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get a small garbage can or round , cylinder - shaped object of some sort . place your guinea pig in the general area . use a treat to lure your guinea pig to it . stand back and see if the guinea pig will try to go around on its own . eventually , begin only treating your guinea pig when they make a full circle around the object . begin enforcing a hand motion . take the garbage can away gradually .

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it can be any color , and any type , as long as it could not potentially harm your guinea pig . set it in the area you will be training in . be sure to turn it upside - down , so that your guinea pig will not knock it over as you begin to teach the trick . a garbage can that may have contained anything that could be harmful should not be used . gently lift them out of their cage and set them down near the garbage canother object . allow the guinea pig to sniff around if they feel the need . some may ignore it , but this does not mean that they wont do the trick - have patience . hold out one of the treats and lure your guinea pig towards the garbage can . move it slightly , further away and around it , until your guinea pig has completed a quarter of the circle . click and treat . do this three or four times , until your guinea pig becomes comfortable with moving around it a bit . every time the guinea pig moves forward a few steps , reward them with a clickor verbal marker and a treat . gradually increase the amount of steps they take before receiving the treat . hopefully , your guinea pig will soon discover that moving around the garbage can does not go without rewards . many will figure this out within a few minutes of doing that same thing , but if they dont , go back to luring and go on from there as many times as your guinea pig needs it . some guinea pigs will pick this up faster than others , and thats okay . no piggy is perfect , no matter how intelligent they may be . the hand motion can be whatever you see fit , but i have found that holding a finger above the object , where the guinea pig can clearly see it , and moving it around in a circular motion . saying the command around or spin may help as well , but verbal commands are more for the trainer than for the animal themselves . from this point on , only treat your guinea pig when they walk around after your hand motion . if they do it without your motion , just sit patiently until they are done and ask them to do it afterwards . if they do it , treat and praise them immensely . it takes many guinea pigs a long time to understand this , but , if the trainer is persistent , it will be very rewarding in the end . once the guinea pig is very good at walking around the garbage can on your hand motion , put the can up somewhere and do the motion . this can be very easy , or very hard , depending on the piggy .

keep yourself safe . wash your hands . understand a guinea pigs reasons for biting .

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avoid sticking your fingers through the bars of the cage . if your guinea pig feels threatened , it will lash out and your fingers will be the perfect target . dont give it the chance to do any damage . you will inevitably come into contact with your guinea pig . wash your hands to get rid of any odors that the guinea pig may not like such as , dog and cat scents . guinea pigs have a keen sense of smell and an instinctual fear of scents they associate with danger . since cats and dogs can pose a threat , they might react negatively to those smells . on the off chance that your guinea pig has an insatiable appetite , make sure that you wash your hands to remove any food odors . you dont want your guinea pig to confuse your fingers for their meal . you might consider wearing gloves until you are confident that your guinea pig wont bite you . biting results primarily from fear , but there are several other biological and environmental reasons for such behavior . pain can cause biting . you might be hurting the guinea pig or there might be a deeper physiological issue . sometimes , guinea pigs will bite you when they mean to nibble on themselves . this can be an indicator of mites or fleas . if discomfort or pain is a concern , contact your veterinarian for an exam right away . if your pig is nibblingbiting while you are holding it , it may need to get down to urinate . so , if that is the case , put it back in the cage and watch what it does next . if the pig urinates , you have your answer . non - neutered male guinea pigs may show dominance by biting more than females or neutered male guinea pigs . consider neutering your guinea pig . however there is no guarantee that neutering will stop the biting completely . dominance is not solely based on testosterone levels . if your guinea pig is biting the bars of its cage , it could mean that the animal is lonely and wants attention . it might not be exhibiting menacing behavior , but calling out for attention . approach carefully .

master the basics . be creative . stay safe . take it beyond your home .

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you and your guinea pig will not reach the harder stuff without knowing everything that you should know about training first . first , work on targeting , conditioning your pig to the clicker , and doing simple tricks , such as stand up . just because a trick doesnt necessarily exist doesnt mean you cant teach it to your piggy anyway . make up your own tricks , use your mind , and have fun with it if you are both bored out of your minds , there is no point in training at all . make very low hurdles - no more than two inches off the ground at the most - and teach your guinea pig to jump over them , create a safe agility course , or use lures to train your piggy to jump through a hoop . the possibilities are endless ive said it once , ill say it again guinea pigs are much more fragile than the average dog or cat , so almost every trick meant for a larger animal must be adapted to suit the needs of a guinea pig . ensure that there is nothing to endanger your piggy before , during , or after training , or any other time . take every needed safety precaution every time . while taking a guinea pig to shows to be judged by their fur color , pattern , and sleekness is not exactly everyones cup of tea , it may be an option to do things with your guinea pig that involve training , showing off tricks , and meeting fellow guinea pig lovers .

step back and observe your behavior . step away when feelings become obsessive . chanel your energy elsewhere . spend time with others . make a game plan . accept your feelings . keep a balanced opinion of your crushes . remember crushes do not last . be responsible for your own happiness . take care of yourself . own up to your unhealthy habits . keep the consequences of acting on a crush in mind . interrogate what your crushes represent . seek professional guidance .

how to stop having crushes

if youre experiencing crushes frequently , try to take a step back . think about how you would view your behavior if you were an outsider in the situation . give your feelings an objective assessment to see if theyre healthy . look at your past and present crushes and relationships . are you drawn to a particular type of a person do you tend to bounce from one crush to another if youve ever had a relationship with your crush , was it healthy do you tend to have crushes even if youre in a committed relationship own up to whether or not having crushes is detrimental to you . avoid feelings of blame , directed towards yourself or others , in favor of simply addressing your own behavioral patterns over time . having a crush on someone is a normal part of life . however , because crushes can be so powerful on an emotional level , they can become obsessive . if youve noticed you have a tendency to obsess , try to figure out how to refrain from letting that tendency take over . try to reduce the amount of time spent dwelling on crushes in the future . thinking about your crush while you are trying to work or do something else can be a sign that youre focusing too much on them . do you usually allow your feelings about a crush to distract you from work , school , or other relationships if so , try consciously changing your focus if you notice your mind dwelling on crushes too much . bring your attention back to whatever it was you were doing before you started thinking about your crush . try taking 90 seconds to take a series of deep breaths , focusing only on your breathing . this can help you get thoughts of your crush out of your mind and return your brain to the present . continual crushes can bring up powerful emotions , causing you to constantly dwell on one potential romantic partner or another . to avoid this , it can be useful to stay focused on other things you enjoy instead of fixating on a string of crushes . keeping your mind busy with other things can be a good way to get over a crush . try thinking about your plans for the future , work that you have to get done , movies you want to see , or other things that you find engaging . try to do activities that take up your attention . avoid doing something that might let your mind wander back to thinking about your crush . remember , it is normal to have crushes . its okay to occasionally indulge in a lighthearted crush . however , if having crushes is becoming a problem , keeping busy can help you from letting your feelings get out of control . spending time with other people can be a great way to get your mind off of a crush . if youre having a great conversation with someone or doing something fun together , its easy to forget about your crush . try doing something fun with your friends or family to help get over a crush quickly . your friends and family can be a great support system if you are having trouble dealing with a crush . try talking with them if it feels overwhelming . if your crush is part of your group of friends , try hanging out with your friends individually for a while . sometimes , the need to have crushes can be due to a lack of emotionally intimacy in other areas of your life . working on building strong relationships with friends and family members may reduce your need to develop crushes . if youre keen on the notion of lessening intense crushes , have a game plan in place . think about what to do if you start develop too strong or too intense of a crush in the future . have a way to break the pattern in mind . does having crushes make you feel less lonely or sad if so , find other ways to deal during those moments . try to , say , strengthen a plutonic bond you have or work on a hobby or skill of your own . feeling more secure about yourself and your relationships may lessen your need for strong crushes . it may be hard to stick to a plan at first , especially if youre used to having a lot of crushes that get out of control . know going into your plan you may feel sad and frustrated at times . however , try to also acknowledge these feelings will be worth it long term , as you wont allow crushes to get out of control . even though you might not want the feelings that a strong crush on someone can bring , its important to accept them for what they are . its perfectly fine to have a crush and take notice of it , without engaging it . people have small crushes throughout their lives . people even have crushes when theyre already in stable romantic relationships . just because you have a crush , doesnt mean you need to act on it or let it make your choices for you . do not feel guilty about having a crush , even if its on someone whos not available . you cannot control how you feel . if you have romantic feelings for a married co - worker , for example , you may feel guilty . however , you are not choosing to have these feelings . the only you can control is your reactions . how people react to feelings defines their morality , not the feelings themselves . try to say something to yourself like , i have a crush on brandon but hes married . its not wrong to feel this way . i cant help it . im not going to act on it , so i dont need to become overwhelmed with guilt . when you have a crush on someone , its all too easy to focus only on the good things about them . if youre prone to intense crushes , you may have a tendency to put your crushes on a pedestal right away . imbalanced views can create unrealistic images of others . try to change your focus and find things that you might not like about your crushes as they arise . this can help you get over crushes faster , and may reduce the number of crushes you have . it can be challenging . however , keeping a balanced opinion of your crush can help you cope . you dont need to be mean , but finding things you dont like about someone can help you stay neutral in your opinion of them . remind yourself your crush has flaws , and the fantasy relationship youre spinning is unlikely to work out as well in reality . although having a crush can bring on intense and overwhelming feelings , crushes dont last . it can help knowing that the crush wont be a permanent feeling and that things will eventually return to normal . this can keep you from allowing your feelings from becoming obsessive . you will see this more as a fleeting feeling than a long , life changing relationship . this can be particularly important for crushes accrued when youre already in a committed relationship . remember , most crushes last for around four months . if you tend to have one crush after another , theyll probably be in the four month range . remind yourself your feelings may have an expiration date to help keep them in check . crushes will fade in time , generally leaving you with thoughts like i dont know what i saw in them to begin with . remind yourself of this when you start obsessing over the person . oftentimes , people enjoy the intensity of a crush . there is nothing wrong with allowing yourself to enjoy the happy feelings a crush brings , even if theyre fleeting . however , these feelings can get out of control . continually remind yourself that you are in control of your own happiness . you may find that , after awhile , you rely on small gestures of attention or care from your crush to feel happy . this can easily backfire on you , leaving you reeling . remind yourself that , while its nice to have a crush , only you can make yourself happy . you will have to learn to rely on your own hobbies , interests , and passions for happiness rather than another person . having a crush can be tough . crushes can make you feel hurt , confused , frustrated or any number of painful things . since it can be so difficult to have a crush , its important that you take care of yourself . try doing something fun , getting your feelings out by writing or drawing , or giving yourself a small treat once in a while . taking care of yourself until the crush fades can help make things a lot easier on you . if you believe your continual crushes are becoming a problem , admit this . being honest with yourself about negative behavior is an important step to overcoming these behaviors . think about what your crushes are doing to you emotionally . are you neglecting school work to obsess over various crushes do you have a new crush each week who you cannot live without thinking of constantly acknowledge that crushes are causing you more unhappiness and anxiety than anything . this can help you recognize you need to acknowledge underlying issues that drive your need to have frequent crushes . be realistic about each new crush you have . this can help you figure out if this really a meaningful , important crush or if youre just feeling something to feel it . would you truly act on this crush and , if so , what would happen there are often many reasons not to act on a crush . you may have a crush on someone from work . you may already be in a relationship . thinking about what would happen if you acted on your crushes can help you trace patterns . maybe you always develop crushes on unavailable people . this could say something about larger romantic patterns in your life . maybe you crush on people you cant have to avoid true intimacy . crushes can represent real feelings that should be acted on . however , if you constantly have crushes , something else may be at play . crushes may represent a need thats not being met elsewhere in life . think about your lash crush and what they represented to you . consider the circumstances of your life at the time . think about past crushes . did they represent similar things for example , maybe your last crush was on a married co - worker . the crush before that was on your boss , who office policy forbids you from dating . what did these people represent in this case , your crushes are on people who you cannot really be with . did you experience a bad breakup in the past maybe developing crushes on unobtainable people helps you feel romantic feelings without having to risk actual intimacy . if you seem to have obsessive crushes often , you may suffer from a condition like love addiction . if your crushes are interfering with your daily life , to the point youre unable to complete basic tasks , make an appointment with a therapist . a qualified therapist can help you learn to identify the triggers for intense crushes and how to better regulate your emotions .

dont think you can just go out with himher if you ask them . try befriending the person . show this person the real you . organize group dates . believe that youre beautiful . pretty yourself . dont fear rejection . if he likes you back , great , be careful what you choose for a first date .

how to survive sixth grade crushing

they may not be ready for it yet . the best relationships start on friendships . trust me , dont change yourself for a guy . i liked this one guy and it just wasnt me . you want this person to like you for the person that you really are . ask him if he can invite some of his friends to the mall with him for example . then get some of your friends , then all of you agree to meet somewhere and then just hang out . that way , you arent rushing into things , but you still get to hang out . guys admire girls with confidence . use makeup at a moderation . go for natural colors and colors that go best with your eye color , skin tone , etc . dont glob stuff on your face , it will ruin your skin . use perfume or body mist on your neck and wrists for now . there will be plenty of guys out there for you that will like you . just remember to take things slow . choose something fun for your age , like rollerskating . that way , the most you can do is hold each others hands .

reduce other factors that cause anxiety . let your guinea pig explore its space . slowly introduce yourself into its environment . gradually work towards holding your guinea pig . teach children how to hold guinea pigs properly . give treats to reinforce good behavior . learn your guinea pigs personality . do not hit your guinea pig

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the guinea pigs cage should be kept in a quiet area of the house to minimize stress . if your guinea pig bites , it is most likely that it feels threatened . turn the tv down or off . put other pets , if you have any , in another room . you want the guinea pig to only focus on you . then when you act nicely , your guinea pig will associate you with a pleasant experience , not stress . if youve just brought home your guinea pig , it will take a while for it to get used to its new home , its cage , and the room the cage is in . let the guinea pig acclimate . dont immediately start playing with the guinea pig . open the cage and let it investigate the opening . it is important to let your guinea pig explore . once it knows its space and where the good hiding places are , it will feel more comfortable . as the pig gets more relaxed , place an exercise pen around the cage on the floor , and give the guinea pig time to explore . do this when it is quiet — make sure there are no loud noises and no other pets around . place fresh greens at the edge of the cage door and outside the cage to encourage exploration . dont push . every guinea pig is different and this will take time . hang out without trying to engage your pig at first . sit next to the cage . talk quietly to the pig . place tasty greens like parsley or dandelion greens in its space . wait for the pig to get more comfortable before reaching out to pet it . eventually , you can stick out a finger and let it explore your scent . do not make contact until the guinea pig feels comfortable . just sit and read or watch tv quietly next to the cage , while the pig gets used to your presence . loud noises will frighten the guinea pig , so hang out together when the house is quiet and no dogs or cats are around . make physical contact for short periods . do not grab and hold your guinea pig against its will . once the pig accepts your hand in the cage , gradually and gently pet the guinea pig for a few seconds at a time . try petting it behind the ears and on the top of the head at first . only after it is comfortable in its setting and with you petting it , should you pick it up . lift it up from under the chest just off the ground and then place it back down immediately . work on this to get it used to being picked up . when you pick up a pig , use one hand to pick it up around the chest and the other to support the hindquarters . the guinea pig needs to feel completely supported so it doesnt worry about being dropped . start by sitting on the floor . pick it up and pet the it . keep calm . if the pig gets agitated , put the pig back down before it feels the need to defend itself with their teeth . remember that nibblingbiting is the guinea pigs way of expressing itself . if the guinea pig feels uncomfortable being held by a child and resorts to biting , tell the child to put the pig down immediately . under your supervision , have children sit down on the floor with a towel , a critter cuddler blanket , or cuddle cup to hold the guinea pig . this way , there is a barrier between the child and the guinea pig to protect them both . have the child pet the guinea pig gently and allow the guinea pig to wander away , so it does not feel trapped . dont reward bad behavior . if it seems that the guinea pig is biting to get your attention , do not reward the behavior by giving attention . come back later and pet the pig when it is calm . you will have to read the pigs body language and if it seem calm and accepting , pet it and reward that behavior . if you attempt to abate its biting with treats , it will associate biting and bad behavior with tasty treats . after a few months of living together , you will start to notice the guinea pigs patterns . avoid bothering the pig when it is napping , for instance , to decrease the chance of an adverse reaction to your attention . this can injure the pig , but it will also teach the pig that it needs to defend itself against you - leading to more biting . it might be your gut reaction to lash out at a guinea pig after it bites you . dont give in to this instinct . think about why the guinea pig resorted to biting and change your behavior . if someone held you against your will and you were afraid , had to urinate , or were hungry , would you consider biting you dont have another way of communicating , so you probably would sink your teeth into their hand too .

gather a celery stalk and a carrot . slide the carrot inside the celery stick . put some leaves under the carrot to make it tastier . serve .

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the celery stalk should be twice as long or longer than the carrot . take some celery leaves off the stalk to make it tastier for the guinea pig . remove the celery veins these can present a choking hazard . break or cut the celery in half , and slide the carrots in one of the halves . then put the other carrot on top of the enfolded carrots to make a capsule - like treat , covering the carrots inside . some guinea pigs like the leaves , some like the stalks , others like both . youll discover this by watching your own guinea pig as it eats . put as much variety in the treat as you can . watch your guinea pig munch away on this treat . success

tie up your horse . groom your horse .

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you can cross - tie your horse if theyre available at your stable , or use a quick - release knot . clean out his hooves with a hoof pick , and clean his coat with a curry comb , dandy brush , and soft brush . be careful to clean his back , girth , and head dirt underneath tack can rub and irritate your horses skin .

tie your horse . groom your horse . check for any sores or wounds that may cause discomfort under the saddle area . put on a saddle pad or blanket . proceed to saddle the horse . put the saddle in place . make sure the saddle is positioned properly . make sure the saddle fits correctly . secure the front main cinch . loosely secure the back bucking cinch . lead the horse forward five steps . attach the breast collar if you use one . mount up , run up the stirrup irons on the stirrup leathers . detach the girth or cinch and set it aside . make sure the pad is lined up properly . place the saddle . replace the girth . drop your stirrups before mounting .

how to saddle a horse

before you saddle your horse , you need to tie her so that she stays put . check out this helpful wikihow article to learn how to tie proper knots to keep a horse secured cross - ties are preferred but not a must . if you tie your horse with the lead rope , its always a safe idea to use a quick - release or slip knot . consider slipping the tail of the lead rope through the quick release knots loop if your horse is knowledgeable about untying knots . horses can become very irritated and sore when ridden without being groomed properly for both your safety and the horses you should never skip this step . brush your horses body . use a curry comb to remove any caked mud and then a stiff brush to remove the dust and hair brought up by the curry comb . finish with a soft brush . pay special attention to the horses back , belly , and girth area . dirt or burrs underneath tack can irritate your horse to the point of misbehaving and even bucking . remove tangles and burrs with a mane and tail comb . be careful when brushing the tail horses can and will kick . clean the horses hooves and check for lodged stones . be careful or you may be kicked you should not do this alone unless you are experienced . dont place a saddle over a wound . check the horse for lumps , bumps , swelling , sores , and heat that could mean your horse is unsound and unfit for riding . your horse needs this to protect its back and keep the saddle in place . place the saddle pad or blanket on the horses back . put the pad a bit higher on the withers , then sliding it back into place just behind the mane . this ensures that the hair on the horses back lies flat beneath the pad and saddle . make sure the blanket or pad is even on both sides . at this point you will place a saddle depending on whether you ride western or english style . this will likely be determined by your training or by what tack is available . a western style saddle is designed for utility , since it was designed for a cowboy or rancher to use on the job . it has a saddle horn and a high back , making it a more comfortable seat for long hours on horseback . an english style saddle is sleek and small with no saddle horn and a low back . it is best for formal riding and show riding . stand on the left side of the horse , and flip the right - side cinches and stirrup over the seat of the saddle to keep them from getting caught beneath it . then , swing the saddle over the horse . rock the saddle back and forth into position and unfold the cinches and stirrup . dont do this if youre working a young or unknown horse it hurts to be hit in the head by a heavy stirrup if the horse acts up . line up the center line with the spine of the horse . check that the stirrups hang equally on both sides , make sure that the front of the saddle sits just behind the withers , and not on top of the shoulder blades you should be able to slide two fingers under the gullet the curve of the saddle just under the horn without cramping , and have 3 - 4 fingers - width of space between the horses forearms and the cinch . dont use a saddle if it doesnt fit properly . an ill - fitting saddle can cause a horse to bolt or buck , and also can make a horse sore and cause bad habits . this is a key step you wont be riding without a cinch however , keep in mind that you should always cinch up a cinch gradually you dont want your horse to become cinch - sour . pull the cinch under the horses belly , towards you , and slip the latigo strap down through the cinch buckle . pull it all the way through and make sure neither the cinch nor the latigo strap are twisted . lift the latigo and slip it through the saddles d - ring , from outside - in and leaving the ring angled towards the left . make the cinch snug , but not overly so . repeat the process once or twice more if you have a lot of length left in the latigo strap . straighten the secured part of the strap so each layer is on top of the one beneath it , then gradually pull down on the tail of the latigo to tighten the cinch . dont tighten it all the way thatll come later . move the tail of the latigo horizontally across the secured latigo and bringing it up through the saddles d - ring again , but from the right side . now slip the tail down through the loop created and fasten the knot . this can be confusing best to have an experienced saddler help you . walk the horse around for a minute or two . this will let the horse relax to the saddle and stop bloating a strategy many tricky horses will use to keep you from putting the saddle on too tight . finish tightening the cinch . do this pulling the top layer of latigo strap not the tail upwards . keep the tightening a gradual process dont rush things . re - tighten the knot . done there should be two fingers - width of space between the horses belly and the bottom of the cinch . this process is similar to that of securing the front cinch , but instead of ending the process with a knot youll use the buckle . this ensures the skin under the cinch isnt wrinkled , to keep the horse from being pinched while riding . you can also gradually stretch each front leg forward for a few seconds this also works to reduce tension in the horses skin . do this by latching it to the saddles cinch and front d - rings . this will keep the saddle from slipping backwards and is especially helpful for on the trail with your saddle in place , you are ready to mount from the left side , of course . thats a fancy way to say you need to move the stirrup up higher and secure it in place so that it will not dangle down in your way you do this by sliding the metal foot stirrup up and tucking it under the saddle . this keeps the stirrups out of the way , so that they wont hit the horse as you lift the saddle over the horses back you will put it back on in a moment , but taking it off keeps it from dangling while you try to position the saddle . alternately , you can fold it over the top of the saddle , leaving it attached on the right - hand side . if you are using a contoured pad a common english style , which is shaped like the outline of a saddle , there should be about an inch of pad all the way around . for a square pad , be sure to leave at least one inch around the front edge of the saddle . the saddle should not be so far forward that in makes the shoulder movement hard . stand on the left - hand side of the horse , place the saddle on the pad on the horses back with the pommel of the saddle just in front of the horses withers . the arch of the pommel should be directly over the highest point of the horses withers . the saddle will nestle in behind the horses shoulder - blades . now that the saddle is in place , you need to replace the girth so that you can tighten the saddle and secure it in place . attach the girth to the girth billets on the off side the horses right , then bring it up to the near side the horses left . as a guideline , the girth should come under the horse just behind its front legs . if you can see a gap between the elbow and the girth , the saddle is too far back . fasten the girth securely . you should be able to get your hand between horse and girth , but it should be a snug fit . now youre ready to mount

have the bridle ready . take off the halter . bring the horses head down . drape the reins over the horse . change hands with the bridle . separate the curb chain . ask the horse to open its mouth . put the bit in . pull the crown over the ears . fasten the buckles . place the halter around the horses neck . unbuckle the straps . pull the bridle off . put the halter on . check the horse for medical problems . train the horse to stop chewing on bits . try a different bit if your horse seems uncomfortable . try a tongue port for tongue problems .

how to put the bit in a horses mouth

the bridle should be draped over your non - dominant arm , ready to be put on the horse . the bridle holds the bit in place . the bridle includes the reins , which is what you use to guide the horse , by pulling on them to move the bit . depending on the type of bridle you have , you may need to unbuckle the nose strap to make it easier . youll need to unbuckle english bridles , for instance . the first part of a bridling a horse is taking its halter off . the halter is what fits over the horses face so you can lead it around when you are not riding it . you usually take it off to ride , though some people do apply a bit and bridle over the halter . unbuckle the strap , and pull the halter down off the horses face . if your horse is accustomed to being bridled , you can take the halter completely off . if its not , you should buckle just the strap around the horses neck . that way , you can hold on to the horse if it tries to move away . to put the bridle on , youll need to bring the horses head down . to bring its head down , use your hand between its ears to guide its head lower . you also want to move its head towards you if possible . sometimes , the horse will need some convincing or will seem nervous . dont try to shove its head down . rather , keep gentle pressure on its head until it relaxes its head and moves it down . make sure the bridle is going the right direction , facing outward . when its facing the correct way , put the reins over the horse to get them out of the way . draping them is easier than having them drag on the ground . now , put the bridle in your dominant hand . your dominant arm should be next to the horse , and you should be facing the same direction the horse is , except maybe turned slightly towards the horse . the top piece crown should be in your dominant hand , so you can pull it over the horses head . as you pull the crown up the horses head , make sure the curb chain or strap is separate from the bit . only certain types of bridles have curb chains , so yours may not have one . the curb chain goes under the horses chin , which is why you need to separate it from the bit . dont bang the horses teeth with the curb strap . no , you dont ask the horse with words . you tell the horse you want it to open its mouth by inserting your thumb into its mouth , behind the teeth . the teeth sit to the front of the horses mouth , leaving a space behind them for the bit . basically , you want to aim for the back edge of the mouth , along the side of the horses head . use your non - dominant hand to stick a thumb in the horses mouth , as youre holding the crown with your dominant hand . if the horse seems reluctant , try moving your thumb around . lightly touch the horses gums . doing so will tell the horse it needs to open its mouth . once the horses mouth is open , slide the bit in . as you do , make sure you guide the bit between the horses teeth . be careful of the horses teeth . try not to touch them at all with the bit . keep moving it gently back until the bit is in the back of the horses mouth . at the same time , pull the crown of the bridle up over the horses head , sliding the bit into place . the pressure should come from the crown moving up , not you pushing the bit with your left hand . if the bridle has a curb strap , be sure to guide that with your left hand , too . the bit goes over the horses tongue , not under it . make sure to move the ears forward first . dont smash them down , just use your hand to move them one at a time . as you do , pull the crown over each side until the bridle is in place to complete putting the bridle on . some bridles have a brow band that stays across the forehead . others have loops that go over the horses ears . fasten the buckle around the neck , called the throatlatch . make sure you can put about four fingers underneath it . after that , buckle the chin strap , leaving two fingers worth of space underneath it . in addition , you may need to buckle the curb strap . if you have an english bridle , youll need to buckle the nose piece into place . once again , youll use the halter to keep hold of the horse by strapping the halter around its neck . right now , its not completely on . youre just using it as a way to steady the horse as you take the bridle off . now , do all the straps in reverse . unbuckle the chin strap and the curb strap , if the bridle has one . unbuckle the nose piece , if the bridle has one . also , undo the throatlatch . in other words , make sure all the buckles are undone in anticipation of pulling the bridle off . using your dominant hand , take hold of the crown , and pull it over the horses ears . try not to smash the horses ears as you pull it off . the horse should naturally release the bit , but as you pull the bridle off , use your non - dominant hand to guide the bit through the horses teeth . once youve pulled the bridle off and away , unbuckle the halter from the neck . the halter goes on much like the bridle , except without the bit . instead , you just have the headstall instead of the crown and a nose band instead of a bit . slide the headstall over the horses head as you pull the nose band over the horses nose , making sure you dont smash the horses ears or poke the horse in the eye . buckle or clip the throatlatch into place around the horses head . the lead line should be attached to the halter , so you can lead the horse back to the stall or wherever you want it to go . if the horse doesnt want to take the bit or it seems uncomfortable with the bit , you should have the horse checked by a vet . problems with the mouth , tongue , or teeth , including ulcers , can lead to problems with the bit because they will make the bit uncomfortable for the horse . if the vet doesnt find anything , try a horse dentist instead . if your horse is always chewing on the bit , it can cause problems with the bridle set up , stretching out the leather , among other issues . one way you can help your horse is to slowly train it to become used to the bit without chewing by letting the horse wear it for a certain period each day . start by putting the bit and bridle on the horse while its in its stall , making sure you dont use one that can catch on things in the stall . also , take off the reins and nose band before putting it on . stay with the horse will it has the bridle on . leave it on for about an hour . keep doing this training everyday until the horse seems comfortable and doesnt chew anymore . next , try it on the longe line with a halter over the bridle . work with the horse a little everyday until it seems comfortable without chewing the bit . after that , you can try riding the horse . some horses dont like certain bits , and they wont respond how youd like to your rein movement . bits put pressure on the tongue , so sometimes a bit that doesnt put as much pressure on the tongue can be helpful if your horse is sensitive . for instance , some curve across the tongue instead of going straight across . see if anyone you know has bits you can borrow to try on your horse . that way , you can see which one works the best . a different bit can also help retrain your horse not to put its tongue over the bit if it has picked up that habit . if your horse keeps putting its tongue over the bit and youve tried other options , you can add a tongue port . it fits over the bit , and a rubber part hangs down . the rubber bit makes it harder for your horse to move its tongue over the bit .

gather all of the fruit you can . cut the fruit into small pieces . mix the fruit pieces together . add some freshly squeezed orange juice andor apple juice as dressing . serve the fruit salad to your guinea pig and watch your guinea pig enjoy .

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this includes apples , oranges , strawberries , and so forth . if you want , get some lettuce as well . , try not to mash the pieces together , or it wont taste as good for the guinea pig . you may have already put some apples and oranges in your salad , but this will help bring out the flavor . this step is optional . note by natural , this mean squeezing the juice straight out of the orange or apple . do not use the orange juice or apple juice you would usually drink .

gather as many vegetables as you can . cut the vegetables into little pieces . mix the vegetables together . give it to your guinea pig .

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you can use peppers , tomatoes , celery , carrots , and so on . this will be best with lettuce included . , do not mash . smoothly mix the vegetables together . this one isnt very complicated , it is just a vegetable salad

groom your horse . run up the stirrup irons on the stirrup leathers . detach the girth and set it aside . make sure the pad is lined up properly with the edges of the saddle . stand on the left - hand near side of the horse , place the saddle and pad on the horses back with the pommel of the saddle just in front of the horses withers . slide the saddle back in the direction of the hair growth until it settles into place . attach the girth to the girth straps on the off side the horses right , then bring it up to the near side the horses left . fasten the girth securely - you should be able to get your hand between horse and girth , but it should be a snug fit . drop your stirrups before you mount . mount and recheck your girth to see if it needs tightening .

how to put on an english saddle properly

dirt and loose hair underneath a saddle can chafe him and cause an uncomfortable ride for both of you . this keeps them out of the way . alternately , you can fold it over the top of the saddle , leaving it attached on the right - hand off side . for a contoured pad , there should be about an inch of pad all the way around . for a square pad , be sure to leave at least one inch around the front edge of the saddle . the saddle should not be so far forward that in makes the shoulder movement hard . , the arch of the pommel should be directly over the highest point of the horses withers . the saddle will nestle in behind the horses shoulder - blades . as a guideline , the girth should come under the horse just behind its front legs . if you can see a gap between the elbow and the girth , the saddle is too far back . make sure to use the first and third billet straps not the second . , done

put on your horses saddle pad . pick up the saddle and set the saddle on horses back . attach the girth .

