a joke at all | e0kh4p0 | 0 |
Ok thanks | e5ah0qx | Is that **ANNE FRANK**?? | e0ih16o | 1 |
Ok thanks | e5ah0qx | I got a feeling we may never find out. | e5a3kph | 0 |
Paradis still gonna win | dvbco3m | marley sympathizers' opinions don't count | e2eos4b | 1 |
Paradis still gonna win | dvbco3m | ^pft, ^ppl ^downvoting ^comments ^again. ^smh. ^:/ | dv9kef8 | 0 |
It's from the chef's point of view. Why do you feel entitled to care about how people comment on Reddit? | e32tqpd | Is there like a gamer dating site or something? | dwqqrni | 1 |
It's from the chef's point of view. Why do you feel entitled to care about how people comment on Reddit? | e32tqpd | That's the basis behind a sous vide | e330imt | 0 |
He's half old English Sheepdog and half Standard Poodle a Sheepadoodle! | dyan5rx | It definitely took a lot of practice and a lot of treats to get to the point where there was even a live rabbit at a distance | dyanbn4 | 1 |
He's half old English Sheepdog and half Standard Poodle a Sheepadoodle! | dyan5rx | Is not murdering the rabbit the final test? | dyakt4m | 0 |
Then I could legally own a gun one day.
I'll wait until I never think of hurting myself though. I absolutely shouldn't have a gun in my home. I'd probably be dead by now if I did. | dw97nbb | When your point is literally a cliche, it deserves to be labeled as such. Come back when you've discovered nuance. | du3fx9a | 1 |
Then I could legally own a gun one day.
I'll wait until I never think of hurting myself though. I absolutely shouldn't have a gun in my home. I'd probably be dead by now if I did. | dw97nbb | Well, aside from the cases where it's not granted, but it seems like hyperbole is the standard right now. | dw8nof1 | 0 |
>I guess, but although I watch anime I don’t see the appeal of hentai.
Then you've missed the true spirit of anime. | e0xog02 | >because a very nice and first day operator gave it to me
Probably not an operator anymore sadly.
(Actually not sadly, hopefully. Hope they found better.) | dzb451m | 1 |
>I guess, but although I watch anime I don’t see the appeal of hentai.
Then you've missed the true spirit of anime. | e0xog02 | You seem like a pleasant person to be around. | e0yk1jb | 0 |
I’m losing my hearing just because I’m getting older. Actually it’s not that I can’t hear. It’s just everything sounds garbled. Like conversations on television. If I turn up the volume it’s just garbled louder.
I have the same problem with asking people to repeat themselves. I can tell they’re getting annoyed so sometimes I play it off by trying to answer with what I think they said. But it doesn’t always work. I can tell by the look on their face which says something like “what the hell is she talking about?” | e5tlh5z | Does it matter who gets less nutrients? It’s bad for them. | e60myru | 1 |
I’m losing my hearing just because I’m getting older. Actually it’s not that I can’t hear. It’s just everything sounds garbled. Like conversations on television. If I turn up the volume it’s just garbled louder.
I have the same problem with asking people to repeat themselves. I can tell they’re getting annoyed so sometimes I play it off by trying to answer with what I think they said. But it doesn’t always work. I can tell by the look on their face which says something like “what the hell is she talking about?” | e5tlh5z | Over the ear headphones: V-Moda M100, Senheiser Momentum.
On ear headphones: Bowers and Wilkins P5, Senheiser Momentum On ear , V-Moda XS. | e5tezmu | 0 |
social construct | e0vrdo5 | Hubie literally more biased than Tommy would be if the Cavs were playing the Cs | dtwvv2q | 1 |
social construct | e0vrdo5 | Manu is a dog | e0vlrta | 0 |
I mean putting prime Kobe isn’t really fair with 2016 Kobe tho it would be a good series | e3yvamz | does 90% of people from Croatia's last name end in "IC?" | e2ht5er | 1 |
I mean putting prime Kobe isn’t really fair with 2016 Kobe tho it would be a good series | e3yvamz | Dude that team would cook the warriors. | e3yujft | 0 |
_Kenya voice_ Jizaas is a bisquiiit | e5gn95r | _Creowle fiish_ | e6ksi70 | 1 |
_Kenya voice_ Jizaas is a bisquiiit | e5gn95r | and you had to make it fit the theme | e5gifum | 0 |
My mistake, thanks. | dx15icj | The boy who cried impeachment.