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place it in front of the withers , and slide it a little bit back until its two or three inches in front of where youll place the saddle . remember not to slide the saddle pad forward , since this irritates your horses skin . always use a clean , soft , dry saddle pad , not a dirty or stiff one . you should launder your saddle pad about once every week . be careful to put the saddle on gently . check that it sits comfortably on the horse , and isnt too far forward or too far back on either side . you can feel along your horses shoulder bone to check that it isnt too far forward or pinching . finally , attach the straps on the saddle pad to your saddles billets . after saddling your horse , pull the saddle pad up into the gullet of the saddle . this secures the pad and prevents it from rubbing uncomfortably against the horse . the girth should be snug enough to hold the saddle on and in place , but not so tight that its pinching or restricting your horse . a well - fitted girth should have enough space to snugly fit two fingers flat in between the girth and the horse . remember to attach the girth to the first and last billets of the saddle . some horses blow up , or suck in air so that the girth wont fit tightly . if your horse does this , lead him to the arena and tighten the girth again before mounting .

ensure that your horse is securely tied before bridling him . bridle your horse . slide the crownpiece over the ears . attach the throat latch and noseband . do a final safety check . youre ready to get on and ride your horse

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there are multiple methods for doing this the safest and most secure method is to unbuckle your horses halter , take it off his nose , and slip it over his neck , with the halter still attached to a lead rope or one cross - tie . you can also simply put the reins over the horses neck before removing the halter . before bridling , check the bridle is straight and neat , and that the noseband and throatlash are unbuckled . you can then guide the bit into your horses mouth . there are two methods for doing this hold the crownpiece at the top of your ponys head , holding it in your right hand . guide the bit in with your left hand . you can also hold the bridle underneath the browband , with your right arm reaching underneath your ponys head . guide the bit in with your left hand . if your horse will not take the bit , you can squeeze the side of his lip , or slide your finger in his mouth and press at the part of his mouth without teeth . if you arent sure where this is , ask someone to help you slide it gently over one ear at a time , being careful not to bend them too hard . the throat latch should be loose enough to fit your fist between the latch and his throat . the noseband should be loose enough to fit a finger between it and the horses skin . check that all your horses tack is snug , clean , and in good condition dont ride with broken or very dirty tack . ensure that all straps are in their keepers , and arent too loose or too tight . run up your stirrups before mounting . before you mount , tighten the girth . if youre an inexperienced rider , always ask your instructor or another experienced rider to give you a safety check before riding . remember to take the reins over your horses head before leading him .

ensure that bullying is the cause of weight loss . set up the cage to optimise feeding opportunities . set up a separate , smaller cage to accommodate feeding . prepare the vegetables . take the food to the cage . separate the chosen cavy . put in foods . go away . check on the cage . return the guinea pig to the main cage .

how to separate a guinea pig for feeding

if your guinea pig is losing weight , its imperative that they see a vet . unless youve actually seen other guinea pigs blocking them from food and youre certain this is the only cause of loss , get them checked by a vet to ensure there are no other problems . if the pecking order has changed , and there is another bottom pig , the previous lightest cavy may begin gaining weight while the new bottom pig loses . if the guinea pig is being bullied at veggie time , chances are its happening with hay , pellets and even water too . have the same number of bowls , hay racks and bottles as guinea pigs - even if bullying is terrible , each pig can only hog one at once . space these evenly around the cage eg . in opposite corners to that cavies cannot block access to all of them at once . its awfully inconvenient to do this with any kind of temporary enclosure , because youre going to have to set it up every single day or twice a day if you feed vegetables mornings and evenings . put this cage near to the main cage , so that theyre still within earshot of the other guinea pigs . if youre only separating them for a short time , such as 20 - 30 minutes , you can have a small cage with bedding and a bowl for vegetables . if the separation is longer , they will also need a water bottle and possibly a larger cage . add any other needs such as pellets and hay if youre also separating for equal access to those . its easier to put separate vegetables on a smaller plate when youre preparing them , rather than trying to divide it all up at the cage . if the guinea pigs access to veggies has been severely restricted , their main problem will be vitamin c deficiency , so focus on high vitamin c foods like capsicum bell peppers . the guinea pig will likely be nervous at being put in a separate cage , so include some of their favourite food to entice them to start eating . now is a good time to review how to feed a guinea pig , to make sure youre giving them a good diet . its good to get all guinea pigs interested in dinner before you separate , so give them a good look at the food and perhaps a tidbit each now . as gently as possible , remove the guinea pig from the cage and place her in the separate cage . place vegetables andor hay and pellets into each cage . leave the guinea pigs for a while unless they are very comfortable eating around you . when you return , check what the separated guinea pig has not eaten . you can also check their cage for poops at this stage , to ensure their digestion is working normally . if the guinea pig has been in the cage for half an hour , they should have gone to the bathroom at least once in this time . there may be a small amount of rumbling among the cavies when they are reunited .

horse - sit . hire yourself out as a groomer . talk with the barn managerowner to see if you can exchange chores for a break in your horses board . mow lawns , rake leaves , pull weeds , etc . talk with your parents about exchanging chores for an allowance that would go toward your horses boarding fee - cleaning , cooking , dishes , laundry , etc . babysit . school horses , if you are an experienced rider , ask the owner or your trainer if you could start coaching for a break in the board . make and sell something your good at such as bracelets or cards . offer to feed or blanket peoples horses at night charge a small fee and hang flyers up around the barn sell old tack or clothes that you dont fit into any more offer to muck stalls and feedwater horses at your stable .

how to make money to board your horse as a teen or kid

every boarding barn has people who go on vacation , or people whod love to take a break from mucking stalls every day . or even just riding all the time . set up a rate schedule , depending on how much care you are willing to do . not only will you get a little bit of income , but youll learn a lot about horse - ownership along the way . offer to pull manes , braid , polish hooves , etc . if youre boarding your horse in a show barn , you can probably find customers fairly easily . braiding , especially , can be very profitable . in the higher up levels , its not uncommon for people to pay up to 60 dollars for a well braided mane . offer to haul hay , repair fence lines , organize the feed room , etc . in your neighborhood . , there are so many parents who are looking for a good babysitter to come and take care of their young ones after school . people can pay big money for a good babysitter you can also set a price per child for each hour just make it reasonable , otherwise you will never get a good job example 5 . 00 per child each hour if your barn has horses that arent being used currently , talk to the owner and ask if you could school horses for them . if it works , ask if you could school them for a small break in your boarding fee . coaches often need help , especially if they have inexperienced riders in a lesson that need a leader . learn how to lunge , especially - it can be very useful ,

build your confidence . be yourself . maintain good hygiene . have your own life .

how to act around the girl you like 1

confidence is one of the most attractive qualities a person can possess . you dont have to be super sexy or built like chris hemsworth , either . all confidence requires is a firm belief in your own self - worth . if you believe it , that girl you like shes going to believe it , too . it takes time and a little effort to build your confidence , especially if youre starting from a low point . even if you dont believe in yourself , pretend like you do . faking confidence actually tricks your brain into believing that you are confidentstand up straight when youre walking , like you matter . take up space like crossing your ankle across your knee when youre sitting . leaning nonchalantly against a nearby surface . avoid crossing your arms across your chest , or not making eye contact when you talk to people . both of these are defensive gestures . part of being confident is being yourself and being okay with who that is . trying to change yourself to be someone else isnt going to work with her . shes going to see that youre not comfortable with yourself and that youre lying about who you are and she wont be pleased . show what makes you unique and why youre interesting . you dont have to walk around wearing a pocket protector do people do that anymore , but you dont have to hide that youre interested in computers . she will accept you and if she doesnt . shes probably not worth your time dont try to be someone else , especially if youre trying to be the person you think she wants . if she isnt interested in the person you are , shes not the girl for you . its hard to attract the girl that you like when you overwhelm her with your smell and your greasy hair . try to shower at least a couple times a week and use soap . wear clothes that have been recently laundered . reusing jeans and trousers is fine , as long as they arent super dirty , but change your shirt each day . be careful about using aftershave or cologne . a little goes a long way you dont want to approach the girl you like in a cloud of cologne . keep it down to a little spritz if you have to do wear it . make sure to smell the deodorants before you buy them so you know how strong they smell and what they smell like . again , you dont want to overwhelm her with smell , but a little deodorant especially if youve just played a game like soccer or basketball will make you seem much more put together . another incredibly important thing to remember is that you need to have your own life . dont only focus on this one girl and try to be around her 247 . it wont win you any prizes with her . in fact , youll come across as needy and pathetic and shell be far less likely to be interested in you . pursue your own interests . if youre into soccer , join a team and play games . you could even if youre feeling brave invite her to come watch a game or to kick around a soccer ball with you . this will mean you have your own friends to hang out with , even if your groups overlap . do things with your buddies rather than doing things only when you know that shell be there , or doing things only with her . this doesnt mean that you ignore her completely . of course not . when you see her around either at school , or at mutual events , ask her what shes been up to and mention some of the things youve been doing like teaching yourself a language , going rock climbing , kicking butt on call of duty .

read her body language . take note if she wants to spend time with you . pay attention to her facial expressions . trust your gut .

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people will often express themselves through their body language . these signals can range from being obvious to subtle , requiring you to pay careful attention . try to look out for some of the following examples of body language to determine if a girl might be interested in you or notstanding or sitting close to you can be a sign of interest . if she makes eye contact often and smiles or laughs a lot she might be interested in you . lightly touching your arms or shoulders can be a show of affection . if she crosses her arms , looks distracted or avoids contact with you she is probably uninterested . some people may differ in regards to how they use their body language . these signs wont always apply . does she always come find you at lunch does she stop by your locker after school does she regularly visit you at work has she taken an interest in your activities if she makes an effort to be around you , she obviously likes spending time with you . that may not mean that she is interested in you romantically but if she treats you different than all other guys there is a good chance she is . many say that this is the best way to find out if someone is interested in you . ask yourself if it seems like she wants to spend time with you . if the answer is yes , she probably likes you . if she is willing to make eye contact with you , that is a good sign to begin with . our facial expressions are great indicators of our feelings . if the girl gives you a warm welcoming look and a smile when you see her that is definitely a sign of positive feelings . however , sometimes people might fake smiles . learn some of the following traits of genuine smiles and fake smiles to accurately gauge interestgenuine smiles will involve the eyes . a person who is smiling will close their eyes and should have crows - feet wrinkles appear . fake smiles will generally not involve the eyes at all . there wont be any closing of the eyes or crows - feet appearing with a fake smile . in a genuine smile , you shouldnt be able to see the persons bottom teeth . fake smiles will likely reveal both the top and bottom rows of teeth . if you think she likes you , theres a pretty good chance she likes you . try not to spend too much time thinking about it . its natural to be nervous about something like this but thinking about it constantly isnt helping anything . take stock of the information that you have available to you and decide on a course of action . it would be better to decide to ask her out or decide to do nothing then to keep torturing yourself . none of these clues guarantee that she is into you , but if youre noticing two or three of them it is probably a good sign .

make sure you like her before you try to get her to notice you . try to sit near her in class . have your friends sit near you too . make sure you laugh a lot with your friend . dont be over the top though . stand up for what you believe in . when youre doing something difficult like math , just ask her how to do it . complain to your friend loudly about having to do a job at home where she might hear . if youve got a skill , use it with your friend but not too loudly . just have a conversation with her . start to talk to her often . if she wants to talk on a social networking site , talk . dont ask her out unless you are 110 that she likes you . try not to look to like youre trying to hard . if she asks you though go for it , try to compliment her , it may seem weird at first but compliments turn girls on so badly . tell her a secret that your friends dont know . if you have one , point out negatives about a current girlfriend you may have . if she can hear you , start up a conversation to your friends about her . ask her questions about herself . if one of her friends loves you or thinks your cute , 99 . 9 she will too . just ask her , smell nice . she probably wont ask you out , just go for it in private , and no girl will spread around that you asked her if she says no .

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because , you might end up having a relationship which is a very good bonus . not necessarily on her table but the opposite table or something like that . although dont have a friend that will attract all the attention away from you it will boost your confidence and will make her look . she will be very put off by this . dont just follow the crowd . girls usually love to give advice and it makes them feel special . girls like men who actually do things not just watch tv . only so she can hear . it can be about anything like homework or friends etc . , it will ruin your friendship . try to look approachable . , if she tells them , she is not interested . , she will stop you if she isnt interested she finds this less weird than you will . , remember , if its meant to be , itll be . apply light deodorant or perfume so she has to get close to you to smell it .

be respectful . read her body language . make eye contact . dont ignore her friends .

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most guys are taught that they dont need to be respectful to women and act accordingly . dont be one of those guys . being respectful does not mean being a doormat or being whipped but it does mean treating the girl you as if shes an actual human being which , surprisingly enough , she is . one way of showing respect is to stop doing something when she tells you to stop . for example , if you two were having a tickle war and she says stop it you stop , even if you think shes kidding . if she is kidding , shell let you know and you can continue . showing that you respect her right to say no in minor instances , will show that you are willing to respect her boundaries in more important instances . be respectful to other people when youre around her and in general . dont talk about your ex as that weirdo or use language like that . dont degrade women , or call guys pussies . youll come across as disrespectful to women and youll come across as immature . while a lot of guys say that womens body language is a mystery , its really not that hard . remember , you can tell when your sister is upset with you , or your female friend is trying to ignore you . the girl you like isnt going to be any different to understand . if she spends most of her time not making eye contact with you , or giving you short , one word answers , she either doesnt want to be around you , or shes upset with you . its probably best to back off . a girl who wants you to stick around is going to be pretty obvious about it . shell be turned towards you . shell be making eye contact and smiling and laughing at the things you say not derisively . she may even touch you like on the arm when shes making a point . it turns out that making eye contact is one of the biggest ways to flirt with someone that youre interested in . this is a good one that you can use in class , if youre sitting in the right spot , or even across the room if youre at a party . you can do this a couple different ways . a good way to do this is to make eye contact if shes across the room , catch her eye and hold it . now , if the two of you are having a conversation , make sure to look deeply into her eyes . for some reason , that intense , long look can cause butterflies in the other person . smile when youre looking at her , especially as youre making eye contact . a little smirk can be even better than a giant grin . a girls friends are incredibly important to her . she will listen to their opinions , even if she wont always follow their advice . if they dont like you it will cast a niggling bit of doubt in her own mind about you . to keep that from happening , you need to make sure that her friends like you . learn some of the things that they like and ask them questions about those interests . for example , if her friends are super into a t . v . show , ask them a little about it whats their favorite thing about the show , favorite characters , favorite episodes , things that irritate them about the show or the fandom . if youre having a conversation with the girl you like and her friends are around , make sure to include them in the conversation . you can still give her the long , heart - felt , languishing looks while making sure that her friends dont feel like youre ignoring them completely . dont flirt with her friends , however . you dont want to come across as a player who is out to get whichever girl responds to his attentions . the girl you like wont think youre interested in her if youre flirting with all her friends , too .

ask her questions . listen . make her laugh . flirt with her . tell her how you feel .

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when youre talking to the girl you like , you want to make her feel special . people like it when others take an interest in them and the girl you like is no different . showing that you care about her thoughts will make her more interested in you , as a result . ask her opinion on things , even if its something silly . for example say youre wearing a shirt that your friend doesnt like , ask for her opinion on whether the shirt is silly or not . tell her shes the final judge . itll make her laugh and feel important . pay attention to the things that she does and says , so you can ask questions about it . for example , if she mentions going rock climbing , ask her how she got started rock climbing and what she enjoys about it . people like talking about themselves , so before you jump in with stories of your own , ask her another question about what she thinks . in this day and age people have really lost the skill of listening really listening to one another . real listening is when you take the time to absorb what someone is saying rather than thinking about the next thing youre going to say or what youre going to have for dinner . for example even if youre at a loud party , when youre having a conversation with her , maintain eye contact , ask questions and if your mind strays , ask for clarification you can use the loud party as an excuse sorry , its really loud in here . can you repeat what you just said . to this end , when youre having a conversation with her , dont fidget with stuff , or keep looking all around the room , or keep checking your phone . shell feel that you dont really care what she has to say . laughter is a great way to bond with someone . this doesnt mean that you need to be the class clown actually , it will probably work best if you arent . all this means is that you make her laugh and say a few entertaining things . now , everyone has a different sense of humor and you know her best , but if youre not sure there are a few things to do that rarely fail . gently poke fun at yourself . you dont have to do a big self - deprecating speech in fact that will make you seem not confident , but a few jabs at yourself will get her laughing and show that you dont take yourself too seriously . for example talk about how you got hit in the head with a soccer ball that day when you werent paying attention , or that time you went to the wrong class because you forgot what day it was . bring up something funny that you saw that day or within the previous week . it should be something a little out of the ordinary and funny . for example ask her if shes ever ended up entangled with a bunch of zombies and then tell her about the zombie walk you accidentally ended up in the middle of . flirting can be very hit or miss and is to be used with caution . since everyone is different , there is no one - size - fits - all approach to flirting with someone . humor and eye contact are the two big ones , but you can subtly flirt in other ways . unless shes made it explicitly clear , flirting really obviously can be off - putting to some girls . keep that in mind when youre hanging out with her . if you arent a good flirt , eye contact and humor will probably be your best bets . flirting over text , however , can be a great , non - threatening type of flirting . of course , you want this to be only supplementary to your interactions in person . keep texts short , sometimes a picture is worth more than a hundred words especially a funny picture do not send explicit pictures unless she has actually asked for them . its good to have a reason to text . you could say something like saw this and thought of you and then send a picture . giving her the right compliment can be a great way of expressing interest and flirting . dont do something basic like youre the most beautiful girl ive ever met it comes across as insincere . instead , say something like did you realize your sweater matches your eyes its a beautiful color , or of course you aced that test , youre super smart in the end , the best way to act around the girl you like is to tell her how you feel . she might otherwise never know . it can seem super intimidating or scary to bare your feelings like that and it is a very brave act . but , otherwise you both will be in this uncomfortable holding pattern . dont do it in front of everyone . choose a time and place where youre both sober and in your right mind . simply say hey , i really like you and i was wondering if youd like to go on a date sometime . dont do this over the phone or text or social media , because you will come across as a coward and most girls dont find that a particularly attractive quality . respect her decision , even if she says no . it can hurt when someone says no , but remember that it isnt about you as a person , its simply that your proposal didnt work for her because she isnt interested , or because she already has a boyfriend , or shes into girls , etc . you can ask why if you must , but if she simply says because im not interested thats your answer and leave it at that . if she says yes , then yay now you two can get to planning a super fun first date . the relationship might not work out , but you proved your bravery by asking her out and your worth by treating her with respect .

pay attention to how she talks and what she talks about . notice interruptions . look for humor . notice playful behavior . look out for jealousy .

how to find out if a girl likes you 2

a girl who is interested in you will laugh more often and her voice may rise in pitch . she might even say flirtatious things , like complimenting you on how you look today . if she is more willing to talk about personal topics with you , such as your plans for the future , she might be interested romantically . if youre lucky , shell even give you helpful hints for dates like mentioning that she loves a particular band or wants to go dancing . giving you a compliment such as oh i love your shirt that band is one of my favorites . can indicate interest . if she asks you about what you are doing later on in the week she might be subtly asking you to spend some time with her . if the person is constantly interrupting you or doesnt seem focused on the conversation then they are probably not romantically interested in you . try to pay attention during your time together for signs that she may not be interested in you interruptions are rarely a result of a girl being shy , which makes it a good indicator . gauge the responses you get during a conversation . for example if you were just explaining how well your garden is growing and she responds with uh - huh . she is likely not interested . silence can be a good indicator that there isnt a good connection . some studies propose that humor is one of the best indicators of romantic interest . if you are having humorous exchanging and laughing at one anothers silly jokes , there may be a romantic spark in your relationship . humor is a way to test the social watersand figure out if you are a good fit with the person . for example , you might both playfully imagine a silly situation and discuss what you think would happen . joking around can let you know if your sense of humor is similar with hers . you might enjoy puns and she might hate them . while this may not prevent you from liking each other , its good to know how best to make one another laugh . playful behavior can be a sign of personal interest and is also a trait that is commonly valued in potential partners . you can also show your own interest and make yourself more appealing by being light - hearted and playful when spending time together . keep an eye out for playful behavior and try to be playful yourself to learn if a girl likes you . playful people are more likely to be perceived as attractive by those who are not . both men and women find playfulness equally important and attractive . when a girl likes you she may display signs of jealousy when you are interacting with or talking about another girl . this can be a good sign that the girl you are with has an interest in you . pay attention for any signs of jealousy to gauge her level of interest in you . she might respond coldly or dismissively if you compliment another girl . this may indicate jealousy . avoid trying to make her overly jealous . once you notice jealousy , stop trying to bring it out in her .

ask her out on a date . describe your feelings to her . write her a letter . ask her friends .

how to find out if a girl likes you 3

the simplest way to find out if she likes you is to ask her out on a romantic date . make sure she understands that this date goes beyond just being friends . for example , a dinner and a movie will seem more serious and romantic than grabbing lunch together . you need to tell her how you feel if you expect her to tell you how she feels . if you think she may not understand where you are coming from when you ask her out on a date , try telling her how you feel first . explain that you have romantic feelings for her and tell her the reasons why . once youre finished , you should ask her how she feels . if she says no thats okay . dont take it personally . it may hurt your feelings but at least you went for it . that requires a lot more bravery than most people can muster . letters are pretty neat . everyone likes getting a letter . if you dont want to talk to her in person , write her a letter telling her your feelings this is sort of a childish way to figure out if a girl likes you , but it may work . if her friends know the girl likes you and that she is waiting for you to ask her out on a date they may be inclined to tell you . if the girl wants to keep it a secret she may tell her friends to stay quiet . take what her friends say with a grain of salt .

see if shes being intentional with you . pay attention to her vulnerability with you . look for hints . notice how she interacts with her friends . pay attention to her actions in group settings . look at social media . dont overanalyze . watch for flirting . observe her body language . see if her wardrobelook changes . make the effort to understand her . ask her to hang out . get information from her friends or from others . initiate flirting with her . ask her boldly .

how to tell if a girl likes you , or is interested

one of the first things that might stand out to you , making you curious if a girl is interested in you , is her desire to be intentional with you . is there a girl in your life who is really trying to get to know you or spend time with you a girl may be interested in you if shes asking you personal questions , showing that she cares about your life and wants to know you more . dont confuse this with a girl who is just being friendly . some girls may just be really good at initiating conversation with people or may have a knack for small talk . look beyond that to the girls who seem to be going out of their way to learn more about you and develop a relationship with you . when a girl spends time getting to know you and learns about your hobbies and interests , you may begin to see her taking interests in those things as well . she may be doing this so that you two have more in common or so that you find her more interesting and inviting . not only might a girl who is interested in you seek out ways to get to know you , she may also become more vulnerable around you . if you are unsure if a girl likes you , pay attention to how much she is opening up around you . if you ask her somewhat personal questions and she seems offended or taken aback , it may be a sign that shes not interested in you . but if she seems willing to open up and tell you things she wouldnt tell everyone , she may be interested in you . girls can be complicated and there is no perfect formula for understanding them , so dont assume that just because she is opening up to you she must like you . on the opposite end , dont assume that just because she is more closed off or quiet that she dislikes you . some girls feel more comfortable being vulnerable with people while others take more time to show their entire self to people . be patient with girls and if you feel that one may like you , try to be vulnerable with her and see if she is vulnerable back . overtime if you continue this she should open up if shes interested in you . girls often like to drop hints to people that they are interested in so that they dont have to be the first one to make a move . these can range from sharing their interests , or explaining that they want to do something and dont have someone to do it with . look for signs that a girl is obviously trying to show you that she wants you to initiate . hints can be difficult because they are just that - - hints - - and it can hard to know what the girl is actually communicating . if she says shes been wanting to see a certain movie but no one has wanted to go with her , she may be hinting to you that you should ask to go with her , or she may just be stating a fact . as always feel out the situation to figure out what shes really trying to say . in this case , you may just have to be bold and ask her what shes really trying to say , or initiate with her and risk the chance that she wasnt hinting anything to you . another way a girl might drop a hint is explaining she needs help on something . this is the opportunity for you to offer to help her even if she really just needs help and isnt trying to hint at anything , you havent lost anything by offering your help . if a girl is interested in you and has told her friends that she likes you , you may be able to see a reaction from all of them when you approach them . some girls are subtle and are good at hiding their emotions , while others may be surrounded by a group of friends that start giggling or acting strange when you walk up to them . changes in behavior in a girl when you approach can be a helpful sign to show she likes you . if the two of you are involved in the same organization or have the same group of friends , pay attention to how she is spending her time in group settings . is she spending time with a particular group of friends the whole time , is she jumping from group to group , or is she spending most of her time with you if you find that she is giving you extra attention over others , it may be because shes into you . if you two are already close friends and she would normally spend more time with you , this probably isnt helpful . but , if you are in this situation and you find that shes spending a lot of time with someone else instead of you , it may be a sign that she is interested in that other person and not you . if you are in a room with a group of people and shes across the room , try making eye contact with her . you may notice that shes already been looking at you or when she notices you looking at her she may smile shyly or show that shes happy to see you . watch the expression that comes on her face whenever you make eye contact with her . it could be a sign that she likes you . some girls will use social media as an outlet to show others what is going on in their lives , and so if you are a big part of her life you may see that she has several pictures with you that shes posted . she also may be very attentive to your social media pages , liking your pictures and statuses . any of these things could be a sign that shes into you . as always , some girls wont use social media to broadcast your relationship , especially if they are insecure or arent sure that you like them as well . just because a girl doesnt have pictures of you on her instagram or facebook , doesnt mean shes not into you . because relationships and people are complicated and cant be put into a box , you may meet a girl who is crazy about you and doesnt show any of these signs , or you may meet someone who has no interest in you and does all of these things . with that being said , try not to overanalyze her behavior . be patient , get to know her , and over time you may be able to have a conversation about it rather than just depending on her actions for complete confidence that she likes you . one of the common ways to tell if a girl likes you is when she flirts with you . a girl may be interested in you if she laughs a lot when shes around you , if she initiates physical touch , like touching your shoulder or giving you hugs , or if she playfully argues with you . because every girl is different , flirting doesnt always mean a girl is interested , but its a good beginning sign to know if she sees you as potential . some girls dont realize they are flirting , or their natural way to interact with others is by being somewhat flirty and playful . others wont flirt at all for fear of rejection , so dont place girls in a box when it comes to flirting . on the other hand , a girl may be interested in you , but not flirt with you because she is shy or nervous . so , in this case pay attention to the less obvious signs of flirting . look to see if she blushes when shes around you , if she laughs nervously at your jokes , or she shifts her clothes or hair while shes talking to you . these could all be signs that shes into you , but doesnt feel comfortable outright flirting with you . as she walks away , look to see if theres still a smile on her face . this could definitely be a sign that she likes you , because youve left her feeling giddy after shes talked to you . body language is a great way to feel out a situation , and figure out if a girl is interested in you . if you are with a girl and she seems distant , or her arms are crossed in front of her , and shes not making eye contact with you , it may be a sign that shes not interested . but , if she is being intentional about making eye contact with you , moves closer to you as you two talk , and tenderly smiles at you , she may like you . watch how she holds herself , too . if there is a girl who really wants to get your attention , she may look more confident when shes around you , because she wants to show you that shes worth looking at . she may do this around you and engage with you , or she may show confidence but act like shes preoccupied with other things . this may be because shes trying to play hard to get , or she wants you to be jealous . sometimes , a girl can feel distant because she is nervous , uncomfortable , or doesnt know how to act around you . it doesnt always mean that she isnt interested in you , so in this situation the best way to make her comfortable is to show her that she can trust you . cozy up to her and look into her eyes , instead . she may feel uncomfortable but eventually she may decide opening up to you physically is worth the risk . as with flirting , dont believe that just because a girl makes eye contact with you it means she likes you . you really have to feel out the situation with girls and observe how she acts around others as well . if she seems tender and open with everyone else , she may not be acting that way around you because she likes you . however , if she seems more closed off with others , but with you her body language shows she is more at ease or flirty , then it may be evidence that she likes you . if a girl is trying to impress you , she may spend more time on her outfit , hair , or makeup . she wants you to notice her and think shes attractive , so whenever she knows that shes going to be around you , shes likely going to primp herself more than she usually does . if you notice that she suddenly looks more stylish or done up than she used to , it may be a sign that shes into you . this could be difficult to tell if the girl you think is interested in you has always looked really nice . if this is the case , continue to pay attention to see if she does something different . this will require you to be more observant than you might have been . see if she changes her hair color , tries out a new style of clothing , or wears a new perfume . as with all of the other tips , dont expect that every girl is going to dress nicer for you when they are interested in you . its really a girls personal preference , and some wont see the need to make you notice them by their looks . some girls may feel confident enough to just be themselves . also , dont get confused if a girl is dressing up , but shes really doing it for someone else . try to pay attention to who she is dressing up around and when shes dressing up . for example , if you see her with a group of her friends , and she wasnt expecting to see you , look to see if she is dressed up . if she seems to be dressed rather casually and hasnt done anything special to her hair or makeup , but she looks much more dolled up when shes around you , it may be because shes interested in you . while a girl may try to get to know you better because she likes you , a great way to understand her feelings and intentions is by getting to know her better yourself . as you spend time with her and talk with her , ask her questions about her life and pay attention to how she relates to you and to others . this is the step where you can also begin to talk about your relationship , if you are relatively confident something is going on between the two of you . while this is similar to looking for intentionality and vulnerability , its different in that you play bigger role . you want to make her feel comfortable and that shes in a safe place . and , if you like her too you should have the desire to understand who she is and how she works . if you are unsure if a girl is interested in you , the best way to find out is by asking her to spend time with you . a girl who is interested in someone will almost certainly say yes to this , and someone who isnt interested in you may or may not say yes , but it will take you one step further to figuring out how she feels about you . ask her to hang out in a casual setting , that way if shes actually not interested you havent placed yourself in an awkward position . if she is interested it will give her a comfortable , relaxed environment to open up to you . observe her throughout the night to determine if she seems like she just sees you as a friend or if shes looking at you as more than that . maybe youve looked for all of the other signs that a girl likes you , but are still unsure . now is the time where you can seek out information and insight from her friends and others . talk to other people who have been in relationships and ask them how they knew the other was interested . ask her friends if she is interested in anyone or , if they already know you are interested in her too , ask them how you can best approach their friend . dont use her friends as an excuse to not be bold and take risks yourself . you dont want her friends to be the messengers to her , and you definitely dont want to tell her you are interested in her through her friends . use her friends as helpful advice on how you can better act in this situation , and if you are absolutely clueless they may steer you in a good direction . some girls will flirt no matter who the person is , but others wont flirt unless they have first been flirted with . if this is your girl , and she seems shy and uncertain , try flirting with her , speaking tenderly with her , laughing with her , and giving her hugs . if shes interested in you she may flirt back , and if walls still seem to be up it might be a sign that shes not into you . this is not always a great idea , especially if you are unsure if a girl is interested in you . but if you feel like youve had some time to read the signs and are pretty confident that shes into you , then you can try asking her boldly if she likes you are is interested . do this in a gentle way , and only if you plan to take the relationship further . if you dont plan to ask this girl out or develop a relationship with her , asking her if she likes you and then doing nothing may come across as hurtful or insincere . so , if you dont like her then just leave it at that - - theres really no reason for you to know if she likes you . but if you do like her and want the relationship to move into something different , than ask her if shes interested in you and explain that you feel the same way . a gentle way to approach this would be by first explaining to her that you are interested in her and then leaving her the option to tell you how she feels about you . this creates a safe zone for her , which allows her to be vulnerable but with the knowledge that its not in vain .

start off by writing a simple note . find out where her locker is and slip it in there , or be creative and slip in one of her books . leave subtle hints that its you , dont leave her hanging . try leaving the notes in places that you are in . try to see her reaction . if you see she is trying really hard to find out her secret admirer , leave her a note saying meet me herethen time and placedont come out and say your name .

how to write a secret admirer letter to your crush

but , you must be careful not to seem like a stalker . today , that is a huge turn - off for any girl . dont make it feel mysterious or freaky like youre watching her . try simply and subtly explaining your feelings , and make an attempt of writing your name . for example , write something like thishi , name here . you are one of the prettiest girls in school . remember that and dont believe anyone who says youre not . sincerely , write name in pen and scribble out , or maybe erase if in pencil , to let her know you are genuine and thought about telling her your feelings and youre not just a stalkerthis is a great way to let a girl feel great . with this one little sign that some person is out there and is willing to love her and thinks shes pretty will leave her smiling for days . just be careful not to put it in a really weird place that will make her feel uncomfortable . alternatively , you can get your friend to give it to that person . write see you in chemistry or see you on the bus to leave her guessing . like in a class you both share , especially if shes next to you . if she is thrilled to get a secret admirer letter and happy someone feels this way , she will tell you everything , which is a good sign . if she acts annoyed , you probably have gone too far and should stop . dont stop immediately , or she will get tipped off . if shes happy , trust me , this is a good sign . whether she likes you or not , she will appreciate the special little steps you took in order to make her happy and feel loved . if she looks annoyed , its a good idea to stop gradually . try apologizing in one of your last notes and watch her reaction while she reads it . if she likes the extra attention , she will try very hard to find out who you are , but if she looks relieved , you have gone too far in her mind and you should forget about the notes . if she tells her friends right away , she is happy and wants to find out more . be careful not to give it away . if she doesnt feel the same way she will try to ignore you or tease you and make fun . if she does , she will first try to see if you are serious . one of a girls biggest fears when she gets a note is if the secret admirer really likes her or not , or if hes just trying to get her hopes up just to watch her fall .

notice the amount of alone time she seeks out with you . watch for eye contact . pay attention to her reaction to your interactions with others . pay attention to the way she touches you . notice whether she laughs at your jokes or not . watch for the lean in . notice the blush . look for a head tilt . look out for preening . pay attention to her feet . listen to what she says . pay attention to what her friends say . listen to your gut . flirt a little . tomboys are pretty interested in sports . put it all in context . ask . accept that she might just want to be your friend .

how to tell if a tomboy likes you

in particular , see if theres a change . if you two used to hang out all the time alone , and shes suddenly reluctant to do that , its possible that she has a crush on you and is feeling nervous about it . on the other hand , if you usually only hang out in a group , and she starts seeking out time alone with you , she may have a crush on you . a tomboy may be more willing to make it clear that she is seeking out time with you than other girls would . boys are often socialized to ask directly for what they want instead of being coy . its likely that shes modeling her behavior on more masculine flirting , so she may be very direct . this one is a little tricky , because good eye contact could also just mean good social skills . if you observe that shes making eye contact a little longer than what seems normal , thats a good sign that shes into you . alternatively , if you notice that shes refusing to meet your gaze especially if this is different from before , this may be a sign that shes feeling shy about looking at you because she likes you . , particularly if it seems like youre flirting with someone else , does she look put off or angry does she tend to avoid you or act aggressively after she sees you do this especially if you have a crush on her too , dont flirt with other people just to make her jealous . this is confusing and mean both her and the person youre flirting with . just interact normally and see if a normal interaction makes her appear jealous . is she accidentally touching you a lot for example , does she bump into you with her elbow at the lunch table when theres plenty of room to avoid you do her fingers brush against yours when she hands you a pencil if so , theres a good chance shes accidentally touching you on purpose because she likes you . touch is often key in tomboy flirting style , because masculine flirting tends to include more touching than feminine flirting . does she hit you more than usual unfortunately , one way that boys are socialized to show affection is through wrestling and punching . a tomboy or girl who emulates more masculine behavior might do the same thing if she has a crush on you . if this is the case and it makes you uncomfortable , its okay to discourage this behavior or tell an adult if you think its gotten out of hand . in particular , does she laugh even when your jokes arent even that funny , or when other people dont seem to even notice youre joking this is a pretty good sign that shes into you , especially if she hasnt always laughed at your jokes or given any indication that she thinks youre funny . in particular , pay attention her reactions to some light teasing . dont hurt her feelings or be mean . just tease her enough to let her know youre paying attention to her , and see if this causes a bit of blushing or extra laughter . leaning toward someone is a sign that youre engaged and paying attention . particularly if the two of you are part of a larger group of people , if she leans in toward you , theres a good chance shes inviting further conversation with you , because shes interested in you . on the other hand , she could just be having a hard time hearing what youre saying , so be look for other signs of attraction too . blushing is a sign that shes either nervous or excited , either of which can be a good indication that she likes you . in particular , if this girl has been your friend for a while , pay attention to whether she has recently started blushing when you talk . , head tilting indicates that a person is paying good attention to what youre saying and that theyre engaged in thinking about your conversation . this action , combined with other signs of attraction , can be signals that she likes you . of course , if youre talking about her favorite sports team , its possible that shes just engaged in the conversation and doesnt actually have a crush on you . are there any other signs of attraction also present does she mess with her hair a lot adjust her clothing touch her face some of this could be nervousness , which may be an indication that she likes you and is feeling shy . this could also indicate that she wants to be sure she looks okay in front of you . particularly look out for preening that seems out of character . if this girl rarely cares what her hair looks like which may be common for tomboys but is suddenly invested in smoothing out her ponytail all the time , thats could be a clue that she wants to look nice for you . some studies have shown that if a person points their feet in your direction while you interact , they are attracted to or at least interested in you . if a person points their feet away from you , particularly in the direction of an escape route , its less likely that theyre attracted to you . one interaction wont necessarily give you all of the information you need here . if her feet are pointed toward the end of the hall instead of toward you while youre chatting at your lockers , its possible that shes just in a hurry to get to class . take some time and observe her feet in several interactions . does she ask you a lot of questions does she seem overly interested in what you did this weekend or what you had for breakfast though its possible that shes just being polite , theres a good chance that shes just trying to keep talking to you for longer because she thinks youre cute . , are there lots of jokes that you two would make a cute couple have any of them asked you if you have a crush on her do they bring her name up to you a lot its possible that she has confessed to some of her friends that she likes you , so listen up . tomboys tend to have friends of all genders . be sure to pay attention to each group of friends she hangs out with . if this girl has been your friend for a while , youll probably notice when shes acting differently all of a sudden . ultimately , if you suspect that she has a crush on you , youre probably right . if she likes you , shell respond positively to some light flirting . bring up an inside joke , accidentally touch her elbow with yours , laugh at her jokes , or just smile at her more than you usually would . if she reciprocates , she might have a crush on you . if youre on a sports team together or tend to join the same pick - up basketball game after school , this is a great time to get in some low - stakes flirting . a single elbow bump at your lockers might not mean that she has a crush on you . but if she bumps elbows with you more than once , always angles her body toward you when you talk , laughs at even your dumbest jokes , and seems worried about how her hair looks in front of you , then that all may add up to a crush , when all else fails , if you really want to know if she likes you , its time to ask . try to ask her in private , because you might feel embarrassed if you ask in front of others , and she might be too embarrassed to tell the truth . beware that asking could put a strain on your friendship if she says no . that doesnt necessarily mean that if she rejects you , you cant be friends anymore . it just means that you will have to work extra hard to bring things back to normal . take the risk if youre pretty sure she likes you if you like her too , the payoff of having your friend become your girlfriend would be worth it . particularly if this girl has been your friend for a long time , its possible that her attention to you is nothing more than a sign of friendship . if you have a crush on her , if you think she might also have one on you , and if you want to pursue it , give it a shot just beware that things could be a bit awkward between you if it doesnt work out .

be the best possible version of yourself . pursue your interests . work hard . tackle problems head - on . only change for you . take care of your body . keep clean . smell great . look great . be confident . let them see you . be a good friend . spend time with them . get to know them . let them know you . find common ground . share their passions . let them be them . flaunt your single status . flirt with them . introduce touch . tell them that you like them . ask them out .

how to get your crush for boys and girls

you want to be the best that you possibly can be , in order to not only attract your crush but also to increase your chances of a healthy relationship and make you happier with yourself . improve yourself by doing some of the following steps . do the things that you want to do and that interest you . pursue your dreams . when you do this , you will find you pick up many attractive qualities , like passion , a strong work ethic , and a positive outlook . a strong work ethic , determination , and passion are very attractive qualities . people like other people that get really into what theyre doing and work hard . no matter what ignites your passion , throw yourself into your work to show others that you are not some lazy bum if you have bad habits or problems in your life , dont sweep them under the rug . take the problem head on and fix it , before it drags down a relationship . your crush should love and accept you for who you are , so if you do make changes to yourself , be sure it is because you want those changes for your own happiness and not because they might make someone else happy . eat healthy and get exercise , because this will leave you feeling energetic and strong . when you feel good and comfortable in your own skin , this shows to other people and they will find you more attractive . keep your body clean by showering regularly and washing your hair and body . wear deodorant and clean clothes as well . if you still find that you smell a bit off , try cleaning your room or changing what you eat . in addition to keeping everything clean , you might want to try making yourself smell extra nice by wearing a little bit of cologne or perfume . dont go over the top only a little bit is necessary . try to wear a scent that you feel matches your personality . wear clothes that look nice and look nice on your body . this can be really different for different people . dont wear anything too tight or too baggy , wear colors that compliment your natural skin tone and hair , and try to wear clothes that fit with the current trends . look at fashion magazines or websites to get ideas . act confident to make yourself attractive in a totally different way . most people are attracted to confidence , so either increase your confidence or fake it until no one notices the difference . dont hide in the corner . let your crush see the new you get out and do things and try not to blend into the furnishings so much . you dont even have to talk to them . just be in the same room and see you interact with other people . you dont need to go out of your way to attract attention . dont be loud and crazy . be yourself . support them , like a friend should . this is an attractive quality , because it shows how much you care and how much you can add to their life . listen to them rant about that teacher you both hate , watch one of their games , or surprise them by dropping in on their concerts . say hi to your crush as you pass by them . if they arent feeling well or are upset about something , help them out and comfort them as best as you can . you dont need to spend time alone with them , but you do need to spend time together . you can hang out in groups and do things like watch movies or go to a great local music venue . just give them the opportunity to start to get to know you . learn more about them and get to know them for who they really are , rather than just the basic facts that anyone could tell you . people like to feel a strong connection and that the person theyre with really understands them as a whole , so if you know your crush well , theyll be more likely to take your feelings seriously . you can get to know them by talking about things that are important to them , like their hobbies , their life goals , their family , and their beliefs . they should also get the chance to learn the same things about you . be open to discussion and inviting . dont try to compete with them when you discuss your life just let them see you for who you are . find out what things you share in common , in order to help build a lasting foundation for a relationship . no matter how cute they are , if you have absolutely nothing in common , youre not going to have a very good time together . find out what theyre into and share your own interests with them . relationships work best if both of you are geeky about the same thing . and believe us , everyone is geeky about something . even if that something is football . you dont necessarily have to enjoy what they are most passionate about , but it will help a lot if you can understand and follow along with what they love . immerse yourself and give it time . and especially ask them for help its a great bonding experience . people that are reluctant to get into relationships are usually reluctant because they worry about what that relationship will mean for their free time or who they are as a person . show your crush that they dont need to worry about that with you by letting them be their own person . dont be clingy . encourage them to go out and do things they enjoy . and in the mean time , show your independence by spending time on your own and with your own friends . make sure your crush knows youre single and looking for someone to date . mention it off - hand in a related conversation . however you do it , they need to know that you are in fact looking for someone to date . ask them out for a movie or dinner tease them gently using a little bit of sarcasm or a wink and a nudge . be playful , like poking them on the arm occasionally or punching them lightly on the arm or shoulder . this will begin to show them that youre interested in them . touching is a much more clear indicator of your feelings . give them a light touch on the shoulder or the arm , always with a reason or excuse out - of - context touching can be creepy . when youre a little closer , try touching their hand too . sometimes people just need things spelled out for them . tell your crush that you like them but dont put any pressure on them to respond . they might need time to absorb the idea and examine their own feelings . you can skip the previous step in favor of going straight for this one , or you can proceed to this one if they havent done anything to respond to your previous confession . if youre a guy , youre probably going to have to ask your girl out . girls shouldnt be afraid to take the lead though . dont worry about rejection . if they dont want to date you , thats their loss and youre better off finding someone who really appreciates you .

talk to her . do her favors . flirt , but not desperately . make her feel special . talk to her friends . be you . take pride in your appearance . ask her out

how to get to know the girl you like at school

you dont have to corner her at her locker or follow her home from school . if you see her talking with a group , join the group . if she looks bored or is sitting by herself , go over and chat . shell think youre friendly and nice . rush to her aid if she drops her books in the hall . retrieve her pencil sharpener if it rolls off her desk . lend her pencils , help her with her home work , offer her your snacks . just dont become her slave flirting includes smiling at her , brief eye contact , laughing at her jokes , etc . it does not include staring for minutes on end , pick up lines , or wrapping your arms around her . if you do this , shes bound to think youre creepy and desperate . compliment her sweater or drawing for art class . if you are both talking in the same group , focus your attention on her . walk her to her locker . show that you care about her and are interested in her . try not to talk to other girls besides her so she knows you only have eyes for her . they are usually very keen on helping out you out . they might have useful information you can use to win her over , like her favorite foods , movies , what she likes in a guy , heck , you might even find out she has a crush on you and if she happens to already have a boyfriend dont change yourself for a girl , ever . after all , you want her to fall in love with you not some made up personality . if she really is the girl for you , shell like you for exactly what you are shower . comb that hair . roll on the antiperspirant . wear clean , well fitting clothes . no girl wants to date some smelly guy who has his pants around his knees . also , dont overdo it on the axe . a little is fine . a lot will make her eyes water and her stomach turn . now that you know a bit more about each other and shes aware you like her , confirm it officially . take a deep breath and walk up to her when she is alone , not surrounded by friends . chat for a bit and then bring up the next school dance , or ask what shes doing this friday . if she declines full on and tells you she just wants to be friends , smile and agree its for the best . if she says shes busy , and seems like she means she is busy , not just avoiding dating you , than tell her to tell you the next time shes available . in the meantime , continue being her friend . you never know what might happen next .

use your peripheral vision to look at them . watch them from afar . use a decoy so that they dont notice . watch them while they are distracted . sit behind them in class so you can see them , but they cant see you . figure out their schedule so youll know where theyll be .

how to watch your crush without being noticed 1

peripheral vision is what you can see from the side of your eye without looking directly at someone . use this tactic to look at your crush without tipping them off to the fact that youre looking at them . you can pretend to get up and do something else , like sharpen your pencil , while keeping your crush in your peripheral vision . this is an excellent method to use when you are sitting next to your crush . you may have a harder time seeing details in your crush with your peripheral vision . the further away you are , the less likely that your crush will notice you staring . this is especially true in public places where there are a lot of other people around . try to keep an eye on them from a distance so that they dont notice that youre watching them . if you are watching them in a parking lot , you can position your car facing the opposite direction and use your rearview mirror to look at them . if you are far away and cant see them , use your phone and use the zoom function . just make sure it looks like you are texting or writing an e - mail . bring a book or look at your cell phone so you have a decoy if your crush looks in your direction . you can even have conversations with friends while watching your crush in the background . the goal is to try to look like you are paying attention to something else while still being able to keep an eye on your crush . you can also draw in a pad or do schoolwork while watching your crush . you can glance at your crush while they are preoccupied with another activity . some good examples are while they are taking a test , talking to someone else , or while they eat . if your crush looks in your direction , avoid eye contact and look in another direction . if they are involved in sports , you can watch them while they play without them noticing . if your crush is just sitting around and daydreaming , its more likely they will see that youre staring at them since their attention isnt anywhere specific . if you share classes with your crush , see if you can sit behind them . try to find a good angle on your crush so that you can see the side of their face but they cant see you without looking behind them . this may give you the opportunity to watch them the entire class without being detected . if you already have regular seats , see if a classmate would be willing to switch with you . if your crush looks back at you , pretend that you were staring at something off in their direction but not them . humans are creatures of habit , and there are many things that we do the same on a daily basis . if you go to the same school , figure out when their classes are so you can watch them in the hallway . if they are a coworker , memorize their work schedule . if they have a regular schedule to attend church or go to the grocery store , you can go at the same times . do not follow them home because this could be considered stalking .

friend or like them on all your social media accounts . turn on notifications , so you know when they make an update . do not like , repost , or comment on any of their accounts .

how to watch your crush without being noticed 2

social media is a great way to watch a crush and what theyre up to and doing without them noticing . friend them on platforms like facebook , tumblr , twitter , instagram , and snapchat . some platforms will allow you to create an account anonymously . if you dont want to be noticed , use a username that they wont recognize . instagram and snapchat are great apps to use because you can see when they upload new pictures . even though you arent where they are , you can feel like you are through photos . looking at the posts they like or share will also give you a better sense of their personalities , or at least how they want to be perceived by others . many social media sites now use algorithms that will determine what ends up on your timeline , wall , or page . this means that even if you are connected to your crush , that you may not see when they make new updates . in this case , turn on their notifications , so you get updated when they make new posts . there are apps like snowball and alternion that help you track all your social media notifications in one place . set up your social media notifications to have a different sound so that you can keep track of your crushs updates . if you are using an anonymous account , you may be able to interact more with your crush on social media . however , make sure not to comment too frequently or they may become suspicious of who you are . do not comment , post , share , or like on any social media accounts attached to your actual name like facebook . part of watching your crush secretly is staying unknown . if your crush uses foursquare and regularly check into locations you can figure out where they like to hang out .

prepare conversation topics . introduce yourself . ask for your crushs contact information . get to know your crushs friends .

how to watch your crush without being noticed 3

if youve watched your crush and have gotten to know their personality , choose conversation topics that interest them . think about the things they like such as their favorite show , a sport they enjoy , or a musician that they listen to . if you dont have any ideas , then ask them about themselves or talk about an event thats coming up in your town . you can also compliment your crush , but dont make it sexual . you can say something like , hey , the noticed that you were listening to the new drake album . i was thinking about picking it up . what do you think of it make eye contact with your crush and approach them with a smile . if youve never talked to them before , tell them your name and ask them for theirs . even though youll probably be nervous , make sure that you introduce yourself with confidence . dont look away or mumble because its a sign that youre insecure . to appear more confident make sure to speak clearly , keep a straight posture , and use your hands to gesture . keep the conversation light and try to be humorous . dont be overly serious or personal when you first approach your crush . if you had a good conversation with your crush , its important that you keep it going so you dont have to watch them without being noticed anymore . ask for social media usernames or their cell phone number . see if they would want to hang out in the future or go on a date sometime . if the conversation went poorly , your crush may not want to give you their contact information . in this case remain respectful and back off . if you feel overwhelmed and cant talk to your crush directly you can try to become friends with your crushs friends first . try to find someone in their circle of friends that share mutual interests with you , and make it a point to talk to them or hang out with them socially . once you feel like you are good enough friends , you can ask them to introduce you to their crush . when a mutual friend makes the introductions , it can relieve stress on both parties . long term relationships are often started by introductions made by mutual friends .

pay attention to how often she starts the conversation . if initiating the conversation always falls on your shoulders , odds are , she is not very interested . see if she is usually the first to say goodbye . count the emoticons . determine how interested she is in what you have to say by her replies . if she has good , thorough responses to your comments , it shows a higher degree of interest in your thoughts and , by extension , a higher interest in you . be encouraged if she starts to tease you . texts like , you should be wishing you were here right now . or if you were here right now . are usually meant to tease you into wondering what the rest of the sentence would read , especially when they end with the . they are mildly suggestive without being too over the top , implying that she wants to get you to think about her and wonder about her feelings and intentions a little more . note the content of her messages . pay attention to punctuation . look at how many of her words are unnecessarily long . watch out for text giggles . ask yourself if she frequently drops any hints .

how to tell if a girl likes you over text

on the other hand , if she starts the conversation too often , she might not be interested , either . when a girl likes a guy , she will likely try to show her interest without being too obvious or looking too needy . as a result , she will start at least half of your conversations if not most , but probably wont start all of them . if a girl does start all of them , it could be a sign that she is not worried about seeming needy because she only sees you as a friend . even if the girl is tempted to hang on your every word , most girls will resist the urge . if anything , a girl who likes you is more likely to end a text conversation first in an effort to show that she is interesting and has an engaging social life even without you . when a girl ends most texting conversations with something like , gotta go , im heading to movie with my bff , she could be interested . if , however , she just stops texting instead of saying good - bye , she is probably not interested . a formal count is not necessary , of course , but make a mental note of how often she uses emoticons and which ones she uses most . the most often used emoticon a girl will flirt with is the winking face . the more often she uses an emoticon wink , the more likely it is that she has a thing for you . standard smiles may or may not mean the same thing , but large smiles are another good sign . a blushing emoticon and a kiss face emoticon may also frequent her texts if she likes you if she quickly turns the conversation to herself , she might not be interested . similarly , if she gives super quick answers like k or frequently leaves the conversation with little more than a brb , she probably is not very interested . if she regularly jokes back with you when you say something funny , though , or asks you questions to keep the conversation , it demonstrates that she wants to keep talking to you for as long as possible . , if most of her texts are practical , such as question about assignments , then she may not be interested . on the other hand , if her texts are personal and ask about your personal life , she might be interested . this is especially true if she recalls specific details you previously mentioned to her about your plans . another promising type of text is the random question . look for something of no significance , like , would you rather live on nothing but your least favorite food for a year or give up your favorite food for the rest of your life these questions are fairly unimportant , and if she asks a bunch of them , it could be a sign that she is looking for an excuse to talk to you because you are on her mind . specifically , look at how often she uses exclamation points . more exclamation points indicates more excitement at the opportunity to talk to you , which could signify that she likes you . a hey you is infinitely more promising than a simple , hey . not every girl does it , but many girls add extra vowels and consonants onto words . for instance , she might text words like heyyyy , riiiiiight , pleeeeeaaassseee , hiiiiii or byyyyeee . the idea is to mimic the elongation of words often used in real - life flirtatious banter . any text laughter is a good sign , but there are some that are better signs than others . standard abbreviations like lol , rotfl , or lmao can be sent to just about anyone , friend or crush alike . a haha is a better sign , because she wants you to actually imagine her laughing . a hehe or teehee is even better . these two forms of text laughing are the equivalent of a real - life giggle , rather than a loud laugh , and a girl is more likely to text you a giggle if she wants to sound cute . a common hint dropped via text is the invitation to meet in person . an actual invite to a party is good , but an even better invitation is the random on the fly sort , in which she casually mentions something like , i think ill head to the pool . meet me there these messages may seem casual , but in actuality , they usually indicate that she wants to see you and only you , and now . a strong desire to see you is a pretty good hint that she is interested .

examine his body language . notice his eye contact . listen to what hes saying . notice his interest in touching and being touched . watch his actions to see if he treats you differently from the rest of your group . watch for him showing a sudden , previously unexpressed interest in things that you like and do . check for signs of nervousness . pay attention to his friends . look to see if he imitates you . pay attention to gentle , friendly teasing . if he hits you or playfully punches you on your arm , this may mean he likes you . acknowledge any compliments that come your way . watch for him noticing masculine things on you . if he chats to you often on a social networking site , it may mean that he likes you . watch to see if he has suddenly developed a habit of turning up where you happen to be . be receptive to his signals .

how to know if a guy likes you

body language can be the big tell when it comes to discerning if that guy fancies you enough to date you . interestingly , body language experts believe that while females have around 52 body language tells to show a guy that theyre interested , guys show around only 10 . if you subscribe to this theory , this should make your guessing a little easier all the same , you still need to know what to look for , as well as being sure that youre not mistaking innocent gestures for calls of love––the latter mistake could prove embarrassing . some of the signs of body language to watch for include he looks at you a lot . his eyebrow may even lift as he watches you the eyebrow flash that lasts a fifth of a second . he might not even be really conscious he is watching you as much as he is . notice how much he looks at your face and makes eye contact . he leans towards you a lot . personal space invasion is a sign of major interest . check the direction of his hands , feet , legs , toes , etc . if theyre pointed toward you , its a subconscious indicator of his interest in you . he starts grooming himself . he pulls at his tie to straighten it or he readjusts the fit of his sweater . perhaps he runs his hands through his hair in attempt to tidy it or he reaches down to tie his shoelaces . doing this repeatedly is similar to the actions of a male bird preening up his feathers for a display check out how hes sitting . if you see rather manly gestures , such as sitting with open legs or placing his hands on his hips , hes trying to impress . if he likes you , you may see that he rarely turns his back to you , often leans towards you , and also looks at you a lot . if he slouches his shoulders when near you , hes romantic and cares about what you have to say . if he points his shoulders and pelvis towards you while sitting , he is definitely feeling something for you . as already noted , a guy who is interested in you will look at you a lot , even if covertly . he may try to catch your eye or , if hes shy , he may suddenly turn his head away if you catch him checking you out . to test his interest , scan his face for four seconds , then look away dont look any longer or it becomes awkward . then look back––if he maintains or increases eye contact with you , hes interested . if his eyes wander to your mouth , hes definitely interested . if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else , or if he looks away quickly , then there is something there . on the other hand , if he breaks eye contact with you and starts looking around the room , hes not interested in you . a gaze that has him looking left , then sweeping over your face , then looking right is a sign hes very attracted to you . be careful not to confuse a shy guys darting retreat from eye contact with a guy who is clearly disinterested . a shy guy who is interested will continue to steal glances at you . be patient if you dont like the guy , it can be uncomfortable to maintain eye contact break it off quickly and scan the room yourself , as if looking for someone else . when hes around you and he says or does something funny and everyone around laughs , his eyes will flicker towards you for a second to see if you laughed too––this means hes keen to make a good impression on you . his pupils may dilate if he likes you , but this is quite hard to pick up on , and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes . if youre around him for a long time , it could be easier to pick up on gradually . if he likes you , and hes nervous or anticipating the chance to get closer to you , hell probably start talking about himself . many times , guys feel the need to prove themselves , especially if you talk about another guy in his company . gauge his interest in what you have to say . it really doesnt matter what you say , its how you say it that can tell you a lot about his level of interest . so , try this lean in and whisper , with your shoulder barely touching his and say something softly . to heighten the impact , steady yourself gently by brushing your arm across his back . if he moves his head closer toward you and either touches you back or maintains eye contact , hes interested in you . if he isnt interested , hell probably step back or be very unresponsive . a really disinterested guy might even try to shoo you out of his personal space touch is an important sign of interest in a developing relationship and you can assess interest both by observing how he touches you and how he reacts to you touching him . if hes keen on you , he might put his hand on yours when he laughs , he might gently brush his leg against yours but wont move it away again , or he may hug you for small things , such as greeting you , expressing emotions when telling a story or just because you look like you need a hug . on the other hand , consider touching him to see what happens––a gentle brush of your hand against his neck , a hold of his forearm with your hand , or running your fingers across his hand after joking with him about something . hes interested in you if he responds to it and doesnt flinch away or if he moves his hand to stay on yours or on your arm or leg . on the other hand , if he tenses up or moves his hand away , hes not interested . if he is a shy guy , he may jump a little because he wasnt prepared for you to touch him . that doesnt necessarily mean that he doesnt like you , watch his actions carefully afterwards . obviously , playboy guys bad boys might be very keen to spread their touching gestures around be sure that he has more substance than this by observing how he interacts with other women in your group . see if he uses any of the tricks in how to touch a girl , and see if he uses them more with you than with anyone else . if hes really interested in you , he may start to behave protectively toward you , or in a gentlemanly fashion at least to the extent that he interprets his behavior as such . look for signs like shifting his chair closer to yours , putting his arm around the back of your chair , leaving his jacket on the back of your chair or even going so far as to place the jacket around you to ward off your complaints of being cold . be aware that some guys flirt with other girls to get your attention . it gives him a chance to see your reaction , and helps him know if you really do like him or not . yes , its an odd sort of logic , especially since you might end up so offended or confused that you just give up on him however , you can usually spot a get - your - attention flirt if , in the middle of his flirting scenario , he keeps taking the chance to look at you , seeking out your response . you can also try a quick trip to the bathroom and find yourself a sneaky observation point to check out how the flirting is proceeding . if he stops the moment youve left , its you hes serious about , not her . alternatively , ask a friend to do some observing for you while youre away . for example , if you like a certain genre of music that he doesnt know as well , he may ask you to suggest bands or artists for him to listen to . or , he may have gone to the trouble of finding out that a favorite band of yours is playing next weekend and mention to this , with or without a request to go and listen together . and , if you introduce him to a tv show that he didnt really know about and that becomes his new favorite thing , that can potentially be a sign that he likes you , especially if he goes out of his way to catch up with you to discuss the shows unfolding plot . signs of nervous laughter , sweaty palms , deep breaths , fidgeting , or possibly even looking away quickly when you notice he is watching you , can all be signs of an attraction towards you . if he is nervous about making an impression on you , it means hes trying hard and you are probably very close to being able to start making moves . if they know hes interested in you , they might tease him subtly when youre around , hint to you that he likes you , or even try to find out if you like him . study their reactions to your presence––do they smile do they turn to him do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you dont be careful if a friend of his makes suggestions that a guy likes you but all of the other indications tell you otherwise . sometimes friends have reasons of their own for ensuring that any chances of you getting together are ruined , including catapulting you into making a fool of yourself . mirroring each others actions is a sign of mutual like and generally , its subconscious . if you notice that he has been copying your gestures frequently , there is a high probability that he fancies you . you can test this by mirroring his actions too , for example , touch your hair when he touches his , brush your face when he brushes his , sit the way he is sitting , etc . the subconscious signals will be screaming i like you too following you can be another sign for example , if you buy lunch and sit at a table and he edges as near to , or even on the same , table as you , he is probably trying to get closer to you . just be sure youre not confusing this action with there being a lack of space to sit anywhere else if a guy teases you in a friendly and fun manner , it could indicate his interest , especially if hes young . provided this isnt his modus operandi with every girl he flirts with , its a sign that hes singled you out for attention and is trying to use his wit to charm you , in that awkward way of using humor to cover up true intentions . of course , if he says something unkind or unfortunate , dont feel you have to excuse it––point it out if he offends you its best he knows now that you wont take nonsense than to discover it later . some guys make fun of their crushes in a slightly mean way . if this goes too far , he may need a reminder to act more mature . a guy may gently hit or punch you on the arm as a covert , manly way of getting to touch you without making it too obvious what his intention is . if he finds that you dont pull away too much when he does this , he might find the courage to proceed to more gentle ways of touching you . of course , this doesnt mean you need to sit there in pain if he actually hurts you––be assertive enough to point out that it hurt you can salve his pride by saying something about not minding him touching you but to please watch out for your sensitive bony bits and if youre the kind of girl who finds the play punching a bit of fun , give him a playful knock right back . play punching can send mixed signals . it could mean i treat you like one of the boys and signal friendzone antics only . check out whether he does this to other girls in your mutual group . moreover , if he continues to think that play punching you is a fun way to hang out , you might be dealing with someone who is never going to get past this immature display of affection dont let it go on indefinitely . if you dont like it , say so immediately . you are entitled to ask someone not to harm you , even if the gesture is well intentioned . if you do your hair or makeup differently one day , and the guy notices , thats a very good sign that he likes you . most guys wont notice , or if they do , they wont be bothered to say anything unless theyre totally into you . anything like , you look nice today , i like that shirt , or even did you do your hair differently today it looks nice , are all indicators that he could be interested in you . note if this guy is a good friend of yours , compliments wont necessarily be indicators of romantic interest . it could just be him being a truly good friend . not all guys are this straightforward about compliments , so dont be worried if he doesnt compliment you . for example , some of your dads aftershave rubbed off on you when you hugged him . your crush may say is that aftershave on you noticing this can indicate that he thinks the scent comes from another guy and not your dad , revealing some vulnerability about losing you out to someone else . this could also apply to having , carrying or wearing things that he might think belong to another guy . after all , when online there are many things competing for his time , like games , connecting with mates and checking out sites that might not be so interesting to you… of course , he could also just be talkative , friendly , or even bored , so dont assume hes into you just for chatting––this should be treated as one extra indicator along with some of the others outlined above . if he puts an x sign on the end of everything he says to you , dont assume it means he likes you . it could just mean that he perceives you both as good friends or that hes just used to ending his chats that way . if he says , i know something you dont know , then this could mean that he likes you and is playing a little guessing game . or it could just mean hes doing the usual social media thing of spreading information for fun , like the discovery of a new planet or finding the cure to cancer , etc . use the context to judge the import of any such online personal game playing . if he suddenly seems to be in certain places at certain times of the day where you wouldnt necessarily expect to see him , it may be that hes taken to deliberately finding opportunities to bump into you . if it happens a lot in a short space of time , its probably no coincidence but a concerted effort to catch up with you as much as possible . if he shows genuine interest in you , for example , he smiles at you a lot whenever the two of you pass each other or he goes out of his way to say hello to you , be friendly and polite back . if youve already decided that hes someone youd like to date , dont let it go too long before facilitating an opportunity for the two of you to get together to talk in a quiet place . on the other hand , if hes not your type or youve changed your mind about flirting any further , be honest and let him know that youre flattered but youre not available .

be confident . be romantic . make her laugh . show her that you care about her , look and smell good . smile often when you are with her . make eye contact . stick up for her . flirt , ask her out to somewhere special , someplace shed never forget . make it a romantic date . make sure youre in a private place if you want to kiss . tease her , and be playful . try to find out if shes happy and comfortable with you . hold her hand . tell her that she looks beautiful and smile , but be sincere . pay attention to her body language .

how to win a teenage girls heart

girls love it when boys have confidence . to act confident , you have to believe in yourself . however , do not be cocky . girls almost always fall for romantic guys . girls love funny guys but dont say disgusting things that you think are funny , as that will only gross her out . for instance , tell her that you are willing to help her with her homework if she asks you to help her with homework rather than going to your friends party . dress in cool clothes and wear some nice cologne or something , but dont go overboard . , if she looks back at you , then the answer might be positive but dont just keep staring at each other for an hour with nothing else to do . if someone speaks poorly of her , even if not seriously , do not tolerate this . most girls like flirty guys . but dont overdo it . you can flirt with her by smiling a lot , tickling her softly though some girls may not like to be tickled , complimenting her , telling her it was fun being with her or winking at her many girls think its really sexy when a boy winks at them , so give it a try . you can also flirt in your own ways , as long as you dont do something that she doesnt like . groping inappropriately will make a very bad impression . if the two of you have been hanging out for a week or so , and you feel like she might be into you , dont be afraid to ask her out . have faith in yourself , and think of how much its worth it to ask because if she agrees , you will have plenty of fun . take a walk with her at sunset on the beach . that would be the perfect place to try to kiss her . most girls prefer a private romantic kiss . this doesnt mean you take her to your room in your bed . take her to a quiet , romantic looking place and shell most probably get the message that you want a kiss . but if she doesnt want to come to a private place with you , that either means that shes not ready to kiss you , its her first time , she feels uncomfortable with you or shes just nervous or shy . dont force it when shes ready you will know . dont hurt her feelings though , tease her in a joking and funny manner , and make sure that she knows that youre just joking . never tease her by making fun of her . , if she tries to come closer to you , it can signal that shes into you . if she just smiles andor blushes , it may mean that she likes you but shes shy . nothing is worse than telling a girl shes beautiful when she knows its not true . try complimenting her on specific things , like how pretty her hair is , or how soft her hand feels in yours . if she tries to come closer to you , holds your hand and squeezes it gently , smiles a lot , looks at you most of the time , snuggles to you , hugs you , pecks your cheek , then it means that she likes you and shes happy to be with you and she was really looking forward to going out with you . if she doesnt pay much attention to you , you could make her jealous by flirting with another girl in front of her . be cautious with this .

wow him . dont cake on the makeup . start up a conversation . tease him . break the touch barrier but always remember to respect peoples personal space . get close to his friends . find out things about him . support him . study together . test him . make sure the coast is clear . dont give up . balance out your life . be yourself . if you think that he might like you , try to be a little more forward with him . send him a love letter .