Edit to add, I also remember when this sub and much of the media were claiming after 08 that the GOP would never win the whitehouse again. | e31lbx4 | 1 |
My mistake, thanks. | dx15icj | Police are much more important than Somali comfort. Good on Ford. | dx12r9r | 0 |
Oh my friends and I mainly played on 1 faction server but we'd also squad up and go to PvP survival servers and fuck everyone up it was great. Really wish I could go back to those times
Also I occasionally play on the teenagers server but it's all about BO4 right now | e8n3ghj | I literally only use snapchat because of other friends and my streak with one of them that's been going on for 2+ years | e8j1j7y | 1 |
Oh my friends and I mainly played on 1 faction server but we'd also squad up and go to PvP survival servers and fuck everyone up it was great. Really wish I could go back to those times
Also I occasionally play on the teenagers server but it's all about BO4 right now | e8n3ghj | It used to be normal to play Minecraft after school with your friends everyday but now they just do irl stuff and I am the only one who is introverted af and wather stays at home the entire day... | e8lr8gc | 0 |
Is not only for amusement though... Soy sauce is delicious... | dyphccy | God damn. Did you use a potato peeler to clean your foot? | e82exg6 | 1 |
Is not only for amusement though... Soy sauce is delicious... | dyphccy | Torbiorn? | dypo0vw | 0 |
No, I'm fine with coverings and jewelry. But don't allow kids to talk about them in show and tell if they are being worn for religious reasons. | dzpwksm | If only it were simply a history lesson. But yes, in high school I would be ok with a "Religions classes". Taught more like you would about other mythologies, while being sensitive to the fact that people still believe it today. | dzpwek8 | 1 |
No, I'm fine with coverings and jewelry. But don't allow kids to talk about them in show and tell if they are being worn for religious reasons. | dzpwksm | The reality is that proactive parents (and therefore generally ones that will have better, more successful kids) will advocate to send their kid to the Catholic school if it is newer or better perceived. So some of the good kids get drained from the public schools. | dzpn8za | 0 |
I loved mine. But even at launch the camera wasn't up to par with the competition and the battery was always woeful. I remember when the reviews came out, the prevailing opinion in r/Android at that time was that Google should get their head in the game and make a true iPhone competitor. "I don't care if I have to pay iPhone prices, I just want pure Android with a great camera." Funny how times change. | e7zjsys | Design is obviously subjective but I haven't heard a single negative thing about the build quality or performance. And my own experience with Google's after sale support has been stellar. There are genuine negatives like, there are for every phone, but I think you're reaching to be honest. | e7zkzv1 | 1 |
I loved mine. But even at launch the camera wasn't up to par with the competition and the battery was always woeful. I remember when the reviews came out, the prevailing opinion in r/Android at that time was that Google should get their head in the game and make a true iPhone competitor. "I don't care if I have to pay iPhone prices, I just want pure Android with a great camera." Funny how times change. | e7zjsys | Best phone I've ever owned yet. That kitkat UI was simply just awesome at that time. | e7zmrzr | 0 |
[[Prickly Boggart]] is a 1/1! | dx9uxhx | That meta flavour text though. | dykl9v5 | 1 |
[[Prickly Boggart]] is a 1/1! | dx9uxhx | The knight token would look so good as a foil. | dx9388z | 0 |
because he hires people and pays them money to do it? or do think Tesla is just Elon Musk in a garage with a 3D printer? | e6ut78f | At Whole Foods, maybe. | dx21md4 | 1 |
because he hires people and pays them money to do it? or do think Tesla is just Elon Musk in a garage with a 3D printer? | e6ut78f | Any PUBLIC company. He can still be the CEO of a private company. There are some big private companies out there.