how to get a boy in middle school to like you

if you want that special guy to start noticing you , youre going to have to put yourself out there . its hard , but its worth it . look your best , work that smile , be friendly , and be yourself—hell start wishing he knew you in no time . dress to impress . if youre that kind of girl , wear a floral dress when its hot out , or a cute black sweater when its cold . wear clothes that accent your features . get a friends advice on what looks good on you , or ask your parents . you want him to notice how well dressed you are every time he sees you . dont dress in something you will not feel comfortable in . dress the way you want to but , make sure that you at least look cute . if your school has a uniform wear a color or style that looks good on you . be clean and have good hygiene . shower at least once a day . for example , if you practice on a soccer team or exert yourself after school , be sure to shower afterwards to get all that sweat off of you . wash your face in the morning and at night you dont want pimples to attack your pretty face . also , dont forget to brush your teeth you only get one set of adult teeth . look after them because bad breath can really push him away , and everyone else , too . smile . smile when you talk to him , or when hes around . smiling lets him know that he makes you happy . glance at him during class , if you happen to lock eyes , smile , and hold his gaze without blinking for as long as possible . let him digest the fact that youre thinking about him , and then look away like nothing has ever happened . dont overdo it , though—that shouldnt be done more than once a day . its not really necessary , and lots of guys like natural anyway , so go for a natural look when it comes to makeup . if you feel like you have to use makeup , be subtle with it . dont go overboard because that will make him not like you . wear minimal makeup . makeup is not for covering up your best features but making them pop . consider going for the natural look , too . some guys just want to see your face not your makeup too much makeup can lead to teasing and not the flirty type if you really want to wear makeup , just use some lip balm , foundation , and even mascara if you like . if you wear makeup keep it simple because cake faces are a real turn off . play around with your hairstyle . be yourself , dont ever decide how you want your hair to look just for some boy . consider trimming your bangs , straightening , or curling your hair if you think it suits you . alternatively , play with wearing your hair or makeup in a different way one day . act casual , but be yourself . if youre having trouble , pretend like you dont have a crush on him and that hes just another person . that gets rid of the tension that can make a conversation awkward . practice on other boys like his friends . get his number so you can text , which is a lot easier . talk about friends in your class , something strange that happened to you , or a social event you both plan on attending . if youre having trouble keeping the conversation going , be sure to ask him lots of questions . not so much because he might get annoyed . make good eye contact with him throughout . your eyes are the window into your soul , and definitely one of the most attractive parts of your body . make sure he sees them focusing your eyes on him will tell him hes got your undivided attention . but dont stare at him all the time , this will make him think youre creepy . look into his eyes when he talks to you if you look at his feet , you dont look confident . laugh at his jokes . doing so will make him feel appreciated . that being said , dont force yourself to laugh because it will sound fake . if its a joke indicated at you , make a subtle one back at him . its all playful . dont make fun of him , but joking around is okay . play around with him , and if you want to get flirty , ask him to arm wrestle you . that way , you could hold his hand and it wont seem weird or awkward . some people dont like being touched as much as others . making physical contact with your crush is important because it tells him you like getting close to him . subtle is best here you dont want to claw at him and invade his personal space . give him hugs when you see him . gently touch his arm or bump your knee against his . rub shoulders with him when you ask him to explain that science problem you both had for homework . school related work is the best to get in - touch with someone , its a perfect excuse . when he tells a funny joke or teases you in a flirty way , lightly hit him on the shoulder . your body language is telling him that you actually enjoy his attention . if youre really brave , let your hand crawl up his arm onto his shoulder or play footsie with him , you can also sit on his desk before class starts . also blow him kisses in a playful way . tickling is also a great way of flirting . because a lot of guys dont like being tickled , however , you would be better off at the receiving end . mention being ticklish and make your ticklish spots vulnerable . its good to start with a spot like your feet and build up to being touched on the ribs and sides . you would let him tickle you . play with his hair . dont over - do it , though , or it will look strange , and he will want to stay away from you . boys his age are easily influenced by their friends , so if youre friends with his friends , hell realize that youre cool . if youre part of the same group , the two of you can hang out more often without feeling awkward . make sure you dont become one of the bros because boys dont date their best friends . if you feel uncomfortable around his friends , thats fine . dont avoid them or leave when you see them coming . use your siblings . if both your siblings are close in age , you automatically have something to talk about even better , if his siblings and your siblings are friends , suggest that the two of you take your siblings to the movies or amusement park together . talk to him about his interests , his family , music tastes , etc . find out if any of his interests and your interests overlap . dont forget to actually listen bring up details he said later on in conversation to prove that youre a good listener . dont overdo this or youll seem like a stalker . try to find things you have in common . do you both play guitar or love the same bands suggest that you jam together do you both play sports ask him to play a pickup game sometime . it may take a bit of practice to know what makes him click , but stick with it . take the things that he likes to do and be sure to make an appearance . does he do sports go to his games or tournaments and cheer him on . ask him when its going to be , and wish him luck if you cant come . see if he tries to spot you in the stands encourage him when he is down all guys have some down moments , so cheer him up . showing him that you care will make him more likely to care about you . do not say another boy is hot or go on about someone else . he might think you like the other boy and not him . if you like multiple boys at the same time , decide on which boy which you want to pursue and only go after him . or , have a lot of friends and dont focus on one boy its not like you are going to get married its fun to have a lot of friends and not have to worry about treating anyone one of them differently because you dont like them all the same . if your crush finds out that you like two guys at the same time , he might not feel that he was special in your mind . if theres a subject you excel at and hes struggling with , offer to help him . if the opposite is true , ask him for help . this will lead to more one - on - one time and an overall better relationship with him . you probably already know this , but dont plan on getting a lot of work done during these study sessions . your attention is going to be spent elsewhere , and thats okay just prepare for your exam a day or two ahead if you can . there are a couple different ways for you to tell whether a boy likes you or not . here are some tricks to find out without coming out and asking him . ask him to carry your backpack to class . tell him its heavy and he looks strong enough to carry it easily . if he says yes , it probably means that he likes you enough to do favors for you , and likes that you think hes strong . if you want to tell one of your friends something when hes there , tell him to close his ears or to step back a little . this will make him want to hear whats going on even more , and youll know that he cares . be sure he does not already have a girlfriend . double check to make sure that none of your friends like him . you dont want to stir up a lot of drama with your friends , because you might lose a friend and scare your crush away . if one of your friends does like him , you should discuss who gets him . if you cant come to a fair agreement such as who liked him first , he chooses , etc . both of you should move on . if you decide to let your friend go after him and they get together , dont hold it against her . stay friends with her . be happy for them and realize that there will be plenty of other boys in your future . if you dont get the person you like , dont get sad . be confident in who you are deep down inside and love yourself from the inside out . sometimes , after a boy realizes you like them that way , they start to see you in a different light . even if he says no , he may start to subconsciously think about the characteristics that he likes about you or why you would make a good girlfriend . shy boys dont always have the courage to tell other people how they really feel , or they dont know how to . if you like a shy boy and he doesnt seem interested , it could be because he gets nervous around you and doesnt know what to do . if he is shy , keep trying to make him feel comfortable around you . definitely hang out with him in places where he is most comfortable . its definitely tough being a middle - schooler , but youre beginning to learn how to balance out all the work and drama in your life . dont be too over - committed or you wont have time to hang out with him and remember that theres more to life than middle school and it wont be long before youre not even sure what you ever saw in that boy if he feels he cant keep up with you , he might get too nervous and think that youre out of his league . if you are very socially active , invite him to come along one day with you and some of your friends . this will give him a chance to be around you outside of school and in your natural state . dont make him feel like youre never around . if you bring him along make sure he feels comfortable . likewise , dont under - commit or you could seem like a loser . you want to surround your life with interesting activities and friends regardless of whether he likes you . if he does like you , your life just got that much better . if he doesnt like you , your life is fun and meaningful without him this means being comfortable in your own skin , doing what you want to do , and saying what you want to say . the people who dont love and respect you for who you are truly arent worth fighting for . dont try to be somebody youre not . hell like you just the way you are . you may even have some things in common . let him know youre interested , but not desperate . if youre not sure where hes at , be careful about following these steps they might not turn out the way you had hoped ask him , hey , would you like to hang out with me sometime . if he says yes , youve done your part . smile and tell him you have to go . then walk away without looking back . now the ball is in his court . suggest going to the movies or a school sports game together . asking him to the movies would be a little more formal of a date , but you could also suggest going with friends . asking him to a school sports game doesnt have to be a date . it could just be you two hanging out . ask him out to sadie hawkins dance , if these are ever held where you live . sadie hawkins is when the girls ask the boys out for a dance . pile up your courage and ask him whether hed want to be your date . if he says yes , he definitely likes you . if this still isnt impressing him try some love letters . make a cute flirty playful letter from a secret admirer and leave it in his locker . leave a secret code word like flower at the end of every note saying if he finds out who you are to say this word to him . after the first week start dropping hints that its you by writing about things in the letter that he likes and then talking to him about them . once he sees your common interests he is sure to give you a chance . dont write anything that you would be embarrassed about if anyone else read it . letters can get misplaced . if someone else finds your letter , you could both be in for some teasing

brainstorm . focus on the energy over the specific message . think about the past , present , and future . state your intent first .

how to write a love letter to a girl you do not know 2

before you begin writing a love letter , you should spend some time brainstorming . this means gathering your thoughts so you can better express yourself when writing the physical letter . to start , ask yourself some questions . who are you writing the letter to think about how you know this girl . is she someone you admire from school who youve never spoken to is she a barista at a local coffee shop who you admire but are unsure how to approach what do you like about this person as you begin thinking about the letters recipient , think about why youre infatuated with her . what about her do you admire and why go beyond mere physical beauty . for example , if youre writing about a barista you have a crush on you might admire her hairstyle and eyes . however , try to push beyond this . what about her personality is intriguing to you is she always particularly polite with customers does she always smile at people , even if they dont smile backcan you think of any specific incidents people are attracted to people who notice them . if you can think of a specific moment when you realized you had feelings for this person , that would be great to include in the letter . try to jog your memory and think of a specific moment when you began to develop romantic feelings . it can be hard to write to someone you do not know . even if you admire this person very much , you will not have as much information at your disposal as you would writing to someone you have an existing relationship with . therefore , focus on the energy over the message . even if your feelings are vague , the fact you wrote a letter at all speaks volumes . writing someone a love letter takes courage and commitment . you have to sit down and physically write out your feelings . delivering the letter carries a risk of rejection , especially if the recipient is very much a stranger to you . therefore , the effort you took to write the letter in and of itself may be seen as impressive by the recipient . remember your intention if you feel nervous or frustrated when writing the letter . you want to let this stranger know you admire her . the energy behind that intention is more important than finding the perfect words and phrases . allow your intent to guide you as you begin to express your feelings . if youre still struggling to think of ideas , focus on the past , present , and future . this can get your creative juices flowing . when did you meet this person what is your relationship now what do you hope for in the future some details may be inexact when writing a love letter to a stranger but you may find some inspiration considering these factors . when did you first notice this person did she sit ahead of you in algebra class and you noticed the smell of her conditioner did you order a latte from her when you were having a bad day and notice she drew a smiley face on the side of your cup while your meeting may have been brief , and while she may not remember , you might have noticed something you can include in your letter . how does this person affect you now while you may not have a relationship in the present , you may still gain something valuable from day - to - day interactions with this person . for example , maybe its nice to see her through the window as you pass by your local starbucks . maybe its nice to overhear the music shes listening to before the bell rings for class . finally , think of the future . where do you want to go from here maybe you just wanted to express your feelings rather than bottling them up . however , maybe youre hoping you could meet this person and the two of you could get to know each other . think about what you want from this letter when considering the future . when you feel ready to write the letter , begin by stating your intent . this can be brief , as short as a single sentence . however , its an important sentence . you want the recipient to know this is a letter expressing some deep feelings so shell pay attention to its content . for example , you could say something like , we dont know each other , but im writing to tell you ive admired you for quite some time . we have an algebra class together in a lecture hall on campus , and i think your taste in music is amazing .

state exactly how you feel . focus on the recipient . use your own voice . say how this person has affected you .

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as you move forward in the letter , be upfront about your feelings . a love letter is not the place to be shy . tell the girl why you admire her and what qualities about her most intrigue you . go into specifics when possible . you may not know a lot about this person , but mention small things about her that you love . for example , maybe you think the buttons she has on her purse are hilarious . maybe you notice she listens to a particular band on her headphones that you also enjoy . be upfront about why youve never approached her in person . while many people enjoy anonymous love letters , there is always the risk of coming off the wrong way . you dont want the recipient to feel like shes being watched . it can help if you assure her , at some point , youre a relatively normal person who happens to feel more comfortable expressing feelings in writing . there are a variety of reasons you may prefer writing a love letter . you could be shy , for example , and find expressing yourself easier in words . maybe you only see her when shes at work and dont want to bother her . whatever you reason , make sure you state it early on . you want to make sure the recipient understands why you chose a letter over simply talking to her . this way , you can help avoid potential confusion or discomfort . returning to the example of the girl you know in algebra class , you may hesitate to approach her because youre shy . you could write something like , i always want to talk to you in person . however , im very shy by nature . now that were halfway through the semester , im worried ill never get the courage together . so , i decided to write you a letter . oftentimes , people end up inadvertently talking about themselves in a love letter . while you should certainly talk about your own feelings , make sure to focus primarily on the recipient . as you write the letter , express what you like about this person . if you admire that shes always listening to elliot smith on her headphones , say so . however , do not go on a 3 paragraph anecdote about your own admiration for smith . use specifics when possible . if youre writing to a relative stranger , specifics may be hard . however , small things go a long way . do you love the coconut - like smell of her shampoo do you enjoy how she laughs to herself during downtime at the coffee shop do you remember a comment she made in class that was particularly insightful lets return to the algebra class example . you could write something like , i notice youre always listening to elliot smith . i am a big fan of his as well . im impressed by how drawn in you seem to the music . you seem to have an intense appreciation for art . you dont have to write in a lofty , elevated style if it doesnt come naturally to you . the primary purpose of a love letter is to express your feelings in a way that makes the recipient feel good about herself . the best way to do this is to simply be yourself and use your own words . this will sound more authentic and sincere when expressed in a way that feels natural to you . do not get hung up on inserting elaborate metaphors or dramatic declarations of your admiration into your writing . instead , focus on simply being yourself and speaking in your own voice . as you near the end of your letter , tell the person how their presence has affected you . the girl youre writing to may be flattered to know she made an impact on your life . talk about how she makes your days better and why you appreciate her . this may be something small , as you dont know this girl yet . however , even a small impact can be flattering . for example , maybe you always look forward to your 8am british literature seminar simply because you enjoy the contributions this girl makes to class . returning to are example , you could write something like , i know it sounds silly , but getting to see you each day makes me a bit more enthusiastic about going to algebra . ive never been a math person , but seeing you is a small treat that makes class more bearable .

reaffirm your feelings . end on a single sentence summing up whats been said . give her information on how to contact you . find a way to deliver the letter .

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as you begin to conclude your letter , reaffirm your feelings briefly . say something like , i will continue to look forward to my morning algebra class as it give me a chance to be close to you . you want the recipient to know youre feelings are serious and not fleeting . you can also briefly summarize what was said in the letter to help you reach your concluding thoughts . it can be difficult to do , but you should try to end on a single sentence that sums up the gist of what youre saying . this is an elegant way to end a love letter . it can reiterate your feelings and leave a lasting impression on the recipient . it may take a few tries before you find the right sentence . you may want to grab a piece of scrap paper and write down a few sentences before settling on one to include in your letter . its okay to be a little cheesy . love letters are often somewhat overwrought but infatuation itself is often dramatic . dont be afraid to use language that sounds somewhat hyperbolic or ridiculous . in our example , try something like , you really do light up my mornings mondays , wednesdays , and fridays with your spark , passion , and enthusiastic nature . if you want this letter to lead to a possible date , provide some contact information for yourself . you can say something like , if youre interested , text or call the following number . you could also include your e - mail or a link to a social media profile once youve finished your letter , find a way to deliver it . this can be tricky if youre writing to someone you dont know . if you know the persons name , it might be a good idea to write her name on a envelop and place the letter in there . then , leave the envelop where she will see it . for example , if youre writing to someone who works at a coffee shop you could leave the letter on your table or where drinks are set down . if you have an e - mail address for the person , consider e - mailing your letter . if the two of you have a mutual friend , see if that friend can deliver the letter . do not try to send the letter in the mail . getting a letter in the mail from a stranger can be scary . you do not want to come off as creepy .

look your best . go up and say hello . look for chances to talk to him again . make friends with some of his friends . notice his personality . share some hobbies . develop some inside jokes . keep the friendship going

how to befriend a guy

one of the first impressions a guy has of a girl is her physical appearance . make sure you look good every day , as youre never sure of when a good chance to approach your guy might pop up . clothes are a part of looking good , but also make sure to be clean and appear sociable . this is the hardest and most nerve wrecking part of starting a friendship , but its got to be done sometime look for a good chance to introduce yourself , perhaps when hes alone or walking down the hall . your first talk can go anywhere from a simple hey , or the start of an entire conversation if you guys have mutual friends , you can have them introduce you two . if you dont know any of his friends , its generally not a wise choice to interrupt him when hes with his mates . that will be awkward and he wont be able to focus on getting to know you better . once youve said hi to your guy , dont just leave him hanging there find opportunities to talk to him again and introduce yourself a bit more . look and see if hes in any of your classes , and talk to him about the subject or about random things . if youre lucky , you can exchange phone numbers or msn , aim , skype , or oovoo screen names . keep in touch if you guys share a class , talking about your teachers or the subject is an easy way to start a conversation . from there on you can find out a few more things about him . notice who your boy talks to . try to make friends with them too . this will bring in chances for you and your guy to go out with a bunch of friends and get to know each other more . besides , he will definitely appreciate you for being nice to his mates . just like how all girls are different , all guys are different as well . some guys are sensitive and need to be treated carefully , some are out loud and jokey . make sure to treat your new guy friend as a real person , not just as another boy . talk to him , get to know his hobbies and his problems . share some of yours as well . he likes sports mention something sportive you do and show off once in a while . acting is his thing feel free to dramatize in a funny moment show an interest in what he likes and maybe join a club with him . remember that to share a hobby , you dont necessarily have to participate in it as well . just appreciating his liking is enough . share a few funny moments between the two of you and keep it going as an inside joke . itll entertain the both of you and make it feel like youre keeping a secret always something good to have once you know him as a friend , stay in contact . a friendship is a long - term thing like wine , it ripens with old age . be a good friend

prepare your lips . dress your best . have fresh breath . choose the right location . relax .

how to get a boy to kiss you 1

the first step in getting a boy to kiss you is to have utterly kissable , irresistible lips . nobody want to kiss dry , cracked lips so get a good lip balm and apply it frequently for perfectly hydrated lips . before the actual kissing , you should apply a light layer of lip balm so your lips are smooth and perhaps delicately flavoured . you should avoid bright lipsticks and sticky lip glosses however , as these can get messy and even ruin your kiss . for moisturization , petroleum jelly or a lip balm stick will work well . you can also try exfoliating your lips by gently rubbing them with a damp washcloth or toothbrush . this will get them extra smooth . if you have a date planned , try preparing your lips a couple of days in advance . otherwise you should keep some lip balm in your purse for emergency situations . always try to look your best around the boy youre hoping to kiss . youll feel way more confident if your hair looks good or youre wearing your favourite skirt , and confidence is super important when it comes to kissing . try wearing a top that brings out the color of your eyes , or apply a little mascara to show off your long eyelashes . just be aware that looking your best doesnt mean you should go over the top . you dont need to wear a ton of make - up and you certainly dont need to wear skimpy clothes . guys tend to go for girls who are natural and feel comfortable in their own skin , so try to let your natural beauty shine through . smelling good also helps - if you have a date planned , make sure your hair is freshly washed and apply a little of your favourite perfume though nothing overpowering on your wrists and behind your ears . this probably goes without saying , but you should always try your best to have fresh breath whenever theres a chance of kissing . you can do this by brushing your teeth as often as possible , especially after eating . you should also keep a little tin of breath mints in your purse , so you can pop one as soon as things look promising . dont be afraid to offer him one either , he might take it as a hint , which is exactly what you want try carrying a travel - size toothbrush and toothpaste in your purse if youre planning on grabbing a bite with the boy you like . that way you can pop to the restroom for a quick refresher after eating . if possible , use a little mouthwash as well . you should also try to avoid eating foods with a lot of garlic , anything too spicy or anything that might make you burp not attractive before or during a date . you want to remember your first kiss with this guy as romantic , right then make sure to choose an appropriate location . large , loud parties in front of all your friends are not a good idea . youll feel under way more pressure and itll definitely make things awkward . instead , try going somewhere private - but not secluded - like a park , the pier or the corner booth in a cafe . you want to be somewhere that you can talk and see each other so he can pick up on all the kiss - me signals so a movie theatre isnt the best option . if youre already pretty close , you could invite him over to watch a movie together - just make sure that no parents or siblings are likely to barge in at any moment , awkward you shouldnt work yourself up about the kiss too much . of course , its normal to be nervous , but too many nerves can cause you to act jittery or distracted , which might send him the wrong signals . kissing should be a fun , enjoyable , natural thing , not complicated or terrifying at all . but if those butterflies are feeling more like carnivorous moths , there are a few last - minute relaxation techniques you can try take a few deep breaths . if you feel the panic rising , take several deep breaths , inhaling through your nose and exhaling through your mouth . focus on the breathing and nothing else and you will immediately feel calmer , as deep breathing is associated with decreased production of anxiety - inducing chemicals like adrenaline and increased production of relaxing and mood - boosting endorphins . ask yourself whats the worst that can happen really - think about what could possibly go wrong with a simple kiss . are you afraid that youre not a good kisser or that he wont like you any more if its bad remember that kissing is a natural thing , so its very unlikely that youll be bad at it , especially if you like him and he likes you . and even if the kiss isnt so great , if thats enough to turn this guy off an otherwise amazing girl , then hes not worth your time anyway . laugh . they say laughter is the best medicine , and that goes for nerves too . laughing will immediately make you feel more relaxed and happy and make the whole situation less awkward . try cracking a joke even a bad one , making a funny face or whipping out some silly dance moves to break the ice and get both of you laughing . things will progress much more naturally after that .

if you are in the same classgroup as him , then give him a few signs that you like him . make it almost impossible for him not to notice you . if you know he likes you , try to be his friend before taking your relationship to the next level . if you are feeling confident and believe he likes you also , then ask him to stay after teen class so you can be alone . the couple that plays together , stays together . girls can make the first move too , remember to a stay modest in your language and image , b natural and c true to yourself

how to get a boy at church to like you

if you know hes staring at you then look up slowly at him , hold his gaze , and then slowly smile and look down at your bible or the teacherpreacher . if youre feeling confident , sing a solo during the offering or if your church has a choir , then join it . use your talents to your advantage and make sure you create a positive image of yourself . get to know him better you can do this by starting with small talk . ask him little things such as how has your week been or if you already know a bit about him , ask about something he is passionate about this also opens doors to you complimenting him about his interest or something he does well in . use this time to express your true feelings and be honest . dont make fun of him but joke around with him , get to know him , have inside jokes , and if he jokes with you then punch him lightly on the shoulder . its a great way to make physical contact and to show youre interested . ladies , dont be scared to take the leadcharge in the relationship . after all , being yourself and staying true to your personality is whats going to make him attracted to you and hopefully create a long - lasting relationship . wear clothes that cover more skin than they show , try a longer skirt and a nice top . you can still look gorgeous without showing lots of skin and he will notice you for it finally , watch your language . avoid using vulgar or offensive words around him and others if you say something , he might find out and you could potentially create a bad image of yourself in his mind .

getting to know the boy you have a crush on will help you understand what makes him smile . find out what he finds funny , again dont sound as if you are looking for something . find out what his passions are and what he likes to do best . stroke his ego . make sure that you have positive interactions with him . always give him compliments about the things you like about him . , flirting with a guy lets him know that you are interested in him , and will bring a smile to his face . physical contact is a great way to flirt with a guy . as always , complimenting a boy and joking around with him are also great ways to flirt . confide in the boy you like . text or call him every once in a while when you arent hanging out . listen to him . dont be shy . whether youre alone with him or on the other side of the room , catching his eye and showing off your pearly whites is a surefire way to receive a smile in return . smiling at a boy or laughing with him are the best ways to make sure that he smiles back .

how to make a boy smile

talk to the boy you like and figure out some details about his personality . be careful not to sound as if you are trying to gain information . instead , try to be interested and join in does he like frat boy humour or does he enjoy a drier wit this will be easy to discover as you spend more time with him and get to know what his favourite tv shows or movies are . having a night at his or your house is the perfect way to do this . once you get a feel for his sense of humour , cracking a joke or preparing a witty comeback should be met with a hearty chuckle . dont do this too often or it will start to look a bit weird . if he likes mean jokes then you can do some but be careful not to hurt others feelings . nothing lights up a persons eyes more than a conversation about their favourite interests or hobbies . a few of these should get you going though you may not know much about cars , entering a conversation with him about it and showing a genuine interest in it will surely bring a smile to his face . this is perfect and even if you get bored let him stop the conversation rather than yourself . laugh at his corny jokes . compliment him on his new shirt . making him feel good about himself will be one of many reasons hell want you around and often . be careful not to do this too often as some men might grow tired of constantly being complimented make him feel like you enjoy his company , and he will begin to enjoy yours . , lightly touching his arm during conversation or holding his hand is a way to express your interest . , letting him know that you trust him and have feelings for him gives him an opportunity to reciprocate those feelings . this tells him that you are thinking about him . when he talks , be active in the conversation . show that you care about what hes telling you . you have nothing to lose . smiling at a boy is the best way to show your interest , and you can tell pretty quickly if he is also interested . ,

compliment him . smile and make eye contact . draw attention to your lips . make physical contact . use a ruse . give him a hint .

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once you have prepared yourself and decided that tonights the night , its time to start sending out the kiss - me signals . giving the boy a compliment is a great place to start . hell feel great about himself and itll make him like you even more , making the possibility of a kiss ever more likely . say something flattering yet honest , like i love your eyes or youre one of the coolest people ive ever met or if you want to be even more obvious , you can tell him that you love his lips guys are attracted to happy , confident girls , so show off these winning personality traits by smiling a lot and looking him directly in the eye . smiling a lot will make you seem happy and carefree , while laughing at his jokes will flatter his ego . making eye contact will let him know that youre interested and that youre not afraid to get what you want . dont bat your eyelashes , but try looking at him directly for a few seconds , then smiling and looking away - hell be hooked drawing attention to your lips will get his attention in a not - so - subtle way and make him think about kissing you . try not to be too obvious about it , you should make it look like youre doing it without thinking . try applying your lip balm in front of him or gently biting your lip when you know hes looking . youll soon have his attention right where you want it . sometimes boys can feel awkward or unsure about making the first move , but just by making physical contact youre letting him know that its okay to kiss you . try giving him a playful push , brushing your fingers through his hair , holding his hand or giving him a spontaneous hug . hell immediately feel more comfortable around you and hopefully get the message that youd like to take things to the next level . use an excuse to get up close and personal with the guy . pick some imaginary fluff out of his hair , challenge him to a staring contest or tell him that youre cold and ask if you can snuggle closer to him . the close contact will let him know that youre interested and make it much easier for him to lean in for a kiss . boys can be a little dull sometimes , so if hes not picking up on any of your oh - so - subtle signals , it may be time to give him a more obvious hint . you can just go for it by making eye contact as you lean towards him , or you can try giving him a playful kiss on the cheek , challenging him to go a step further . if youre feeling extra confident , you can try a cheeky comment like you can kiss me now or what are you waiting for kiss me hell probably think all of his christmases have come at once

tilt your head . close your eyes . be gentle . hold him close . keep it short and sweet . compliment him again .

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its important to get your kissing technique right for the first kiss . start by slightly tilting your head to one side , just enough to ensure your noses dont crash . tilt in the opposite direction to him - if he goes right , you go left . if hes taller than you , you should also tilt your head upwards slightly to make sure he can easily reach your lips . just dont tilt your head too much , or itll look like you have a crick in your neck . closing your eyes when kissing makes it a much more romantic and sensory experience . however , you shouldnt close your eyes until youre sure you know exactly where youre going - if you close your eyes too soon you may end up kissing his nose or chin try to keep your eyes closed for the duration of the kiss - if you open your eyes and he opens his it can be a little creepy and might ruin the moment . sometimes closing your eyes will come naturally , but other times you will have to remind yourself . leave your eyes closed for a second when you pull apart , then smile gently and open . dont be an aggressive kisser , at least not for the first kiss . your first kiss with a guy should be soft and slow - you want to avoid the washing - machine effect . try not to pucker your lips , rather work your bottom lip in a slight up - and - down motion . remember to breath through your nose and try to stay relaxed theres no pressure to french kiss first time round , but if you do you should try gently massaging his tongue with your own . if youre still unsure , just try to follow his lead . make the kiss more intimate by putting your hands on his shoulders , in his hair or around his neck . keep your bodies as close as you feel comfortable with . if he wraps his hands around your waist or cups your face in his hands , hes definitely into it . the first kiss shouldnt wear out his jaw , you should always leave him wanting more . try to keep it around the 20 second mark - long enough to get into it , but short enough that hell be eager to do it again . dont be afraid to pull away if youre not into it or if its going somewhere youre not comfortable with . remember that he was probably as nervous about kissing you as you were about kissing him , so once youve pulled away , ease his nerves by smiling and confirming that you enjoyed the kiss . just say something simple like that was fun or youre a great kisser . hell feel happy and relieved , while also feeling much more confident about leaning in for round two . now you have him exactly where you want him

be confident . be yourself , be a conversation starter . become friends , go shopping to the mall with a best friend or your mom , this is virtually guaranteed to make any boy like you . try different hairstyles , have a unique scent . smile at him . show him your hidden talent .

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every boy seeks for a girl that is confident and loves who she is . that catches every boys attention first . especially when you dont act like it but know it . so remember , confidence , confidence and confidence . but if you are a shy girl , then seek out a shy guy or otherwise , become less shy and feel cool and free about yourself . but dont become one of those bratty confident girls . use your confidence wisely . no one likes a brat . even if you like someone that is almost completely different from you , always remember you are who you truly are , not some snobby girl that thinks she is better than everyone , but a nice beautiful girl that everyone wants to talk to . even before dressing up into cool clothes , start a simple conversation with your crush . once he knows that you arent scared to talk to him , he will for sure talk to you more often so talk to him about random things that pop up into your mind , or maybe even share friends and hang out with each other during free time . you can try aeropostale or hollister . maybe youre an athletic girl , so try coach or lululemon . but if your family cant afford those clothes or maybe you dont have enough allowance , then try the bay or walmart . those arent bad either but make sure to dress up the way you like it and clothes that represent who you truly are . if none of these stores are available to you , dont worry . buy things you enjoy wearing . discover one evening how you look without your plain ponytail or your hair let down maybe you can curl or straighten your hair to give it a twist . or maybe you want to try a french braid or a side ponytail . whatever you like , you may try no ones stopping you . guys are attracted to girls who try new things and dont stick with the same old , boring routine . virtually anyone can get body odor , so put on some deodorant or antiperspirant every morning before school . use a perfume or eau de toilette too if you like . products that prevent body odor are especially important if youre an athletic girl or you have physical education that day . brush your teeth twice a day to make your smile white and bright . maybe after lunch at school , grab a piece of mint gum or a breath mint if you had tuna . that will help a lot if you have some perfume or body mist , you may spray some in the morning too guys love to smell girls , so enjoy that when you smile and he notices that will make a special connection between you two . smiling can make any girl look pretty and attractive . happy girls are pretty girls enter a talent show . if you have a hidden talent like singing , acting or playing an instrument then sign up for your upcoming school talent show but if you are too shy to go up there in front of the whole school , then pull him into a corner one day or invite him over to your house to show him your hidden talent privately .

decide what you like about yourself . express yourself visually . take care of yourself . be confident . find what makes you happy . smile and make eye contact . use social media . pay attention to his likes and dislikes . go to a public event where you know hell be . give him a compliment . flirt . laugh . be honest . ask him out . be content whether he notices you or not .

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this will help you to figure out what you want him to notice about you . maybe you like how smart you are or youre proud of the way your treat people or you appreciate your creativity . figure out these things for yourself . you dont have to wait for him to tell you that youre awesome instead , you have a chance to share with him the wonderful things about you , whether he appreciates them or not . if you arent sure , try making a list of at least three things that you appreciate about yourself . it can include anything at all if you are struggling , ask a good friend or family member to help you . sometimes seeing yourself through the eyes of those who love you can be quite illuminating . before he can see whats on the inside , initially he can only see your outer appearance . take advantage of this to express yourself and make a statement about who you are . this can be accomplished by developing your own sense of style . the way people dress says a lot about them . someone in sweatpants has a very different demeanor than someone in a dress . you certainly dont have to wear a dress unless you want to , but find a style that feels true to you . this way , even whats on the outside will be able to tell him something about whats on the inside . if you dont know where to start , look at the styles of other people around you and think about what they are communicating through what they wear . if you find someone wearing something that you like , make a mental note of it . to develop your own style , go to a few stores and start trying on clothes . step outside of your comfort zone and try new styles . for feedback , you can bring along a friend . once you try on a bunch of clothes , you should have a better idea of what works for you . you could even take pictures of your top three outfits . make sure that you feel comfortable and confident and keep in mind what you are communicating . when you respect yourself physically , mentally , and emotionally , you will naturally be more attractive and vibrant . this means eating well , getting enough sleep , exercising , and staying hydrated , but it also means monitoring negative thought patterns , validating your emotions , and surrounding yourself with people who bring out the best in you . when you take time to respect all aspects of yourself , you teach others to do the same and people will instinctively take notice of this . it can take a lifetime to truly master this , but dont let that deter you . aim for progress , not perfection . start with one change you can make today . maybe you usually eat junk food for dinner . you can easily replace this with a healthy salad and some grilled fish . if are very hard on yourself and you catch yourself being negative , replace this with a word of encouragement , such as you did a great job writing your paper today . perhaps you have a friend who always seems to cause conflict and trouble . try spending less time with this friend and more time with someone who treats people well . when you know your own worth , he will naturally take notice . take ownership of what you think and how you feel and dont be afraid to communicate this . youre the only one who can share this with the world and you have a worthwhile , unique perspective to contribute . if you have been afraid to share your thoughts and feelings in the past , start with something small . for example , if your friends ask where you want to eat and you would usually just say , i dont care . what sounds good to you try replacing that with something you want , such as , mexican food sounds great right now . practicing speaking up for yourself to develop confidence . this will allow you to share your true self with the guy you like . to cultivate confidence , spend time pursuing your interests and growing your talents . when youre doing what youre good at , you will feel more confident . even if youre not feeling particularly confident , you can fake it til you make it present yourself well by using confident body language . stand tall with your shoulders back and make eye contact with people . you will instantly appear more confident regardless of how you feel . this will help you to be well - balanced so that there isnt too much riding on whether or not he notices you . plus , when you are in your element , doing what you love , you are more likely to catch his attention anyway . maybe you love playing an instrument or excel at a sport . pursue these passions so that you grow as a person . if you arent sure what makes you happy , pick an activity that interests you and give it a try . dont worry if youre a complete beginner . maybe youve thought that painting looks fun , but you havent had the chance to try it . simply buy some paper , paint , and a paintbrush , and get going look for tips online or sign up for a class . maybe youre happiest when you spend time with your friends . being around loved ones and building strong relationships is a great way to improve your happiness . make sure to invest time in the people you love . it can be very rewarding to give to people and help others . if you arent sure what makes you happy , try volunteering somewhere . you could spend some time reading to seniors at a retirement home or spend time giving out food to the poor . when you see how you positively impact others , you will feel happy too . this is the first step in forging a connection . it signals your interest and is sure to get his attention . guys are much more likely to notice girls that show their interest in this way . to start , try to catch his glance and then maintain eye contact for a couple of seconds while smiling . this shows that you are friendly and available , and will make you much more approachable . dont be surprised if he strikes up a conversation with you . this is a great way to casually signal interest . follow him on your social media accounts . you could even send him a casual message , like , hey , it was great seeing you at the game today . people also often tell a lot about themselves over social media , so this is a good way to learn more about him . knowing about his interests is a great way to strike up a conversation with him the next time you see him . this will help you to relate to him . even if you dont have much in common , you can probably find some common ground . if you dont know very much about him , simply ask him a question to find out more , such as , how long have you been swimming for this shows your interest and starts a conversation with a subject that he is interested in . he is sure to enjoy and notice this . most people like talking about themselves , this is a good way to accidentally run into him . maybe he plays in a band each weekend , or maybe he has a sporting event every wednesday . grab a few of your friends and go to one of these . when he sees you there , he will be likely to notice you because you are sharing an activity . guys tend to like girls who like them . you dont have to overdo it , but just tell him something that you like about him . for example , if you are at his football game , you could go up to him afterwards and say something like , you played great today i enjoyed watching your game . this will make him feel good and allow him to see that you appreciate him . it is also a good way to start a conversation with him . this will help him to notice you as more than just a friend . there are many ways to flirt , so choose the ways that feel natural to you . try gently touching his arm while you are talking . physical contact has been shown to be a powerful way to get someones attention . just dont overdo it . if you come on too strong , you might scare him off , happy people tend to be more noticeable . they stand out . show off your sense of humor and laugh at his jokes . this will allow you to show your beautiful smile as well . try to make him laugh too . use a goofy pun or tell him a silly joke . if he tells you that youre a good listener , say something like , im sorry , i cant hear you . if he feels happy around you , he will surely take notice of that . if youre doing your best to allow him to notice you but he still isnt getting the hint , you can always speed things up a bit and simply tell him how you feel . if youre not very comfortable confessing your feelings to him , you can do so more casually by saying something such as , ive had so much fun hanging out with you lately . i really like spending time with you . you can then see how he responds . maybe he feels the same way , but wasnt sure how to bring it up . a girl can only wait so long if he still isnt noticing you , try making the move yourself . if you feel confident asking him out on a date , go for it if youre not ready to formally ask him out , you could try something more easygoing by saying something like , a few of my friends are going to see a movie this weekend . would you like to join us this takes the pressure off , yet still allows a chance for you to spend more time with him . if he agrees to go , make the most of it and try to show your interest and get to know him better . if you go through these steps and he still isnt taking notice , its time to move on . there are plenty of other guys out there . make sure you are content regardless of who notices you . your happiness is your responsibility . when you are happy and confident , even if the guy you like doesnt notice you , the right person will someday . a good way to practice contentment is to count your blessings . it can be challenging when you dont get what you want , but you still have a lot of other great things and people in your life . make the most of what you have right now instead of waiting for something in the future . then when you finally do find the right person , you will be in the right frame of mind to enjoy it . if you are struggling with this , try making a list of all the great people and things in your life . instead of dwelling on the one person who doesnt notice you , take notice of each person who cherishes you and spend time with them . they will help you get past your disappointment . try to practice positive thinking instead of allowing negativity to cloud your mind . replace thoughts like , i feel awful that he doesnt like me . why does this always happen to me im never going to find someone with , i have such an amazing friend who does notice me . im so fortunate for what i have . we always have a great time together . this will help you to appreciate what you have instead of dwelling on what you dont have .

see how often you think about him . judge how badly you want to be around him . see whether you find yourself thinking about shared memories . do you think realistically about your future together , see whether you naturally smile when youre with him . listen to how often you talk about him . check how often you look at his social media . check how you act around him in groups . see if you prioritize him over other male friends and crushes .

how to know when you love a guy

when you love someone , the other things in your life become a little less important in your mind . if you love a guy , you may find yourself thinking about him often — even when you dont really want to . if hes the first thing on your mind when you wake up , and the last thing you think of before you go to sleep , this is a sign that you have serious feelings about him . however , infatuation puppy love can have the same effect . since just thinking about someone often isnt enough to say whether you love that person , use the other steps below to help make your decision . the person you love shouldnt be someone youre shy around . love means that youre extra - comfortable around this guy — you like hanging out with him because he makes you feel like you can be yourself . on the other hand , if this guy still makes you feel nervous , antsy , or insecure , your relationship may not have made it to love territory yet . if you still get the butterflies around this guy , dont worry . you can eventually love him — you just need to spend more time together and grow more confident around each other . people who love each other tend to enjoy thinking about the rich , rewarding time theyve already spent together . if you sit down and think of the things youve done together , do you find yourself feeling warm , happy , or nostalgic emotions if so , you may have a good foundation for love . if you dont feel an attachment to your memories together , you may not be there yet . if you dont have any memories together , you probably havent spent enough time with this guy for love to develop . its natural to have some fantasies of the future when you have a crush — running off together to a tropical retreat , exploring the world , etc . however , when you love someone , your fantasies tend to be a little more realistic . you may find yourself thinking things like , i wonder if we can live together when we finish school , i wonder whether we could get a dog together , and so on . if so , this can be a sign that you are excited for a realistic future with your partner , which is evidence for love . the person you love should make you happy most of the time when youre together . if he can cheer you up no matter how angry you are , this is an even better sign . if you find yourself smiling whenever he is around , this is best of all . your smile should be open and genuine , not forced . a friend can help you see whether you smile around him or not . tell your friend to watch your face when youre hanging out him in a group , then give yourself a few minutes to forget you told your friend to do this . if your friend notices your face light up whenever he talks to you , you may be feeling something for this guy . loving someone usually means they will naturally work their way into your conversations simply because youre thinking about them so much . if you find yourself gushing about the latest developments with this guy even when the conversation has nothing to do with him , you definitely have an attachment to him . you can ask your friends to help you here — ask them whether they notice you talking about him a lot . for obvious reasons , this isnt a good choice if you tend to get shy when talking about romance . in this case , you may avoid talking about your relationship even if you do love him , so use the other recommendations in this article . today , the internet gives people who are in love plenty of opportunities to check on each other . if you are constantly checking this guys facebook , twitter , aim , instagram , etc . to get the latest updates or catch a new dreamy selfie , you have at least a serious crush . even things as simple as checking to see if your guy will be online to talk to every night can be signs of attachment . of course , this on its own isnt a sign of love . looking at someones profile pics every night may simply mean you think hes good - looking , so use this tip along with the others in the article to get a complete picture of how you feel about him . the way you carry yourself around your guy when youre hanging out with other people can help tell you whether you love him or not . if you find yourself focusing on everything he says or snapping to attention whenever he opens his mouth , you may have serious feelings for him . if you find yourself more interested in what he has to say than what anyone else does , this is an even better sign . being in love with a guy means valuing him for what comes out of his mouth instead of just the way he looks when hes talking . as noted at the top of this article , when youre in love with someone , everything else seems a little less important . if you find that you want to spend time with this guy even when you have lots of other male friends , hes definitely important to you . you may even have multiple crushes and prioritize this guy over the rest its ok to find multiple people charming or attractive — just date one at a time . this doesnt mean that the more time you spend with someone , the more you love that person . even if you love this guy , however , you shouldnt spend all your time with him . people who love each other let their partners spend time with friends and family members .

if you think you have a crush on him , you probably do . notice how often you think of him . notice if you cant concentrate . notice if youve thought about another guy this way before .

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if youre asking yourself whether you have a crush on a guy and care enough to do some research on the topic , then chances are , you probably do . you may be second - guessing yourself because the guy is an old friend , or an unlikely target for your affection , or because youre just plain confused . but dont overthink it - - having a crush on someone doesnt mean you want him to be your soul mate . it just means you like him and want to spend more time around him . this is another easy way to tell if you have a crush on him . why would you spend a lot of time thinking about a guy if he wasnt special to you if you find yourself thinking about the guy every few hours , or just wondering what the guy is up to all the time , then you probably have a crush on him . here are some ways to tell if your thoughts say you have a crush if you catch yourself daydreaming about the guy in class . if you think about the guy as you drift off to sleep . bonus points if you ever dream about him , even if it isnt in a romantic way . if you find yourself always wondering what the guy is doing or what hes up to . if youre always wondering what the guy would think about certain things . what would he think of your new dress , your new haircut , the movie you just saw , or the restaurant you just tried notice how often you think about the guy each day . once a day maybe not . once an hour probably a crush . a lack of concentration is another sure - fire sign that you have a crush on a guy . if youre completely focused on yourself , your grades , and your friends , then you dont have time to think about a crush . but if you can barely read a page of your book for homework because your thoughts keep drifting to him , then this is a sign that you are crushing hard . if youre feeling so distracted by the thought of your guy that you cant even hold a conversation with one of your friends for more than five minutes , then you have a crush . if you cant read more than a paragraph of your homework assignment without picturing your guys face , or wondering if he did his homework , then you have a crush . if you find yourself drifting off with thoughts of your guy in the middle of a movie , or even during a thirty - minute tv show , then you have a crush . if youre so distracted that you cant focus on taking notes in class and find yourself doodling the guys name , then you are definitely crushing . chances are , this isnt your first crush , so think of another guy youve crushed on in the past and compare it to that . though no two relationships or crushes are the same , if youve thought about a different crush the same way before , then chances are , this guy is your new crush . try to remember if you thought about a different crush this way before . what kind of thoughts did you have if youre having similar thoughts about a new boy toy , then its likely that you have a crush . know your crushing style . were you also in denial when you were falling for your previous crush if so , then this is a sign that this is your way of easing into a crush . if youve never had a crush , then you may not have anything to compare your crush to . if this is the case , then you probably do have a crush and just dont know what it feels like

notice if youre excited . notice if youre nervous . notice how you feel about the guy being with other girls .

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if youre excited to be around your guy and only feel your excitement build after you spend more time together , then chances are , you have a crush . if the guy made you feel too relaxed instead of excited , then this would mean that youre comfortable around him but probably dont see him as crush material . if you cant stay still when youre around him , then you may have a crush . if your hands shake , or you cant stop talking , or you just keep gesturing when you speak , then your energy level is higher than usual because you have a crush . if youre so excited that you laugh at everything he says even if its not that funny , you probably have a crush . if you like the guy , youre more likely to think that every word that comes out of his mouth is hilarious . if youre so excited that you cant sleep at night because you keep thinking of the guy or replaying your conversation in your head , then you have a crush . if you feel a jolt of excitement and your heart races when he greets you , texts or chats you , or even just when he says your name , then you have a crush . if you have a crush on the guy , then you wont feel completely comfortable around him . instead , you would feel nervous because youre worried about what he thinks about you and dont want to say the wrong thing . if youre nervous , it means you care what he thinks about you , and if you care what he thinks about you , then - - you guessed it - - you have a crush . if your hands tremble , your knees shake , or your voice wavers when youre around him , then hes making you nervous . if youre so nervous that you keep rambling when you talk to him or just completely clam up because you cant think of anything to say , then you have a crush . if youre so nervous that you bump into things around him , walk into tables , or drop all of the contents of your purse in front of him , then you have a crush . if youre so nervous that you always feel embarrassed , or constantly blush when youre around the guy even though theres no reason for it , then you have a crush . if you have a crush , then its natural for you to not want the guy you like to be dating , talking about , or maybe even hanging out with other girls . if youre cool with him having a girlfriend or flirting with a lot of girls , then you probably dont have a crush on him . if the thought of the guy dating other girls makes you cringe , you probably have a crush . if the thought of the guy just hanging out with other girls makes you feel squeamish , then you definitely have a crush . just try not to make this a problem in the future or you may be facing some jealousy issues . if he has a girlfriend and you think he has a great relationship and are happy for him without any complications , then you probably dont have a crush .

notice what you say . notice how you act . notice if youre starting to pay more attention to your looks . notice if youre starting to change your personality .

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the things you say to the guy , or even the things you talk about when youre not around the guy , can be a big indication of whether or not you have a crush on the guy . heres how to know if the things you say mean that you have a serious crush if you find yourself always teasing the guy . if you always end up poking fun at the guy without meaning to , it means you have a crush . if you talk really fast or stutter when you say anything to the guy , it means you have a crush . if youre careful about not saying anything that might make you look like a ditz or dumb in front of the guy , then you have a crush . and if you feel like everything you say to him does make you sound like a ditz , then you probably have a crush . if you cant talk to one of your friends for more than ten minutes without mentioning the guy , then you have a crush . if you have a crush , your friends may be able to pick up on it before you do . you can learn a lot about whether or not you have a crush on the guy based on how you act around him , or even how you act when hes miles away . here are a few ways to know if your actions mean youve been bit by the crush bug if you go out of your way to hang out with him , then you have a crush on him . if youve never watched baseball in your life but are suddenly going to all the school games because you know hell be sitting in the bleachers , then you have a crush . if you want to be near him whenever you do hang out . if you find yourself drifting toward him when youre in a group of friends , or even touching him in a playful way whenever you can , then you have a crush . if you cant stand being around him when hes flirting with other girls , then you have a crush . if your heart falls when you show up to a place where you thought hed be and he isnt there , then you have a crush . it may not be a coincidence that youre suddenly spending twice as much time in front of the mirror whenever you know youll see the guy . heres how to know if your grooming habits and attention to your looks say that you have a crush on the guy if you try twice as hard to look good if you know youll see him . if you wear your best outfit , best hairdo , and most amazing eye makeup when you know hell be there , then you have a crush . if you find yourself experimenting with new makeup looks or jewelry to see if he notices , then you have a crush . if you find yourself not caring at all about how you look if you go somewhere where you know you wont see him , then you have a crush . lets say this guy is the athletic , typical - boy type . you might find yourself practicing basketball and soccer , or buying nike shoes , so your guy can get interested at you . and if you want your guy to get interested at you , that basically means you have a crush on him and will kind of do anything for him .

make sure you are happy about yourself and your appearance . practice walking at home . when you are in a same class together , try complimenting him such as saying wow , i really like your handwriting or i like your shirt . if he accidentally knocks something over , try picking it up and handing it to him with a smile . dont be too shy around him . if youre sure he likes you , but is nervous about asking you out , play hard - to - get . be intimate but conservative . if he doesnt like how you truly are , then its his problem and hes obviously not the perfect guy for you .

how to make a boy notice you at school

most of the time if you are not happy or confident , your feelings will show . look in a mirror and smile at yourself and make different faces . smile around him and be with friends , so you look like you have a life outside of trying to get the attention of guys . you dont have to ignore him completely , but dont get obsessive , either . walk with your shoulders loosely relaxed . swing your hips but only a little , otherwise it will give the guy the idea that youre trying too hard . maybe youll get a compliment back . if you dont brush it off . most likely he is not interested , because for in most cases , guys will look for every opportunity to compliment a girl who they are into . this will let him know that you are comfortable doing things for him , and usually this starts conversations . dont become the guy in the relationship though . if he is not sure enough of himself to do the same back , like pick up a book you dropped in the hallway , then dont try . or at least , give him a year or two to man up . make sure you laugh at his jokes , just not all of them or else he might think that youre trying too hard . ask him about his interests and what he likes to do for fun . talk to other boys , and act independent and confident . boys go crazy when they like you and you flirt with other boys if he really likes you he wont need the sexy side of you all the time . make yourself stand out , but not so much that he will think youre way out of your comfort zone and trying too hard . if he likes what you think is inappropriate or extremely uncomfortable to you , hes not good for you . just keep on being yourself . remember , theres someone out there thats absolutely amazing and will love you for who you are , and if you keep on looking , you will find him .

dress to impress . wear you hair down or up in a simple way . apply make up to always look natural . smell nice . maintain the beauty extras . this means put in an effort to always look your best .

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dress in a way that is feminine and flattering . men tend to gravitate towards hourglass figures . this means you should accentuate your waist by using a belt or fitted shirt to draw the eye to the waist . wear flowing materials like lace overlays and feminine cuts like the sweat - heart neckline . studies show that men also gravitate towards teen girls who wear red . that means no overly complicated twists or braids . instead try a messy , casual up - do or long flowing curls . maintain hair with a thick conditioner and a heat protector spray if you curl or straighten your hair often . it should draw his focus to certain features . lips full , plump lips are attractive to men . so try using a light to medium pink to carefully paint your pout . eyes big , bright eyes can be attractive to men . the goal is to line the eyes without drawing too much attention to the make up . so instead of overdoing the smokey eye , try using white shadow on the corners of the eye and just below the eyebrow , then put a thin layer of liquid liner on the top lash line and use a voluminous mascara . this will leave a lasting impression . literally . spray enough perfume for him to smell if he leans in . dont overdo it , if you do , use rubbing alcohol to remove some of your excess scent . teeth get shiny , white teeth by using a whitening toothpaste . every five months , try using bleaching strips to add a little extra whitening power to your mouth . always use mouthwash after brushing your teeth to prevent any bad breath . its a myth that you should chew gum in order to freshen your breath . this will actually cause your saliva glands to overact worsening your breath . instead try a breath mint . skin get bright , glowing skin by washing your face every night and by exfoliating once a week . this will cause your skin to look fresh and new . if you want to add a little color , add some bronzer to your routine instead of tanning which can cause damage to your efforts to look cute in front of your ex , crush or boyfriend . body get smooth and soft legs by using a mens razor instead of a womens razor . use a body scrub that prevents break outs or that has exfoliates in it . your ex , boyfriend or crush will think you look cute if you do this , for sure

be flirtatious . be confident . smile genuinely . use body language . stick to positive small talk topics .

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always be approachable , look like you are having fun and be open to a conversation . if you want to appear cute , dont try to play hard to get or ignore him . while this is supposed to work , men are more drawn towards teen girls who seem to be having fun , who appear likeable and dont take things too seriously . so instead of pretending like you dont notice him , walk up and pay him a compliment . he will be impressed by your forwardness and will be drawn to continue talking to you . while you want to be approachable , dont be desperate . have fun and he will follow . guys are attracted to teen girls who seem to be having their own fun and who have their own lives . by showing him that you are happy on your own , he will want to join in . your smile is your best attribute . especially if you followed the other steps , your smile could be a huge turn on . so smile like you mean it . men are attracted to fun and happy teen girls . look directly at him when you are listening and speaking to him , it will make him think you are interested in what he is saying . touching his arm with your hand is a nonsexual way to show interest in a guy . also make sure to mirror his body language , it will subconsciously make you guys on the same wavelength . it can be a huge turn off for men listening to a girl who cant stop complaining . stick to positive stories and lighthearted subjects and he will associate you with the great conversation he just had .

do little things to annoy him . tell the guy all about how you feel about what he likes . spend some time with him . tease him about liking someone that you know he doesnt like . tease him in a way he can tease you back .

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these things have to be little things that wont make him too mad . they just have to be things that will irk him a little bit . here are some examples poking him on the arm . coming up next to him and saying something weird like , flying monkeys are inside of you , thats why you feel tingly then giggling , apologizing quickly , and running away . taking his binderpen etc . and giving it back almost immediately . raising up a 20 dollar bill and tempting him to take the money but then not giving it to him . throwing a crumpled piece of paper at him . for example , if the guy likes the band front minor , you can say front minor is stupid . in a teasing tone it catches his attention right away . find out what he likes first , like what he likes in general or what he likes to do , or his favorite bands etc . this way , you can get on his nerves a little bit more . for example , if you are in class working on a project , start pushing him out of the group and pretend youre doing all the work to get him angry . if you do something like this , stop after a while , smile , laugh a bit if you want to and say sorry about that . you can use the classic johnny and sarah , sitting in a tree , k - i - s - s - i - n - g song , but dont get out of hand with it . dont be racist either . dont joke about him being gay and liking another guy , or anything as serious as that . example find out his middle name and let him find out yours , so you can call him by his middle name and joke around about it . get cute little nicknames for each other but not couple nicknames like hunnyboo . thats going a little too far .

become friends with him . talk to him on facebook or other social networking sites . drop subtle hints . mention casually how you hate being single , and see how he reacts if he agrees . ask him who he likes . build up your confidence . come straight out with it . see how it goes from there .

how to tell a boy you like him in sixth grade

if your too shy to talk to him at first , make or develop a friendship with someone close to him , and hang around with them this is also a great opportunity to make new friends . you can start by laughing at his jokes , then answering questions he asked to the group , and so on and so forth , until you are ready to speak to him . when you are feeling that you two are getting close tell him that you like a boy but you dont know how to tell him and when he asks who is it dont tell him and see what he does or says after that . msn is good too . you could share more things and become closer to them , without having to talk too much in person . but remember , you do need to talk to them dont talk to him every night though , then he will think you are desperate . flirt a little . laugh at his jokes , but not too much , just giggles , act happy to see him , and twirl you hair . try to play sports guys love girls who like sports . and try to find out his interests and try them , but dont change yourself too much . you could use this as a guideline for how long you wait before you tell him . wait until something similar to that subject happens . if he asks who you like , just say no one , dont make anyone up . if he says no one too , its a good sign . if he likes another girl , use it to your advantage . what is it about her he likes is she well liked if she is , why is she funny sweet if its because shes pretty , think about why shes pretty . is it her long hair big eyes dont copy her completely , but try to accentuate whatever you have in common . try out some of her interests but if you try all of them he might notice and think you are weird . theres a little something called self - fulfilling prophecy , which means that if you think its going to go terribly , it will lead to subconscious mannerisms that will make it go terribly . believe it will go well , and it most likely will . ask him who he likes again , or say do you still like her they might say why or yeahno , because . what about you then is the time to laugh , or type id rather do it through cyber ha , then saytypetext , im kind of starting to like you . but only if it seems like he is ready .

make a list of pros and cons about him . this is probably the biggest one of all does he make you feel good about yourself , if you can be yourself around him and feel comfortable with being yourself , then you know you can start a real relationship . you know hes right if hes patient with you . does he try to show you off to all his friends , if he lies to you or doesnt tell you something just to make you happy , he isnt stable enough . does he care about your appearance too much , does he pressure you into doing stuff you dont want to , is he willing to make changes for you

how to know if you should go out with him as a teen

if the pros over - do the cons , it means you can deal with the bad things because the good things matter the most . while making the list , dont be too harsh on the cons try to keep away from annoying habits , like nibbles on his nails too much . if he compliments you , or tries to make you smile when youre sad , hes a keeper . but if he insults you and yells at you , throw that sucker away . you can never have chemistry with someone who you cant even express yourself with signs of yelling , continuous teasing , and criticizing you means hes not patient at all . no , it means that he doesnt like you or respect you in any way . or does he hide you like you dont exist if you said yes to the first one , hes capable of being a good boyfriend . when he shows you off to his friends , its a symbol of pride to him that hes with the most amazing girl in the world . if not , hes just trying to not seem so sprung dont get me wrong he does like you , but he doesnt like you enough to be open honest with you , which is a key in relationships . if this guy changes his feelings with you because you arent wearing any makeup , hes not the one for you . a good boyfriend will like you for who you are , whether you look a model or have sack over your head . if he does , it means that he likes the thought of a hot hook - up more than a stable relationship . dont rush to do things you dont want to do , youre only a teenager its a pretty big key to relationships . relationships require good work and people change constantly to make each other happy . if hes not willing to do that for you , it means he doesnt care very much , and you need someone that cares .

pick the right moment . start a conversation . monitor your body language . smile . tell him . handle the response .

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timing is everything , as the old saying goes . make time for a casual exchange when both of you arent preoccupied with something else . try to get him alone . if hes surrounded by friends , he might respond based on their presence , and not based on how he actually feels . dont worry if you cant catch him alone , though — just quietly ask if he has a minute to chat privately . dont rush . you dont want to be nervous or hurried . asking him as youre trying to sprint to class , or hes on his way to an appointment , is a recipe for disaster . instead , choose a time when you have some flexibility , like after school or at lunch . pay attention to his mood . if he seems particularly grumpy or quiet , it might be best to wait for another chance . this may feel tough , but it can be surprisingly simple . an open - ended question that does not have a yesno answer is a safe place to start . ask about his upcoming plans . what are you doing this weekend i wanted to . ask his thoughts on a common experience teacher , friend , class , etc . did you see . i thought that was . what did you think open , attentive positioning will get your point across — perhaps without even saying it . lock eyes . eye contact will tell him that you are listening to him and you care . shying away from eye contact shows youre nervous and less approachable . posture . make sure your body is open and pointed toward him . tilt your hips toward him if standing and make sure your arms arent crossed . touch . make excuses to touch him in appropriate , light ways . the bond of human touch subconsciously puts humans more at ease . lightly lay your hand on his forearm as youre talking , or gently bump into his side if youre walking together . mirror his positioning . getting into a physical groove with him will tell him you are similar . humans are programmed to seek out those like us . always , always , always smile . not only will it make him happier to be around you , itll up your mood , too when the big reveal comes , remember to relax after all , hes just one person , like you . heres how to get through it with grace a non - threatening idea is to pad it with another statement sarah was asking who i thought would go to state this year . i told her i liked you and thought youd make it . you failed the history exam oh , that sucks i didnt do too great , either . but dont worry , i still really like you . if youre good friends , a more straight - forward approach is fine we have tons of fun together . i like you so much . you may want to ask it back i think im starting to like you . do you feel the same be prepared for what he says , good or bad . if hes a decent person , he wont want to hurt your feelings . if he doesnt like you back , thats fine . you were brave for trying be proud of yourself . to avoid feeling awkward , leave on a happy note i understand . i still want to be friends , though . youre so funny i have to get home i just wanted to let you know . ill see you in gym ill kick your butt in basketball tomorrow if he doesnt give you a definite response , revisit the conversation at a later date . he may need time to figure out how he feels . give the subject space and revisit it in a few days . if he says he likes you back , stay cool . this is not the time to attack him with your kisses . smile , continue the conversation , and find a time you two are free to spend together .

act normal . find things you have in common . always , always smile . employ a few subtle tricks to attract him , without going too far and creeping him out . if you really want to flirt , find excuses to touch him , especially his upper arms . if he is with his friends , let him have space . dont freak out just stay calm

how to talk to your crush if he knows you like him

it sounds hard , but if you just act and do things the way you normally do when youre around him , he wont see any reason to act differently . the main thing here is to put him at ease . now that he knows that you like him , odds are he thinks thats pretty cool . at the very least hes got some extra confidence in himself and he has you to thank , so youve got a great chance of becoming good friends with him , and more than friends if you play your cards right . so get him to talk about himself find things that the two of you can both talk about . it can be anything recent movies , his and your hobbies , teachers and classes , music , etc . it puts him at ease and lets him know you enjoy being around him . if you dont think you have a good looking smile , practice making faces in the mirror embarrassing , yes , but it really works until youre confident in all your expressions . once youve got the muscle sequences down , youre all set . a really good one is to , while youre talking , look into his eyes for a second , then look away and smile , and blush if you can manage it . maybe twirl or fix your hair with one hand . he already knows you like him anyway , so what is there to lose a reassuring tap , a playful punch , anything like that will definitely make him feel more masculine , and guys generally like that .  also , things like playing with your hair or licking your lips a bit are great ways to flirt . but dont do things like that too often he might think you are bored , or need chapstick or something like that . also , make sure youre talking to your friends as well as him or he might think youre not very social . dont forget , he might be as nervous as you are . be you . dont change your real self just because you are with the cutest guy in living history

open the conversation . get the timing right . reveal your feelings . answer back .

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you already have his number , so congratulations the hard part is over . keep the first message simple yet intriguing . ask about him . people like others who are interested in them . ask how his day went , if hes seen the latest episode of a show you both watch , if hes finished the homework for french — whatever you know hes thought about . if you know what you have in common , talk about it do you both play sports or an instrument hang in a mutual circle of friends this way youll have something to respond with , sustaining the conversation . use emoticons . with electronic messages , its hard to be sure of a persons intentions . emoticons will soften whatever it is you choose to say . a smile signals that you mean your words in a positive way , while a wink is a sure sign that youre flirting . responding within seconds to all of his texts may seem like youre waiting around to talk to him . while this is fine occasionally , its best to busy yourself with other things , too . go about your day as normal . playing hard to get is not the idea here . dont leave him hanging — just treat his texts as you would any other friend of yours . after the conversation has started , find a moment where it feels natural . you talked to david did he tell you i like you cuz its true . haha i really like you . are you going to the game on friday with anyone whatever his response , dont jump to conclusions . breathe first and then respond . if hes hesitant , dont push . he may need a moment to think . continue the conversation — dont drop it suddenly . if a few days pass and he makes no gesture of explanation , revisit it in a similar manner . if he says no , try to lighten the mood . hes probably feeling awkward , too . oh , thats cool . i just wanted to make sure you knew . but you are so not borrowing my highlighter anymore i get it . im super busy , too — im just starting if he says yes , find a time to hang out . dont drive over to his house or start naming your children . just make plans to see each other over the weekend .

be fun . give it to him discreetly . respond .

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intensity may scare him off . keep your note light - hearted and playful hi  i couldnt resist dropping you a note . uh oh . i think mrs . umbridge is watching me - - all clear for now . are you going to sarahs party on saturday i like you - - wanna go together you can either put it in his locker dont forget your name , slip it in his book , or hand it to him directly . a quick , i think you dropped this , will surely raise his eyebrow . depending on his response , you will need to act a certain way . if he responds positively , talk to him in person . youve got nothing to lose if he responds negatively , stay friendly . when you see him , smile . continue as normal . do not go out of your way to pursue him any further . the ball is in his court now . if he doesnt respond , you may need to talk to him in person . if you didnt hand deliver the note , its possible he didnt get it . wait a few days . if he still hasnt responded , visit the conversation in person . he may just need time to think .

say hello to them . sit next to them at lunch or in class . ask them a question about your schoolwork . talk about your hobbies . find things you have in common .

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make sure to say hi when you first see your crush everyday . if you pass them in the hall , wave and smile . if you see them in class , you can say , good morning hows it going this will help your crush notice and remember you . find an excuse to be near them during the day . if you dont have assigned seats , you can take the seat next to them in class , or you can eat near them at lunch time . if you want , you can come up to them and say , hey , is this seat taken if youre feeling shy about approaching them , ask your friends if they would help you out . one of your friends can take a seat close to your crush , and you can sit next to your friend . a good way to break the ice is to ask your crush questions . perhaps you need help with a math question or maybe you didnt catch the homework . always thank them when they give you the answer . for example , you can say , hey , i forgot my book today . can i look onto yours if your teacher says you need to work with a partner , you can ask your crush , do you want to work together on this remember to smile as you say it once you have started talking , you can casually ask about their interests , hobbies , or plans . try to find out what theyre interested in , and start talking to them about it . you can start the conversation by saying something about your own interests . for example , you can say , do you listen to this band i have had their new song stuck in my head all day . if they havent heard of the band , you might ask , so what kind of music do you like look for ways to connect over common interests , hobbies , or practices . if you know they enjoy something , you can start a conversation about it , or you can invite them to do the activity with you . look at their clothes , bags , and other belongings for clues about what they enjoy . for example , you can say , i noticed the pins on your bag . do you like anime too

compliment them . laugh at their jokes . make yourself approachable .

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every now and then , give your crush a sincere compliment . tell them something you like about them . maybe theyre really funny or smart . perhaps they have a cool talent or skill . for example , you can say , youre an amazing skateboarder . how did you learn all of those tricks dont shower them with compliments , or they may feel uncomfortable . laughing shows that you are interested in what they are saying . when your crush says something funny , laugh or giggle gently . dont overdo it , though , or it may seem insincere . your crush may be just as nervous about talking to you as you may be talking to them . to help them out , check your body language . smile when you catch them looking at you . instead of crossing your arms , try twirling your hair . when your crush walks towards you , dont look away . instead , make eye contact . wave if you want to catch their eye .

invite them to hang out . ask them to join a group activity . get their phone number . add them on social media .

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you might invite your crush over to your house , mall , or park to hang out together . since this is not a date , there is nothing to lose . you and your crush can get to know each other even better if youre still uncertain about inviting your date over to just hang out , you can ask them to come over to help you study . this works well if there is an upcoming test that you both need to prepare for . if youre nervous about hanging out with your crush one - on - one , you can bring them on a group outing instead . this will let you hang out with them without any of the pressure . for example , you can say , a bunch of us are going to go to the beach this weekend . do you want to come a great way to continue your flirting when schools out is to get their phone number . send them a text afterwards to confirm that you got the right number . this will help start a new conversation if you want , you can simply say , hey , can i have your phone number if youre nervous about asking , you can ask instead , can i get your phone number in case i have any questions about our homework never send naked images of yourself to someone . these can be spread or posted online . they can also get you both in trouble with the law or school . friend them on facebook , or get their snapchat screen name . you can like their statuses or post a funny article onto their wall . who knows maybe theyll even comment on your posts . do not stalk someone on social media . do not like or comment on their posts daily , or the other person may start to feel uncomfortable with the attention . use these sites responsibly .

look for hints that they like you back . tell them that you like them . ask them out on a date . avoid blaming yourself if youre rejected .

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before you confess , try to see if there are any hints that your crush might also like you . ask your friends to see if theyre interested , or pay attention to how they treat you . ask yourselfdoes your crush initiate conversations sometimes or do you always start them how often does your crush text , snap , or message you does your crush smile when they see you does your crush ever make excuses to touch you do they remember things that you said in the past when youre ready , tell your crush that you think of them as more than just a friend . you can tell your crush in person , text them , give them a card , or send them a message over social media . you might say something like , hey , i really like you a lot , as more than a friend . i was wondering , do you like me too you should always tell your crush yourself . dont ask a friend to tell them this for you . if your crush likes you back , congratulations now you just need to ask them on a date . if you are both allowed to date , ask them if they would like to see a movie , go to the mall , or attend a school dance together . you can say , would you like to go out with me on a date you can also say something like , do you want to see a movie this weekend with me ask your parents first . your parents may have rules about when you are allowed to date . sometimes , your crush may not like you back . thats ok it may hurt at first , but over time , it will get better . distract yourself by getting involved in activities where you will not see your crush . you might feel as though there is something wrong with you , but the truth is , sometimes people just dont feel the same way about each other . this will pass . be sure to talk to your friends about it . they can help support you during this time .

if you dont really know him that well , the start is at the beginning , get used to seeing him around school , and start saying hello as you walk past or flash a cheeky grin . once youre more comfortable with talking to this lad , start asking more in - depth and personal questions . find out what makes him tick . start injecting a bit of flirtiness into your conversations . ask for his phone number if he doesnt ask already , he might just be too shy , ask him out .