There is probably other ways to skin the cat too. If he was the majority stock holder within a public company then he could force that company to do whatever he wants. So basically there would be a CEO and then Musk would dictate to the CEO what he wants him to do. | e6t7a9x | 0 |
Fuck these people actively preventing their fellow citizens from getting the healthcare they need so corporations can make a buck. Its evil. | dyubx0n | Maybe if they legalized weed they could get some extra tax money | dwswegz | 1 |
Fuck these people actively preventing their fellow citizens from getting the healthcare they need so corporations can make a buck. Its evil. | dyubx0n | What? Are you stupid or just a troll (not that those are mutually exclusive)?
 
Here! I'll make an ELI5 for you:
The other moron was wondering why drug companies still do business with countries that 'steal' from them.
Well it's quite simple:
The drug companies still make profit from the deal, even when the price is decided solely by the country.
This way the countries make sure that the drugs are affordable for even the poor. It's a win-win.
 
PS: I'm not american :) | dyuwkh1 | 0 |
Son of a bitch... take the damn upvote. | dwf3zvm | Red Door confirmed. | e8gesal | 1 |
Son of a bitch... take the damn upvote. | dwf3zvm | r/iamverybadass | dwf4l49 | 0 |
Lets be honest here, it was back and forth and that kick was not lucky | dt01s5v | Can this be a tv show please? | dvm4zut | 1 |
Lets be honest here, it was back and forth and that kick was not lucky | dt01s5v | DC FTW! | dszzdj9 | 0 |
playing with California's vanity plate tool. Their rejection is automated but it could still be rejected later down the line. At least, as far as automated rejection goes, it seems that "**YAY AIDS**" is allowed and available, if anybody is interested.
As is "**FRTONME**" and "**MTHRFCK**" | e54z3u5 | Old Buicks with the 3800 are a pretty decent option, but keep in mind that anything that old, even if taken care of, is more prone to issues. Like you said, it won't be super complicated or expensive to replace anything, but it'll likely be a bit higher maintenance than that Matrix in your flair.
In the same vein, Crown Vics are really reliable, cheap and easy to work on, and similarly spacious/comfy as the Buicks. They are RWD but with snow tires they should handle perfectly fine in NH winter.
Otherwise, at 5K you should be able to find newer cars. What's wrong with the '05 Matrix you have? | e4g07k1 | 1 |
playing with California's vanity plate tool. Their rejection is automated but it could still be rejected later down the line. At least, as far as automated rejection goes, it seems that "**YAY AIDS**" is allowed and available, if anybody is interested.
As is "**FRTONME**" and "**MTHRFCK**" | e54z3u5 | Yeah but I’m still gonna read 101 it’s even better that way | e54939t | 0 |
I like rainbow, but it would be something I would get if I'm in a Sherbet mood,but there is no Orange left. | e2frtyf | Have you ever tried dreamsickle? | e2frqn3 | 1 |
I like rainbow, but it would be something I would get if I'm in a Sherbet mood,but there is no Orange left. | e2frtyf | Well, demanding isn't very nice, but I'll consider it. | e2g1pma | 0 |
This movie could have been an awesome horror flick like Event Horizon, complete with grotesque body-horror, lovecraftian hellscapes, and a general atmosphere of fear of unknowable horrors. I geniunely enjoyed the first half of the film but they abandoned all of the cosmic horror plotlines for a mediocre disaster/rescue movie. Is it too much to ask for a decent scifi/horror movie? | du0zb3t | Recovering meth problem | duhcatw | 1 |
This movie could have been an awesome horror flick like Event Horizon, complete with grotesque body-horror, lovecraftian hellscapes, and a general atmosphere of fear of unknowable horrors. I geniunely enjoyed the first half of the film but they abandoned all of the cosmic horror plotlines for a mediocre disaster/rescue movie. Is it too much to ask for a decent scifi/horror movie? | du0zb3t | 4 is supposed to take place during World War 2 movie so...... | dtrvtgn | 0 |
I'm excited about how over the top ridiculous this is gonna be. That rooftop parkour shot looked great too. | e786b26 | Yeah, that’s what I would normally do, but my storage constantly stays full and apparently after the last update photos defaulted to saving to iCloud, with low res thumbnails on my phone. Pretty annoying/disappointing especially since I’ve been an unapologetic Mac fanboy since 2004. | e8ccd64 | 1 |
I'm excited about how over the top ridiculous this is gonna be. That rooftop parkour shot looked great too. | e786b26 | Although I feel like they showed way too much, I'm stoked as hell!!! | e78i8ua | 0 |
Last time I checked drawing a line isn’t “touching his rig” | dv5dyok | I would still love the fa cup tho | e0czv3t | 1 |
Last time I checked drawing a line isn’t “touching his rig” | dv5dyok | What value did this comment add??? I actually cared. It adds realism to the story. | dv5402d | 0 |
With dyable shackles... | e0udp5u | [BEST.NPC.EVER](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oadp3nW01G8) | dz951yh | 1 |
With dyable shackles... | e0udp5u | [https://imgur.com/a/nLk7nNf](https://imgur.com/a/nLk7nNf) | e0trjga | 0 |
I’m going to be 42 this year. I was date raped at 15. This is what I know. Your experience may vary.