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say hi , and do a cute smile . if he responds , well done next thing ask him how he is if he returns with a question then youre onto a winner he will soon begin to notice you and realise how nice you are an example conversation you might have would be is do you have any siblings at the school or so what lesson have you got next do you like it find out what his interests are , or what he thinks of a new song thats been released . mention things he might be interested in make him laugh there is nothing better than making guys laugh . once they know you have a sense of humor he should soon look forward to your lessons together because you can have a bit of a laugh . remember , you just have to be yourself compliment him on his new trainers maybe ask if hes had a haircut because his new haircut is looking pretty good touch his arm when youre talking slightly . or perhaps you could tease him a bit but , play nice make it cool and casual . say something like , is it cool if we swap numbers i need someone to contact when i get stuck on homework you could also just ask it on facebook just saying can i have your phone number im sure hell say yes now this doesnt have to be a date if you dont want it to be invite all your friends out and ask him if he wanted to come and bring some of his mates , because it would be a good laugh

walk past him a few times during the day , without noticing him . smile at him once in a while , like when you walk past him or see him looking at you . say hi to him in the mornings . accidentally walk into him or cross his path and nearly hit him , after pretending to be distracted by something else . look at him and then away quickly . spend time where he does , but not obsessively . strike up a conversation with him about something like how much homework he is receiving . flirt a little with him , like , if he told you a funny joke , giggle cutely . try the distracted method . be a little mysterious - dont blab everything about yourself to him in the first few conversations . if he teases you , he may like you back . if you think he does like you back , ask him out to a movie or lunch . be different . use the natural assets you have and flatter them by wearing clothes or styling your hair in a way that suits you . laugh and smile a lot when he is near or if you are talking to him . if he compliments you and you really like him , chances are you are going to blush and smile shyly . ask his friends about him openly - it will show them that you like him , and they will probably blab to him about it later . be friendly and open to him . do something absentmindedly around him - like , if you are reading , twirl your hair or drum your fingers lightly on your seat or play with your necklaceearrings . be yourself .

how to tell a boy you like them and ask them on a date in middle school

he will hopefully notice you and start wondering why you do that . , he should start returning that soon after . , if he catches you , smile cutely and look away not as fast . do this around his friends and hope they notice and pick up the situation , and maybe hint about you liking him . if you sit with friends in that particular space and eat or relax it wont look as obvious . eventually you can move onto other topics . make sarcastic comments and jokes where appropriate . if it wasnt very funny , put your hand on his and say sarcastically , hilarious while rolling your eyes . if you think he may be looking at you , abruptly turn your head to something away from him , then look back at him quickly . if he is watching you , he should look at whatever distracted you subconsciously . , if his friends tease him when you are around , then there is a very good chance he likes you back . boys are generally the ones expected to ask out girls , so he may feel flattered and relieved and then accept , or he may decline . if he does decline , nod and smile and say , thats okay , ill ask somebody else if they want to come then walk away calmly . do not hold this against him , but instead continue to be nice to him . show him that you dont mind the rejection , even if you do . do not shy away from him , but continue to pursue him subtly . speak your mind on topics that come up during conversation with him . dont hold back on saying what you think is right and just , but dont overdo it and accidentally offend him . if you are athletic , get into a sport he is involved with . if you are smart , join a debating team or do something that he is involved with academically . but dont change the person you are just to get him to notice you . if he doesnt notice you after a few major hints , like actually asking him out , or if he acts snobbish around you , forget him , he just isnt worth your time . smiling means confidence , and boys like girls with self - esteem , as it makes talking less awkward and more communicative . add to this by saying thanks - but dont try to deny what he says , it will lower his self - esteem and make things awkward between you . graciously accept the comment and perhaps make one of your own . dont push too hard for information though - you dont want to come off as a stalker . if he walks up to you , dont be afraid to talk . ask him how his day has been and what class he has next . hopefully he will return this and you will move onto another topic . , everybody tells you to do this , but reality is , not everybody does . if you lie about who you are and what you do and dont like , then chances are you have ruined the relationship before it has begun . he will like you for that person you say you are , instead of who you really are . when he finds out , things will get awkward , so its best to be honest from the start . and then , if it turns out he doesnt like you , then he just isnt worth it .

before starting a conversation with him , smile when he looks at you whenever you happen to lock eyes . if he doesnt start a conversation with you after smiling , you start the talking . just greet him and introduce yourself , but remember to be enthusiastic and very friendly towards him . ask about classes you both share or your opinion on teachers when confronting him . remember to smile , just be yourself , act as if he is just one of your regular friends that you know . dont put on tons of make - up to try to impress him . look presentable , dont talk about other guys when talking . have fun , if you find out hes not interested in you , dont sweat it .

how to talk to the guy you like in middle school

this might give him the initiative to talk to you first , so its easier you may want to wait a day or two after smiling at him before because he might not be interested and think youre too pushy . , try not to be negative when talking and try to avoid yes or no questions . and act like you enjoy talking to him . there is nothing worse than trying to be someone youre not at all . , the less , the better . and please , dont be that girl whos eye make - up makes her look like a raccoon . you may think a lot of make - up is attractive , but its not . dont look sloppy . make sure your outfit looks put together and matches guys notice how a girl dresses and like presentable looking girls . dress in your comfort zone so you appear relaxed . how otherwise will people relax around you he will think youre not interested in him or you like them and not him . dont be a drag , get him to want you . remember , you are amazing as you are , so be happy and fun there are tons of others guys in the world - ones that will like you

rehearse what to say if youre nervous . find a conversation starter . ask questions . maintain the conversation for an appropriate amount of time . discuss shared interests . get to know him by asking questions . be yourself . text him regularly . try to flirt some . avoid certain topics . look for signs of attraction . be straightforward . ask them on a date . cope with rejection .

how to talk to a guy you like

it can be scary to start up a conversation with your crush . it may feel silly to you , but may be people find rehearsing what to say ahead of time can help . if youre unsure how to approach your crush , stand in front of the mirror in your home and practice . try to think of ways to start a conversation . where do you normally see this person if you have class together , you can practice asking him about a homework assignment or making a comment on the latest test . you dont have to plan what youll say word - for - word . in fact , rehearsing too much may make your conversation sound strained . instead , have a general idea of what you want to talk about . look for observations or comments you can make to get the conversation started . there are a variety of ways to begin a conversation . once youre talking , you can proceed to keep things flowing , allowing you to get to know your crush . try starting with a compliment . for example , say something like , hey , i love your sweater . you can also make an observation . for example , what did you think of that quiz yesterday i thought it was really tough . you can ask a question . for example , do you know when that report is due i forgot to write it down . try to approach him in comfortable situations . if hes not distracted , it will be easier to get his attention . once you start talking , ask some questions . it can be difficult to establish a smooth flow of conversation at first . one helpful tip to remember is that people generally enjoy talking about themselves . if you want your crush to keep talking , ask him questions . this can also help you get to know him better . ask him about things you have in common , at first . for example , what do you think of this class and , do you think youll go to the football games this season once youre in a conversation , try to ask more broad questions that relate to the topic at hand . if you end up discussing a movie you watched in class , say something like , what kind of movies do you like in general during the initial conversation , you dont want to overdo it . pay attention to how the guy is reacting . wrap up the conversation when it seems to have reached its natural end . after you exhausted a certain topic , you both may get the sense theres little left to discuss . the guy may start giving shorter answers . this isnt necessarily a sign the guy is not engaged . conversations just have a natural beginning and end . rather than trying to force a conversation to go on longer than it has to , try to wrap it up . look for an organic way to exit the conversation . for example , say something like , well , i should head to my next class . ill see you later . you want to be yourself around your crush , so dont center all the conversations around him and his interests — let him get to know you , too . once youre talking regularly , try to look for shared interests to discuss . this way , youll get to know each other better and bond through common traits . for example , say you find out you both like dancing with the stars . try asking him about the latest episodes after they air . for example , did you see dancing with the stars last night it was so crazy . from there , you can look for broader topics of shared interests to discuss . for example , do you like dancing i just love dancing and musicals . if a conversation is slowing down , ask a question . asking someone about themselves will usually keep a conversation interesting . this will also give you a sense of whether you want to eventually ask your crush out . if you have a lot of shared interests and opinions , youre more likely to be compatible . you can ask questions likewhats your favorite movie do you have any hobbies whats your favorite subjects in school whats the coolest place youve ever visited whos your favorite television character when you really like someone , it can be very tempting to try and be the type of person you think they would be interested in dating . for instance , if the guy is really sporty but you could care less about sports , you might be tempted to pretend youre also a big fan . avoid this . dont deny your own interests , hobbies , and friends out of fear of judgement or rejection . you can be polite about it oh , im not really into football . and use it as an opportunity to help him learn a little about you i actually really love going to see live music . it can be hard to keep this in mind when you are crushing hard , but remember that someone who doesnt like you for who you really are ultimately isnt a good match for you . if you get his number , texting can be a great form of communication that can help you get to know him better . try to text him once in awhile and see how he responds . this can help you see if he likes you as well . a guy who texts back eagerly is more likely to be interested . be yourself when you text . if he asks you questions , give honest answers . use your own unique voice and sense of humor . throw in an occasional emoji . dont overdo it , but a few smiley faces now and then can come off as flirty . allow him to initiate texting on occasion . you dont want to overwhelm him . as youre getting to know a guy , try to do some light flirting . this will convey your interest and allow you to get a sense of whether a guy likes you . if he flirts back , its likely hes interested . smile . smiling is contagious . keeping eye - contact while smiling is key . this keeps the tension in the air flirty and fun . a smile to a guy gives him motivation to pursue you . give him a brief smile and then look away . make eye contact . this will convey interest . try to introduce gentle touch . lightly brush his arm when youre talking to him , for example . some topics can tank a conversation , so they should be avoided . if youre trying to get to know a potential romantic interest , stay away from topics that may make him uncomfortable . avoid putting yourself down . you want to show that you like yourself and youre not insecure . never say anything negative about his friends or family . before you ask someone out , its a good idea to see if theyre interested as well . if the guy doesnt seem at all invested , it may be a good idea to stick to being friends . a guy whos interested will often show this in his body language . he will lean towards you when he talks , make eye contact , and smile frequently . people often subtly mirror one anothers body language when theyre interested in someone . a guy may , for example , cross his legs when you do . if a guy makes excuses to touch you , this is a sign of attraction . he may brush your arm , give you a hug , or try to touch you in other ways . it may also help to notice if he acts different around you then he does other people . this may suggest he likes you , and may even go against the normal signs . for instance , if he is usually very flirty with just about everyone but is more quiet and shy around you , this may actually be because he is nervous around you . keep in mind that none of these are definite signs he is interested . sometimes , its best just to be straightforward . it can be scary to confess your feelings however , if you think the guy is interested , its easier to just come out and say so instead of beating around the bush . keep it simple . say something like , so , i really like you a lot . i was wondering if you feel the same way . take a few deep breaths before going into the conversation . this will help you stay calm . if it goes well , ask the guy out on a date . say something like , do you want to see a movie tonight or , do you want to go to the school dance with me it can be hard to make the first move , but if your feelings are shared thats somewhat easier . you can never be 100 sure if someone is interested in you . even if you think youve read the signs correctly , theres always a chance a guy will not return your affections . if this is the case , try to accept this and move on . if the guy turns you down , dont question him or get angry . say something like , oh ok . im disappointed , but i understand . then you can excuse yourself and walk away . seek out support from friends and family members . find someone to vent your disappointment towards . do something nice for yourself in the wake of disappointment . buy yourself a new item of clothing or other treat . take a day off to watch a movie with a friend .

make sure you are dressed in an outfit you find comfortable and attractive . relax . walk up to your crush confidently and at a properly timed moment . start a conversation . ask your crush a question about something that you know he recently did , such as star in a play or take a trip . continue the conversation normally , as if you are just talking to a friend . try to find common interests . smile and make eye contact . make him ask you out .

how to talk to your crush and even ask him out for girls

ask people if it looks good on you to boost your ego . make sure your hair looks good as well . feeling good about your appearance will give you confidence . thats the first thing you have to do . breathe deeply , talking to him is no big deal . you both attend the same school , or wherever , and assuming it , you can talk to him if you want to . make sure that you and your crush are both at a relaxed social occasion . this could be a party , a sports event or the mall . this lends a feeling of casualness to your interaction . if he is in the middle of a conversation with other friends , wait for him to split off on his own or wait to make eye contact with the group and say hello to everyone at once . when you get your crush alone , attempt to sound as casual as you can . casual comes off as confident and confidence can be faked . even if you dont feel confident , act like it . if you dont know him yet , a good way to start a conversation is paying a compliment on his shirt , and then when you see him again ask his name and introduce yourself . but if you both already met each other , just start a conversation anyway . when he answers , make sure you seem interested and react truthfully . mention a similar story of your own or comment on what he just said . during this time use your instincts to feel out if your crush is interested in you , not necessarily if they like you as much as you like them . pay attention to how engaged they are and how they try to steer the conversation . ask about his favorite movies , what he likes doing . show youre interested . this way he will enjoy being with you even more . once you have reasonably assessed that your crush likes you , bring up an event that relates to what you have been talking about , such as a play , movie or sports event . mention that you will be attending . tell your crush that you would love it if they would go with you . this makes it less of a question and more of an invitation to something you are already planning on attending . if you want to ask him out , you dont need to be nervous . a girl can do it . just dont make it sound so big like a date , make it sound like something two friends do together . for example , you can go up to him and say hey , theres this really cool movie going on in the theater , wanna come with me . act naturally and friendly . if your crush says yes , get his number and tell him you will call him about the details soon . this doesnt have to be the end of the conversation , but your main goal has been accomplished . congrats if he says no , figure out why . possibly he is just busy that day or perhaps he is not interested in a date with you . use your instincts to feel it out . if you are unsure , its best to leave it at well , if you ever want to go to a movie , sports event , let me know , i would love to go with you . then the ball is in his court . if you are planning to ask him on a date , then bring up something like hey would you like to catch a movie this friday night be confident and comfortable . do not be offended if he rejects your invite . just go ok . then change the subject . if you are rejected , dont take it personally . it is alright . there are always more fish in the sea .

send cues of interest . be confident . approach him with his group of friends . create an opportunity . introduce yourself . make small talk . get acquainted with his interests . give him a compliment . volunteer personal things about yourself . flirt with him . suggest that you two hang out .

how to talk to a boy you admire from afar

when you see your crush , grab his gaze and hold it . smile at him . hold that look for a few seconds and then look away . repeat it again and if hes interested hell mirror your cues . use the flick technique meet his eyes , let your gaze fall to his mouth , and then lift them so that your eyes meet his again . pair that with a coy grin . when you know hes watching you , play with your hair a little . this lets him know that you notice him noticing you . fake it till you make it . the more you allow yourself to relax into the situation and feel comfortable with it , the more confident you will seem . confidence is an aphrodisiac for men so use it generously . dont fidget with or hide your hands as its often a sign of nervousness . place them on your hips or leave them out in the open to promote better posture and signal to him that you are open . keep your chin up and eyes level at all times , even as you walk to project confidence . take care of your appearance . groom with products that leave you smelling good and feeling good like conditioners , lotions , fragrances , etc . pay attention to the details . hell remember you from your back and forth looks . comment offhandedly about something in class or make a joke . this takes the pressure off an initial one - on - one encounter and can feel a lot more organic than the individual approach attempt . if youre feeling brave , approach him directly . if not , make approaching him more comfortable by setting the scene . the setup will provide the icebreaker you need to get the conversation going . bump into him and apologize frantically . place your hand in your hair and laugh at yourself for running into him . drop something , like a book or a pen , as you walk past him . he will either run after you to return it to you or you can retrieve it yourself and explain that you are clumsy . this will always be the boldest move because its direct , straightforward , and lacks the presence of games . the simplest thing to say is hi , im ashley , whats your nameif in - person introductions intimidate you , create an indirect approach to introducing yourself . add him on facebook or instagram . message him directly by giving your name and telling him where he might know you from school or work . tell him you have noticed him from afar and have been dying to talk to him and let him know your name . direct message him on twitter introducing yourself as his classmate or coworker ashley . use your shyness to your advantage by saying that he makes you so shy in person that twitter messaging became the next best thing to hello . get his number from a mutual friend . this one is a little risky because a lot of people do not like to have their numbers handed out if it is not from them directly , but if you make up a good excuse , you might be able to make this move work in your favor . apologize for having his number and tell him that you missed notes in class , heard he would have them , and really need it to study for an upcoming test . this looks more proactive , less crazy , so if youre going to text him , make sure you have a reason and take the conversation from there . light topics will always be easier to expound upon into deeper topics later . ask about the weather or ask if he went to the schools last game . ask him how hes doing today or what hes up to . what kind of day are you having what are you studying where do you work what are you doing later ask questions that are open - ended and lead to him describing his likes and dislikes , his passions , and his interests . listen to his responses more than you speak . what kind of movies do you like what are your favorites what do you like to read in your spare time what is the most beautiful place youve ever been where do you plan to travel to this year whats one thing that youre really , really good at men like praise and appreciation as much as women do . the act itself puts into words your interest in him . slip into the conversation organically and limit the compliments to a couple at a time . if he smiles while youre talking you have an incredible smile . if he laughs at something funny your laugh is music . if he has a great sense of humor you are really funny . if you like what hes wearing you have really great style . if you want to mention his looks but not directly , wait for him to do something thats cute , like talking about a hobby passionately youre so cute . make things feel less formal and less like an interview by making conversation a two - way street . if he asks questions about you because hes interested and wants to know more , answer honestly and confidently . connect a shared passion or interest with a personal story to deepen the emotional connection between you two . allow him to get to know who you are and decide if he likes what he likes . stare in his eyes intensely . use body language to show him your interest . touch him lightly on the arm or accidentally touch his leg , knees , or feet with yours . now that momentum has been made with creating a foundation for friendship , see if theres more there by hanging out one - on - one in a more intimate setting . connection continues to build the more you bond through shared activities . grab a bite to eat somewhere just the two of you . find a less pressured date setting by going hiking or doing something active like racquetball . consider volunteering together to build houses or feed the hungry .

keep your breathing steady and relaxed . present yourself with confidence . display open , positive body language .

how to talk to a guy without freezing up 1

often we are afraid to talk to someone new or someone we like out of fear of being of looking bad or saying the wrong thing . your nerves may get the best of you and you may end up with your heart pounding in your chest as you try to talk to the guy . your nerves always make it more difficult for you to stay calm and focus on generating good conversation with him . you can try to adjust this by focusing on keeping your breathing steady and relaxed , even if you are nervous . you may take a few deep breaths before you approach the guy . do this by inhaling deeply , filling your stomach with air . let your stomach puff out as you inhale , expanding with air . try to inhale for a count of three . then , exhale slowly for a count of three , letting the air release from your stomach . your stomach should contract and pull in towards your spine . you can also close your eyes and repeat a mantra as you do deep breathing . you may repeat silently to yourself , i am calm or i can do this . repeating a mantra can help you stay focused and motivated to talk to the guy . you may also stay calm by taking time with your appearance so you appear calm once you are standing in front of him . you may choose an outfit that makes you feel confident and poised , such as your favorite shirt and jeans or your favorite piece of jewellery . you may also decide to do your hair that day or put on some makeup so you can appear confident as you speak to him . keep in mind the best form of confidence often comes from within , so you should not stress too much about getting your appearance just right . instead , use your appearance as a way to project confidence and a healthy sense of self . another way you can present yourself with confidence is to have open , positive body language when you are talking with the guy . positive body language can show him that you are interested and engaged in the conversation . it can also encourage him to keep talking to you and connect . keep your arms relaxed and at your sides , with your body positioned towards him . maintain eye contact as you speak to him and nod when he speaks to show you are engaged in what he is saying . you should also smile and laugh when appropriate to communicate positivity and engagement . you may also lean slightly towards him when he speaks . note if he is responding to your positive body language with his own positive body language . if he is mirroring your body language and displaying engagement with you as you speak , this could be a good sign .

be prepared . dont say , i love you right away . practice your look . appreciate him , and let him know . dont overdo it . use his imagination . touch him while talking . use words well .

how to talk sexy around boys

thats what the boy scouts say . but were going to use that to make a boy scout blush . take a look at yourself in the mirror , then close your eyes . think about something or somebody you think is super sexy . think about that with your eyes closed , until you are feeling undeniably sexy . now open your eyes , and take a look . thats a look you want to recreate listen to voices , and see how guys respond . sexy is as much in the tone as it is in the words you use . low and throaty is always a safe bet , but if your voice is not ready for that , soft and sweet works well too . start with saying phrases such as i must really like you . this turns guys on without sounding too serious , too soon . once you know what your sexy look is , practice it on yourself , until you can get that look whenever you want . try variations on it look directly ahead with a no - nonsense yes , you gaze . bend your head down , and look up with your eyes . its sort of the opposite of the direct gaze , but still very sexy to guys . as youre waking away from him , turn your head and eyes towards him , and smile . if that doesnt make his knees quiver , nothing will nothing is sexier than telling somebody how much you appreciate things about them , especially the little things . when youre talking to him , focus on him , no matter who else is around—even if the hottest guy around walks into the room . focusing on him alone is most definitely sexy . think about it if selena gomez walked into the room while hes talking to you , and his gaze never wandered from you for an instant , how would you feel being a little bit aloof means that youre not going to be taken for granted . look like you dont really care if he responds or not , and enjoy yourself if the goal is to make him think sexy thoughts about you , then theres no better place to start than his own imagination . try using subtle cues when talking . it might be a sexy smile , or touching your lips while listening to him , or even saying something that is borderline naughty , like it is so hot today , i could just toss off all my clothes and dance naked in the fountain dont just use friend touches . part of talking sexy is being sexy . when youre saying something flirty , run a finger down his forearm towards his hand . he will like that . learn how to use double entendres . those are words or phrases open to two interpretations , one of which is usually risqué or indecent .

start with small talk and be friendly . ask thoughtful questions . share information about yourself . be a good listener . tell a joke to lighten the mood .

how to talk to a guy without freezing up 2

one of the more challenging moments of starting a conversation is the opening lines . you can tackle this challenge head on by starting with a friendly smile , making eye contact , and using small talk . small talk is good at breaking the ice and being friendly while still being casual and calm . try to use small talk that is direct but also open ended . rather than say , hi , how are you , frame the conversation by saying , hi , how was your weekend or how was your day this gives the guy a chance to tell you about his weekend or his day , leading to more conversation and connection . once you have broken the ice with an engaging question , you may then ask follow up questions about something the guy mentions in his response . focus on maintaining positive body language as you ask him questions as this will indicate to him that you would like to continue the conversation with him . for example , if the guy mentions he struggled with a test that day , you may ask , what did you have trouble on or you may say , i remember taking that test , and it was difficult . i can study with you next time if youd like be helpful and open , as he will feed off of your positive energy and respond in kind . you may also ask him thoughtful questions that will help to create an interesting conversation . for example , maybe you both just handed in a difficult assignment and are talking in the hallway . you may ask , did you find the assignment difficult or you may make a light hearted comment that you can both bond over , such as , i hope i passed . how do you think you did during the conversation , you should also be willing to share information about yourself and respond to his questions . providing detailed answers to his questions will show him you are engaged in the conversation and interested in connecting with him . though you may be a bit uncomfortable sharing information about yourself , it will help the guy to feel more at ease and indicate to him that you are trying to build a relationship with him . for example , if he asks you how was your weekend avoid answering with good or okay . instead , you may tell a funny moment that happened over the weekend when you were out with friends or family . or , you may tell him you spent most of the weekend studying or reading , but you did get a chance to go for a walk or go to the gym . try to be honest and also focus on details that might add interest to the conversation . you can also foster good conversation with the guy by being a good listener when he speaks . you can do this by maintaining eye contact with him , nodding your head , and smiling when he speaks . you can also take a moment to process what he is saying in a thoughtful way before you respond to him to show him you are listening . being a good listener also means asking thoughtful questions and then not interrupting the guy when he speaks . demonstrating good listening skills will also allow him to show you the same courtesy when you are speaking . humor is always a good way to get over any awkwardness , especially if you are talking to a guy for the first time . you can make a joke by commenting on something you did over the weekend in a funny way or by referring to yourself in a self deprecating way . jokes are a good way to add some levity to the conversation with the guy and connect with humor . for example , maybe you and the guy both just took a difficult test . you may make a joke about wishing you could text a friend for the answers or regretting your netflix binge instead of studying . this is a funny way to talk about the test and joke around with the guy , making the conversation feel more relaxed and casual .

make an effort to talk to him whenever you see him . connect with him on social media . suggest a friendly one on one hangout .

how to talk to a guy without freezing up 3

though you may continue to be nervous whenever you talk to the guy , continuing to engage him in conversation every time you see each other will help you continue to connect . it will also help you to get more comfortable talking to him and allow you both to get to know each other on a deeper level . even a casual conversation on a consistent basis can help you strengthen your relationship with him . over time , and with enough conversations , you both may be comfortable enough with each other to be friends or perhaps something more romantic . in our current digital world , connecting through social media is a social norm and a good option if you want to stay in contact with the guy . after your initial conversation with him , you may friend him on facebook or add him on instagram or snapchat . making connections through social media will signal to him that you want to continue to get to know each other , in person and online . once you feel comfortable chatting with the guy , you may want to shift the relationship into friendship or something romantic . you may propose a one on one hangout outside of school or work , where you can get to know each other in a casual setting . though it may seem intimidating to do this , you and the guy have also been getting to know each other through your casual conversations , so your suggestion may not be all that surprising to him . you may propose a one on one hangout by suggesting that you both go see a movie that features actors you both think are great or like . or , you may suggest you go for thai food at a new restaurant that recently opened up , as he has mentioned his love of thai food in a previous conversation . use your conversations with the guy to build a rapport and move the conversations to more one on one settings , where you can take your relationship further .

keep it simple . break the ice online . ask questions . talk to guys in your group of friends . join a co - ed club .

how to stop being boy shy 1

dont worry about saying the best thing . just say , hi , or if a guy is wearing a nice shirt , compliment him by saying , i like your shirt . ask how his weekend went by saying , did you do anything fun this weekend whatever you say , say it with a smile and try to stay calm . you can talk about a class you share . try saying something like , howd you do on the test in math if you notice they have a phone case or t - shirt or talk about your favorite band , say , i really like them too . did you know theyre coming to town next week reach out first through social media like facebook or twitter . chatting online can be much easier than in real life , because you can think of what you want to say before you say it without awkward silences . this lets you get to know him better , so its easier to talk in person later on . if youre messaging a guy for the first time online , say hi and remind them how they know you . say something like , hi , we have math class together . have you studied for the test yet you can also bring up a common interest by saying something like , did i see you at the new comic book movie this weekend if youre having a get together or party , inviting the guy online is a great first move . say something like , hey , im having people over this weekend for a back to school party , and it would be great , if you could come . this is a great way to be more outgoing with guys without having to say a lot . when you ask questions , people feel youre interested in them and they may be more willing to talk . you can say something as simple as , how did you like the book we read in english this will start a conversation , and you can listen quietly , which may help to calm your nerves . dont ask random questions . going up to someone and saying , whats your favorite color is not likely to get much of a response . instead , ask questions about a class or shared interest , so it makes sense for you to ask and for him to answer . listen when they respond . its easier to come up with additional questions or insightful responses , if youre actually paying attention to what they say to you . plus , no one likes to feel ignored , especially by someone who asked him a question to begin with . this is generally a less awkward situation because if you feel shy or cant think of anything else to say , there are other people to fill the silence . having your friends there for support will also make you feel sure of yourself , so its easier to talk openly . this is a great way to meet people and in most cases , theres a built - in topic of conversation . sometimes theres even a specific agenda of subjects that have to be covered . talking to a guy who you know shares at least one interest , may be easier than just approaching guys if you feel shy around them . if its your first meeting with the club , say something like , i just joined this club . how long have you been involved you can ask a guy something like , what go you interested in french club if you have an upcoming even with the club , you can ask , are you going to the service project this weekend

remember that your crush is just a normal person . do something that boosts your confidence . start with small , easy interactions before trying a full - on conversation with your crush . figure out what you have in common . ask a friend to be your backup . keep your cool . own it and laugh it off . dont dwell . practice your social skills with other people . be kind to yourself . get busy pursuing your interests and getting involved in activities .

how to stop getting embarrassed around your crush for girls

while he or she may seem perfect in your eyes , your crush is just like you . when you have a crush , you may be experiencing the halo effect , which causes you to see that person as flawless . you need to remember that your crush is a human being who makes mistakes , and is no better or worse than anyone else including you . try the old public speaking tip to calm your nerves , imagine the audience is in their underwear . in this case , imagine your crush in a vulnerable or silly position in their underwear , going to the bathroom , or getting potty - trained as a kid try not to think of your crush as the cutest , smartest , most perfect person , but as that person i sit next to in biology . idolizing your crush may prevent you from seeing things that are not so good about them . you might be so caught up in how cute they are , you miss that theyre actually not a nice person , and not someone you really want to be with at all . if you have third period english with your crush , or you know youre going to see them later , do something that will put you in a confident , positive mindset . it can be as simple as wearing your favorite color or a meaningful piece of jewelry . maybe just stopping into the bathroom before class to apply some lip gloss , practice your best smile , and make sure nothing is in your teeth will help you feel your best . try wearing a necklace or ring that was a gift from someone who loves you . when youre feeling nervous , touch your jewelry to remind yourself that regardless of how things go with your crush , there are plenty of people who think you are amazing . try striking a power pose before you see them . stand with your feet shoulder - width apart , hands on your hips , shoulders back . this wonder woman pose can actually change your chemistry , making you feel more confident , more likely to take risks , and better able to cope with stress . it can be as simple as saying hey when you pass them in the halls , or asking them what the homework was you forgot to write it down . these little moments will make talking to your crush seem normal and not so scary . dont listen to advice that tells you to fake interest in your crushs passions . instead , find out which passions you both share . this can help humanize your crush and will also give you an easy way to start a conversation with them . if youre obsessed with the same band , and you can speak about them with confidence , it might make it easier to talk to your crush without stuttering , feeling nervous , or not knowing what to say . use this as a jumping - off point to ask your crush about themselves . people love to talk about themselves and usually think favorably about someone who asks them questions and listens . ask if your crush has ever seen the band live , or which songs are their favorite . finding out your common interests can also be a good way to lead up to asking out your crush . if you both love soccer , maybe you crush will want to join you and your friends , if youre still nervous at a match over the weekend . if you have a trusted friend who knows about your crush , she might be able to take some of the pressure off your interactions . knowing you have someone in your corner can help you feel a little calmer and more confident . make sure you trust your friend not to embarrass you . if you have a friend who can sometimes be a little mean or likes to tease you , then telling her about your crush might not be the best idea . she might think its funny to try and make you blush or even tell your crush how you feel . overreacting , panicking , screaming , yelling , or blaming someone else for what happened will become the true embarrassing moment . whether someone spilled your secret or you accidentally walked into a wall right in front of your crush , keeping a level head will help you get out of the situation with as much grace and dignity as possible . taking a deep breath can go a long way in calming you down . try to inhale for four seconds , then exhale for four seconds . as you are breathing , think about what you will say , instead of blurting out something defensive . so you just fell in front of the whole school at the pep rally . get up , dust yourself off , and laugh . say something like wow , that was embarrassing and keep going . if youre able to laugh at yourself , youll take the tension out of the moment , and may even appear to be confident . people are more likely to be forgiving of those who own up to their mistakes . if you acknowledge that you said or did something embarrassing , there might be a little teasing , but people will be more likely to let it go . even if you cant laugh about it in the moment , try making a joke out of it later . it will show you dont take yourself too seriously . you may be replaying an embarrassing moment over and over in your mind - - the dumb joke you told in front of your crush that fell flat - - but chances are you are the only one . people often arent paying as close attention us as we may imagine and tend to judge others more on overall character than one embarrassing incident . its likely your crush didnt even notice the thing youre agonizing over . or , if they did , it probably wasnt as bad as you think . obsessing over a moment in the past can be destructive and does little other than make you feel sad and angry . if theres something to learn from the incident like to pause and think before you speak , then take that lesson , and let the rest go . remember that everyone gets embarrassed . each and every person , from the president to your crush , has been embarrassed . dont run before you can walk - - practice making conversation , and even flirting , with others before approaching your crush . this doesnt mean leading someone on , but flirting a little with someone less intimidating than your crush can boost your self - esteem and make flirting less nerve - wracking . try approaching people you think are cute and asking them for the time . build up to striking up little conversations with strangers . stop putting yourself down and start replacing negative thoughts with affirmations . it might be hard to believe , but if you start telling yourself you are a smart , interesting , and kind person who deserves respect , you will start to believe it . cutting out negative thinking and building yourself up can increase your self - confidence . remember that everyone struggles with self - esteem issues . everyone has flaws they are worrying about , everyone feels low or like theyre not good enough at some time in their lives . in fact , most people are probably so busy worrying about their own flaws that they dont have time to notice yours . do things that make you feel good about yourself . exercise and eat right , wear clothes that make you feel comfortable and confident . filling your day with things you find interesting will help you take your mind off your crush and remind you that you are an amazing person with a lot to offer . it can also help expose you to new people with shared interests , and you can get to know them and further develop your social skills . doing interesting things will make you more interesting . dont just talk about how you want to join the track team or learn to be an amazing cook - - make it happen

make sure the boy isnt interacting with himself or in the middle of a conversation where hell be mumbling incoherently as he does the former . before you approach him , take a deep breath and get your nervous feelings out . begin talking to him to develop a sense of comfort between the two of you . get the ball rolling . act normally and talk about your interests , try to look him in the eyes . try to stay calm . avoid awkward silences . make a considerate exit .

how to stay calm around that boy

remember that hes just a boy , and if he has any courtesy he wont say anything offensive . this will help to break in the relationship . weeksmonths of talking you should eventually feel comfortable to be around him as a friend . if he already knows you as an acquaintance then you have completed the hardest step , which is the introduction . if not then try to find mutual friends between the two of you , thus giving you ways to introduce yourself . dont be a mainstream girl be yourself he isnt going to want to date you the 1 out of 100 mainstream girls in his life . hes going to want to date you a unique girl who lets her own personality and style shine . it might sound crazy , but establishing long eye contact lets him know that youre listening and paying attention to what he is sayingdoing . if you get sudden spurts of energy or nervousness , try pushing your toes together in your shoes unless your wearing open toed shoes it should get rid of some of that energy and nervousness . you can also cross your fingers by your side , or simply start twiddling your thumbs by your side . when the conversation goes silent , change the topic or say you have to go . do not let the conversation go silent for too long the conversation could become quite awkward and make you even more nervous around this boy . best is to plan when you want to leave so right after he finishes his sentence . this shows that you didnt cut him off in the middle of him talking about something he thinks is important , thus giving him a good impression of your attentiveness .

avoid negative thinking . allow yourself to be imperfect . emphasize your strengths . talk to new people often . set confidence - building goals for yourself .

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dont beat yourself up if you think you messed up or said the wrong thing . this will only make you continue to feel shy and lack confidence the next time you try to engage with guys . instead of thinking things like , that was stupid , or im terrible at this , think of how to do better next time . if you find yourself rehashing the scene over and over , get out of your own head by talking to friends , reading a good book , or doing something else that makes you feel good . instead of thinking negatively , remind yourself , its okay to say the wrong thing , or i dont need to impress anyone . when youre thinking of how to do better next time , practice what to say in the mirror , or role play with friends . the guy you are talking to may be just as shy as you are . part of building confidence is learning to understand that its okay to not know everything , to not always say the right thing . doing or saying the wrong thing is a great learning experience . most people learn more from the things they get wrong than those they get right . look at failure when talking to guys as a chance to learn how to do better next time . remember , its okay to say or do the wrong thing . if you accidentally offend a guy youre talking to , say something like , im so sorry . i get nervous and say the wrong thing sometimes . most people will completely understand this . you might have heard the saying , if you fall off the horse , you should get right back on . this is very apt , when it comes to building confidence . if you say the wrong thing and the guy doesnt want to talk to you , thats okay . try again some other time . talk to guys who may need your help . if you notice a guy whos struggling in math class , offer to help him with his homework . talking about something you excel at makes you feel more confident , and it takes some of the pressure and stress out of situations where you may feel shy . repetition is one of the best ways to develop a skill . the more you do it , the easier it is , so one of the best ways to feel less shy is to just keep talking to guys . youll soon discover that , even if the guy doesnt like you or doesnt want to talk to you , youre still just fine and there are other guys to chat with . it can be as simple as , i will talk to one new guy this week or i will talk to at least one guy at the party this weekend . if you feel like your shyness is really impacting your personal , educational , or professional goals , you may want to set a more aggressive goal for overcoming your shyness . consider something like , i will talk to one or more guys for five minutes every day this week . build up this goal from there , until it feels natural to engage in conversations with guys .

get help from your friends . ask family for help . take a class . consider getting counseling .

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ask a friend who seems confident around guys for advice . you can also watch how they interact with guys . then , try to mimic some of their more confident behaviors . listen to how they talk , watch their body language , and try to act more like them , until you find your own way to show confidence . ask your friends to introduce you to guys they know . this will make getting to know them easier because you have a mutual friend and theres someone else there to talk with . ask you friends to be your wingmen . if youre talking to a guy and youre getting nervous , have a friend close by who can step in and help . have your friends role - play possible conversations with you . it may seem silly , but practicing a conversation can help you feel better about the real thing . you may not want to go straight to a parent or guardian , but if you have an older sibling or cousin who is close to your age , they may be able to help you feel better about the situation , offer pointers , or just share stories of times they were shy . even if you think your parents wont help the situation , youll be surprised how much great advice they can give . ask your family member , im having trouble talking to guys . i always feel shy or like ill say the wrong thing . what can i do you can ask something like , did you ever have issues talking to guys there are a variety of organizations like toastmasters that teach people how to be more confident , and give you the opportunity to practice these skills and get feedback . you can also consider taking public speaking , theatre , or other classes that push you to talk to large groups of people . this can often make it easier to speak confidently one - on - one with guys who make you feel shy . if youre unable to overcome your shyness on your own , its okay to ask a professional for help . counselors , therapists , and psychologists have years of education , training , and experience , and their job is to help people lead happy , healthy lives . shyness can be a sign of a bigger health concern like social anxiety , and counseling is a great way to overcome this . if youre in school , start by speaking with your guidance counselor . they are a great resource to help you find someone to talk to . you can also search for local counselors online or ask your physician for a recommendation of counselors in your area .

pay attention to your appearance . show him how you feel with your body language . flirt with him . break the touch barrier . compliment him . ask if he likes anyone . tell him youre open to having a boyfriend . get him to ask you out .

how to show a guy that you like him 1

let him know that you like him by making an effort to look nice whenever youre around him . you should still be yourself , but take extra care with your hair and makeup and outfits , so he can start to notice you . you dont have to wear a tight dress and high heels if youre at a baseball game with him , but let him know that you care about your looks when youre around him . dont be afraid to be a little sexy . if youre comfortable with your body , show it off . if youre not comfortable with a lot of makeup , then you shouldnt try to look like someone else just to impress him . try wearing a little lip gloss , and applying it in front of him . this will make him pay more attention to your lips . your body language can let the guy know that you think of him as more than a friend . when youre talking to him , turn your body toward him and make eye contact to show that he means a lot to you . dont be distracted by turning your body away , looking around , or checking your phone . play with your hair when you talk to him . this will show that youre nervous about being around him . break eye contact from time to time to look at the floor . this will show him that he makes you feel shy . dont forget to smile . smiling will show him how much you appreciate him - - even if youre smiling for no good reason . keep your body turned toward his . if youre sitting , cross your legs in his direction , not away from him . if youre standing , turn your shoulders toward him . the more you flirt with the guy , the more hell be sure that you like him . you can start off by flirting subtly and work your way up to being more obvious . there are a variety of ways to flirt with a guy speak softly when you talk to him to make him lean in to talk to you . just playfully tap him on the arm , tease him , and build a fun and flirty rapport that shows that youre paying attention to him . laugh . even if hes not being as hilarious as you let on , laugh a little bit to let him now how much fun youre having when you flirt with him . just dont overdo it . flirting is all about subtlety . once you get closer to the guy , dont be afraid to gently hit him on the arm or shoulder if hes said something funny . you can make physical contact if youre teasing each other , or even give him a big hug when you meet up , if it feels right . breaking the touch barrier will help him see that you want to get closer to him . just make sure that he wants to touch you too and that youre not making him uncomfortable . if youre getting close with the guy and just came back from a run together or some other form of physical activity , offer to give him a massage . if he likes you , hell say yes , and hell start to see how good you can make him feel . it can be tricky to compliment a guy without making it too obvious that you like him . you dont have to say , wow , youre so hot to let a guy know that you like him through some subtle compliments . if he got a new haircut or is wearing an obviously new shirt , just tell him that he looks nice . if hes really good at a skill , whether its math or making a great sandwich , let him know hes good at it . you can get more personal and compliment an aspect of his personality . you can say , youre hilarious , you know that or , you always know how to make a person feel better . this is not the most subtle way to show that you like him , but itll do the trick . just casually ask if he likes anyone , or even talk about what hes looking for in a girlfriend . let him open up and see if he tells you he likes anyone or what hes looking for . just be careful - - let him see that youre asking for your own motives , not because you want to be a great buddy and talk about his love life . just casually mention that youre looking to date someone and that you look forward to having a boyfriend . dont make it sound like youre desperate to date anyone around you - - show him that youve put a lot of thought into it . you can be more obvious and even talk about the qualities youre looking for in a boyfriend , and list some of the things that make him special you can try to get the guy to ask you out as a way to show him that you like him . just casually talk about your upcoming plans or mention what your schedule looks like , and wait for him to ask if you want to do something when he knows youll be free . you can say , im not sure what im doing tomorrow night , but i want to do something fun , and wait for him to respond . you can use your common interests to your advantage here . mention an upcoming sports game or say that your favorite band is having a concert in town soon , and wait to see if he wants to go .

introduce yourself . use the circumstances around you . ask him for help . compliment him . ask a question . find a shared interest . ask open - ended questions . listen more than you talk . pose an interesting question . bring up pop culture . end on a high note . smile and laugh . make eye contact . be subtle . look your best . dont overwhelm him . make physical contact . ask him out .

how to start a conversation with a guy

the most straight - forward way to get a guy talking is to walk right up to him and introduce yourself . it doesnt matter if hes the new guy at work , the cute boy youve noticed around the school corridors , or the handsome stranger at the coffee shop - put your shoulders back , plant a smile on your face and approach him confidently . say hi , tell him your name and ask for his - if youre lucky hell take it from there once you find out the guys name , use it frequently in the conversation . people like to hear their own name - it makes the conversation more personal and creates a sense of intimacy between you . say something like hi , ive noticed you around here and i just thought id come over and introduce myself . my names kate , whats yours simple one of the easiest ways to start a conversation is to take advantage of your surrounding circumstances to get him talking . it could be literally anything , from the weather , to the traffic , to the results of a sports game . you can either make the comment to him directly or to yourself , hoping he sees it as an opportunity and responds . commenting on the weather may seem like a mundane conversation starter , but it works nevertheless . try saying something like beautiful day , huh dont you just love the sunshine when starting a conversation with someone you dont know , the point is to break the ice and open a line of communication first . once youve done that you can move on to more interesting topics . if youre sitting next to a cute guy on the train or an airplane , try sighing and muttering to yourself about the delay or bumpiness of the ride . if hes interested , hell take this as his cue to respond in sympathetic agreement . once you have his attention , you can take it from there men love to help women . theyre biologically wired that way . so engaging the damsel in distress routine from time to time might just help to get the conversation going . appeal to his manly muscle and strength - it will give him a confidence boost and make him feel more comfortable around you , allowing conversation to flow more freely . if youre struggling with a heavy stack of files or a bulky box , ask if he can help to lighten the load . if you just cant seem to open the coffee jar or unscrew the cap of your water bottle , see if hell oblige . make sure to smile and thank him sweetly after he helps you - everyone likes a little appreciation when they do a good deed . and hell be ready to jump at the opportunity to help next time round . this step also comes with a warning dont overdo it . you want a guys respect as well as his attention , so dont play the damsel in distress too often or youll come across as helpless . guys like compliments just as much as girls do , so paying your guy an enthusiastic , genuine compliment will definitely get you in the good books and optimize his interest in the conversation . paying him a compliment is a great conversation starter as you can be as intimate or as casual as you like , depending on how confident youre feeling . if youre feeling forward , compliment him on his amazing eyes , his killer six - pack or his george clooney smile . this will let him know that you find him physically attractive , which all guys love to hear . if youre aiming to be a little less obvious , compliment him on his snappy suit , his funky band tee or his great - smelling cologne - letting him know that you think he has great taste . compliment him on his performance at work or on the sports field , if you happen to be present at the time . tell him he did a great job on the presentation or that he played really well . hell know that you were paying particular attention to him . alternatively , you can compliment him on something a little less personal . if you run into him walking his dog , compliment the dog instead earning you major guy points . or tell him that you approve of his choice of sandwich at lunch . anything that grabs your attention and gets him talking . questions are great conversation starters , especially if youre feeling a little awkward , as they provide you with an excuse to talk to the guy under the pretense of seeking out information . the questions themselves can be as short and simple as you like . just try to avoid questions that can be answered with a short yes or no as this can lead to awkwardness , causing the conversation to fizzle away . phrase questions in such a way that he will be forced to think about the answer , or at least provide more than a monosyllabic response . men can be a little dull at times , so try to help them along a little . hell soon realize that youre more interested in him than in finding out what time it is . try asking him if he has a pen you could borrow or if he watched the basketball game last night . at this point its just about grabbing his attention and getting the conversation going , so dont worry too much about the topic . finding a shared interest is conversational gold . when you find a topic that both of you enjoy talking about , the conversation will flow much more easily . even if its something youre not particularly knowledgeable about , demonstrate your interest by asking him plenty of questions and allow him to do the talking . for example , if you discover that you both like to watch football , ask him about his favorite team , who he thinks their best players are and whether theyll make it to the playoffs this year . once you get him going therell be no stopping him , and hell probably think youre a pretty cool girl for being interested . pick up on hints about his interests from his clothing , desk or accessories . if hes wearing a band tee - bingo he likes music . if he has a surfing picture set as his desktop background , thats a pretty good indication he likes to ride the waves . picking up on small details can help you to choose the right topic to get him going . to really get the conversation going and to find out about your guys interests and personality , its important to ask open - ended questions . avoid questions with one - word answers or rote questions that hell automatically answer without thinking . for example , avoid starting a conversation with how are you which hell probably answer by reflex with a fine or a good . instead try asking him what did you do this weekend or what do you think of the new boss which will force him to think about his answer and actually string a sentence together . alternatively , you can try asking him an either - or question , to initiate a playful debate . ask him whether he prefers the simpsons or family guy , rock or hip - hop , burgers or hot dogs . whatever he answers , gently tease him about it and soon youll both be laughing . conversational etiquette dictates that you should always listen more than you talk . thats why you have two ears and only one mouth , right so once youve got the ball rolling , take a back seat during the conversation and really listen to what hes got to say . let him take charge of the conversation for a while - in case youve never noticed , guys tend to like the sound of their own voice . even when youre not talking , try to stay engaged in the conversation . acknowledge things he says with a smile , nod or other appropriate facial expression or gesture . being a good listener during your conversation does two things it allows you to make a good impression , letting the guy know that youre thoughtful and easy to talk to , while also giving you the chance to see whether you actually think this guy is worth your time . from the things the guy says , youll get a pretty good idea of his personality and you can think about whether you want to take the next step . this is important because - lets face it - if you dont find him interesting now , you wont find him any more interesting on a date . on the other hand , if youve got nothing to say for yourself , he may not find you very interesting . elevate your conversation beyond everyday chitchat by posing an interesting or thought - provoking question that will make him think and ensure that you make an impression . give him something to ponder and youll be in his head long after the conversation has ended . for example , ask him fun yet interesting questions like if you could visit anywhere in the world , where would it be or if your house were on fire , what three things would you save or if you were a fictional character , who would you be these questions will hopefully make him smile and give you a little insight into his personality . or you can get a little more serious and personal and ask him questions like what is your biggest regret in life or where do you see yourself in ten years just to be clear , these are not the kind of questions that you ask to open a conversation or that you bring up completely out of the blue . if you do , hell probably think youre just a teeny bit crazy . these questions are best reserved for when the initial awkwardness has passed , maybe after a couple of drinks . pop culture is the old reliable when it comes to conversational material . everyone , no matter what their interests , will have something to say about movies , music , television shows , books or the latest crazy celebrity baby names . once youve gotten a sense of what his interests are , you can ask him whether hes seen a particular movie , read a particular book , or heard a popular bands new record . also try asking for the guys opinion or recommendation when it comes to an aspect of pop culture he considers himself an expert on . guys love to show off their vast knowledge , especially to a rapt audience . for example , if he loves woody allen movies but youve never seen any , ask him which is the best one to start with . feeling confident maybe you could suggest watching it together . or if you can find something random that youre just as knowledgeable about as he is , youre in luck . impress him with your love of obscure 70s punk - rock bands or your readership of franco - belgian comic books . he might just think youre the one . the final step in successfully conversing with a guy is to know when to gracefully bow out . you should always leave him wanting more , not wishing youd take the hint and leave . after a particularly successful joke or story , you should try to make your exit . tell him that you need to get back to work or should be getting home . hopefully hell be disappointed youre leaving and will look forward to the next time you get a chance to talk . if you feel that things really went well and you like this guy even more now , put yourself out there and suggest that the two of you go out for coffee or drinks after work sometime . if you feel too awkward to say it out loud , do like the girls in the movies and slip him your number on a scrap of paper . right before you leave , you should look the guy straight in the eyes , flash him a smile and say i really enjoyed talking to you , insert guys name here its personal , its flirtatious and its so much more memorable than see you later . guys are more attracted to happy , laughing , smiling girls than scowling , duck - faced divas . fact . smiling makes you seem friendly and approachable before you even open your mouth to speak . hell instantly feel more comfortable around you and be more willing to open up . laughing at his jokes will boost his ego and make him feel good , while also making you look more attractive . win - win . eye contact is one of the most vital aspects of successful conversations . think about it . if you are constantly averting your eyes or looking away youll either look awkward and uncomfortable or as if youre not interested in being there at all . plenty of eye contact projects confidence and indicates interests , which is exactly what youre trying to achieve . be careful not to stare though , thats just plain creepy . ok , so you want this guy to know youre interested , but you dont need to wave it in front of his face . you can smile at him , make eye contact , laugh at his jokes and ask him questions , but dont do it too often or hang on his every word like an over - eager puppy . try to retain a little bit of mystery and make him work a little for your attention . guys like the chase , remember attraction isnt always physical , nor should it be . you want a guy whos attracted to your intelligence , your sparkling wit , your sweet nature and maybe your ability to chug a pint of beer in under 7 seconds . but when trying to get a guys attention , it doesnt hurt to look your best . this doesnt mean high heels and a full face of make - up . rather it involves things such as dressing to suit your figure , always having freshly - washed , sweet - smelling hair or wearing make - up that draws attention to your best features , such as your full lips or beautiful eyes . asking questions and getting to know this guy better is all perfectly fine , but try not to scare him off either . dont ask him questions that you wouldnt feel comfortable answering yourself . also , try to keep the questions breezy - you dont want him to feel like youre scrutinizing his answers , as if he were interviewing for a job or being cross - examined on the witness stand . play nice . a subtle brush against his shoulder or a hand lightly placed on his arm mid - conversation can give a guy chills and let him know , without having to say a word , that youre interested . you shouldnt overdo it , but once or twice over the course of a conversation will achieve just the desired effect . this is what its all been leading up to , right if youve spoken to your guy , decided you like him , and youre pretty sure he likes you back , why not bite the bullet and ask him out it doesnt need to be a big , romantic gesture or anything so formal as dinner . try asking him if hed like to a grab a coffee or something stronger after work on friday . this will give you a chance to spend some more time together without being in an overtly date - like situation . just think of it as an extra opportunity to work on your conversation skills . not so scary at all

make sure that he likes you . tell him that you like him . react appropriately .

how to show a guy that you like him 2

though theres no sure fire way to know if the guy returns your feelings , there are a variety of signs that can let you know how he really feels about you . its best to make sure that theres at least a chance that he likes you before you move on and tell him how you feel about him . here are a few ways to see if he likes you as more than a friend notice what he says . see if hes always complimenting you , asking if you like anyone , and telling you that he wishes he had a girlfriend . notice what he does . if he likes you , then hell look for every excuse to hang out with you , try to make physical contact , and may even do sweet favors for you like dropping off your lunch . notice his appearance . if he always takes extra care with his looks when he knows hell be around you , then this may mean that he likes you . see if hes always asking you to hang out . if hes always asking you to spend time together , even it may not be at a date - type of event , then he may like you . if showing him that you like him just isnt doing the trick , then it may be time to tell the guy how you feel about him . you should pick a time and place where you can both be alone and free of stress , and then keep cool as you tell him that you have feelings for him . dont put a lot of pressure on him or yourself and wait for a response . just relax . if he doesnt return your feelings , at least youll know instead of worrying about it . keep it simple . dont overwhelm him by talking quickly and telling him the 150 reasons why you like him so much . if the guy likes you , then you can hug him or just show him how happy you are , and begin to talk about going on a date and moving your relationship forward . if he doesnt return your feelings , thats ok too - - just show him how mature you are by not getting too upset , or even getting angry , because he doesnt share your feelings . if it turns out he likes you , then you can even laugh about all the ways that you tried to show him that you liked him . if he doesnt like you , dont despair . be proud of yourself for working up the courage to share your feelings and move on .

take the friend approach . use your common interests as a starting point . laugh at the same things . get to know his friends . offer friendly favors . ask for his number .

how to show a guy that you like him 3

if you want to make your guy friend date you , then youve already set a solid foundation for your relationship . but if youre not really friends with the guy yet , then befriending him can help you show him that you like him . if you dont know the guy at all and he barely knows who you are , itll be tougher to show him your true feelings . also , getting to know him as a friend will help you see if youre really compatible , and will give you a chance to show him how awesome you are in a low - pressure setting . start by being friendly . you shouldnt ask him to hang out or reveal your most intimate thoughts to him right away . just take it easy and start building a fun and friendly rapport with him . ease into the friendship . dont overwhelm the guy by always being around . just slowly start increasing the amount of time you spend with each other . dont fall into the friend zone . you should try to be his friend , but dont develop such a deep friendship that itll get weird if you try to take things to a romantic level . if you want to get to know the guy , you can start talking about all of the things you have in common , from your families to your favorite sports teams . if you dont have so much in common , you can learn from each other , and may find yourself picking up on some of his interests . and if you want to pretend to care a little more about his favorite sports team than you really do , then thats okay too . most guys love talking about sports . if you both like the same sports team or sport , you can talk about it if not , you can read up on his favorite team and casually drop some facts . use music as a common bond . see if you have any of the same favorite bands - - if not , ask if he has any recommendations for you . if youve developed your friendship enough , you can even make him a cd of your favorite music to grab his attention . talk about your families . keep it light and talk about your siblings or any pets you have or had growing up . see if you like the same type of food . if he finds out that you love sushi too , hell be more likely to ask you to go to the new sushi bar in your neighborhood . find a common thing that the two of you can laugh about , whether its the fact that one of your mutual friends never matches , or the creepy poster in the back of your math class . whatever reason you both have for laughing , youll develop a deeper bond with the guy and will show him how much fun you can be . if you find something that the two of you can laugh about , then this will create a little inside joke and will make you grow closer . you can even find the same pet peeve to laugh about . if theres an annoying teacher you both cant stand , or if you both hate a certain pop music star , you can have a good laugh over this together . the way to a mans heart is through the respect of his friends . if you get his friends to love you , then hell be much more likely to love you too . hanging out and being nice to his friends will show him that youre a cool person who can get along with anyone and it will also let him see that youre showing more of an interest in him . if you didnt care about him , then you wouldnt care about his friends . you should get to know his friends , but make sure youre not always around , especially during dude - centric events . once you get to know him a bit , you can offer to give him a ride or to pick up lunch , if he looks like he needs a favor . if you cant do that , offer to carry something for him . though this will be a small gesture of friendship , hell also begin to see that you really care about him . just make sure that hes offering to help you out from time to time too , so the relationship isnt all one - sided . if he misses class , offer to take notes for him or to drop them off . if youre picking up coffee on the way to meet him , ask if he wants something too . just remember to not overdo it . youre not his girlfriend yet , so you shouldnt offer to do his laundry or grocery shopping . if youve been friends for a while and are hanging out more , then itll be natural to ask for his number . you should play it cool and not ask for it like youre asking him to go out on a date . instead , just ask him for his number so you can text him about when everyone is meeting at the bar , send him details to your party , or whatever . if hes a nice guy , he wont say no or think its weird . getting his number will increase the amount of contact you have with him . now you can start chatting through text and can take your relationship to a new level . once you do get his number , make sure that youre not the only one calling and texting him .

location and timing . english class . math class . history . science . gym . lunch . in the halls .

how to spend time with your crush at school

there is always a right time and a right place . there is also always a wrong time and a wrong place . one of the best ways to spend time with your crush is in class or at lunch . there are many classes in this world , but here is the basic classes with a few extras . the place where you will discuss books by amazing authors , such as john steinbeck and mark twain . make use of your time with your crush by discussing the book before class starts , whether you love it or hate it . if he has a different view of the book , then make your conversation a little flirty debate . or if you are writing an essay or a short story , ask him if he wants to peer edit with you . if he says no , say something a bit flirty like you sure because i know a lot about the scarlett ibis and you would be lucky to have me to edit your essay . if he still says no , find someone else to edit with . theres always another essay in english class and peer editing with another boy might even make him jealous . so what if you hate problems with fractions , or if you enjoy solving problems with the layout of ymxb your math class is another good place to spend time with your crush . suggest doing some of the homework together if you have trouble . or ask him for help if he is good at math . its the other way around then say to him , hey , you look like youre having some trouble . need help your dream boy will most likely appreciate your help . ah , another class involving lots of writing . this is another class that you can ask your crush if he wants to peer edit your essays on the civil war . you can also discuss the topic your class is learning about , like the presidents . you can even get into a flirty debate about which president was the worst in history . this is a great class to partner up with your crush for labs . if your teacher assigned you two together , thats great chat a bit while you two complete your work . if not , talk to him after class . ask him who is his partner and tell him who is yours . then say something like maybe next time well be partners for a lab . you can make science a bit fun with a little contest . try naming the most bones in the human body or name the elements on the periodic table the quickest . it will help you learn better . whether youre a jock or rather be sleeping , it is time to break a sweat with your crush . challenge him to a quick game of basketball or four square with others . partner up when your class is forced to practice kicking the soccer ball or race each other during the mile . okay , this is not a class , but it is still a time to flirt with your crush . at lunch , try sitting with him and talk about low key things , such as class , movies , books , tv shows , or family . guys dont want to hear drama queens telling stories about a serious fight with a friend . if you cant sit with him , casually walk by his table , wave , and say hi . this another non class , but passing time at school is good for a quick chat . if you see him , casually say hi and smile . if you want to talk to him more , ask him a quick question . ex hey , whats the french homework or what do we do in english today

use your body language . compliment him . make eye contact . engage him in conversation . flirt with him . ask him to help you with something . decide how youll tell him . be sweet . be patient . observe how he acts when youre around and when youre not around . think about whether or not he seems nervous around you . read his body language . think about his social media behavior .

how to show a shy boy that you like him

using your body language to show him you like him means that you use subtle signals , such as facing him or touching his arm , that will hopefully catch his attention . try to sit by him when you can , and when youre talking with him make sure that you have your whole body facing him . dont cross your arms while youre talking as this creates a defensive position . dont forget to smile when youre talking to him . realize , though , that some boys wont really be paying enough attention to notice your body language . he may feel too nervous around you to be paying any attention to subtle signals . giving him a compliment will show him that you are paying attention to him . you can think about things he is really good at , or something you really like about how he dresses and compliment that . giving him a compliment every now and then may give him the confidence to tell you that he likes you . for example , you could say , hey i just wanted to let you know that i think your outfit makes you look really nice today . if he plays a sport , you can tell him how good he is at it , for example , i saw your soccer game yesterday . that was a really awesome goal you scored dont overdo it . a compliment every now and then is ok , but giving a compliment multiple times a day may make him feel uncomfortable . a shy guy may be reluctant to look you in the face , but if you can , try to make eye contact with him . if you do catch his eye , flash a quick smile , and hold the eye contact for about 3 seconds . then get on with whatever you were doing . if you are able to do this , hell get at least an inkling of an idea that maybe youre into him . making eye contact doesnt mean staring . if you make eye contact for too long he may get embarrassed . it may be that you are only around this shy boy in front of his or your friends , so you may not get to spend much time talking to him . when you are together , try to focus your attention on talking to him without ignoring everyone else . ask him questions about things he likes , or what he thought about a new movie that came out . try to ask questions that will require more than a yes or no answer . for example , dont say , did you like the game on friday instead say , tell me what you thought about the game on friday . if you are in a group dont ignore everyone , just casually try to engage him in conversation while everyone else is talking . if you are alone this will be easy . he may seem as though he has nothing to say , but if you keep coming up with new things to talk about hell hopefully come out of his shell a bit . one of the most common ways to show someone that you like them is to simply flirt with them . when most people think of flirting , they think of doing it in person , but if that seems to scary , you can also try flirting with him over text message , email , or chat . when flirting via text , use emojis . one of the most common emojis used when flirting is the winky face , which keeps things light and fun . try to make a bit of physical contact when flirting in person . for example , if you are sitting next to each other you can subtly let your knee touch his knee , or you can brush some imaginary dirt off of his shoulder . when flirting , dont forget to smile flirting is supposed to be light and fun . if you are being very serious he probably wont think that you are flirting . tease him just a little bit . with shy guys you definitely dont want to over - do this . however , teasing him just a little bit might show him that you are interested . when you tease him , be sure to smile and laugh , and maybe gently touch his arm to let him know that you arent trying to be mean at all . most boys like to be reminded of their masculinity . getting him to help you with something may help him feel courageous enough to make a move . when asking him to help you , try to think of something that will make him feel tough . for example , ask him to lift something a bit heavy . dont be unrealistic here , and make sure that you choose something he can actually lift . you could say something like , hey josh , im trying to put these big heavy books back up on the shelf , but theyre too heavy for me . i know youre strong , could you help me telling a shy boy that you like him is tricky because , in a face - to - face encounter , he might get too embarrassed and react differently than he really wants to . you can tell him face - to - face , but make sure that you do it when you two are alone , and well out of sight of any of his or your friends . when you tell him , try to keep it casual . if youre not certain that he likes you , or youre afraid he will get embarrassed , you can make it light - hearted and easy . for example , instead of saying i really like you , and i want to be your girlfriend , you can say , i was thinking that since we get along so well , and have so much fun together that maybe we should go to the dance together next friday . this will give him a way to agree that he likes you without actually having to say it out loud . if you are friends on social media , you can tell him via chat , you can tell him over email or text , or you can even just write him a letter . however , if you are worried that he maybe doesnt like you back , he might show what you have written to his friends . hopefully he wont do this , but be aware that spilling your feelings in written form leaves a record of what youve said . when you tell him you like him , try to be friendly and sweet to him . realize that for a shy boy , talking to a girl he likes is probably one of the scariest things in the world . he might react strangely to your confession , even if he does like you too . try to be ready for this possibility , and if he does react weirdly , or says something defensive try to stay friendly . you can say something like , ok , dont worry about it . i just wanted to see what you thought . let me know if you want to talk about it more some time . this has the added benefit that if he truly doesnt feel the same , then you have easily and gracefully left the conversation without embarrassing yourself too much . being sweet and friendly may also encourage him to feel less afraid to talk to you . if you tell him face - to - face , youll get some sort of reaction right away , though the reaction he gives you may not be the one he meant to give you . if you write him a text or an email , you may not get any reaction at first . there are lots of reasons that he may not respond to you right away . on the other hand , if you wrote him weeks ago on social media , and you know hes seen your message , then he may just be afraid of hurting your feelings . give him a few days to respond . he may need some time to think about what he wants to say , or he may just be really busy . maybe he doesnt get on social media everyday or doesnt check his email often . if he hasnt responded after a week or two , consider taking him aside to ask him about it . tell him its no big deal if hes not interested , but you just wanted to make sure he got your message . of course , it may be hard to find out how he acts when youre not there , but try to observe him from afar . if you see him across the lunch room , see how he is acting with his friends . is he talking a lot or is he quiet if hes very talkative around other people , but quiet around you , theres a good chance that he feels nervous about saying the wrong thing in front of you . if he is a quiet person all the time , it may be hard to tell this way . look for other ways to know if he likes you too . when youre around does he avoid looking directly at you is he sweating is he defensive if someone teases him if he is not normally like this , but seems to be when youre around he may be worried about doing or saying the wrong thing in front of you , especially if he is shy . if a boy likes you , hes more likely to seem as though he is nervous or anxious when you are around . if he isnt really in to you , he will be more stand - offish . a shy guy is likely to be fidgeting with his hair or his clothes when you are around or he may cross his arms in front of his chest . shy boys are more likely to feel nervous around their crush , so they may seem defensive , when in fact they are actually very interested . you may find that your shy boy often tries to be around you , but not really near to you . for example , he may find excuses to hang out with your group of friends , but hell always try to sit as far away from you as possible . dont take this as a sign that he doesnt like you . if you are friends on social media , think about how he treats you . did he find you and friend you is he constantly liking everything you post if so , theres a pretty good chance he is interested in you , but hasnt gotten up the courage to do anything about it . you can also try to hint to him that youre interested by friending him if youre not already friends , and showing appreciation for his posts by liking them or making a comment . dont overdo it though you dont need to like every single thing he posts , rather just a few to show him that you are paying attention .

once you have tried ignoring your crush for reverse psychology , youll want to smile . when the day youre planning on saying hello comes , make sure you are ready . say hi . walk off naturally and calmly and dont mention it to many people .

how to say hello to your crush for girls

although a smile may not be much , just making eye contact is the start . practice a sweet , pretty smile in the mirror , and as soon as you see him , look him in the eyes and give a nice , natural smile . keep doing this dont be disappointed if he doesnt smile back - you know how boys are until you feel ready for the next step . make sure you look and smell your best , and make sure your breath is minty and fresh . but most importantly , keep calm and natural . take a few sips of water to calm yourself down , and breath in and out slowly - but make sure you only do this before you bump into each other so you dont make a big thing of it . when you see him , look him in the eye , smile naturally , and say clearly hi their name , or if you dont know their name its probably best if you do so they know you are talking to them , just smile and say hello . you could even wave without saying anything if you wanted to . just keep it natural and keep greeting him take some time to be proud of your first step to . love well done

control your impulses . limit your interaction with him . stop planning out the future .

how to not fall too hard for a guy 1

you might not really be able to control the fact that hes popping into your head a lot , but you can control your actions . try not to constantly talk to your friends about him . dont stalk him on social media . avoiding some of these behaviors will allow your mind to be occupied by other thoughts and will help you keep a more logical mindset . this is easier said than done getting attention is fun and flattery is nice to hear . youll have a much easier time not falling for him if you arent around him all the time or texting him constantly . itll be a lot easier to maintain balance and to not get swept up in your emotions if you arent hasty about bringing him into your day - to - day life . try making a commitment to yourself to only hang out with him once a week at the most . keep your phone in your purse or in another room when youre hanging out with friends and family members to keep yourself from texting him too much . its okay to have thoughts about what material you want your wedding dress to be made of and what you might name your kids one day , but youre getting ahead of yourself if youre thinking about this new guy in that picture . theres always a chance that this will be the guy who will be a part of those moments , but for now , just focus on enjoying getting to know each other . ask him about his favorite movies , music , sports , and more . acknowledging that this point in time is all about learning who each other are may keep you from thinking so far into the future . enjoy your firsts . there will only be one first date or first kiss . keep your thoughts about him focused on those big , exciting moments as they happen .

talk to him about himself . be friends with his friends . always try to make eye contact . joke around with him but some guys are more sensitive then others , so be careful of what you say . be yourself . play it cool . give hints and if hes not getting them , tell his best friends you like him or write him a note and put it in his locker . feel confident . act silly and maybe he will too to make you even more comfortable around him . focus on other things , too . dont be too obsessive about talking to him . dont text the guy if he doesnt reply .

how to not look too obsessed over your crush

try not to ask him too personal questions , as it might make him feel uncomfortable . if his friends are your friends too , it gives you a reason to be around him . guys love it , but try not to make too much eye contact . it might make him feel like hes under a microscope . , guys hate it when you try to be someone youre not . they can totally tell when thats happening . they like it better when youre yourself . dont overdo anything . , be happy with your look and just go for it . , like schoolwork . if you get bad grades , he might think youre way too unfocused . some guys dont like that . let him talk to you or go a day or two without talking to him . if you sit at home waiting for him to get online and send him a message right away he may think your being too clingy and creepy . just resist talking to him for a while or wait for him to make the move . either he eventually will , or hes done talking or doesnt want to talk . wait until a couple hours or a day later to send him a hey or wait for him to talk to you .

always be yourself . talk to him . watch his actions . watch his facial expressions too . talk to your dad or your brother , if he likes you , go ahead and ask him out , if you just want to be friends , hang out with him more .

how to understand boys

it sounds cheesy , but if he ends up liking you for being someone else , if you get in a long term relationship , you have to lie about your everything around him and you have to remember every lie you said about yourself . and , when the relationship is over , it wont be over peacefully . so be yourself the more you guys talk , the more you will start to know the boy . let the conversation be about him . ask interesting questions . some good topics are whats up conversation starter crushes . its good to get him thinking about it if you are in love with him . dreams and goals . favorite date places . you better consider this if you are going to ask him out friends and family . sports . only talk about this if you have a potential interest in it . celebrities . stroking his hand through his hair that might mean he like you . reaching his hand for yours he might like you - more than friends . laughing at your every joke this can be a good sign . he might like you . but if he laughs too much , he may feel uneasy with you . watch his actions and let him know you want to start a relationship dating or friends with your actions too . see his reply , and dont forget to check his actions . the most important parts to look at are if he smiles or not , and his eyes . dont just focus on how cute his eyes look , but see if you can tell how he is feeling . boys , like girls , smile when they are pleased too . they have their facial expressions like girls so it shouldnt be hard . some other male relative will do too . ask them why boys do this or boys do that . they might have some great answers after all , they are talking about their own kind this will take some practice . the best way to ask is to do it casually . when there is an awkward moment of silence , take a breath and ask he might say yes , or sadly , no . 50 chance . if he says sure , say okay , ill see you there and leave . no just say okay , thats cool . practice a few times in front of a mirror especially if its your first time and dont forget to consider these things what will you do at the date so , wanna next saturday when will the date happen so , wanna catch a movie onnext the tone of your voice . say it cool and casually . dont seem to make a big deal out of it . smile smiling looks attractive and will keep you in a positive mood . laugh too do not force your smiles and laughter . talk to him . dont flirt . no complimenting muscles for example . the more you talk to him the more he will get to know you and feel more comfortable with you . ask him questions and share some of your experiences and memories .

keep up with your hobbies . work on bettering yourself . spend time with other important people in your life .