You can either let this define you, or you can let it go. You can use it to become bitter and hateful, or you can use it to be more empathetic with the people you’ll meet in the future. You can let it fuck up your future relationships, or you can refuse to give him that power over you.
The choice is yours. Don’t let anyone tell you that it isn’t a choice.
Healing will suck, but you will heal. And it doesn’t have to define your entire life if you don’t want it to. Some people derive a great deal of meaning from their survivor status. More power to them. At this point, 27 years later, it’s almost like it never happened. It was violent and terrifying and painful, but it was also over immediately afterwards. You get to choose whether or not you want to let it keep happening to you.
Decide what kind of survivor you want to be, then do the work to become that kind of survivor. You CAN do it.
I am so incredibly sorry this happened to you. | dtnlpxf | CARRY ME HOME | dtno586 | 1 |
I’m going to be 42 this year. I was date raped at 15. This is what I know. Your experience may vary.
You can either let this define you, or you can let it go. You can use it to become bitter and hateful, or you can use it to be more empathetic with the people you’ll meet in the future. You can let it fuck up your future relationships, or you can refuse to give him that power over you.
The choice is yours. Don’t let anyone tell you that it isn’t a choice.
Healing will suck, but you will heal. And it doesn’t have to define your entire life if you don’t want it to. Some people derive a great deal of meaning from their survivor status. More power to them. At this point, 27 years later, it’s almost like it never happened. It was violent and terrifying and painful, but it was also over immediately afterwards. You get to choose whether or not you want to let it keep happening to you.
Decide what kind of survivor you want to be, then do the work to become that kind of survivor. You CAN do it.
I am so incredibly sorry this happened to you. | dtnlpxf | Thanks. I was responding from the mod queue, had not read OP's report. Edited my post to reflect correct gender. | dtmm7qr | 0 |
Indian = The White Tiger or Interpreter of Maladies | dz12ufo | She was mocking Tarkin I thought | e501eo9 | 1 |
Indian = The White Tiger or Interpreter of Maladies | dz12ufo | *The Lost City of the Monkey God*
*In the Heart of the Sea*
| dytcevn | 0 |
I read this and walked across the house to kiss my husband. It helped but it didn’t quite get rid of the cringe I felt knowing that people like this are out there. | e5a0tmj | We've been together 7 and married for 6. I'm 23 week pregnant so it better keep working out! | e66putd | 1 |
I read this and walked across the house to kiss my husband. It helped but it didn’t quite get rid of the cringe I felt knowing that people like this are out there. | e5a0tmj | Feminism wasn't my idea. | e5a9fme | 0 |
I was thinking of myself actually. As a result of that explosion being in Russia, I'm fine. | e2d56ia | Naw, they just take off a few seconds at the end of each day so it balances out in the end. | e2ch4pu | 1 |
I was thinking of myself actually. As a result of that explosion being in Russia, I'm fine. | e2d56ia | Indeed, the woman was probably on her way to hurt someone, but was so startled that she could not bring herself to hurt anyone. | e2bl81m | 0 |
Exactly. There are extensive cultural and governmental differences between Singapore and the USA.
For one, Americans are quite possibly one of the most hypochondriacal people on earth. For every ill, there is a pill. They have this strange affinity to better living through chemistry. Hence, for example, the opioid crisis.