how to not fall too hard for a guy 2

continue to stay active with your recreational soccer team and make progress on the short story that youre writing . these activities might seem unimportant when youre curled up with your new favorite person , but they arent . keep some things in your life as only yours . later on , youll be grateful that you continued to do the things you love . to avoid becoming consumed with the guy you like , set some goals for yourself that youve been thinking about putting into action . this will shift your focus in a positive , healthy , progressive way . consider making a goal to go to the gym three times a week if youve been feeling a little sluggish and want to get more exercise in . while its tough to think about anyone else right now , its really important to keep investing in your trusted support system . its easy to forget about friends and family members who are always there for you when theres a special new guy in your life , but theyre the ones who have been with you through the good and bad times and have added true value to your life . remember to grab dinner or go watch a movie with those who have proven long - term loyalty .

avoid putting him on a pedestal . remind yourself of past failed relationships . be yourself if you want it to last .

how to not fall too hard for a guy 3

one of the major causes of falling too hard for a guy is seeing him as flawless . remind yourself that no one is flawless . instead of choosing to ignore his shortcomings , figure them out and think about whether or not you can accept them . if you avoid this and end up in a relationship with him , his inability to maintain the perfect image you created for him will damage the relationship . try having a conversation about weaknesses . he probably knows his flaws best , and learning this information from him might help to ground you . tell him your weaknesses too so that he doesnt assume that youre perfect either . when youre in the giddy early phase of getting to know a romantic interest , you can be blind to the reality of relationships . look back briefly on past experiences that didnt quite work out in your favor . consider the fact that some of those hard times could happen with this new guy that you like . ask yourself if youre willing to go through that pain again . ask yourself if you see the potential for any of those problems to come up again . when youre really starting to develop feelings , sometimes its hard to stay true to who you are . you might be acting a certain way that appeals to him in order to speed up the relationships development . while this might get his interest in the short term , itll eliminate the possibility of a healthy relationship later . be honest about the fact that you love rap music even if you know he only listens to country . it might take longer for him to know if the two of you are compatible enough , but this slower progression is more healthy and natural , and if things finally do progress , youll know its for the right reasons .

be honest with what you want . structure your note like a poem . use quotes . compliment him . add an inside joke . include a personal gift . pick your paper . fold the note into a heart . embellish the envelope with stickers or stencils . paint the envelope with watercolors . give him the note in the hallway . stick the note in his locker . send the note electronically . send the note anonymously .

how to write a note to a boy you like

if you really like this boy , tell him that . figure out what you want this note to achieve . do you want him to give you his number so you can text him ask for his number in your note . do you want to hang out with him after school ask him to come over to your house to watch a movie . figure out what you want to achieve with your note and writing it will become so much easier . be honest with yourself as well . dont tell him its okay if he doesnt like you , youre okay with just being friends if thats not true . make sure whatever you put in your note is truthful , otherwise youre starting off on the wrong foot . its also okay to say you dont know what to say . telling him i dont know how to tell you this , but i really like you is very endearing and hell be flattered that you were even brave enough to try . theres no right way to tell someone you like them , so you can feel free to be as creative as you want . try writing a poem to let him know how you feel . your poem doesnt have to rhyme if you dont want it to . there are many different types and lengths of poems , so fool around and see which one feels right for you . if all else fails , go back to the classics . you cant go wrong with a little roses are red , violets are blue , this poem is stupid , but i still like you . if you have trouble putting what you feel into your own words , use somebody elses . include a quote from your favorite movie or book or add a song lyric that makes you think of him . it doesnt matter what you say , as long as he gets the idea that you like him . use your note to express things you might be embarrassed to say in person . compliment his hair or his clothes or his personality whatever it is that makes him attractive to you , tell him . even if he decides that hes not interested in you , hell still appreciate the compliments . if you and your crush are already friends , chances are you have at least one inside joke . include that joke in your note these details are unique and specific to your relationship and hell appreciate that you thought to include it . your love letter doesnt just have to be a letter . if you feel self - conscious explaining yourself in words , try explaining yourself in song . make your crush a mixed cd or playlist of all the songs that make you think of him . if youre artistic , draw him a picture of you and him together . whatever you decide to give him , make sure you include some kind of note with your name on it . you wouldnt want to give him a gift and make him guess where its coming from . the note with your gift doesnt have to be highly detailed . it can be as simple as to jack , from jill . the gift is what youre explaining yourself with , so the note accompanying it can be very low - key . before you can even start writing your letter , you need to decide what stationary to use . notebook paper is always a safe option , but its not the only one . if you recently went on a trip with your family , use a postcard from that location . or if you have special stationary that you really love , use that instead . to do this , write your note on a 6 by 6 piece of paper or any square - shaped paper . fold the paper twice over so your paper is divided into four equal quadrants . fold the top point down to meet the crease in the center . fold the bottom point up so it touches the top point . fold your right side to meet the crease in the center and then do the same with the left side . flip the heart over and fold the top points down . if youre passing your note in an envelope , feel free to gussy up the envelope as well . you can add stickers or use stencils to write your crushs name out . if you want to be funny , try cutting out your crushs name using letters from a magazine and taping them to the envelope so it looks like a ransom note . keep in mind that he might not like stickers as much as you do . less is usually more when it comes to decorating your note , unless you want the note to look over - the - top on purpose . if the note is serious in tone , its probably best to keep it simple just write his name in plain letters on the envelope . to make your envelope a little more colorful and fun , try painting it . to do this , all you will need is your envelope , some paint and a brush . try painting wavy lines in different colored stripes . when painting , make sure to keep your brush flat and drag it across the surface . let the envelope dry before you put your letter inside . if you frequently pass your crush in the halls , plan on giving him the note during that time . you wont have too much time before you have to get to your next class , so you wont have to worry about standing around and talking awkwardly . if youre too nervous or anxious to pass the note yourself , give it to a friend to pass on . make sure you choose a friend that you trust , just in case they decide to read the note themselves and tell others what it says . you could also give him the note in class . hell probably be thrilled to have something to do other than focusing on the lesson and studying , of course . just make sure it doesnt fall into the wrong hands . you dont want your teacher to find it and confiscate it , or worse , read the note out loud . if you dont want to give the note directly to your crush and you feel weird asking someone else to do it , slide the note through the slots in his locker . just make sure youre putting the note in the right locker . if you feel that you couldnt possibly give your note at school , try sending it through e - mail . some people believe that e - mail is not romantic , but thats actually not the case . as long as youre being honest and sharing your feelings , your crush wont really care how you send them over . you can also send your note as a text or facebook message . whatever medium you feel most comfortable using , do that . if youre absolutely convinced that you couldnt possibly send your crush a letter with your name on it , try leaving your name off . your crush wont know who his secret admirer is , but some people like a mystery . just know that if you want to actually pursue a relationship with your crush , youre going to have to come clean about it eventually .

be confident . smile . place yourself in his path . play it cool . make him laugh . be nice to his friends . use the 3 strikes and youre out rule . have a successful first date . pay attention to his interests . dont take him for granted . maintain some space . decide if hes truly worth it . tell him how you feel .

how to win his heart

the most important way you can attract the guy of your dreams is to be confident and content in your own self . you can do this by wearing a cute outfit , doing something new with your hair , trying a new makeup style , or simply just thinking positively , because confidence is one of the most attractive traits a person can possibly have and it will make you less anxious about failure , which makes it hard to take the leap and into a potential relationship . dont judge yourself or others harshly . when you focus on all your flaws that is all that youll think you have to offer and when you focus on the flaws of others , you are making your own brain toxic with negative thoughts . dont compare yourself to other people . someone is always going to be more attractive than you , more successful than you , and have more romantic partners than you . focus on the things that you have rather than the things that other people have . if you want people to notice you , especially that guy of your dreams , you should send a little smile in his direction and cultivate a positive attitude . even better make eye contact with your chosen sweetheart and give him a little smile . itll signal your interest in a non - threatening way and , perhaps , intrigue him . now this doesnt mean that you should go around stalking him wherever he goes , but if you know that he likes to frequent a particular coffee shop or book store , feel free to spend some time there and bump into him . itll give you a little chance to talk to one another without a bunch of people around like at a party . dont do this all the time , or hell think that youre stalking him . once or twice is the ticket , before it becomes obvious what youre up to . there is nothing wrong with straightforwardly asking him out , but if youre not feeling bold enough this is a good way to work up the nerve to winning him over . you dont want to be super overt and clingy about trying to win your guys heart , because you wont come off very well . however , this doesnt mean that you need to hide your interest or pretend not to be interested . you simply want to make it so that you are interested but not overwhelming . you could try dropping a compliment or two something that isnt overwhelming overwhelming would be youre the most gorgeous guy ive ever met like hey that shirt is really awesome or i really like your new haircut . show that you have a life outside of thinking about him . when the two of you do talk , just casually mention some of the fun things youve done that week even if its things like the awesome book you read , or video game tournament you participated in , or the soccer game you won . it shows that you have interests and a life of your own . when you run into him , after chatting for a bit , say that you have to run to meet a friend or that you have to be somewhere . that way youll come across as having things to do and people to see , rather than someone who is waiting around to bump into him . oftentimes the key to a persons heart is through their humor . the saying goes the couple that laughs together , stays together . if you get him laughing at things youre saying youll make him enjoy your company more and want to be around you more often . a good way to do this is to mention something that is slightly embarrassing or humbling that happened to you . mention the time you mistook a stranger for your best friend and slapped them on the butt , or how on the way to the date you missed a step on the bus and fell out the door in front of everyone . it shows that you dont take yourself too seriously and that you can laugh at yourself . you dont need to belittle yourself or talk about how stupid you are . a confident person doesnt need to belittle themselves , because they know that they are awesome and confidence is attractive he will listen to his friends advice about whether or not to date you , so youll want to make sure that youre number one their list . this doesnt mean that you need to agree with everything they say or that you should let them walk all over you if his friends are that bad , though , you should rethink the guy youre wanting to attract , but it does mean that youre nice to them . when youre out with him and his friends , really listen to what they say and show that you have interest in their interests . you dont have to pretend to be an expert in what theyre talking about if youre not . simply ask some questions and listen . dont feel like you should sit on the sidelines when youre around him and his friends . participate in activities and introduce them to things that you like and you think they might like . itll show that you have respect for them and that youre interested in getting to know them better . this rule allows you to avoid committing yourself to a courtship that is basically going nowhere , because who has the energy for that it means that if youve given him opportunities to try to get to know you better and he hasnt jumped at the chance after 3 tries , then hes probably not worth further effort . if you think that maybe he is interested but simply shy , there is no reason that you shouldnt ask him out instead . that way , even if he does say no , you will have a firm answer and wont be left wondering . the reason this is a good rule to follow is that you dont really want to be after him like a lovesick , desperate puppy . if he hasnt shown interest after awhile , hes not going to , or hes only going to show interest in having sex with you because he knows that youre desperate stay as far away from guys like that as you possibly can . unless youre only interested in sex , youll end up hurt by this arrangement . an example of this in action might be you meeting him at a party and chatting with him , then popping in by his favorite coffee shop and running into him there and then chatting with him in class later . if youve given him openings to ask you on a date or even for coffee , and he hasnt gone for it after those 3 times , stop trying and move on . now that youve gotten past the flirting stage , youll need to have that first date . a good way to win his heart is to have a successful first date that you both enjoy . itll will make him want to spend more time with you . make sure that you have topics to talk about , because it can be awkward during a first date not to blurt out something that is more appropriate for a closer relationship probably not a good time to go into your anxiety problems . some conversation starters might be what are your typical sunday activities , what is a band or album that you loved , what was the last movie that you saw and what did you think about it , what is the funniest thing youve ever seen in public . dress appropriately . this means that you wear something that you feel comfortable in , but which also suits the occasion . so if youre off to a 4 - star restaurant , something a little fancier is in order a dress , or nice slacks and a nice button - up or blouse . if youre going to a coffee shop , dress just a little nicer than your usual attire button down instead of t - shirt , no ratty jeans , etc . remember that you want to be yourself for the date . you dont want your guy to be expecting you to be someone youre not further in the relationship . thats not fair to either of you . you dont have to bring all your quirks out into the open right away , but you shouldnt be hiding things . a good way to let someone know that youre interested in them and care about them is to take an interest in their interests and in their opinions about things . you dont have to understand those interests and you dont even necessarily have to enjoy them , but being interested enough to talk with your guy about them , will show him that you are interested in him . for example , if your guy is super into skiing and youre more the bookish type , thats okay make sure to ask him about his ski trips and even offer to go a few rounds yourself . pick up on some of the terminology so that youre able to converse more freely . make sure that hes also respecting and interested in your interests and hobbies . if he isnt , thats a pretty good sign that hes either a narcissist or not very committed to having a relationship with you . there is nothing that makes someone feel good and cared about than by showing them that they are not being taken for granted . find ways to demonstrate to him that you notice what he does for you and that you appreciate him in your life . flat out saying i am so glad youre in my life is a good and easy way to make sure he knows that you value him . do some little things that show you appreciate him . if youre crafty you could make him something knit a hat , carve a special little box , paint a picture . also , you could do something thoughtful for him , especially if hes having a really busy or difficult time . bring him some special cookies , or help him by editing his resume or essay , offer to drive his sister to the airport so he can get some extra studying in . this step is important for both of you . you dont want to enter into a co - dependent , cant - breath - without - you kind of a relationship , as much as the movies make it look nice . make sure that youre both getting some space from each other and from the relationship . maintain your relationships with your friends . hang out with them . have sleepovers and movie watching parties that are just with your friends , no significant others allowed . pursue your hobbies and interests . go on ski trips by yourself or with your family , go to knitting workshops , learn karate . this way , when the two of you are together again , youll have so much to talk about maybe in the beginning he seemed like such a great guy , but its a good idea to check in with the relationship before you start doing a bunch of stuff to win his heart . you want to make sure that his heart is actually what you want , or even if its possible to win his heart . obviously if hes emotionally , physically , or sexually abusive , you should get away now . if he isolates you from friends and family , if he demeans you or tears you down either in private or in front of people , if he manipulates you or forces you to have sex when you dont want to , if he says hell kill himself if you ever leave him , any of these signs mean that you should get out . some questions to ask yourself about your relationship are the two of you open and honest with each other do you feel better with him , or do you feel like youre walking on eggshells does he respect you do you feel like youre the best version of your self when youre with him does he you shouldnt ever feel like you need to fix him or make him better . you should be in a relationship with someone who doesnt need you to be their therapist or their mother . sometimes the absolute best way to get what you want in a guy is to tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same way . often you can hint and hint for ages and do everything youre supposed to do and still you wont know whether youve won his heart . be open and direct . tell him that you really like him and that you want to see how he feels about you , or how he might feel about you in the future . be ready to hear the answer , even if it isnt one that you want to hear . he might not feel the same way about you that you feel about him and thats okay . remember , its his loss not yours .

know what type of boy he is . find out the boys name and write dear insert name at the top of the page . talk about what you like about him and a little about yourself . try to use good spelling and grammar . sign it love , insert your name here . try putting a picture of yourself in the card . put it in something noticeable like a purple envelope , or something more discreet if you think hell find it embarrassing , and have a friend give it to him or put it in his locker . if youre the confident type , find him , walk straight up to him and hand it to him with a smile .

how to write a love letter to a boy you do not know

is the boy popular a nerd an introvert you should find out what hes like so that you can choose your words and ideas accordingly . you wouldnt want to write the wrong thing to him and he probably wouldnt forget it easily if you did . you could investigate what type of boy he is by walking casually pass by him and overhearing conversations . but dont appear stalkerish - - that can scare boys off entirely . make sure to address him by his first name or his nickname . last names are too formal for a love letter . dont use names like cutie or he might freak out . cutie makes it seem like you are literally obsessed with him , which can seem frightening . make sure to talk about both him and you equally . you dont want to come off as egotistic by talking about your own life too much . but still , pour out your feelings towards him . dont forget to introduce yourself a little bit because he probably doesnt know you . most importantly , be yourself . it would be awful if he loved you for who he thought you were , not who you really were . every guy loves to see that the person who is writing them is intelligent and careful . you could ask someone you trust very deeply to help you out with your spelling and grammar . if you wish to remain anonymous , leave your name out whilst hinting him at who you are . dont sign it anything out of place or too girly because he might just as well freak out . for instance , do not say , be mine forever or i love you a simple love will do . pick a picture that you think represents who you are well . this is optional as you might not want to reveal yourself too early . if you do not want to reveal yourself , consider drawing , painting , or writing something for him . if this is not ideal for you , maybe give him a picture of something that represents you for instance , cats if you really like cats . if you dont know what his locker number is , you could also investigate by casually looking around to see where his position when using his locker usually is . dont ask his friends because they will probably straight out tell him that some girl was curious about his locker number . neither should you ask your friend because they might go annoy or tease you about it . dont talk too much to him , you will have plenty of time for that later . if you want to hear his reaction , but dont want to be seen , you can round a corner and hide there to listen , but that might seem a bit creepy .

make brief eye contact . mirror his body language . smile . introduce touch .

how to show a boy you like him 1

a great way to get someones attention is eye contact . to flirt with your crush , make eye contact . if youre at , say , a coffee shop , catch your crushs gaze . hold their gaze for about four seconds , and then glance away . then , look back . this is a flirtatious gesture that subtly invites someone to just say hi to you . this may sound odd , but mirroring someones body language is read as flirtatious . as you talk to your crush , try to subtly mimic his mannerisms . copying someone is a way of flattering them . this will give off flirty vibes . when chatting by your locker , for example , mimic what hes doing . if he leans onto the locker , lean on to it as well . if he plays with his hair , play with your hair . do not be too obvious about it . you do not have to copy what he does gesture for gesture . however , try to sit in the same position he does . if he crosses his legs , for example , cross your legs . smiling shows youre interested and engaged with another person . while talking to him , make sure to flash him a winning smile . this will show him how much you enjoy being around him , which can help convey that you like him . smile when you first say hi to him . when you take a seat next to him at class , for example , sit down and offer him a big grim . smile as he talks . when he tells you about exciting portions of his day , offer a smile to show you care . laugh when appropriate at well . if he makes a joke about your chemistry teacher , for example , giggle as you smile . once youre engaged in conversation , try to introduce some small touching . brush his hand or arm . put your hand on his shoulder . tiny amounts of touch show him you want to be close to him . you can find excuses to introduce touch as well . if youre waiting for the bus , say youre cold and cuddle up next to him . pay close attention to how he reacts . if he seems uncomfortable , you should slow down with the physical contact . too much physical contact can be off - putting if someone is not ready for it .

familiarize yourself with the changes teenage boys undergo . remember teenage boys are insecure . look for common ground . accept he may act differently around his friends . learn to make casual conversation . put yourself in your teens shoes . do research about teenagers . allow your teenager some privacy . make sure your teen does not engage in reckless behavior . be prepared for the effects of hormones . expect that he will start to think about sex . find the right times to talk . ask open - ended questions . assert yourself when necessary . seek professional help in some cases .

how to understand teen boys

just as youre going through changes as a teenager , boys in your grade are also experiencing changes . try to familiarize yourself with changes boys undergo . you can ask your health teacher where to find reading information or ask your parents . if you have a slightly older male relative you trust , such as a male cousin who is in college , they may be willing to talk to you about changes boys undergo during puberty . you may notice some physical changes in the boys in your class . their voices may get deeper and they may begin to grow hair on their faces and underarms . like you , boys will also undergo sexual changes . they will start to release testosterone and begin to experience erections . be understanding that boys may be embarrassed of sexual changes , just like you may be initially embarrassed of your period . while puberty is a normal part of growing up , it is normal to have some insecurity about puberty . teenage boys in your grade may be embarrassed by physical and other changes theyre undergoing , so be understanding of this . boys often undergo changes in puberty that can be awkward or embarrassing . teenage boys may experience erections without cause , for example , and their voices may squeak when they talk . while it can be tempting to tease boys in your grade about puberty , be understanding . you are also undergoing changes and would not want to be teased . refrain from teasing the boys in your grade about common issues associated with puberty . while you may feel your experiences couldnt be more different than the experiences of teenage boys , there is actually a lot of common ground . you can better understand teenage boys if you identify areas where youre going through similar changes . like you , boys are beginning to grow hair on the underarms and pubic region . boys also experience mood swings and feelings of anger and frustration due to changing hormones . hormones can also cause quick changes in energy levels . you may notice people respond to you differently as you grow . people see you more as an adult and may treat you differently . this happens to boys during puberty as well . boys sometimes treat you differently around their friends . teenage boys are often embarrassed to be interested in girls for the first time . he may act standoffish towards you because he feels insecure . he may also want to make it clear to his friends they are his priority . try to be understanding of this . if you are dating a teenage boy , allow him to have some friend time . however , you should not put up with disrespect . if a teenage boy is downright mean to you in front of his friends , you should tell him you will not accept that kind of treatment . say something like , i understand you want to act cool around your friends , but it isnt okay for you to make fun of me . often , the best way to understand someone is simply to talk to them . while talking to boys can be scary , it is often helpful to understanding them better . learn to be brave and engage teenage boys in conversation . ask specific questions . ask about things like hobbies , family , and his favorite subjects in school . for example , are you close to your siblings if youre unsure how to strike up a conversation , make an observation based on something around you or something thats recently happened . for example , what did you think of yesterdays assembly it can be easy to become frustrated with your teenager , especially if they are acting out or otherwise rebelling . remember , teens are very insecure and self conscious . they are also striving to carve out an identity , which may explain bouts of rebellion or occasionally being difficult . on top of all that , your teens brain is still developing , and he doesnt yet have an adult - sized capacity for things like impulse control and decision - making . if youre having trouble understanding your teen boy , pause and put yourself in his shoes . try to remember your own teenage years . for example , if your teenager suddenly wants to stop an activity he once enjoyed , put yourself in his shoes . maybe your teen was forced to play hockey during middle school . he may want to feel like more of an individual now that hes getting older and try something different . think about times when you tried to explore or define your identity as a teen . its important to understand the changes your teen is going through as a parent . one of the best things you can do to understand teenage boys is to educate yourself about your teen . read about teenagers . you can find reading online detailing the hormonal and mood changes teenagers undergo . this will refresh you on the changes people undergo during their teenage years . in addition to reading books about the physical changes your teen will undergo , read young adult books targeted at teenage boys . fiction books can help you remember the emotions teenagers undergo . keep in mind that this research may not describe your teen exactly . its important to get to know your teenage boy , not just the boys described in literature . take an interest in the things your teen is passionate about to connect and get to know him better . while its important to know what your teen is doing and who he is with , remember teenage years are part of the transition into adulthood . its important your teen feels he has some privacy in your home , so be respectful of his need for space and occasional alone time . there are some things you should know about your teen . its reasonable to want to know where hes going and who hes with at all times . however , you should grant him some forms of privacy . understand teenage years are about identity . your teen may feel he needs a certain amount of privacy to establish his identity . things like text messages and phone calls should be private . you should also understand you will probably not know every detail of your teens social life . it may be a good idea to change some rules as your teenager ages . you can lessen up restrictions on things like time spent on the phone and computer , as these technologies are often how teens socialize and form an identity . keep an open dialogue going about rules and expectations and allow your teen some say in his life . if your teen continually demonstrates he is unreliable , however , you may need to keep stricter rules in place for longer . however , if your teenager violates your trust or demonstrates serious irresponsibility , you may need to take away their phone or remove other privileges . your teen should understand that trust is earned , and that with your trust comes more privacy . the teenage brain is not fully developed . as a parent , its vital you understand teenage boys often have a limited understanding of consequences . this can result in engaging in risky behavior , so be sure to be vigilant . you should make sure your teen is not taking major risks , such as using drugs or alcohol . the teenagers developing brain does not give them a free pass for reckless behavior . while it is important to keep this fact in mind , do not give him a pass on misbehaving because he doesnt know any better . consequences are how he learns to make good choices . you are still the parent , so you should still have expectations and boundaries . things like bed times and curfews should still be enforced during your sons teenage years and you should also know where he is at all times . teenagers undergo a lot of hormonal changes . this can lead to things like mood swings . try to be patient if your teen seems aggravated or is easily angered . you should make sure your teen faces consequences for inappropriate or rude behavior , but try to be understanding . it will take a few years for your teen to adjust to hormonal changes . have patience . many parents feel the teenage years will never end , but your son should eventually grow out of mood swings and anger problems caused by puberty . once your teen has calmed down , you can have a discussion about his behavior . try not to lecture — instead , focus on what he can do differently in the future . for instance , if he screamed something rude at you in a moment of anger , discuss how next time he can stop and take a couple of deep breaths before responding . odds are , your son will start thinking about sex during his teenage years and may even explore pornography . recent research says the majority of adolescent males explore pornography websites . while this is a normal part of growing up , its important you talk to your son about sex and porn . talk to your son frequently about sex and sexuality and allow him to come to you with questions . its important you present the facts . for example , it may be a good idea to explain to your son the differences between sex in pornography and sex in real life . if he is extremely uncomfortable discussing the subject with you , try to find a trusted third party , like an uncle , to help . do not panic if your teen asks about sex . asking about sex does not necessarily indicate your teenager is having sex , or even considering doing so . they may be curious , which is normal . provide information about safe sex , such as condoms , stds , and birth control . you can find age - appropriate reading material at a local library for your teen to browse . remember that educating your child about safe sex does not make it more likely they will become sexually active . leave any conversation you have about sex open ended . say something to your teen like , if you have any questions , its always okay to come to me with them . if you need to communicate with your teenager , look for the right time . pay attention to when your teen seems relaxed and receptive . make a habit of talking regularly during those times to keep communication in your home open . it may take some trial and error to figure out when your teen is most talkative . your teen may be more quiet when you pick him up from soccer practice , but get chattier after dinner . you could try engaging him in conversation then . whether youre a parent or a teen yourself , remember teenage boys may be private about certain things . they may also be sensitive about some topics . instead of asking questions directly , learn to ask open - ended questions . this will allow a teenage boy to share information at his own discretion . for example , do not ask , are you excited about the school dance instead , ask something like , how are you feeling about the dance do you think you feel comfortable going if your questions are met with short responses , then this may not be a subject your teenager wishes to discuss . try to determine what your teenager does enjoy talking about . try talking about his hobbies and interests . if you are a teenage girl , its important you stand up for yourself when necessary . if a teenage boy is frequently teasing you to the point you feel uncomfortable , it is within your right to let him know his behavior is not acceptable . it is okay to express your emotions to boys . if a boy is making you feel uncomfortable , say so clearly . you may worry about a boy liking you , but you should not strive to be liked at the expense of your feelings . say something if a boy is bothering you , such as , i dont like it when you comment on my body . it makes me feel uncomfortable . if teasing does not stop , you can ask an adult , such as a teacher , for help . teenagers may suffer from things like depression , anxiety , and other emotional issues . while a certain amount of mood swings are normal , if a teenager seems very unhappy or angry , you should seek the help of a therapist . warning signs of a mental health issue includedifficulty concentrating a sudden drop in grades weight loss or gain lack of motivation difficulty sleeping fatigue

express your feelings directly . text him when you have something to say . interact with him on social media . send direct messages on social media .

how to show a boy you like him 2

do not hesitate to text him too much . if a guy is interested in you , he wont worry about you being overly enthusiastic or overeager . text him what you really want to say to him without trying to tone down your feelings or emotions . for example , say a guy texts you that he got a new after school job . you feel inclined to say , thats so great im super happy for you you may feel the inclination to pause and try to tone your language down . instead , you may feel its better to say , cool . avoid filtering yourself . if a guy likes you back , he will be happy that youre happy for him . many people worry about rules regarding who should text and when . try not to put so much stake in this . if youre being standoffish , a guy may not realize you have feelings for him . if you think of something to say to him , send him a text without hesitating . telling a guy about your day to day life is a great way to show him you have feelings for him . text him about what youre doing and when youre thinking of him . for example , say hes a huge sports fan . you can text him something like , the football game is playing on the radio . made me think of you text him things about your life you think may interest him and ask him about what hes doing . for example , im so excited to go to my friends place tonight . what are you doing any exciting plans do not wait around for him to text you first if you think of something to say . just do it . making regular conversation with someone without prompting can help show them you like him . if you like a guy , give me a little extra attention on social media . like his posts frequently . comment on things like pictures . retweet his tweets . this will show him you care . if youre feeling bold , try posting something flirty on his social media . if he uploads a new profile picture , for example , comment something like , cut pic  . public social media interactions can certainly be flirtatious . if you like or comment on a guys posts a lot , he may get the sense you like him . however , a private message can give an extra sense of intimacy . try chatting with him in private via social media . this shows an extra amount of interest . if hes on an app like facebook messenger , try talking to him there . send him a generic message , like , hey , whats up to begin a private conversation via social media . share things with him via social media . for example , send him funny links or links to articles that may interest him . send this material with a flirty message like , thought of you  .

be confident about showing interest . show interest in his life . pay for something when youre out . show him extra support . tell him directly when you feel ready .

how to show a boy you like him 3

many people feel they should be coy or standoffish with a boy they like . however , if a guy is interested in you as well , he will appreciate you being upfront . also , people tend to be attracted to confidence . approach him without hesitance . make conversation with him whenever you can to demonstrate your feelings . for example , if you see him between class , walk up to him and say , hi . make conversation about things like school and homework . do not be afraid to text him if you have his number . he gave it to you for a reason , so dont hesitate to send him a message when you feel like it . keep in mind that , if a guy does not like you , he may get frustrated if you give him too much extra affection . pay attention to how he reacts . if he tends to pay attention to you in return , he may have feelings as well . if he seems disengaged , you may want to give him space and move on . if you want someone to feel like you like them , show them you want to get to know them . make a point of asking him about whats going on with him . listen to what he says to convey genuine curiosity . ask him about his life when you see him . ask how his day is going or ask about something specific . for example , if you know he had a big test in physics , say something like , how did your test go . truly listen when he responds . do not interrupt or talk over him . instead , pay attention to what hes saying while maintaining eye contact and nodding when appropriate . this is something small you can do to show youre invested . if the two of you are out , say , getting coffee , paying for something can be a great way to show you want this to be a date . this can help the guy see your feelings . pay for his movie tickets if you see a film or his espresso when youre getting coffee . this can help make it clear a get - together is a date . going out for coffee may seem friendly , but if you offer to pay the guy may get the message its a date . if you like a guy , you make this clear by becoming his personal cheerleader . supporting someones success can show your investment in them . its a great way to make your feelings known . for example , if he plays a sport , show up to his game to cheer . you can even make a sign cheering him on specifically . if hes struggling in a class and does great on a test , be the first to congratulate him . say something like , i knew you would get a good grade . awesome job its often best just to tell someone about your feelings . if the guy does not seem to be getting the hint via your actions , make a point of telling him directly . even if he does not feel the same way , you will have closure and will be able to proceed one way or another . make it simple . wait until the two of you are alone . say something like , can we talk about something be clear about your feelings . for example , say , i just wanted you to know i have feelings for you . i thought it would be best just to put it out there . remember , rejection hurts , but it happens to everyone . if he doesnt feel the same way , take some time to grieve before you move on . there are many other people out there and you will find the right person eventually .

be the best version of yourself . make sure hes mr right . get to know him . explore his hobbies and passions . support him when he has a hard time . help him be who he wants to be . show him how great you are . give him space . create trust between you . get a girlfriend . ask her out . get a boyfriend . find that perfect person . learn to flirt .

how to win your crush girls

you need to be someone that people want to fall in love with if you want someone to fall in love with you . if you are a wonderful person , you will find that people will fall for you naturally . take good care of your body . practice good diet and exercise , proper hygiene , and wear clean clothing that isnt full of holes or stained . do something with your life . dont just sit around watching television , or sitting in front of the computer give your life direction and purpose . make sure that what you do is something you always wanted to do . the passion you feel for this activity is very attractive and your crush will notice the change in you . be a good person . it may sound cheesy , but its true . if you want others to treat you with care , respect , and love , you better start acting that way , too . people want to fall for others who are happy , who give generously of themselves , and are genuinely nice to others . you dont want to snag a crush whos really mr . wrong he needs to be ready for a relationship and be compatible with you . if he isnt , you will be wasting your time and his and somebody is going to end up with a broken heart . knowing someone really well is an important part of getting them to like you . this doesnt just mean knowing basic details like where they work or their birthday . this means getting to know and like him for who he really is . if you like him for who he is , this will mean a lot to him . discuss topics that will show you his beliefs and values , like politics or religion . this is a good way to get to know someone . you should also learn his hopes and dreams . learn about and appreciate the things he enjoys . dont fake it , because hell be able to tell . try to see it and experience it the way that he does . this will help you bond and find things in common . ask him to show you his favourite sport . you can also explore the his favourite bands . he will be much more likely to care for you if you show him that he can rely on you emotionally and that you have faith in him , even when others might not . help him solve his problems when you can , whether youre tutoring him in classes where he struggles or giving him a way to get out of his house if his parents are going through a divorce . we want to be with someone who makes us better as a person . it makes us feel better about ourselves and reassures us that we can be good people if we try . make your crush the best version of himself by encouraging him to do the things that he loves and giving him the space to do those things . remember this is about helping him make the changes that he wants in his life . you should not to be condescending , try to change them into what you want them to be , or push unwanted help and advice on him . share your passions with your crush but also let them see how far youve come . he should see that you are happy and fulfilled because you do the things that you love and that make you unique . he will find it attractive that you are motivated to change your life for the better . its okay to be flawed though . theres nothing wrong with him seeing you struggle sometimes . let him help you , if he offers . together , you can make each other stronger , better people . respect that he is his own person and give him the space to be that person . dont get possessive and try to take up all of his time . if he sees that with you he can feel free and have support , hell be much more likely to fall for you . dont constantly question the things that he says and does trust him and show him that you trust him . show him that you are a safe haven where he can find and give trust without having to worry that he will get hurt . if he tells you a secret then you need to keep it . if you find out something that embarrasses him , dont bring it up . share your secrets with him and let him see sides of you that no one else does . be vulnerable around him and let him comfort you . dont stress when he spends time around other girls . knowing that you trust him will mean a lot to him . if you want to get miss perfect youre going to need a few skills and a couple of tricks . but getting a girlfriend isnt always as hard as it seems . be confident and youll win her over in no time its terrifying , the idea of asking out that perfect girl . what if she says no yikes get some helpful advice and youll find it isnt nearly as hard as you think . getting a boyfriend can be tough stuff . girls are in a tough position where we usually expect guys to find us but theres nothing to stop you from finding prince charming if you find yourself getting lonely feel like you have terrible taste you may have a crush , but if your track record for choosing people to crush on is terrible , you might want to take a hard look at how you find someone to moon over this will make it much easier to nab your crush . being an expert flirter makes you very hard to resist