I think it is an absolute mistake to import their drug use practices, without understanding the fundamental differences. | e7zi351 | To add to efficiency. A few days ago, a crack formed along Adam Road.
It was repaired in a matter of hours.
I'd like to see that happen in any European or North American city. | e054d59 | 1 |
Exactly. There are extensive cultural and governmental differences between Singapore and the USA.
For one, Americans are quite possibly one of the most hypochondriacal people on earth. For every ill, there is a pill. They have this strange affinity to better living through chemistry. Hence, for example, the opioid crisis.
I think it is an absolute mistake to import their drug use practices, without understanding the fundamental differences. | e7zi351 | Alcohol and tobacco are much worse. There are lots of bright minds who are cannabis users. You cant overdose on it. Its a drug like anything else. Use it responsibly and you will have a good time, but if you've tried it and don't like it - don't assume cannabis users are idiots.
I'm living proof that cannabis is a great recreational substance and its helped me get through a lot in my life. I miss it dearly but I am coping fine without it. I can see that this culture could definitely use a puff, ya'll are so wound up 😂 | e7znam5 | 0 |
Not surprised. These are the same people that tried to upsell me on a tech support call.
Like bitch, your shit already doesn't work and you're trying to sell me more of it? | e19dmx9 | [Relevant xkcd](https://xkcd.com/557/)
As a side note, this has also happened to me. So confirmation bias ftw. | dtkn1qk | 1 |
Not surprised. These are the same people that tried to upsell me on a tech support call.
Like bitch, your shit already doesn't work and you're trying to sell me more of it? | e19dmx9 | I'm shocked...shocked I tell you! | e199wft | 0 |
Bro, bring it in (っ˘̩╭╮˘̩)っ | e1zwu81 | No. That's not what 'toxic masculinity' bloody well means.
It means the only way you can be considered a man is through these narrow set of behaviours and qualities, none of which are innate to being male, that cause harm to ourselves and others around us. If you fall outside this, you are ostracised. It serves no one.
Don't rely solely on your initial reading of anything, you might learn something that way. | e1y73y1 | 1 |
Bro, bring it in (っ˘̩╭╮˘̩)っ | e1zwu81 | Yeah I experienced the same thing trying a keto diet. During the time I was a bit overworked, working two jobs at around 70-80 hour per week but noticed a had a crap ton more energy. I spent my time off sleeping pretty much but I'd never felt so good in my life. Granted there was a romantic love interest I was working for and didn't end up panning out, her and I weren't meant to be but I felt energized, awake, aware and capable. I remember marking the moment I realized I could run for extended periods of time with little to no fatigue which was unthinkable prior.
Not here to push the keto lifestyle as everyone's specific physiology is different but it forced me to cut out almost all processed foods and sugars. I had to just eat vegetables (mostly dark greens) and proteins, large amount from Spirulina which is a complete amino acid.
In an age of instant gratification there's no wonder why we're so tied to fast food and sugary "pick me ups" constantly. I mean, working at a gas station years ago I saw soooo many people 20-30 years of age buying two energy drinks a day just to make it through. 20-30? I mean, isn't that supposed to pretty much be the pinnacle of development? That's so soon we'd need to rely on sugar and caffeine to maintain sanity through the day is a sign, right? | e1zpk4b | 0 |
An ex kept pestering me for anal. One night I had had enough and said "why are you so obsessed with anal? Are you a closet queen?" He didn't speak to me for a week after that. | e19tbxt | Yes, I used to be really low key homophobic when I was younger.
And he was relentlessly shaming me for my 'prudishness', so I was seeing red at that point. | e19vm0b | 1 |
An ex kept pestering me for anal. One night I had had enough and said "why are you so obsessed with anal? Are you a closet queen?" He didn't speak to me for a week after that. | e19tbxt | I was talking to a friend and saying I basically only go for guys with fucked up faces. Scars, broken noses, that kinda thing. My partners weren't sure if they should be offended. To be fair, both have clearly broken noses and one had his face pulked off by a dog as a kid and has some scarring. I can't help that I'm into it. | e19r3zf | 0 |
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